The ex factor: Old flames in a new light
Sheba Wheeler
The Denver Post
Years ago, the rules about breaking up were clear-cut. Done was done. Generally that meant no speaking or interaction unless you were bound by children, work or alimony. No longer.
For starters, it's politically correct to stay in contact. "The person who says she can't be friends with her ex is seen as unsophisticated and insecure," write Heather Belle and Michelle Fiordaliso, authors of "Everything You Always Wanted to Know About Ex." (SourceBooks Inc.). "And you're really lame if you can't handle your boyfriend's ex." People are marrying later, which means they've typically had multiple relationships and breakups before they make it to the altar. Add to that the fact that half of all marriages end in divorce, and there are a lot of exes to go around. Plus, it's much easier to stay in touch through social networking sites, cellphones and e-mail.
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