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Question: My husband who passed away last year has a son who is now 11 years old. It has always been a question as to whether or not the boy is really my deceased husband's son. The mother collects Social Security Death Benefits for the boy. Can it be proven whether or not my deceased husband is the father or not? There is most likely hospital records with his blood type. How would the testing be done and does the boy need to know it's being done. I don't want to hurt him. He's innocent, it's the mother I know to be pretty deceptive. Just wondering because if proven my husband were not the father, would Benefits be taken away. Thanks for your help. >
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I cannot answer questions about benefits but consider that you will need the mother's permision to test the child and of course you will need the child. If you and your son's biologicial father are availabe you can do a grandparentage test with the child or you could use deceased samples from the father gather from either the medical examination if an autopsy was performed OR from an exhumation. If the father had OTHER children, then a sibling relationship study can be performed. I hope this helps.


Question: I HAVE READ SEVERAL TIMES THAT EYE COLOR HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH PATERNITY. IF THIS IS TRUE CAN YOU EXPLAIN WHY AND HOW EYE COLOR IS DETERMINED. MY CHILD HAS BROWN EYES, HER FATHER HAS BLUE AND I HAVE HAZEL. IT WOULD ANSWER ALOT OF QUESTIONS.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Pigmentation, whether it be of eyes, skin, or hair, is due to not one gene but several in combination. You have to understand that any pigment is made in the body by a series of biochemical processes that occur one after another. Imagine that the series goes something like: Molecule A ----> Molecule B ----> Molecule C ---> Pigment where the Pigment is the stuff that makes eyes brown, hair dark, or skin dark. The way this works is that if my body has Molecule A but can't turn it into Molecule B, then, up to a point, my body will build up a bunch of Molecule A. If my body could make B, then I could make C from it, and from C I could make Pigment. The important point is that, without being able to make B from A, neither will I make C or Pigment, and my eyes will be blue. I have sex with a girl who also has blue eyes, but her eyes are blue, but her lack of the brown pigment isn't because she can't make B, but instead she can't turn B into C. She can make B just fine, but doesn't have the genetic makeup that allows her to go to the next step. Since C is necessary to make Pigment, her eyes are blue, too, just like mine but for a different reason. The abilities to turn A into B, or B into C, or C into Pigment is hereditary. If our encounter creates a child, that child can gain the mother's abiity to turn A into B, which I can't do, and gets my ability to turn B into C, which the mom can't do. This child of ours now can carry out each of the transformations in the sequence, and the result is brown eyes.


Question: My son has XYY. He also had a swab paternity test done. Could the extra Y make any difference on the results? >
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: No. The gender marker is not used in calculating a likelihood of paternity.


Question: Could you please explain this to me, what exactly is a Paternity Index and what does the above indicate to you? > This is from a paternity test I took part in. Thank you.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: This tells me first of all that you're giving the results of a motherless test, that is, one in which a sample from the mother was not tested. If it were, the X value would be either 0.5 or 0.25, most likely. The X value is the likelihood of the tested parent(s) producing the child. The Y value is the likelihood of finding that child in a randomly-chosen population. The ratio of the two (X/Y) is the paternity index. A value of 86+ indicates that the characteristic that the child and the tested man share is relatively rare, and on the basis of this one trait, evidence is relatively strong that the man and the child are related.


Question: if the mother and the father share the same number gene, should the child not inherit that gene too. for example.....mother 29 31.2 child 27 29 alledged father 27 31.2 this same senerio happened on 3 of the 10 areas looked at. the child got one of the genes from each but not the shared gene. should further testing be done?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Whether a child inherits a gene from a parent or not is a matter of chance. If the mother is, to use your example, 29, 31.2, then the odds of inheriting the 29 or the 31.2 are 50/50 The same is true for inheriting a gene from the father. The odds of the child inheriting the 29 from the mother and the 27 from the father are 50% x 50%, or 25%, which is not a very small probability; 25% of the time, you will see this happen. On the basis of what you have presented, there is no reason to do any further testing. The results are not at all unusual.


Question: My mother took my brother's father to court for child support in 1978. A blood test was performed to determine paternity. The results of the test were that it was not possible to establish non-paternity for the father. He never had to pay child support or anything,so I don't know if the case was thrown out (three blood test were taken) or the jury ruled in his favor (I think the whole case was fixed). The results were as follows: > Es-D/EAP/PGM/AK/Pep-A/Hp/Hgb > Dad B ccee MN ss kk Fya-b- 1 A 2-1 1 1 2 A > Mom AB CcDee MN ss kk Fya-b- 1 A 1 1 1 1 A > kid B ccDee MN ss kk FYa-b- 1 A 1 1 1 2-1 A > > Is there anyway you could read these results and tell me what you think? Also, If the result of the test could not determine anything back in '78 if we located a sister of the alledged dad (or another child) would the new test results remain the same or could something be determined? > We have located his dad's side through research, but we would like proof that he is the father(to ease their minds) before we approach them. Also, I was reading some of the other questions. I read about a lady whose baby's dad had passed away (both my brother's parent's are deceased)and it was advised to her to obtain samples from the medical exmainer to get social security payments. Is that possible if the dad died in '96 and the mom in 2000?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The tests that were run back then included genetic factors that didn't have a very high ability to exclude a tested man. Without doing the calculations, I would guess that the probability wasn't high enough to reach the legally dictated level. Either that, or the judge/jury didn't understand the science of it and so didn't consider it. You ought to be able to get a transcript of the legal proceedings to find out what happened. You could do DNA based testing at this date, using samples from the alleged father's siblings or VERIFIED children. Alternatively, samples from the deceased individuals could be used if they're available. If there are hospital or autopsy samples from the alleged grandparents, those could be used. What, exactly, would be gained, however, in opening this investigation up more than 25 years after the original test? If it's to have a connection to the father's family for the sake of that connection alone, be sure you're not going to stir up any animosity. At least, since the child is no longer a minor, nobody should get defensive about anybody seeking back support. That can't be done.


Question: My ex and I did a dna test bought online. The company is located in Seattle Wash, but the swabs were mailed to Canada. I have seen where you state that we should only use labs in the US, but my question is this. The samples took 3 weeks from the date I overnighted the samples to them to get us the result. First, could they still be accurate, and second, I have checked the better business bureau and found nothing, but could this company be actually not doing the testing??
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: unless you can actually speak to someone on the phone, you should NEVER buy a paternity kit from someone online. While you can freely download our kits and send a total of only 165 dollars to pay for the complete test, we always include a support number to help you during the collection process so that you know that we are for real. Not knowing anything about this lab, I would be hesitant to comment.


Question: My cousin has tested two men as the potential father of her son. Both came back excluded...she swears it is one of them. My question is could these men have done anything to sabotage the results? We believe, obviously there must be at least a third man, but she says different.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: in a case like this the ONLY thing you can do is to retest--but make sure she is footing the bill. Sabotage is always possible but is unlikely. She is challenging your results and so she needs to come up with the cash--it is that simple. Also--NO home kits in this case--full service, court admissible, and collected by someone at a collection site.


Question: When my daughter was born, they told us her blood type was B+. My ex-wife and I are both O+ and all the research I have done says that the only blood type possible for our offspring is O. My wife told me that it is rare, but possible to have . Is this true?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I suggest you do a paternity test--it is extremely unlikel;y that the child's blood type would be a B. I have never heard of it but I am sure someone on the internet will agree with your wife but it seems to me, having done research yourself that you don't have a confirmation to her claim. Get a test. You can get a private downloadable home test by going to Fairfaxidlab.com for only 165 dollars. That will definitely settle the issue. When you get there, click on pricing and you want product number three.


Question: I HAD UNPROTECTED SEX WITH A WOMEN AROUND THE 16TH OF JUNE. SHE WENT TO THE DOCTORS TWO DAYS BEFORE AND STATES SHE WAS NOT PREGNANT BUT WAS TOLD SHE COULD NOT GET HER BIRTH CONTROL DEPO SHOT UNTIL SHE HAD HER PERIOD. I HAD UNPROTECTED SEX WITH HER THREE MORE TIMES WITHIN A WEEKS PERIOD. BUT EACH TIME FROM THE FIRST OCCASION TO THE LAST I NEVER EJACULATED.WITHIN TWO WEEKS AFTER THAT SHE TOOK A HOME PREGNANCY TEST AND TOLD ME SHE IS PREGNANT AND IT IS MINE. HOW LIKELY IS IT THAT SHE COULD BE PRGNANT BY ME.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You are asking us to speculate on this woman's promiscuity? We will not do that. If you had sex with her then consider that is could be likely that you are the father of the child--then consider having a paternity test after the child is born.


Question: My husband and I have been married over 21 years (been together prior to marriage) and have 2 biological children, one will be 17 and the other daughter just turned 19. I am really tired of the fact that when we get into arguments, it always turns around with him stating that the children are not his. This always happens. Both girls are definitely his children. His responses are that they do not look like him. People that he has never met, alway say how his daughters look like him. One is blonde w/blue eyes, the other has dark hair w/brown eyes. He has dark hair w/blue eyes and I am blonde with brown eyes. I want to get DNA testing done, but I am on social security and do have alot of money, but I need to have this done. We do however have insurance. I will be filing a divorce, because this is no way to live. My girls have problems dealing with this, and has really gone on too long. Please advise.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Well, insurance will not cover a paternity test--however, we have one that is only 165 dollars (add an extra 55 dollars for the second child ) that you can download either at our website, fairfaxidlab.com or at Divorcenet's sister site, paternitynet.com. I would strongly suggest that you do one of these. Regards.


Question: Can you still get a paternity test after the mother has passed away. My son would like to have one done, but the mother just recently passed away and if so will it be as accurate.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: sure, it is called a motherless calculation and nowadays the tests are very accurate.


Question: I know someone that says they had an abortion done at 6wks gestation and had a DNA test done to prove the paternity of the father. I was wondering if this was possible. Wouldn't that be too early and the fetus too small?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It is certainly possible using POC or Products of Conception if enough fetal cells can be collected


Question: My last period was 1/21/02, I had sex on 2/5 and 2/9 with two different men. I had a mouth swab dna test for parentage and both came back as not the father! How can that be? Aren't dna mouth swab tests 99.9% accurate? What can I do to get an accurate test. Both men think they are off the hook and won't submit again for another test.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: in the case of there of a man being "NOT THE FATHER" the result is 100 percent conclusive. Neither of these men fall within the ocnception period. Either there is a third man or a sample was mishandled by the person who took the sample. I suspect it was the former and that there is a third man.


Question: Ok, my husband had an affair back in November. He received a phone call on Christmas day to let him know that she was pregnant. A few weeks later, he decided to work on our marriage and end things with her. The only contact she had with him was asking for money to have an abortion. When he did get a hold of her she told him the pregnancy had ended (whether by miscarriage or abortion, I am unclear). We figured that was the end of it. A couple of days ago, he received a phone call from her that she had a baby and needs help. How can we believe her? We know for a fact that she was constantly partying and drinking. We want to believe it is not his. Could it be someone else's child? What should we do? We are just trying to get our family back in order again.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Put this to bed immediately. Do not offer help until she consents to a paternity test.


Question: would like to know if the alleged father is unavailable for testing can a sibling of the alleged father be used for dna testing?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: uncle to niece or nephew tests are very iffy in nature. If you call 1-800-234-2528, the lab can help you put together a possible testing scenario.


Question: I hope you can help at the time of my childs birth my little girls father was in jail they didn't allow me to put his name on the birth certificate (she has his last name).. now my little girls father has died recently and there was a autopsy done but I also have a braid of his hair that he kept I need to know where i should go from here to get benefits from his death and to have him put on the birth certificate his family doesn't even know where to begin I hope you can help thanks
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The braid is useless. You need to contact the medical examiner's office and see about getting the samples released for a test. If you need help in getting the test set up contact Lonna Hall at 800-234-2528.


Question: Which is more accurate, the swab or blood test? and does it make a difference if one or both parents do the test?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: These are EXCELLENT questions to ask any lab that wants to sell you a paternity test. You can tell by their answers if they actually know what they are talking about and, personally, I won't buy from ANYONE who doesn't know their own product. Here are the answers:Which is more accurate, the swab or blood test?--Neither--they are the same. Both are vehicles for retrieving samples for a test. In blood, the dna is extracted from the white cells while in swabs the dna is extracted from the buccals. HOW CAN one be more accurate then the other? The only notable exception to my comments on blood and buccal is with blood--there is a second kind of test called an HLA test which is commonly referred to as a blood test. It is an immunological marker test and is NOT as powerful or as accurate as a dna test. does it make a difference if one or both parents do the test?--no, NOT REALLY but if you supply the mother you are making the task at hand simpler. Today's technology makes is easier to perform a dna test without the mother but sometimes the lab will be forced into performing extra testing which can hinder,in some instances, the turnaround time. Having the mother available usually allows the lab to be able to bypass the need for additional testing.


Question: If both parents have brown eyes and the baby {1 yr. old) has blue eyes. Should the father get a DNA test?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: No. both parents should test if there is a doubt as to the paternity of the child. Eyes have nothing to do with it.


Question: My wife has been unfaithful and is now pregnant. I don't know if the baby is mine. When The baby gets here in a few days I am going to have a DNA test performed. It will take 7-10 days to get results back. If I give my name as the father for the birth certificate and then the test comes back it is the other man's child and i file for divorce will I be obligated to pay child support and take care of this baby since I put my name on birth certificate ? If I do not put my name on birth certificate and it is my baby then what do i do ? Please help me.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: sounds like the hospital is putting pressure on you to sign some papers. They CLAIM they have a deadline for getting these in--I have seen hospitals wait for results to come back. Have a lawyer contact the hospital on your behalf and make sure that NOTHING gets processed until you have your results back. By the way, talk to them BEFORE you acquire the lawyer--you might start with the medical records people and if that doesn't work--talk to administrators--doctors and nurses won't be able to help you with this. You may also want to contact child support enforcement to see if marriage is considered conclusive proof of paternity.


Question: After 10 years, they have finally tracked down my son's father and we now have to go through DNA testing. I'm remarried and pregnant. Will my current pregnancy cause any problems with results? And will the testing itself be dangerous for the baby?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Oh, goodness no! Samples are collected from the mouth so no invasive action will occur that oculd endanger your child.


Question: Message: Hello, I have a question I was hoping you could help me with. My LMP was around October 15, 2003 and I had completely unprotected sex with my husband on around the 21 and on the 31 of October. During this time I was also intimate with another male but did not have any unprotected sex at all and no sex around the times I had sex with my husband. I delivered a healthy full term child on July 16, 2004. The other guy says he wants a paternity test done when I feel it is clear that the child is not his, the dates don't match to me at all and we were incredibly careful. Also, I have other children by my husband and this child looks EXACTLY the same as them, there is just no doubt and I think this guy is just harrassing me. Do I hvae to give him a test, I want him to get away from me. If I refuse, what are the chances a court will force the test? Thanks
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The child would have been conceived somewhere between October 15 to around October 30th. You did not indicate when you had sex with the other man so it is hard to tell if he falls into the ocnception period. the court may be hesitant to order a test on a child who has a legal father--what I would do would be to do a home test with your husband to see if he actually is or is not the father. You can download an inexpensive version at our website--165 dollars.


Question: Hi, and thank you so much for taking the time to look over my question! I am 34 weeks pregnant and my due date is September 14, 2004. I have been with my husband for 6 years now and I cheated on him with another man on November 16, 2003. I did have my period in the first week of December, and found out I was 8 weeks pregnant on February 4, 2004. My due date is September 14, 2004, and my doctor is using December 9, 2003 as my LMP. Please tell me who is most likely to be the father of my baby, my husband or the other man? Just for peace of mind. Thank you so much.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Actually the LMP would be more like December 7th which would make the conception date somewhere between December 7th and December 22nd.


Question: I recently found out that my boyfriend may be the father of 2 children with 2 different mothers. Paternity tests have never been done and only 1 of the mother's has filed for support. There are possible other fathers for both of these children. He now owes back-child support now on this child. What I want to know is if a) he starts making child support payments and we find out that the child is not his, what will happen to that money, and b) how can we go about getting paternity done in the state of Kentucky when we live in California and have had no contact with these women in almost 5 years? He needs to find out if he is the father and he is willing to take responsibilty if he is, but how do we start?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I guess my question is can he even GET a paternity test on a child that he is supposed to be paying support on. Lastly, you have to discuss outcomes directly with child support. We cannot answewr that question. To start,he needs to contact child support to make sure they will accept a paternity test.


Question: WHY AREN'T MY LEGAL QUESTIONS BEING ANSWERED?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: BECAUSE I DELETED THEM. AS WE HAVE STATED BEFORE, WE ARE NOT LAWYERS AND CANNOT COMMENT ON THE RIGHTS AND LAWS OF EACH STATE. HAVING SAID THIS, PLEASE BE AWARE THAT WE WILL NOT RESPOND TO THESE QUESTIONS AND THAT THEY WILL BE DELETED FROM THE BOARD.


Question: Can A paternity test be done before the child is born? If so at what month of the pregancy and are there any risk?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Risks must be assessed by a medical physician. You can do a paternity test at the 10th week of preganancy.


Question: ok this is kind of long but here it goes. the last time i got my period was march 1st 2004. my bf and i had broken up march 20th. we had sex in between then. i was supposed to get my period march 28th. but i didnt. i waited about a week maybe a little more and i took a cheap dollar store test. it came back negative. i started seeing another guy and we ended up having unprotected sex april 17th, 18th, and 19th. i took a test the 20th and it came back positive. my due date is december 8th 2004. my bf and i are back together now is there any chance that this may be the other guys kid? i had my ultrasound done at 19 weeks and she said i was right on and that my due date didnt change should i worry about getting a dna test done? also i had gotten drunk april 3rd and there was a point when i blacked out and i really dont remember a couple hours of that night. if i had sex that night with the other guy could it be his or still my bfs?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The child would have been conceived between March 1st and March 15th based on the information that you have supplied.


Question: Can someone forge a DNA Test? Can someone go to the lab with someone else's sylvia inserted in their cheeck in order to confuse the outcome of the test results?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I think you have asked this quesiton before--the answer is no--the lab would be able to spot such shannanigans.


Question: hi my daughter was born april,30 2003. she was two days over due. i did the math and figured out about when i concieved her, july 17,2002 give a day or so was i right
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The child would have been conceived somewhere between July 23 through August 8th. You cannot pinpoint date of conception down to one date. It is a range.


Question: Is there a limit on how many times a paternity test can be taken?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: For a home test kit--NO. For a court ready test, it depends on how the judge rules in the case. Ask your local lawyer for details on the legal aspect of this question.


Question: brother did a dna test with an ex girlfriend of five years,the >child and the daughter did the test together and he did his later, he didn't >notice though that he placed his test swab on top of the child's envelope >and got it really wet with his silavaeffect the dna results? Also how can he >trust the test results when the first set of results wern't his and then >they got the birth days wrong on the second form and then they only charged >us 200$, I just want to know if the results are to be belived due to >everything that happened please let us know thanks
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The price of the test does not denote the quality of the test--that is irrelevant. You also tell me that this is a home kit so the results will not hold up in a court of law. It does not matter if the two people are collected together. From what you tell me about the saliva, I doubt seriously if it would have affected the results--the lab would have noticed if the child's sample contained two dna samples. First, the lab did not get the birth dates wrong--if this is a home kit which is what you are indicating then the collectors are getting it wrong--NOT THE LAB. The lab is only testing what it receives. It assumes that the collectors are honest enough to submit the test correctly. I would believe these results.


Question: hi, thank u for having this forum available. our whole family has been rocked by a girl claiming my brother got her preg. these 2 had a 4 day fling between feb. 13-18 of '03. she left town, called him in march, apr, may, never said anything about pregnancy. just called out of the blue 2 weeks ago and is > 5 mos preg. we went w/her for her ultrasound. acc. to the sonogram, the LMP is 2/10/04, the EDD is 11/15/04. baby is 25 wks 2 days. i checked yr conception calendar, could this baby be his or not? is it possible? could the edd be off b/c the baby is just small for age? any help or advice would be appreciated. we are all going crazy here.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Based on the LMP, it is more likely that the EDD is 11/11/04 which would make the time of conception between February 4th and February 16th so based on the informatin that has been supplied--yes it is possbile and he should look into getting a test as soon as the baby is born.


Question: A family member who was adopted as a infant has recently located her biological mother's family and is trying to determine who her father is. A possible father and the adoptee submitted samples to different labs and the results came back inconclusive. They were told additional testing would still be inconclusive. Does this mean he is unlikely to be the father? The mother is deceased and never identified the father to her family.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It doesn't sound like the lab has much genetic information to go on. I might suggest that you contact Lonna Durrance at 800-234-2528 and consult with her about a new test if it is at all possible. She will want to know everyone who is available for testing.


Question: How old does a newborn have to be in order to take a test to determine paternity of the father?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: From the time of birth-less then one day old.


Question: A paternity test revealed the THO1 results as 7,9.3. I know that 9.3 is a variation of the Caucasian allele, but what racial origin is the 7? > Which loci are racial indicators? Where can I find an explanation of paternity test results, in a format I can understand? > Hope you can help.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I don't know where you are getting the idea that any allele is a racial indicator. Both allele 7 and allele 9.3 at the TH01 locus are found in ALL racial populations. The frequency within a particular population may vary, but neither the locus nor any of its alleles are "racial indicators."


Question: I am the alleged father, this woman named only me and she knows I'm not the father, We both have dark brown eyes and the baby has gray eyes like his sister and her father----the test came back making me the father, I noticed that the speciment numbers on the lab are out of sequence, the baby and mother's numbers are 57 and 58 and mine is 91, we took the test togetherso, i think the test was compromised and it happened at the court.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: First off, the points about eye color are irrelevant. I'm not sure why they're even mentioned since they have little bearing on paternity establishment. As for the numerical sequencing, it depends on how the samples are processed within the lab. If by "we took the test together," the writer means that everybody's sample was taken at exactly the same time at the courthouse, then those samples should have been package together and sent to the lab together. It would be the case, again in some labs but not necessarily all, that the package would have been opened and all three samples (mom, child, and tested man) cataloged together, in which case they might be expected to have sequential numbers. However, if there was some contentiousness between this tested man and the mother, it would be normal for the mother and the child to have their samples taken at a time separate from the tested man. Some people just don't play well together under situations of disputed parentage, and a wise court will separate them when possible. In that case, the man may have had his sample packaged at a time different from the mother and the child. That package would have been opened at the lab at a different time and thus would have a number out of sequence from the other two. I would assume that this is likely to have happened here, especially in light of the writer's comment that "the test was compromised and it happened at the court." The only way I can think of that anybody would suspect something like this would be if the samples were not packaged up at the same time. Then, as I suggested, the numerical sequence of the samples is not remarkable at all.


Question: A paternity test was performed using another lab. The following alleles shared markers ...D3S1358, THO1, D21S11, D18S51, D5S818, D13S317, D7S820, D16S539, CSF1PO, vWA, D8S1179, TPOX, FGA, and Amelogenin. The result was 99.99%, but the scientist stated that he couldn't get all the alleles when trying to test for the 3rd time but he thought he had enough to render a result. I have read that 2 exclusions can represent an exclusion. If he didn't get them all, might the test be nonconclusive? Is this possible in this case? Thank you!
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: There seems to be a growing conviction, coming from where I don't know, that a certain NUMBER of markers needs to be tested for a test to be valid. THIS IS MISLEADING. What is necessary is that the test combination exclude a certain percentage of men who, in validation studies, would be falsely accused of fathering a child. For example, if the power of exclusion of a combination of tests is 99.99%, this means that 99.99% of the men, who are not fathers but are accused by the mother of being their child's father, will in fact be excluded by the test combination. In theory, that could happen if only six or seven markers are tested, and no reputable lab will test fewer than this. However, there is NO need to test every available genetic marker in order to issue a valid paternity evaluation report. If you want that level of certainty, fine, but no lab should tell you that you MUST have a very large number of markers tested or else your test is no good. If they tell you that, they're trying to take your money for no valid reason.


Question: If a sample is sent to a paternity testing facility that in > turn > > sends it to another lab for analysis, and it takes over a month for > results > > should one consider a retest? The scientist could not get a good punch for > > genetic material was given as the reason for the delay, but assuredly, > great > > care was given to obtain an acceptable sample. The facility was > > unprofessional in their dealings, as they demonstrated no degree of > > confidentiality at all. When inquiring if the test had been performed > after > > two weeks, they simply asked the name of the alleged father. When calling > > back two weeks later to see where the results were, they said " You want > the > > results over the phone?" Needless to say, one would be inclined to feel > that > > the test was mishandled and now the question of it's accuracy has come > into > > question.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Some of what you cite indicates a lack of professionalism, certainly, on the lab's part, and I, too, would wonder about their overall credibility in view of the questions raised. As for the length of time that the lab took to get the results to you, it sounds odd but then again, things can happen in spite of quality of the original sample. If you want peace of mind, a retest won't hurt.


Question: If the mother is white and the father is black is it possible for another black male to be the father if 3 of 13 markers were off, eg. D18s51 = child 12.19, father = 17.19, D13s317 child = 12.14 > father = 14, D16s539 child = 11.13, father = 9.13 > Is it possible that another black male is the father? And if so, would ALL the numbers match exactly?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The three markers you cite are not off. There are matches between the man and the child on all three: The D18 has the man and the child with a 19, the D13 has the man and the child with 14, and the D16 has the man and the child sharing 13. Therefore, I don't understand your question.


Question: How do I know if the DNA labs on the internet offering free test kits and/or reduced priced results are actually going to give accurate test results? Is there something to look for or a lab you could recommend? I don't need the results for court, just to ease my daughter's father's mind, as people keep commenting that she looks like a different race than either of us are.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: We off free downloadable test kits and reduced prices as a GENUINE AABB certified Laboratory. We are the ONLY laboratory that uses an AABB adapted chain of custody with our test kit. We conduct the same quality and standards that are used on our Full Service (court prepared test). Honestly, I would only use ours-we require a witness and full identification. That is why you can trust us--not because a television personality told you to use it or because a kit is free but cause we don't EVER sacrifice the quality of our product The reason our tests are cheap is NOT because we are trying to lure buyers but because we work very hard at eliminating overhead and there is NOT a single reason to pass the cost of a test off onto a client. You can take a look at our QuickHIT downloadable series by going to Fairfax Identity Laboratories Look at product offering number three.


Question: How do I know if the DNA labs on the internet offering free test kits and/or reduced priced results are actually going to give accurate test results? Is there something to look for or a lab you could recommend? I don't need the results for court, just to ease my daughter's father's mind, as people keep commenting that she looks like a different race than either of us are.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: We off free downloadable test kits and reduced prices as a GENUINE AABB certified Laboratory. We are the ONLY laboratory that uses an AABB adapted chain of custody with our test kit. We conduct the same quality and standards that are used on our Full Service (court prepared test). Honestly, I would only use ours-we require a witness and full identification. That is why you can trust us--not because a television personality told you to use it or because a kit is free but cause we don't EVER sacrifice the quality of our product The reason our tests are cheap is NOT because we are trying to lure buyers but because we work very hard at eliminating overhead and there is NOT a single reason to pass the cost of a test off onto a client. You can take a look at our QuickHIT downloadable series by going to Fairfax Identity Laboratories Look at product offering number three.


Question: Is it possible for DNA testing to distinguish between fatherhood if the two possibilities are blood uncle and nephew?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: absolutely--as long as the lab knows that a common relationship exists between the two father.


Question: I had sex with my daughters mother on 12/27/03 and she had the baby on 7/25/04. I have not slept with this woman in over 10 years and on that day we got together had a couple of drinks and this happen. three days latter she said she's having a baby. I told her I didn't need another kid she got three kids of her on and so do I. Can I waive my paternal rights for this baby even if I didn't want it. Also could you tell me like around what month and day did she realy get pregnat. thank you
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It is likely that the child was conceived in OCTOBER and not in December based upon the dat of birth of the child.


Question: my ex-boyfriend had a dna test done in 98/99 however i was not available to keep my appointment will this testing still be good i have no idea were he is at this time and before i go looking i would like to be sure. i was thinking i can use that test compare it to myself and my son and go from there thanks
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Chances are that the samples from that time may have been eliminated to make space or other newer cases. You need to check with the lab that did the test to see if sample is available. If not then you will have to do a new test.


Question: can dna be done from hair,and what are the laws on a mom donig this without me knowing. She said she got a hair off my shirt and toke it in,can thi be done?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You are an adult--she cannot test your samples without your consent. Also, the samples are NO good because of the way that they were collected. I will tell you that she will need more then ONE hair.


Question: I recently received the results of a DNA test (negative). The 2 people being tested are located in two different states. The test kits were mailed out via FEDEX to the separate locations and individually done (at home, not witnessed, not legally binding), and returned. After the swab test was completed they were set on top of a desk and a fan was blowing towards the swabs, with the intention to dry them before re-packaging for shipment. Would the air moving from a fan, in a closed room, have the ability to contaminate the swabs, or attach fine particles of another persons DNA to the swab?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It's kind of an odd way to dry a swab since they dry pretty quickly but I can see no reason why holding a swab in from of a fan would cause it to become contaminated. Besides, if you used a competent lab and there are AT LEAST a couple out there then the lab should be able to pick up on any odd readings.


Question: I had sex with this girl in either April or May of 2001 she then had a child in january 2002, but she never told me anything about this until now July 2004 do I have to submit to a paternity test?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The only time that you HAVE to submit to a paternity test is if you are ordered by a court. If you do not do the test voluntarily then the mother could ask the court to intervene.


Question: ATTENTION: Hows about I ask a legal question
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: lET ME JUST SAY THIS AS I HAVE SAID MANY TIMES BEFORE. IF YOU POST A QUESTION HERE THAT SHOULD BE ASKED OF AN ATTORNEY IT WILL BE DELETED. WE ARE NOT LAWYERS AND WE NEVER WILL BE.


Question: Because one of your brothers is the father and being a twin is not a reason for shirking responsibilty. There was precedent for this type of situation in a court in Virginia--Man came into the court thinking he could evade support and of course DNA could not determine the father so the Judge ordered the child support to be split BETWEEN the two brothers. Hope that answers your question.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I have identical triplet brothers Two have slept with the same girl and she got pregnant. They both had a DNA test, which obviously resulted in the same number results. ONE of them is the father, but we will never know which one through testing. The courts in Washington county, Minnesota are still pursuing a jury trial to make one responsible for paying child support. Is this legal, or do they have any grounds to do this? Why can't my brothers lawyers (who are working together in this case)ask for this case to be thrown out since it will never be determined who the actual father is?


Question: ********** conducted a paternnity test on 10/29/93. The results of the DNA are: D10SB (Mother-1.83) (Child 1.83) (Father 3.78) TBQ7/HAEiii (Mother 1.08) (Child 1.53) (Father 1.53) Probability of Paternity 99.15% It's my understanding that there are at least 16 markers that should be tested to establish paternity. If all markers from the father match the child markers, then you cannot be excluded, however, if one marker does not match your excluded. How can paternity be established when the father is only tested for two markers (when infact there are 16 testable markers) and that those markers do match the child?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I guess my quetion to you is why dont you just find a lab that will sell you the 16 markers (this is the new DNA hype to sell tests by the way) and have this retested? My reccolection is that ************ which was acquired by ***** was one of the best labs in the country at the time. The testing you have here does not reflect ther quality but instead reflects the requirement of the American Association of Bloodbanks (AABB). It would not hurt for you to retest is you feel at ALL uncomfortable with the test.


Question: I have a question I hope you can answer. I have never had a close relationship with the woman I have believed to be my mother. One day when my dad was in the hospital, he needed a blood transfusion and I found out he had type A positive blood. Just out of curiosity, I wondered what my blood type was. My mom got very defensive when I asked her if she knew. She told me basically that it didn't matter. Later on when I had my first child, i found out that i have type O positive blood. I thought about that conversation again with my mom and thought she must have the same blood type as me. I asked her about it again and again, she got very defensive and said what does it matter because i am your mother. i was telling someone in my family about this and was told that she was not my mother. In some ways, i was shocked but then thought about the realtionship that she and i had over the years. I always felt like an outsider. How can i find out the truth?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If you have the a sibling and you KNOW you share the same father, then do a sibling study to determine maternity. If you are siblings then you will whole--if she is NOT your mother then you will only be half sibs.


Question: I want to know if it is possible if my last mentstral period was December 21, 2003 could I have gotten pregnant on December 25, 2003 this is when I had sex with my husband and I then had sex with my ex on December 29,30, January 2,3,4,5 my doctor said my conception date was around the January 3 or 4th. I just wanted to know if it was possible for me to have gotten pregnant on december 25 and my due date is September 27, 2004
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Your last menstrual should calculate with the due date. In this case if your last menstrual period was december 21st then your probable due date would calculate out to be Sepember 27th. NOW if your due date is actually September 27th, then the date RANGE of conception would have occurred somewhere between December 21st and January 5th so your doctor is correcto. EITHER man could be the father of the child.


Question: If the mother is AB- and the child is O+, the charts say this is not usually possible. What does "not usually" mean? What could cause this? Could incest cause this to happen?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The mother has to pass either an A or a B gene to any child she has, and the child will express that gene. That is, the child will be either A or B or AB, depending on what the type of the father is. Whether there is an incestuous relationship or not is irrelevant. "Not usually" means that a mutation would have to occur. Mutations are rare by definition, hence they are "not usually" seen.


Question: I have a friend who is being forced to pay support on a child that he has no proof is his because he was married the the child was born and refused a DNA test. He knew his wife was having an affair and the judge blocked him from getting a DNA test for proof. Is there any way around this? He just wants to know if the child is his or not. I know Michigan was working on bills that would allow men to stop paying if it was proven they were not the father but it is different when you were married when the child was born. Please help, I have tried to find information to help but it has not been easy.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: We cannot assist you with legal inforamtion but I would start by consult with a family law attorney.


Question: Is it legal to get a DNA test on a minor without parents consent?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: not without a parent, conservator, guardian or a court order.


Question: My boyfriend has lived in oklahoma all of his life he calms all of his family worked for the city, is lawyer, or basically has power. Said if i put child support or have DNA test done he can get it fixed because he knows people. Is it possible for him to do that if he knows a lot of people that will do things for him?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: He doesn't know me and I am not known for doing "favors". What you want to do in this case is make sure that you pick the lab and that you control the collections. It is possible for him to exert influence on the collection. I will not speak for other labs that I do not know but frankly for 405 dollars a test (legal version) i am not going to sacrifice my career.


Question: would a standard dna test for paternity identify whether or not the child being tested is a male or female. Basically, to what degree do testers assure that the child from whom the sample is taken is actually the child in question?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Well, it would not be a matter of quality control assurances. When labs extract the dna they will know immediately the sex of the child. You cannot trick a lab on the molecular matter.


Question: I have a question I hope you can answer. I have never had a close relationship with the woman I have believed to be my mother. One day when my dad was in the hospital, he needed a blood transfusion and I found out he had type A positive blood. Just out of curiosity, I wondered what my blood type was. My mom got very defensive when I asked her if she knew. She told me basically that it didn't matter. Later on when I had my first child, i found out that i have type O positive blood. I thought about that conversation again with my mom and thought she must have the same blood type as me. I asked her about it again and again, she got very defensive and said what does it matter because i am your mother. i was telling someone in my family about this and was told that she was not my mother. In some ways, i was shocked but then thought about the realtionship that she and i had over the years. I always felt like an outsider. How can i find out the truth?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: There is actually two ways--confront her and ask for a maternity test--if you have a brother or a sister that you KNOW she gave birth to test to see if you are siblings.


Question: I am so confused. My ex(joe) thinks he's my son father. I broke up with him the middle of April 2002 I got back with my other ex(bob) in may. My lmp was Between April 15-20 2002. My son was born feb, 20 2003 full term. is it possible that my joe could be the father of my son? i did not have sex with joe in may only bob.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: conception would have clearly happened in May.


Question: If the due date was March 31 what was the conception date. The doctor said that the conception date was either the last week in June or the first week in July. She slept with her ex around the week of the 13 thru 18 once proteceted I was having unprotected sex with her. They had to do a see section on her on April 8 because he turnned back around. I took a home DNA test it said to exclude me as the father I wanted to know is it anyway possible that the Swabs could've been effected thru the mail because I couldn't get a good swab froom the childs mouth because he was jerking away. Do you think we should go in the clinic and get another test. Because it said 5 out of 15 CPI I dont know because I probobly didnt get a good swab or it could have got effected in the mail.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You're misreading the report--5 out of 15 LOCI and that is a very BIG exclusion so according to the test you are not the father. I CANNOT over emphasize that ANYTIME you doubt a paternity test, get a second opinion--that means have a NON HOME test to verify the first.


Question: concerned father pending paternity test. child has doubts about biological dad. mother never confessed to cheating. mother appears extremely tense and worried which makes husband nervous, and more worried moreso by the fact that the wife look very worried. if someone never cheated during conception, or other, is there a reason for her worry about?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Only the paternity test can tell you. Good luck.


Question: If someone has sex one time between Aug.24-Sept. 12,1997 and the child was born July 3, 1998, Could this be possible? Within those dates?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: not likely.


Question: My question is one of time frame. I am currently 7mos pregnant and the father of the child has now re-entered my life. He questions the paternity because I had advised him that I was with another man the month prior. The dates are as follows- On Nov. 30, 2003 I was with another man, my last LMP was 12-15-03. I then had relations with the father of my unborn child sometime during the week of dec. 23. I took a pregnancy test the second week of Jan. and came up positive. I advised him that there is no chance that the unborn child could be the result of my Nov. encounter, but yet he questions paternity. Is there still options of having a paternity test this late in the pregnancy or is it best to wait after?, also can the test be done at the time of birth of the baby or is it best to wait until the child is a couple of weeks older? In my mind I am 100% sure that he is the father, but he has that one doubt because of the prior month.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: At your stage, you should wait until the baby is born--you only have to wait a couple of days--not weeks. By the way, if your LMP is 12/15/03 then the range of conception would be 12/15/03 to 12/30/03.


Question: My gynocologist said I (the mother) was o+ and my husband's military record shows he's o+. My 3 year old son is o+ but my 5 year old daughter is A. Is that possible despite your possible blood type charts?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: No,not possible.


Question: hi thank you for reading this my husband found out he may have made a child when he was 16 yrs old hes 33 now were just finding out he took a paternity test 3 months ago we havent gotten any word on the results (that i have seen) is that possible and if not how do ifind out the results this means alot to me because if its true im leaving him he knew about this years ago it was a high posibility and he may be hiding it from me and i really need to know my realtionship depends on it thank you
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It is his right to have access to those results--it only takes 5-7 days for a GOOD lab to process a test. Contact the lab and find out what the hold up is and how he can get a copy of the results. IF the lab does not cooperate, then get a supoena.


Question: I HAD SEX WITH A GIRL WHO HAD ALSO HAD SEX WITH TWO OTHER GUYS. SHE GOT PREGNANT AND WE DONE A DNA TEST JUST ON ME, NOT THE OTHER TWO GUYS. IT WAS 95 PERCENT. DOES THAT MEAN I AM THE FATHER OR COULD ONE OF THE OTHER GUYS BE THE FATHER?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: 95 percent leaves a 5 percent margin of error. The test is not finished. They either need to finish the test or you can grab one of inexpensive home kits that are listed in our moste recent threads. Our test ARE accurate.


Question: My girlfriend was with another guy 1 time, it was protected sex and he didn't come. She was with me everyday for over a year and I always came in her. She was on the pill but had missed taken it alot. We had a Non-Invasive Prenatal Paternity Test done by ***********, they took her blood samples and seperated the baby's dna cell from it and compared it to a swab test from my mouth. They said I was excluded as being the father. She says theres no way that i'm not the father. We've since heard some people say that the accuracy of that tes isn't good. Any opinions on that test?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Oh, good lord--you DO know those samples were shipped to Canada and tested by a foreign lab, right. So, the results are NOT endorsed by the AABB and the results, no matter what the lab tells you, are NOT statistically validated in this country not to mention that courts generally DO NOT recognize prenatal test to begin with. NOW assuming that you have invested a pile of money in this test, wait unti the baby is born and do one of our INEXPENSIVE home versions. ANYONE who has the fetal cell separation test owes it to themselves to take this test. YOu can get the free downloadable kit by going to Free Downloadable FIL Paternity Test Kit" Good Luck!!!


Question: I keep reading and hearing conflicting answers to the question 'who pays for a paternity test'? I'm in MA and read that (for children born out of wedlock) that the Department of Revenue would cover the cost if it's the mother bringing the suit. I've also read that the father would have to reimburse them if the test is positive that he's the father. I was also told by a lawyer since I was the mother and the one bringing the suit, that I would have to come up with the money. And then, once I brought the suit (with a lawyer) the judge advised the father to get the test and it was "his understanding" that DOR doesn't really seek reimbursement. Yet when I sent DOR an email, they said they would absolutely seek reimbursement. For the life of me, I can't figure out who's responsibility it would be to have to pay for the test...do you know??? And if you do know, would you know how much it would cost?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Here is the REAL deal--honestly, it depends on what the court decides when the case is heard. The court has all of those options to choose from so the reason you are confused is because EVERYONE is right.


Question: OK MY GIRLFRIEND AND I RECENTLY HAD A KID ON JUNE 17TH OF THIS YEAR. WE HAVE BEEN THROUGH SOME VERY ROCKY TIMES LATELY AND DURING ONE ARGUMENT SHE SAID SOMETHING REGARDING OUR CHILD THAT ALARMS ME. I HAVE HAD MY SUPISCIONS ALL ALONG. MY QUESTION IS WHO HAS TO BE PRESENT FOR A DNA TEST. CAN IT JUST BE MY SON AND I TO DETERMINE THE RESULT, OR DOES MY GIRLFRIEND HAVE TO BE PRESENT ALSO? OR IS IT POSSIBLE THAT I GET A TEST DONE BY MYSELF TO DETERMINE THE RESULT? I GUESS WHAT IM REALLY TRYING TO ASK IS CAN I GET A TEST DONE WITHOUT HER HAVING ANY KNOWLEDGE OF IT OR GETTING INVOLVED?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You can go to our website, Fairfax Identity Lab FREE Test Kit and look at product 3.. Just download the kit and you and the child and an impartial witness can do the test--quietly. Take care. ----- Original Message -----


Question: The mother of a child wants me to participate in a paternity test, I've acknowledged verbally that the child is mines. That is as far as I am willing to go.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Ok.....I have NO idea why you are saying this in this forum but let me cryptically state: "Let's see how far she is willing to go..."


Question: do you think that the paternity test that we can buy on ine are really good? or should i say accurate?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Again, ours are--won't vouch for quality of others.


Question: do you think that the paternity test that we can buy online are accurate?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Ours are-- because we are an actual laboratory--there are centers and testings and facilities online that are nothing more then fronts for other labs so you may not like one lab for a particular reason and so you go online--see a product that you like and unbeknowst to you--the lab you did not like gets the test. How dishonest is that? ONLY use a company if you can verify they are an actual lab. Our phone number is all over the site--we are not afraid to be reached. I will not endorse other products on the net and watch out for companies that want to send you FREE kits. Just go to our site and download one--why wait and you don't put any money down until you send in the sample.


Question: I'm Caucasian and I thought the alleged father was Italian. However, we just got the DNA test back at 99.98% and it says that the alleged father is Hispanic. And based on comparison with the North American Hispanic population, the alleged father can not be excluded. Now, I always knew he was the father, but, since he wants nothing to do with this child, is it possible that he could ask the courts for another DNA test based on him stating that he is not Hispanic? He is trying his best to get out of paying child support. Also, is 99.98% legal standard? I know others who have gotten 99.99% back.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: recalculation will likely just raise the percentage--race just helps narrow down the numbers--by the way, Italians are European Caucasion, not hispanic. Recalc couldnt hurt but is not necessary. Regarding your last question, most states do not require 99.9 or even 99.0--I have seen some states that stil accept 97 so the 99 percentile is courtesy of the labs--NOT THE STATE. Most are willing to settle for much less.


Question: What is the possible range of Conception for a July 4th due date
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: August 28th through september 11th


Question: I am trying to decipher who the father of my baby is. On July 7th my HCG level was 65, and my last period started between June 1 and 4. I know there is no way of telling for sure, but if you have an estimate or any help I would greatly appreciate it. I was also wondering about prenatal paternity tests using our blood. Is there such a thing and how much does it cost?Thanks.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: courts do not accept prenatal test results so you would be wasting your time with the so called fetal cell separation test which I understand can cost over 1000 dollars. If you can be more specific with your LMP I might be able to help you so drop me a line if you figure it out--happy to help.


Question: can dhr in alabama have a paternity test done without you the mother signing for it?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: DHR can do whatever they want--they are officers of the court.


Question: The father of my child is requesting a paternity test (ordered through the court) and we are waiting to have it done. My daughter is 3years old and there's absolutely NO possibility of her being anyone else's child. I was just kind of wondering what percentages it could come back as? Since he's absolutely the father, would it by any way come back 100% or is 99.9% the highest? And even though he IS the father, is it possible the test would come back too low to prove he is the father(in court)?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It will NOT come back as 100 percent. 99.9 or better will be the best you can get but not 100. Also,the test does not have to come back at 99.9 or better--it only has to meet the state's requirement. If you search this forum you will find an link to the federal ocse and they have the percentages listed there.


Question: (Obviously I'm getting a little nervous over the paternity test ordered between me, my daughter, and the father.) I've noticed a lot of the questions about numbers and percentages (among other words I don't know included on a paternity test). Since the court ordered a paternity test to be done and I KNOW the father IS DEFINITLY the father, I was just wondering how difficult the end test results are going to be to read? From what I'm reading it's not going to be cut and dry (like he IS or ISN'T the father) but more like a probability. I was wondering if the results were going to be difficult to understand with different numbers and such or if they might summarize it into something like "the probability is xxx"?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Scientist place their reporting in carefully worded statements--because they have to and because, as scientists, I just don't think they can help themselves. Seriously though, our client, pick up the phone and call us--I will usually ask them to read the final statement and then I can explain to them. "Included" means he IS the father, Excluded means he is NOT the father--also look out for the biggest confuser of them all "NOT Excluded". That means that he IS the father. If you do not understand, just contact the lab and if they have good customer service then they should help you right out--if not--drop me a line here at the experts board.


Question: even though i am 16yrs. of age does my mother has to come to take the paternity test with me and my father?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If the father does not have custody of you and his name is not on your birth certificate then you will need the mother to sign for you.


Question: If you had protected sex, and your boyfriend ejaculated some sperm inside of you, but pulled out to release the rest of the sperm, somehow could you still end up pregnate if the condom wasnt ripped, or if anything else wast wrong with it?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Yes, you can still get pregant.


Question: Message: my husband and i merried 7yrs. he has 4 kids henever sees. 2 of the kids he never singed a birth certificate on. but still paying support. can the state of maine do this? he has never ben dna tested to say he is the father. who singed the papers. thank you help me get a peace of mind.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If he signed papers of ANY KIND OR RUFUSED TO sign papers or participate with or repond to the court OR he was married to the mother when these children were born then, YES the court can pretty much do whatever it wants.


Question: I was told that I would have to wait until after my baby is born to get a cort ordered paternity test. Is it at all possible to get a court order to have the father a t the hospital to do a paternity test there?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The court will NOT address this until the baby is acutally born and don't look for the hospital to get involved with collecting a test is you are so ready to involve a court. Hospitals have risk management teams that encourage the hospitals to shy away from such issues.


Question: if a blood test is done at birth in the hospital how long do it take to find out the result and should the baby have the same blood type as the father.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: a test should only take 5-7 days to complete. the baby will have EITHER the type of the mother OR the type of the father. The father does NOT determine the type.


Question: a girl i was dating is now pregnant and saying its mine. im not signing the birth certifacate until i get a dna test done. however, she says she is not going to come after me for the test or child support. my question is if down the road she decides to come after child support can i get charged backed child support if the test shows its mine? also, can she put me on the birth certifacate without my consent?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Famous last words. When the child is financially a burden she is going to want some help--IF she goes on public aid-she will not come after you but the state certainly will because they are a collection agency. You have to sign to have your name placed on the certificate so DO NOT SIGN anything especially papers the hospital will try to hand to you to sign. If the state comes after you for support they will also want back support.


Question: this guy feels sorry for my baby that was in the hosp.he was 2 months early the hosp offers a dna test but he refused to take it but now he is 8 month old now he want a dna test for the baby can i refused him of a dna test now since he refused to take one 8 month ago
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Unless he gets a court order, it is up to you if you want a test--if he obtains a court order then you must comply.


Question: my husband had a dna test 10 yrs ago and was not the father. now all this has come back up and he has been ordered to take another dna test? The test was taken and he was now found to be 99.9% the father. But,the mother and father had the same dna that matched to the child. we ask for another test. And the attorney got ugly. Denied us that. But noone wanted to go to court and would never tell why? We feel the dhs wanted someone to pay. I called a dna testing and gave them the results, there question was are they brother and sister. when I confrunted the attorney with this, he was real ugly and denied another test. This woman was married to another man at the time of conception and the child has his last name. But he is in the pen. No money can be collected from him. what do we need to do. The courts and lawyers wont listen. Dhs even tried to deni the testing 10 yrs ago, but I still had court order and all paper work, but that didnt matter. They wanted someone to pa! y. help us?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I am afraid I cannot help you here but keep trying different attorneys until you get one that will help. Ge the dna test (both tests) looked at by an AABB certificed laboratory. Finally, if you CANNOT get help resolving this issue--go to the media, the talk shows and even your congressman as well as the bar association and talk loudly. Good luck.


Question: which states does not have administrative order to establish genetic testing, thanks
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Your question is not clear to me but ALL states are empowered and are required by the Federal Government to establish paternity.


Question: Can a father with a positive blood type and a mother with a b negitive blood type produce five children all with the blood type of o?,and if so,what are the odds of this happening?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: There are four possbile combinations with that type and O is one of them. So your answer is yes. I can't give you odds.


Question: I am trying to show paternity with someone who is now deceased and was cremated. I know that his father is dead but not sure if his mother is dead. I believe he has either a sister or a brother still living. Is there any way to get DNA testing from a relitive of the the father's when the father is deceased? Also, if there is a way to use his siblings or another relitive, can I go through the courts to make them give DNA testing.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: First, don't look for the courts to give you an order for this test. Your best bet would be to get with a rep at at dna lab and go over your options--the rep will ask you a series of questions so that he can advise you of the best test possible in your situation. You may be leaving out information here so talking to someone directly is important. The answer is yes, you can but you should brace yourself for an expensive and longe term test. You best bet is see if he has any other childrend and try to get them tested. Aunt or uncle relatiionship studies are very "hit and miss".


Question: If the mother of a child wants me to participate in a paternity test, am I obligated to take it no matter what? Or do I have the right to refuse to take it? What are the circumstances in which I would or wouldn't be obligated to take one?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Bottom line: you can always refuse a test but the court can MAKE you the father is you refuse to cooperate.


Question: Hello, I recently got married. My husband and myself have been married almost a year. Clayton County of Georgia recently contacted my husband regarding a paternity test. The child is approximately 5yrs old and lives in New Orleans, Louisiana. We are currently awaiting information for a court date and for him to take a DNA test. My question is, my husband is the third gentleman to be tested. What is the likelihood that this child is his? The two previous gentlemen were negative. What should we be preparing to do? Legally, what are the differences in the state? Please explain the time frame involved, between the beginning and the end of this process. Also what legal insight can you give me, being his wife? I thank you in advance. danielle
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: This is a paternity forum and we do not give legal advice. I don't know the particulars of the case but the more people who are excluded the possibility for faher becomes great each time a man is eliminated. he should just wait for the results and at some point get some solid legal advice.


Question: i had sex with my baby father on dec.26or27th of 2003 then i had sex with a one nite stand on jan7th of 2004 i ended up preg.i have a due date of oct.10th who could it be?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Probably the one night stand--you really need to get a pternity test.


Question: The start of my last period was 05/14. I was with one guy on 06-05 and became active with my current boyfriend on 06-19. On 07-07 my hormone level tested at 806. Is it too close to tell which man is the father?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: according to what you are telling me NEITHER of them fall into the conception period which would be May 14 to May 27th. Was there a third guy you were with earlier?


Question: Hello, i wanted to know if there is a possibility that my husband could not be the father of a boy, he has taken a DNA test, and it showed 99.99%. But my husband says he has never been with the childs mother, and that he is not the father, but his half-brother was messing around with the childs mother at that time, So is it possible that he could be the father and not my husband? and i also wanted to know, if my husband has proof he was gone during time of conception, can he use it in court and be excluded as the father? i'm just trying to find ways to support him if he is being honest. the child was born on September 5th 1998, when was the child concieved exactly? or would you know? thank you so much!
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I find it curious that he is claiming he is not the father, claims his HALF brother could be the father but he has never openly appealed to the court to have the HALF brother tested. There is a 0.01 percent chance that your husband is NOT the father of the child. To get the court to overturn the evidence he would NEED some pretty substantial verifiable proof that would or could be accepted into a court of law as evidence and that means evidence that is secured NOT to have been tampered with. November 29th to December 15th would have been the conception period but because the conception calculations are only estimates don't expect to be able to use it as evidence. Good luck.


Question: I just found out that im pregnet. Me and my soon to be ex husband have slept together 2 may 31 and June 5. I have slept with another guy on june 9. I cant sleep at night just wondering if the guy i slept with on june 9 could be the daddy if he never cummed? my last period date was may 9.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: you have a 50 50 chance either way--hard to tell at this point.


Question: How old does a baby have to be before a paternity test can be done? We keep getting different answers from the Mother. I have been told by a few friends that the baby should be 6 months old, is the true? If so, why the wait? Just Curious.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Your few friends should check their facts--6 months is absolutely NOT true. You can test as soon as the child enters this world. BTW, the 6 month myth in dna testing comes from the old HLA blood test where typically you drew blood at months but that was even untrue because hand sticks, finger stick and heel sticks were available to collec the child even earlier.


Question: I have a couple questions. Can DNA testing be done when a woman is pregnant? If so, when in the pregnancy? If the woman refuses can the man get a court order? or does the man have to wait untill after the baby is born in orer to get the court order? We prefer to know now and not in 7-8 months. That way we can help this woman...if it is my husband's.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: As we have posted many times before--10 weeks. You can't get a court order for an invasive procedure. If the woman refuses you will just have to wait.


Question: Message: can the mother of a supposed father be used for a dna test to determine paternity if the father is not available for the test? would it have a accurate result?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Some labs will tell you differently but you need BOTH grandparents on the father's side. Otherwise, the lab is just smiling with teeth gleaming holding out a hand to take your money. Always get second opinions.


Question: Hi, I gave birth to my beautiful daughter 3/9/87. My due date was 3/10. I was pretty sure the 1st day of my LMP was 5/31, as I told the doctor. The first doctor I went to tested me in the office on 6/30 and it came back negative. The doctor was pretty insistant that I was not pregnant, but I felt I was, so she sent it out to be tested at the lab which came back positive. I was with my ex-boyfriend on 5/5 and 5/8 (this 2nd one is when I got paranoid he didnt withdraw quick enough). NOW, Back in the middle of May I was out, got drunk and went with some guy (which I do not know at all) and do not remember what happened. How possible is it that the unknown guy could be the father? I remember my girlfriend telling me my 5/31/86 cycle may have not been a real one. I am nervous about having a test done without knowing the complete possibilities of both guys. Thanks for your help, Y ps. by the way, my daughter was a perfect little 7lb, 3oz, 20-1/2" long and healthy as could be from day one. She is my angel and I have 3 boys (9, 3, and 1) since 1987. Again, thanks for your help.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: the child would have been conceived between May 31st and June 15th. Hope this helps.


Question: HAVE THERE BEING ANY NEW MEDICAL DEVELOPMENT THAT WILL ALLOW CVS PRENATAL TESTING BEFORE THE 10TH WEEK? AND IF YOU MANAGE TO HAVE IT DONE BEFORE THE 10TH WEEK HOW ACCURATE CAN THE RESULTS BE?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: None that I know of and since we don't perform the test before the 10th week I could not answer the second part of your question.


Question: My husband was contacted by a girl he had dated 16 years ago stating he was the father of her daughter who is now 15. Another man that she tricked into thinking was the father questioned paternity when the child was 2 and was tested. His test came back 89.9% that he could be the father, but according to this woman, the State of Missouri does not recognize paternity of it comes back less than 90% so he left. Now she has contacted my husband and we are requesting paternity as well, however, all the tests that I have researched designate that it's either 0% (exclusion)or at least 99% (inclusion), how did they get 89.9% and is there still a chance that my husband could come back at a lower percentage rate than this other guy and be excluded or is this other guy automatically excluded if he wasn't 99%? She claims there was only two men in her life during this time. Not all of the pieces are adding up. She was born on May 23, 1989 with a due date of May 19, 1988. Any ! advise is appreciated.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I haven't seen a test in the eighties in quite some time--simplly put--more testing on that man needed to be done and Missouri should have and probably did tell her that. Go ahead and do the test but keep very close eye on his collection and make sure you are famiiar with the lab that does the test and I would not use the first one--they did not finish the job.


Question: My brother was killed in a car accident Feb 24, 1963. A close friend of his that is very trustworthy has just told me that my brother's girlfriend was pregnant at the time of his death. The only item I have that could possibly be used to identify his DNA is his hair which is in his hair brush that I personally have in my posession. Can an accurate test be done on his hair in order to prove
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: will depend on if there are hair folicles. You may want to see if there was an autopsy--if there was, the coroner's office may have plenty of samples in storage.


Question: My brother was killed in a car accident Feb 24, 1963. A close friend of his that is very trustworthy has just told me that my brother's girlfriend was pregnant at the time of his death. The only item I have that could possibly be used to identify his DNA is his hair which is in his hair brush that I personally have in my posession. Can an accurate test be done on his hair in order to prove
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: will depend on if there are hair folicles. You may want to see if there was an autopsy--if there was, the coroner's office may have plenty of samples in storage.


Question: Hi there, I just found out, that all 4 of my siblings are Rh-, and this includes my 1 1/2 brother who is the eldest. My two older sisters are AB- and O-, I am the youngest in the family and have O+ blood type. Is it possible that we are from the same father...as everyone else is Rh- and I am Rh+???
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: you left out crucial information--the types and Rh of BOTH your parents. Looking at your siblings means nothing. Consider this though: a positive and a positive wil yield a negative or a positive. A negative and a negative will yield ONLY a negative and a negative and a positive will yield either a positive OR a negative. Hope this helps.


Question: My boyfriend and I live in California. He has three children and 2 of the 3 look like him, one of his sons and his daughter. He pays child support and back child support on all 3. His other son looks just like a co-worker. This co-worker dated my boyfriends ex-girlfriend at the right time for the timing of the birth of his son. My boyfriend signed the birth certificate and believed that his was his son, until he saw my co-worker. He is scheduled for a paterity test. My questions are that if the test comes out with him not being the father the current child support will stop, right? What can he do with the back child support on his son? Can he transfer it to his daughter's? This lady claimed a "welfare" type assistance while she was in Oregon, claiming both of the kids and his. She has lied for 12 years and we are trying to get the truth out of her and also get back what is rightfully his.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: it is likely that he will continue to pay child support so you should see an attorney as soon as the results are available so that you can weigh your options.


Question: 8 YRS AGO I HAD A DNA TEST WHICH EXCLUDED ME FROM BEING THE FATHER OF A THEN 4YR OLD GIRL MY TEST CAME BACK 0.0%. THE MOTHER TOLD THE COURTS THAT THE TEST WAS WRONG AND THEY ISSUED ANOTHER TO WHICH SHE HAD TO PAY FOR. SHE HAD NO MONEY AT THE TIME OF THE TEST. 8 YRS LATER IAM BEING TAKEN BACK TO COURT BY THE SAME WOMAN FOR THE SAME CHILD. HOW OFTEN ARE DNA TESTS WRONG?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Not very often if the first test was conducted correctly and was not a home test you did on your own(they weren't commonly available 8 years ago so it probably was not a home kit) and you did not send in a ringer or bribe someone. You should be ok.


Question: Can you do a DNA Paternity Test from Hair cut from a child collected during a normal haircut?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: no


Question: My daughter by a previous marriage I suspect was fathered by my best friend,now deceased.How could I determine if I am NOT the father without alerting either my ex or my daughter?I have close contact with the daughter and 4 grandchildren.I am 71 and would like to know personally as my best friend had serious health problems that should be brought to my daughters attention.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You need her dna sample to compare to hers. As an adult you need her permission.


Question: What happens if my husband wants to do a paternity test to see if he's the father of the alleged child but the mother wont consent and the procedure has already been paid for ?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: He probably should have check with her before putting out the money. All he can do how is see a lawyer.


Question: How early into a woman's pregnancy can you take a paternity test? ...a test that will come back with accurate results, I might add.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: 10 weeks.


Question: My boyfriend is facing a paternity suit after 15 years, for a child that he didn't know existed in South Carolina. Is there anything he can do about it in New York? Opposed to writing out a big check?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: When Family court comes for him he will need to request a paternity test at that time.


Question: i got a girl pregnant, can i get a prenatal test done through my insurance? If not, how much do they cost if i have to pay out of pocket? is it better to wait till the baby is born? Why?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You will have to pay out of pocket. The decision as to have the test is entirely up to you but if money the weighing factor then it is cheaper to wait until the baby is born.


Question: I don't believe that my father is my biological father. I am wondering if there is a way to test through a glass or toothbrush that I could do without him knowing. He will always be my dad so I don't want to bring this up and cause him pain.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Yes, but you need his consent to use his dna


Question: I'm 7 months and recently had a Aminocentesis done to run test to see if there was any infection or problems with the amniotic fluid. My childs father want a paternity test done. Can I use that Aminocentesis to get the results since they collected the cells..or do I have to take another one specifically for DNA results?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: No,the sample would have expired by now and you are at 28 weeks. He will have to be patient and wait until the baby is born.


Question: I am a man wondering how I can go about getting a paternity test done with a women who refuses.I wasnt at the hospitaland havent signed anything.Is there a way I can get paternity without omission of bieng the father?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Your best bet is to get a court order so you will need an attorney.


Question: does the child having down syndrome make any difference when a dna test is done to determine paternity? does the lab need to know the child has downs or does it make no difference
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It does NOT effect the outcome of the paternity test.


Question: What and how can I get a negative result on a PATERNITY TEST?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I am NOT going to tell you how to do that.


Question: I have been involved with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years now. For a period of one month in October of 2002 we split up and during the break up i slept with one other man numerous times during that month. The last time i slept with the other man was October 31, 2002. I found out that i was pregnant in January and when i went to the doctor they told me that I conceived during or around the week of November 14th of 2003 so i assumed that they were correct and my boyfriend and i had our baby boy on September 2nd, 2003. The other man swears up and down that my son is his baby and in fact, they do look quite similar. Also, i looked at the conception calander on your website and they dated my conception for December 10th so i am very confused and afraid that the doctors may have made a mistake and i really conceived earlier than what they told me. My now ex-boyfriend has signed the birth certificate and believes in every way possible that is his son.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Take your boyfriend and go have a test--you are not going to resolve this by sitting around speculating. Just take a test.


Question: I live in San Jose, CA. The mother of the child lives in stockton CA. Would they send our blood to greensboro NC for paternity test. Why would they do this. How can I validate the results.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: They would not send the results to Greensboro, NC. There are no Paterity labs there anymore. As for you validating the results--well you can find out WHO the lab actually is and contact them yorself if you have questions about their procedures.


Question: My girl friend 's period comes on 18th of every month. I had sex with her on the 28th Dec 2002 and on 1st January 2003. She became pregnant and give birth on 20th sept.2004. I want know the possiblity of myself being the father.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: the conception would have ocurred between December 13th and December 28th.


Question: can seamen get a girl pregnant
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If you mean Navy Seaman or the Merchant Marines then the answer is yes. If you mean SEMEN then YES IF the semen contains sperm. It is the sperm which penetrates the egg--the semen is the carrier.


Question: My question is that I am pregnant and I was wondering if there was a DNA test that could be done on my child before it was born. I am approxamitly 6 weeks.. Please Help.. I really can't wait until the child is born for several reasons of of them is that I need the moral supoort as well as the financial support of the child's fathter..
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: With the approval of your physician you can do one at 10 weeks up until the 20th. Please see the many other postings that we have seen on this subject.


Question: I dated a man last year, and into the beginning of this year. After continual infidelity, on his part, I left him at the end of February. I found out that I was pregnant with his child the first week of March. He has abandoned the situation and claims no responsibility. I am aware that paternity testing is available, and can be mandated after the child's birth- but the father is insisting that there is a way to safely / effectively determine the paternity BEFORE the child is born. I am 6 months pregnant- can you tell me if this is true, or what our options would be?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Wait until the child is born and have a paternity test through Child Support Enformcement. Prenatal testing is not recognized by the court system and so is useless if the is found to be the father. The procedures in this country is invasive and you CANNOT get a test at 6 months--you are too far along. There is a procedure in another country but it is not validated, cost OVER 1000 dollars American and frankly is a waste of time.


Question: My husband is supposedly the father of a twelve year old girl that he has never seen, the woman who had the child slept with both him and his brother who was married to her sister at the time. My husband took a paternity test and it was decided that he was the father although we never got the results or anything. His brother refused to take the test. How can we tell who is the father? I mean, what percentage does it need to be? My husband's only came out to an 88% or something of that nature. We are considering supeonaing his brother for a test. How much of a difference in brother's on dna testing?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: He can get the results by contacting the lab that did the testing. He might need a court order in order for the lab to be able to cooperate. Until you see the results you cannot tell who the father is. 88 percent is too low--99 percent is more accpetable.


Question: I am in a situation with a woman I had a one night stand with and she had a child. I took the paternity test ordered by the State of Texas along with another possible father. We were both excluded as being the father of this child. However the mother still thinks I am the father, and my test came back with a 0.00% as paternity possibility, but since I took my test on 12/18/03 and she and the child took there test on 11/17/03 she thinks the test are wrong. I took the test; the lab has my photo and fingerprints on file from when I took the test the first time. What are the possibilities that my test will come back different? Once again I took the first test, and I took the second test also. By the way when I went to court the representative for the State of Texas stated according to the "markings" that there is a 3rd party involved! What does that mean?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I think she may be wasting her time if there were two excluded fathers and one OTHER father not tested--she is in denial--she needs to test the third guy and remove all of the variables.


Question: If a female had a relationship with twin brothers and ended up pregnant, is there a way to determine the father of the child?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If the twins are identical--no. If the twins are fraternal, then a standard paternity test will answer the question.


Question: I just had a paternity test done and I was wondering what the locus are: D21S11, D7S820, CSF1PO, D3S1358, D13S317, D2S1338, D19S433, VWA, D18S51, D5S818, FGA? Also what does the PI, allele, and sizes number mean?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The lab that did the test for you should be very willing to answer these questions. If they aren't, you're not dealing with a very professional outfit. The loci are, to put it simply, regions of the DNA that exist in people, and that have different physical sizes in different people. The regions differ with regard to the number of times a small section of the DNA at these loci is repeated. The numbers recorded for the mother, the child, and the alleged father indicate the number of repeats. At each locus, the tested people will have two alleles, or forms of the marker. One of the alleles gets passed on to, or is inherited from, each of a person's parents. The PI or paternity index is the likelihood that the tested man is the father of the tested child, compared to the likelihood of finding those same genetic markers in the population by chance that the man and the child share.


Question: Hello, I was wondering if you could help me. I have grown up all of my life without a father. I started a relationship with a family friend and come to find out that my mother says his uncle is my father. The man refuses to have a dna test. But I don't want him to be my father because I love the man I am seeing alot. The only one that has a problem with me being with my boyfriend is his ex-wife. She is keeping his children away because of us being cousins. Is there any way that I can just get a copy of a negative dna test letter to put my name on it to give to her so she will leave us alone. There needs not be any legal part in it. We are both fixed and have no intention of any more children so what is the big deal of us being together.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: NO REPUTABLE LABORATORY WOULD ASSIST YOU IN WHAT YOU ARE ASKING. IT IS DISHONEST.


Question: What is the difference between a 9 marker, 11 marker & 15 marker test. If the test comes back with only 5 markers coming from the father alone, but no marker to totally exclude the father, what is the probability that someone else could be the father? The time frame of the birth is wrong for conception to have occured when the relationship was active and the mother had other sexual partners. I need to know is we should try to challenge the paternity of the child, or if it's useless. >
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Testing is done to reach a level stipulated by the state legislature where you live. That level is usually relatively low, however, considering the level of testing that can be done. However, the lab typically has a policy of testing to a certain probability of paternity, after which a report is issued. If the stipulated probability of paternity is 99.9% and that level of certainty is reached with after 9 markers, further testing is not automatically done. (I don't understand what you mean by "only 5 markers coming from the father alone." If only five tests were done, that is a little light for my liking. If you mean that there were other markers tested but for them there wasn't complete clarity as to which marker came from the mother and which came from the father, that's OK. It's taken into consideration when the calculations are done.) The lab also tests to something called a "power of exclusion" which is typically in the neighborhood of 99.9% too. That means that 99.9% of other men, unrelated to the tested guy, would be excluded solely by the tests that were performed. If you say that the timing of the birth was wrong compared with the time of the sexual encounter, you could challenge the test results on that basis, but be prepared to back up your claim about the timing with airtight documentation. Your word alone as to when the sexual encounter happened won't be good enough.


Question: my ex boyfriend and i was ordered to do a DNA test by the child support office. after 30 days they called me to ask if my ex boyfriend`s father, brother or son could be my son`s father. i told them his father has been dead for 25 years and he has no brother. my child is the only son he has. the lady from the child support office said they was some kind of gene mutation, but since he has no close male relative, then he must be the father. how is this possible?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: By the overall evidence of the remaining genetic matches. DNA has a documented rate of change, and the form of that change is also characterized and documented. (If DNA didn't change, all living things would still be just little blobs swimming in the ocean and nothing more.) The lab also should have done additional testing to look for more mismatches between the child and the alleged father; a single mismatch is not enough to declare that he's not the father, precisely because of the possibility of mutations happening. To cover all the bases, the lab also checked to see whether a close relative of the alleged father might also have been involved, because that can lead to many matches with a few mismatches. When close relatives are involved, the number of mismatches is usually more than one, however. With no mismatches and only a single mismatch, the reasonable assumption of a mutation was made and the likelihood of that mutation was factored into the calculation of the overall paternity index. Look for a paternity index (or X/Y ratio) somewhere in the neighborhood of 0.001, which will be far lower than any of the others on the report.


Question: I am 29 yrs old, and a month ago I found out that the man I knew as my father could possibly not be my father. My mother cheated on her boyfriend in 1974, and soon I came along. The alleged father never knew I existed. I took a swab test with the alleged father. The cultures flew from America to Canada. It sat in customs for about 8-10 days, and I still waited another 7 days for the results.The results were exclusive. Is there a chance the results were wrong? Would it be a waste of time to take a blood test?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Anytime that you doubt the validity of a test you should retake the test--only this time use an American lab so that you can be in constant touch with the testing facility and no customes issue will crop up.


Question: My husband and I seperated and have 2 children together and he pays child support for one. We have been to court and have court ordered support for one. We had a paternity test taken back in March 2004 but never heard anything. He has moved out of Georgia and I have moved to Texas with my 2 children. I have been in contact with the DHR office back in May but still haven't heard anything as of yet. Maybe you could help me out and give me some advice. He (my husband)has asked if I have heard anything. My son just turned 7years old and Iwould like to have some closure to this as would his father. Please, help me out on this. Thank you!
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I cannot help you--the results will be sent from the lab to the court first and then the court will release the results. You just have to keep calling and checking in. No magic formula here unfortunately--you just need immense patience.


Question: My husband and Ihave taken a paternity test on our 7 year old son, back in March 2004. We both lived in the same town in Ga. Now, I live in Texas with my kids and he lives elsewhere with a new girlfriend. I have contacted the child support office back in May but yet still no word. We know the child is his, but in the state of ga. they wanted to be sure. I am wanting to know the results.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I am sorry but I don't know your results. You will have to get them from the child support office--it may take quite a bit of time so be patient.


Question: How many months do you have to be to do a Parenting test?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: 10 weeks.


Question: When can paternity testing be safely done? Do you have to wait until after the baby is born? If paternity testing is court mandated, how do you find someone who can do it and how much does it cost?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Do the testing AFTER the child is born if you can--testing after the child is born is non invasive and painless. If the court mandates a test, contact us and we will help you arrange for testing.


Question: had a one night stand unprotected with a girl about 11 months ago. I was very intoxicated. She wanted me to come in her, because she was on the pill. She said if she got pregnant she would have an abortion, not to worry about it. So I came in her. I never talked to her again until last night. I ran into her at the bar and she told me that she had a kid not too long. She said it might be mine. She also said she it getting a paternity test done to find out. She is foreign, I think Persian or something. I am caucasian. From paternity tests can they find out if the kid comes from a caucasian? What if I don't submit to a paternity test?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: She tells you she is on the pill and that she would have an abortion if she got pregnant? Paternity testing cannot determine the race of a child. If you do not submit to a test it is possible that she could take you to court and you could be compelled to take the test.


Question: My son is questioning if the baby is his.The baby is 19months old blonde hair blue eyes and the mother and my son have medium to dark brown hair, eyes are hazel and brown.Would it be wise to have the test done?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: ANYTIME that a paternity is cast in doubt is a wise time to have a test.


Question: My daughters fiancee took a paternity test and the cpi index was 76,597 to 1 giving a proability of 99.99%. He doesn't think the child is his. They based the cpi on a race of caucsian and he is actually hispanic (mother is caucasian. would this have any bearing on the test? would additional tests give different results?. how likely is it that the test could be challenged?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: No,not really. There might be a variance of a couple of points in the PI but he would still calculate out to be the father.


Question: Child is now two years old, and we just found out she existed. Mother wants money from alleged father. A DNA test will be done, but assuming he is the biological father, what rights do we have? Can sue her for keeping it a secret, and can we take the child away from her if we can better provide for the child? > Also, some other guy has his name on the birth certificate, so what kind of trouble could that cause? He was her boyfriend when the child was born, but not married. He may come back and say he wants the child. > I don't know how the biological father is, but we will find out soon enough if the accusations are correct. In which case we will do everything in out power to take full custody, and never pay the mother a penny. She is unfit, and irresponsible. And I feel very sorry for the baby girl.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Don't take the test UNTIL you talk to an attorney first--and DON'T SIGN ANYTHING--the reason being is that paternity may already be established since the other guy signed the birth certificate--take the test ONLY under the advice of an attorney. He can also advise you on your other legal questions. Point is--depending on your state--and the attorney will know--the birth certificate may make all the difference in the world.


Question: I was together sexually with this girl at a New Years party 1998-99. She said she got pregnant that night by me. We only had sex one time, and it was protected. She gave birth to a child on Oct. 15, 1999. Her due date was Oct. 8, 1999. Do I need DNA testing? >
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It is cutting it close--she conceived between the 5th and the 25th of January. I would insist upon a test to place yourself in the clear. DON'T sign anything until you have that test.


Question: Does a baby take the mothers or fathers blood type?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It can be either the mother or the father.


Question: I was recently contacted by someone I had a relationship with long ago. She had a child almost 10 years ago. She got married to another guy assuming the child was his. They divorced. He later tested the child without her knowledge and said he was not the father and forced her to agree to let him give away his rights. She now says I am the father since I was the only other person she had slept with in that time period. She said she did not want to tell me but now she wants financial help. I am married with a child of my own. What rights do I have if any? I was led to beleive 10 years ago that the other guy was the father and now she wants help.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: you need to do a paternity test with her--do not negotiate on this point. If he did a test without her knowlege, chances are that he used a home test kit and if he did, how does she know he is telling her the truth? Forced her to let him give away his rights--was an attorney even involved? The whole thing rings suspicious to me. Do a test--make sure that it is court admissible and make sure she is tested with you. This is not too much to ask of her in exchange for accepting a lifetime of responsibility.


Question: I was with my ex and another guy that i was currently seeing back in february of 2002 and i had my baby nov 14 02 well my ex signed the birth certificate when she was born without doing a paternity test, now the other guy wants a test done and i cant find anywhere to go to have one because social services says that the birth cert. was already signed and they can't so anything about it now where can we go to have a test done!!!
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Well, they are right--they won't pay for a test where paternity is already established and that is what the man did when he signed the birth certificate which is why you should NEVER sign anything until the test is done. you can get a simple and inexpensive test by going here: Get Free DNA Test Kit Here you will see a list of products. Choose product number three and download the paperwork.


Question: Message: My seventeen year old is being told he is the father of a baby born may 11th 2004. He admits this is possible but the girl and her mother do not want the test for paternity done but they want him to pay support what can we do? Can we do the test without her consent and no proof but her word that it is his? Confused mother of 17 year old
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Well, first--don't sign anything and if you can afford it act under the advice of an attorney. The mother's word is not enough and you're talking about 18-21 years of the life of your child. You can do a simple home test kit that is downloadable from our website. The address is Get Free Test Kit Here You will see a list of products--go to product number three--download the paperwork and you can then begin the test. There is a support number in the paperwork if you need assistance. Good luck.


Question: hi, my husband knows that the baby we just had could be from someone else ...i am not sure who the father is .its either my husband or the guy i cheated on my husband with 2 weeks prior i had sex with my husband. i wanna find out who the father is and i wanna get a paternity test done with this other guy because my husband is not willing to get a test done ...is it possible for me to get a test done with this other guy without my husbands consent? and if not what am i supposed to do ?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Oh, good lord yes! You only need the consent of ONE parent--go have the test and consider using Fairfax Identity Laboratories.


Question: i got pregnant back in sept of 2000 by my at the time he was my boyfreind now my ex then i got back together with one of my other exs in jan of 2001 and we slept together he ( the one i slept with in jan of 2001) is trying to say that my son could be his i had my son june 7th of 2001 my ex that i slept with in jan is trying to tell me that a baby dna can be changed when i was only 3 1/2 to 4 months pregnant. I was wondering if is possible that the dna can be changed then? if you could help clear this up for me i would
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Your January ex needs to NEVER consider a career in genetics. The DNA never changes. I don't know where he got that idea but he is absolutely wrong.


Question: I have been dating this guy. This girl ended up getting pregnant. They took a test his test took 5 days to arrive at the lab and her test took 1 day to arrive. How is that so? Is there any way that she could have altered with the test or the people at the lab because, the months that she supposed to have been pregnant doesn't add up. She also made herself fake labor and have the baby in december to try ro trap him. When really she was due in march. So when did she become pregnant? and she only starting showing around october.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I am not sure if you are really asking questions or if you are just venting. Ok. You were dating a guy and a girl got pregnant. So you are the girlfriend and your boyfriend allegedly impregnated a girl--not you. There was a test done. NOW. I cannot tell you why one sample arrived at the lab sooner then the other sample. It could be anything from it being mailed on a friday or maybe one was shippied by us mail as opposed to one being shipped by Fed Ex. There is simply no way to tell. You said that she "faked" being in labor--does that mean she produced a fake baby? I do not think that is what you meant. These questions are not ones that I can answer for you because they make absolutely no sense. Without information you cannot expect me to tell you when she became pregnant based on when she started "showing".


Question: I am thinking about terminating my paternal rights to my 4 year old daughter. If I do will my poarents still have "grandparents rights". I live in the state of Kentucky. Thanks >
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: That is a very good question--we have a grandparents rights board over here at divorcenet.com and I would suggest that you consider posting this question there. Unfortunately, this board only deals with paternity issues.


Question: My question is how old does a baby have to be in order to get a paternity test done??? >
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You can test the baby before the birth at the 10th week and typically up to roughly the 20th under the supervision of a qualifed physician. You can test the baby THE DAY it is born if you are willing to put up with dealing with hospital administrations and their typically self-protective policies (risk management isssues) but generally when the child comes home from the hospital is the best time to start considering the prospect of a test.


Question: My question is can DNA tests be altered in any way? Do they swab the entire mouth or just one cheek? I was wondering if my husband maybe put some translucent tape in his cheek and obtained his friends DNA then was swabbed. This is what I was told, is it possible and how long do cheek cells live?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: 1. Tape will not stick to the wet inside of a mouth. 2. Cells applied to anything that is then kept inside the mouth will be washed off rather quickly by the mouth's saliva. 3. Typically, both cheeks are swabbed. 4. Living cheek cells are not needed for a swab test.


Question: My friend was seeing a girl and slept with her for the first time on the 2nd may 2003 and continued to have unprotected sex with her until about 8 weeks later. She had a baby boy on 8th may 2004. Is it possible he could be the father?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: conception would have happened between July 30 and August 15th.


Question: Is it possible to have a child Rh - if both parents are Rh +?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: absolutely.


Question: A girl I was sexually involved with the first week of August, 2003 just delivered a baby today 5-18-04. We used a condom. What are the chances that it is mine. She doesn't want a paternity test, I am scared to have one. My parents want one done. I am 17 and she is 21.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You are a minor, I noticed. For me, the first thing that popped in my head was the statutory rape issue. There is a 50 percent chance that it is yours and you DO need to get this out of the way now. Bottom line: 1-it is not fair to the child--2-there are potential grandparents who certainly have the right to know and who can provide an invaluable line of support for the child and 3) there is the possibility that the mother will come after you and your family for child support--she may say she will not but sooner or later when she feels the burden of bringing up a child she is going to get that extra support one way or another and if you wait then you are talking about a potential accumulation of back support. DON'T sign anything like papers at the hospital. HAVE THE TEST. You both owe it to the child if not to each other. By the way, she should have the test privately because your parents could always obtain a court order and compell her to submit to the test and with your age an issue--well that could spell a problem for the mother. HAVE THE TEST.


Question: My brother in law is in jail and says he has a little girl....is there any way to get a dna test for him while he is in jail? Do they allow you to do that? Or do you have to wait until he is out for a paternity test? Thank you for your time.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: A paternity test is a simple thing really. A paternity test in a jail is a logistical headache but it can be done. The issue is not whether the sample can be collected but whether the prison will ALLOW it to be collected. There are three ways to collect asample. 1)a phlebotomist goes into the prison and collects the samples, 2)the prison collects the samples and 3)the prsion transports the prisoner outside of the prison and is taken, usually in chains, to a collection station where the sample is taken. The problem is the prison--prison officals are concerned with security and also with the violation of the civil rights of the prisoners. You usaully have to have a court order or a signed stipulation by the prisoner. My advice to you is to contact your brother in law and see if he has a prison counselor that he deals with. If he does, then all you have to do is contact the counselor and ask him to help. He can guide you through the steps needed to get this acomplished. IF at anytime the man decides NOT to do the test--the prison will no longer cooperate--even if there is a court order.


Question: CAN A WOMAN WITH O BLOOD AND A MAN WITH B BOOLD TYPE HVE A BABY WITH A TYPE
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The type produced by a woman with an O and a Man with a B will be either a B or an O. Hope this helps.


Question: i have a daughter that has a father that is cherokee indian, what type of blood test can be done to determine the percentage of indian blood she has?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I do not know if you want to get on the tribal roll or not but there are tests out there that purport to be able to tell if you are an indian or not--the problem with this is that what you get back is a fairly broad statement and nothing that could get you inducted into the tribe. Generally, tribes are relying on standard types of paternity testing such as paternity, maternity, grand parentage, and sibling relationship studies. Using advanced technologies such as Y STR and Mitchondrial DNA sequencing a relationship can be traced back through many generations. If your daugher's father is a confirmed Cherokee then a simple paternity test will suffice. If the father is not availabe then a grandparentage study could be performed and if the father has OTHER confirmed children then a sibling relationship study would be advised.


Question: I was wondering..is it possible to have a DNA test done before the baby is born. Rather than having to wait to see who the father is for 9 months?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: absolutely! Paternity can be performed at the 10th week of pregnancy through CVS collection and then later through an amniotic fluid collection. Both are invasive techniques and must be supervised by a physician.


Question: I'm in a relationship with this man.A girl was said that she was pregnant by him.Nobody's knows the month that she was pregnant because, she ended up making herself have the baby early and trying to trap him. The baby stayed in the hospital for some months. They say she supposed to had the baby in February and she made herself had it in December. Why do that when your only two months away? They took a test and his sample took 6 days to reach the GeneScreeb Lab and she took her test on the 16th and they recieved it the next day. How is that so? and is there anyway that the test could be alterd with in when taking the swab, sending it off, or the results paper. When the results came back he got one sheet of paper stating he was the father. How many papers do you supposed to get back from the test? Also I have a friend that got a copy off t he computer and used that for the results of one of her tests.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Transit times of the sample from the time of draw to the lab can vary, although 6 days sounds excessive. I am concerned about the "friend who got a copy of the test off the computer." I'm not sure I understand what you're saying here, but if you mean that somebody got access to the test results by accessing them on line, something is not right.


Question: I have a friend who was just sentenced to 20 years in prison for the alleged sexual assault of a minor. His DNA was tested(more than one year after it was collected due to administrative errors) and showed that he was 4million times more likely to be the father than any other unrelated, unknown parties in a database of Caucasians, Blacks, and Hispanics. He is Hispanic. 13 loci were tested. He denies sexual contact with the victim but knows that his first cousin and his biological son were having sex with her around the time that she would have conceived the child. She delivered the child 5/29 and claims that he(my friend) had sex with her around 9/27. The child was full term. Would it be beneficial to try to have the courts test the cousin and son? Where could I get genetic precedents for this that might carry some weight with the appeals process?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The main concern isn't the cousin but the biological son. With 13 loci tested, the chances are small, but not insignificant, that the son could be the true biological father. If involvement of the son was raised at the trial, it is inconceivable to me that the judge would not have ordered the son to be tested too. Check with an attorney for specifics, but this sounds on its face to be something worthy of followup.


Question: Can paternal testing harm an unborn baby?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The DNA test itself cannot harm the baby. The viability of the procedure for collection is one that must be predetermined as safe by the medical physician attending to the care of the mother. Each pregnancy is different.


Question: My father is deceased. I have a cousin, whom is my father's great niece, (his sister's grandaughter). She says she thinks my father is her father?! Is there away to test to see if she is my sibling or my cousin? With my father being deceased? If anything, I feel I need to fight for my deceased father's innocence. Thank you
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You certainly can. Use one of our QuckHIT test solutions that you can download at Fairfax Identity Laboratories The test is inexpensive and convenient. Best of all there is a support number inside the kit so that if you get stuck you can just pick up the phone and someone will answer your questions. Make sure that you include the fact that you and the other party being tested are cousins.


Question: is it possible for me to become pregnant from someone that had a vasectomy more than 10+ years ago? i was beginning my period on March 20 and had sex so it did not actually start till March 23. I am know pregnant and had sex on 4/6 and 4/12, s which day did i conceive?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Absolutely--the procedure is not 100 percent fool proof. I cannot tell you exactly which day that you conceived.


Question: Message: I had a DNA test done while we were stationed in Germany and found out our baby wasn't mine. We later seperated, but off and on till Jan 2002. She has been with the father of the child till recently. She had the 2nd boy 22 Oct 02. I me this seem like my kid but she had sex with both of us within 2 weeks. Recently, the dad had a paternity test done but only the 1st son is his. My Ex sent pictures 2 days ago saying the 2nd boy is my son. He looks just like my younger brothers. But what gets me is the 2nd boy have a blood type of A+. the mother and I have blood types of O+?. Also, will a lab use both my test result from 2yrs ago (in Germany) to compare it to the recent test (USA)? Or would we have to redo the test. Im in ND they are in VA. Thanks
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It is highly unlikely you are the father--you will have to do a test and use fresh samples.


Question: i have a problem with working out my dates my baby is due on the 30th of september this year but i slept with one bloke on the 23rd and my x boyfriend on the 30th please help ?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You're having problems because BOTH fathers fall into the conception range. I would test whichever one is best available.


Question: A friend of mine had a peternity test done on his 5yr old daughter and it came back that she has a 80 something percent chance of being his. Is that possible and what does that mean that he is or isn't? Second, they told him that he may not be the father but one of his 5 brothers could be,so t have them tested too. None of them even live in town and they've all emphatically denied the possibility. Is it possible that one of them could not be? If not where do you go from here?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I would get your money back--an 80 percent leaves a 20 percent margin of error. Extended testing should have bee performed. Look on this thread and find one of the links to our website and have the QuckHIT home test which is only 210 dollars. IT is an extremely powerful test.


Question: My son is 19. His girlfriend is 18. They jsut had a baby 4/25. Her parents and grandparents are denying him any access to the girl or their child. They did not let him sign as the father and have told him to stay out of their lives. He is in love with the girl and the baby. What rights does he have? Should he try to establish paternity?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The mother and the father a adults--the grandparents have NO say in this--especially sense there are two set of grandparents, you know. Your son needs to obtain a court order for paternity testing. The maternal grandparents do not have the authority to deny him access to his child--only a court can do that.


Question: Can an error occur in a DNA locus paternity test? Mother was not tested, child and two alleged fathers were. 7 locus were tested. Samples were taken by friends and mailed to the lab. Could there be an error in exclusion in this type of method?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: From what you are describing, it sounds like the error,if there was one, would have occured at the collection level not at the lab.


Question: My last lmp was Sept.16th/2004, I had sex with an ex on Oct 7th, my due date is June 22/04, the ultrasound confims this to 1 day off. I did the non-invasive prenatal test with the alleged father and had nothing but trouble with the comapny. They said that it would take 14 business days and it took a month and a half(39 business days). They seemed unorganized and when I called to express my concerns I was dismissed. When I finally got the results over the phone I was told that the alleged father could not be excluded as the father. I was sent an e-mail and there was no percentage as to how accurate it is. My file is H5666-H5702-H5730. Does that have anything to do with the testing?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Wait until the baby is born and retest. Fetal Cell separation is not validated in this country and cannot be used in court and is a complete waste of your time and money---as evidenced by your complaint. Who knows what the file number means--it is nonsense to me.


Question: I got the results and it concluded that I am 99.99% the father. Now, I noticed they have the female down as "Caucasian" and me down as "Mixed". I am 75% Italian and 25% Swedish. SHE is 50% Italian and 50% Puerto Rican. Being that she said she was "caucasian", does this change the way the test is callibrated for different ethnicities? Just wondering. Should there be a re-test?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: No, the mother's race is not figured into the calculation--only the father's race is considered.


Question: My babies father denies that our son is biologically his, but I am 100% positive. He oddly enough refuses to take a DNA test. He now has nothing to do with me or our child and I'm forced to care for him on my own.---How if possible can I obtain a DNA test without his direct consent? Do I have to obtain a court order or are there a variety of ways I can handle this? Most importantly if he is forced to take the test I know he will refuse to pay for it, so will I be held accountable for that too?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I would file a complaint with the child support office enforcement office and name his as the father. He will then be given the opportunity to ask for a test--if he still refuses then they will court order him to comply and if he still refuses then he will be declared the father by default. I know this sounds harsh but if he is convinced that he is not the father then he should provide--it is that simple. Regarding the payment of the test cost--that will be entirely up to the child support office as how payment will be decided. Each agency has its own different policies.


Question: I want to know which testing is more reliable swab or blood. I have legal guardian of my grandchild her mother left her with her father 16 months ago. We had a swab test which was out of state that said he was most likely not the father will a blood test be advised. Thank You.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: This question drives me nuts because the whole swab vs blood thing came about as simply bad information spread by labs who, at the time, were unable to make the swab technology work for them. Nowadays, EVERYBODY does swabs. IT IS NO DIFFERENT THEN BLOOD so testing with blood is a complete waste of time. HOWEVER, I would retest if an AABB lab was not used (like Fairfax for example)--AABB labs are required to run exclusions at LEAST twice before releasing the results. Hope this helps.


Question: I have been living with my boyfriend for two and a half years and we have had unprotected sex plenty of times. I am not on any birth control and I have never gotten pregnant. We had split up for about 3 weeks and he had sex with another girl, she claims she got pregnant. She had the baby in June of last year and the baby was about 3 months early. What is the chance of him being the father and when would she have conceived? She was also at the time living with another man and sleeping with another man plus slept with my boyfriend once.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Still a 50/50 chance until he has the test. I might want to comment that maybe you and him should consider seeing a doctor and checking to see if you can conceive or if he has a low or null sperm count. After you folks talk to the doctor--I would then insist on a paternity test to get this resolved.


Question: My husband had sex one time with an ex around December 26-December 31. We have a child together and are trying to work through his adultery. She called 3 weeks ago and said she is pregnant, her due date is the end of August/first of September. Our son was pre-mature and had several health issues. My husband has no medical background due to adoption. We have asked her to check with her doctor for testing that would offer health and paternity results and also allow us to contact our medical insurance for the unborn (twins). She was to call us back two weeks ago with the best recommendation for the safety of the babies. We haven't heard from her. What rights does the alleged father have? And with this estimated due date, is it really possible he is the father? There is also the issue of my health, I am a diabetic and not doing well trying to deal with all this. My doctor just did an EKG and my blood sugars are very uncontrolled since this has been brought to our attention.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: This is a very interesting topic. First, based on the information that you have provided, I cannot make an estimate of the conception date without the due date of the child. I am curious as to why she has not called you back. Your husband, at this time, really does not have any rights until the child is born and THEN the first order of business is to have the paternity test which we would be happy to provide. DO NOT sign anything until you have that test--this is one right that he does have and MUST excercise. Regarding Diabetes, I hope that you have a diabetic team consisting of your Doctor, a nurse (the doctor's), a podiatrist for your feet, a heart specialist, and a dietitican/diabetic educator. Stress does raise sugar levels severely in diabetics so you have to step up your excercise program(UNDER YOUR DOCTOR'S ADVISEMENT) and review your current diet with your educator. If you are not walking regulary you may want to start doing that again (again check with your doctor first). By the way, I am NOT a medical doctor but am VERY close to this subject as this disease does run in my family so I deal with it every day. Talk to your doctor about stress management courses and maybe talking to a counselor. You're having to deal with the issue of your husband's adultery and with your health burden. Please talk to your doctor and feel free to show him my note to you. Good luck.


Question: If two male sibbling (same Parents) are unknowingly intimate with the same female and she conceives, can the true father of the child be determine?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Absolutely!


Question: 1. in paternity testing, how many different loci are necessary? 2. which kind of certificates are required for a lab to do paternity test? AABB ? others?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: 1. How many loci--I am not being flippant here but really you only need enough loci to EITHER get you two exclusions or a 99.9 percent or better if he is the father. Labs who boast about how many loci they use are using a common sales tool: overkill is better--the idea is capitalize on your fear that not enough testing was performed. Fairfax Identity Laboratories prefers NOT to feed off of a client's fears. 2. I cannot speak for other labs but the most accepted certification is that of the AABB (American Association of Bloodbanks). Why have this certification--well think about walking into a restruant with your family and you sit down to a nice meal--you look up and there is that big "C" rating in front of you--no you KNOW that the rating should be A so you also Know that you are NOT going to eat there. Well that is what the AABB is--a big restruant sticker--having the AABB certification says that the lab CARES enought to maintain the highest quality controls available and that they make their laboratories open to onsite inspections by the AABB. I have seen labs on the internet who do not carry that certification and they will claim that it is not needed--they are wrong--aak the State Department, Immigration and Naturalization and the US court system and they will all disagree. It is important. Here are our certifications. We are certified by the AABB, By CLIA (lab certification-federal), the City and State of New York, and are certified as a CODIS laboratory criminal DNA Databasing. With these certifications, you can be assured that Fairfax Identity Laboratories is accepted on all levels from Local to state to federal in ALL of the United States and abroad.


Question: I am 6 weeks pregnant and I'm trying to determine who the father of my child could be. I had unprotected sex with someone on the 6th of November 2003 and on the 20th of November 2003. Who would my baby more likely be for. My due date is August 13, 2004. Is it possible I could have had sex with someone else after the 20th or before the 20th for my child to be for them? could you please tell me which days could I have had sex on for it to match up with my due date? The first day of my last period was November 3, 2003. Please help me, I'm trying to figure it out so that I won't have to get a blood test done. If I had an idea of the dates that would be more accurate of me getting pregnant then I would know.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It could be either--they BOTH fall into the conception period. Unfortunately, I cannot pinpoint precisely the days that you had sex and that the baby would have been conceived. You can get an inexpensive paternity test after the baby is born--check out the link two quesitons up.


Question: My boyfriend is going through a situation were he signed the birth certificate of his ex girlfriend's daughter. He is now obligated to pay child support and find out that the child may or may not be his. We cannot afford a paternity test straight out, and we were wondering if there is a way to prove before his court date that the child is not his or not. We need finacial help in West Virginia.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: unfortunately, I do not know of anyone who will give away a free test--you should look at the previous question where we have a link provided to access the paternity solutions at our website. A few are inexpensive and thus affordable.


Question: Hi. I was needing to know if Tenncare paid for paternity tests. See my babies father is wanting a paternity tests but he is wanting me to have tenncare pay for it. I think he should pay for it, i know who the father is just because he doesnt want t acknowledge it is not my fault. Also, we had started dating while i was going through my divorce and my divorce still is not final and it is almost time for the baby to be born and he is mad that i will have to give his child my ex husbands last name if it is born before my divorce is final and i get my maiden name back.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: He needs to pay for the paternity test. Do NOT look for TennCare to cover it. It is not a medically necessary test. You should consider one of our QuickHIT home paternity solutions that you can download at Go to Paternity Solutions The cost is affordable at only 210 dollars.


Question: I am currently pregnant. My last period started on September 19, 2003. My due date is June 25, 2004. I am married and we were trying to get pregnant. I got drunk and had a one night stand on October 1, 2003 and the only method of birth control we used was the pull-out method. What are the chances that the one night stand is the father and not my husband? What test can be done to tell before the baby is born?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I am assuming that you were still having sex at that time with your husband when I post his answer. Because the time that you were with the man falls into the period when conception could have happened, the chances of THAT man being the father is 50 percent. You do prenatal testing under the supervision of your physician between the 10 and the 20th week of pregnancy. CVS is performed between the 10th and the 13th week and amnio fluid collection is performed fromt he 14th to the 20th week.


Question: divored in 1998 , agreed on joint custody with placement with mom. I paid child support until Nov,2002. we revised the agreement in court and the placemnt was granted to me. she move out of the state and never paid child support. A DNA test now proved I am not the biodad. I can give up my right and remove any obligation toward him he is 12 yrs old now. can I go back and ask for the $20, 000 chiuld support that I paid. is this a paternity fraud case, will she go to jail?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I doubt you will be able to collect the money--you will need an attorney to process the case. Fraud is hard to determine so again ask your attorney.


Question: I was born in the 60, in Virginia to an unwed mother. They did not allow the fathers name to be put on my birth certficate. My Dad died a few years ago, and he has always publicly acknowledge that I am his child. What is the process of getting his name put on my birth certificate. He was seperated from his wife at the time of my birth. He had children in within his marriage, however he questioned his paternity about some of the kids. After his divorce he had more kids, but his name is not on their birth certificate either but he did publicly claim them as his kids also and we all knew we were sisters and brother, (without DNA we look and act like him, there is no question in our minds) The siblings from the marriage are not willing to take the DNA test. We just want our birth certificates to be complete.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Your problem is the proof. He claimed that you were his children but he did not sign the birth certificate--the first thing that I would do is to contact the bureau of vital statistics in Richmond who are the keepers of the birth record and see if there is anything that you can do. I suspect that they are going to need more tangible proof then what you currently have and so a dna test may be your only way of proving your point. If a deceased sample is inovolved then you definitely want to consider using our services. Once you have proven your paternity then your will have to go to court to have the doucment altered.


Question: I have a situation which involves me and two brothers. I had found out that my brothers where having sex with the same girl I was. I had stopped seeing her the 1st of Jan. one year. I didn't see her for about two and a half years. Then one day in Oct. I saw her with a baby, she said it was mine. But one thing puzzled me she had him that Feb. right after I saw her, she didn,t even look pregnant. I'm not for sure she could of had him early. He lives with the grandmother and she wanted child support, so her daughter told her I was the father. She didn't mention sleeping with my brothers too. I was the only one the state order to take a Paternity Test. Here I was shocked, young, and stupid. Everything took me by surprise. Anyway I was wondering I one of my siblings DNA test be higher then mine. The summary of findings: is not excluded as the biological father. Combined paternity index=1660 Probability of paternity=99.94% (50% prior probability) Test that where done DNA Probes (bp) pYNH24/D2S44 mothe > r 1 >
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It is actually possible but you are going to have to be insistent that they submit to a test. It is only fair, after all. Let me say this--it is unlikely that the others will also be found to be the father but it has happened albeit on a rare occasion. Try to get them to cooperate and if not then you will need to engage an attorney and tell him your story. If he cannot help you get a second opinion.


Question: Can an alledged father request a cord blood paternity test at birth?? All the info I have read says the mother can request the test kit but never says the father can request it...I just want to know paternity results as soon as possible. Thanks
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I think that cord blood collect is an invasion to what is supposed to be an intimate moment. It is expensive--you have to involve doctors and hospital administration not to mention their risk management team. Can the father request it without your consent--NO. He wouldn't be able to get a court order at this time either. If you want to know about the paternity of the child--wait until you get home, download one of our QuickHIT home test and only pay 210 dollars when you send in the samples--you will get your results back in 5-7 business days. It is private and is every bit as accurate as our 480 dollar court admissible version.


Question: I had my son on March 28 I was soppose to have him on the 26 .. The first date of my last menstrual period was on the second of july .. I made a mistake and cheated on my ex boyfriend once with a man who is 30 and said he couldnt have no kids on July 10th with out a condom ..My ex boyfriend and my son took one of those home kit paternity test when he came down here.. it was a saliva one but the thing was he said i didnt have to take it so it was just him and my child.. and from what I have heard its soposse to be the mother the alleged father and the child..well he got the results and I really dont understand it and trust it this is what it says.System Child Alleged Father Paternityindex > D321358 15,16 15,16 1.99 > vWA 17,18 15,17 .92 > D2s1338 17 21,22 0.00 exclusion > D8S1179 12 11,15 0.00 EXCLUSION > D21S11 30,33.2 30 1.92 > D18S51 14,16 15,16 1.34 > D19S433 13,15.2 11,13 0.96 FGA 21,25 21,24 1.42 > D16539 9,14 11, 12 0.00EXCLUSION > > They also messed up on the Alleged Fathers Race he is Latin and they put Cacusian and didnt even put a race for my son .. I have also heard that when the mother does not do the test there is a possibility that she might have the other genes and cover for those exclusions .. what do you think is it possible?? please help .. thank you
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Not having the mother tested may lead to a false INCLUSION on VERY rare occasions, but a man's biological child will share markers with him whether the mother is tested or not. Exclusionary results will not change to inclusions if the mother is tested. Also, the race of the tested man is irrelevant when the test excludes him. The race of the child is never used in any event.


Question: Can the non-custodial parent in Texas terminate his rights because he does not want to pay over due child support? I thought parental rights could only be terminated if it was agreed upon and the child was being adopted by mom's husband other than that it is not possible??? Or is he just bluffing he states that he terminated his rights to his other children by getting a family layer. I hope someone can help!
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You should probably check with the Texas Attorney General's office regarding this issue. An attorney cannot terminate a man's parental rights--only a court of law can do that and that means a judge. Termination can happen in the case of an adoption or if the court deems a parent to be unfit. Generally, proof of paternity is required before such a step is taken.


Question: MY HUSBAND IS THE FATHER OF 3 CHILDREN FROM A PREVIOUS MARRIAGE, AGES 18, 16, 14. HE HAD PREVIOUSLY HAD A PATERNITY TEST ON HIS SON PRIOR TO THEIR MARRIAGE BUT NEVER ON THE GIRLS (BECAUSE THEY WERE MARRIED)...HE SIGNED THEIR BIRTH CERTIFICATES ETC. NOW HE IS QUESTIONING HIS YOUNGEST DAUGHTERS PATERNITY BECAUSE THEY WERE ON/OFF AGAIN, HE WAS OUT OF TOWN ALOT AND SHE HAD CHEATED BEFORE. WHAT ARE THE GUIDELINES FOR PROVING PATERNITY...WE ARE IN OHIO. BASICALLY I WANT TO KNOW BECAUSE THEY WERE MARRIED AND HE SIGNED THE B.C. IS IT UP TO THE JUDGE TO MAKE HIM PAY CHILD SUPPORT EVEN IF HE IS NOT LEGALLY THE FATHER? DO WE NEED PERMISSION FROM THE MOTHER TO GET THE TEST DONE? IS IT BEST TO GO THROUGH THE COURT AND AHVE A TEST ORDERED? CAN THE JUDGE DENY THE REQUEST? THANK YOU,
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: For the legal aspects of your question go to google and do a search for OCSE State Profiles. When you get there, you will see a map, click on it and then click on paternityh. You should find this most helpful. Child Support is usually court ordered through a child suport collection agency. A Judge can order a paternity test and YES a judge can deny the request for the test. If his name is on the birth certificate most labs will do the test for him. I hope this helps.


Question: ok my ex had hazel eyes and i have blue eyes. > i have dirty to brownish hair, blonde at birth. > and she has blonde hair.my daughter has blonde hair very dark brown eyes kinda choc color. > every body says shes not mine because of eye color. my ex brother in law married her sister and she also has hazel eyes. he has blue eyes and both his kids have blue eyes.just want to know is it possible for my girl to have brown eyes over dominant blue? > thanks
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Eye color is due to multiple genes. In the simplest case, brown is dominant over blue, but the exact color can depend on the mixture of several characteristics. Intelligent people who are aware of these facts would never use eye color alone as any kind of indicator of parentage


Question: Father 0+, mother A- and child AB+. This is not a case of adultry. We are very concerned. Obviously a paternity/maternity test is required. Where can I read more about ABO mutation?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: ABO mutation isn't widely published on. You could start with a good current textbook on human genetics, with special attention to the chapters on blood groupings. You could also search the web on "ABO blood types."


Question: I have a daughter who is 25 and about a year and a half ago she sent me a letter telling me she figured out I lied to her about her biological father. This aquaintence from 25 years ago has told my daughter that she believes that her husband at the time, is my daughter's father. I have no idea what or where she received her information from, but the fact of the matter is I never had intercourse with her husband. I recently received information that my daughter was going to see her doctor and get her blood type done to see if that person in question is her father. That person had deceased 24 years ago, but the wife who has accused me of this I'm sure knew his blood type. I have o- blood type, my daughter is a+ because I had to haave the rogam shot after she was born. My qustion is will that determine that he could have been her father by an exact match? And if so what would be the percentage rate? I believe that a DNA test would give better results as he has two living daughters.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: First, what a hurtful thing for someone to tell you daugher. Since she is an adult, it escapes me as to what purpose this would serve except to drive a wedge between you and her. The blood typing is a waste of time. The woman could go to any place with a blood type on the web and choose the one that she knows matches. A sibling study between her and one of the daughters is more appropriate. If you want, I would be more then happy to speak to your daughter. Have her contact me through this forum and I will arrange to speak with her.


Question: I did a paternity test that was called a fetal cell id test. this is where they take blood from the mother, during the pregnancy, and separate the dna from the mother and unborn baby and then use a toothbrush of the alleged father to gain paternity results. Is this test legitimate or are the only test that are reliable are the amino and cvs please tell me.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The test is not valid in the United States. It is a waste of money if you plan on using this for court. Secondly, if you have more then one child then the test may not be accurate. In fairness to the ocmpany they do try to point this out to their clients but many people take this test because it is non-invasive. As far as I know the company does not try to mislead its clients. The company sells the product through an affiliate in the United States but the testing is performed in Canada. Fetal cell testing is the Holy Grail of paternity testing--the quest is still on --we are not quite there yet.


Question: I am currently in my 7th month of pregnany and the father of my baby and I split up 3 months ago. He currently lives and works in another state now and he is demanding that the baby have his name on the birth certificate not only as the father but also his last name which is different from mine. I feel adament about the last name of my child being the same as mine. Does he have a legal right to demand this or can I name my child the what I want? While I am not wanting to deny the fact that he is the father, he is wanting to take the child out of state for visitation when it is born. I fear that he would skip with the child. What can I do to protect my child and myself from this happening?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: This is only an observation mind you but it sounds like he does NOT want to be the father and he is trying to scare you. Let him demand all he wants. Also do NOT let him pressure you into taking a prenatal paternity test. Let him take one after the baby is born. Right now you are letting him control you. If you need help after the child is born consider filing for child support with your local child support agency and let them deal with him and then consult an attorney on what he can and cannot do.


Question: One week after I married my husband, we were approached by this girl at the mall who said he was the father of her 6 month old child. We tried to set up a paternity testing but she refused. Twelve months later we were sent a letter stating that my husband had to take a paternity test to establish paternity. Both he and his brother slept with this girl, however my husband was only tested. Is it possible that he is not the father and the test needs to be retaken with both him and his brother?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You never told me the outcome of the test but by your question I am assuming that he tested positive. It is unlikely the brother needs to be tested but many people cling to the notion that the presence of a brother will automatically overturn a result. It oculd happen but it is very unlikely. I would say do the test but only for your own peace of mind. Don't look for the answer you seek though--it is MOST LIKELY that the testing of the brother will serve to confirm your husband's test.


Question: What is the accuracy in determining Paternity with Blood Type testing V.S. DNA testing?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You are not being specific. Blood can be either DNA or HLA--swabs are dna only. DNA is more CONCLUSIVE then HLA. Both,however,can yield results in the 99 percentile.


Question: My husband is all the sudden a father of 2 14 year old girls from the same woman. They have no contact since all these years now she is demanding he is the father and she has 8 kids by 8 different guys. He has to take a paternity test. How long do the results take?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Generally, a paternity test only takes 5-7 days to process.


Question: I just had paternity done on a man and my child and the results came back that he was the father. My question is: If there are mutations present, how will it read on the PI? There are a couple of PIs that read as 0.69 and 0.93, are these considered mutations?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: PIs are much lower than that. For those particular systems in your case, you should see matches between the child and him. That wouldn't be true if there were mutations. The reason the numbers are less than one is because the characteristics that he and the child share are pretty common in the population as a whole.


Question: if a baby was born on Jan 10, 2003 could the conception be on March 6th or anywhere around there?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Actually, a January 10th date would put the conception somewhere within the first two weeks of April.


Question: My question is what is the earliest a woman can take a perterinty test? Can she take one while she still is pregnant?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Yes, she can--testing can be done as early as the 10th week.


Question: I want a paternity test done secretly (without my husbands knowledge), is that possible?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I suppose you could--we would not do it but there are plenty of people out there who are more then willing to put money over ethics. An AABB laboratory should never do this...period.


Question: I am in my mid 20's and have just now decided to contact my "fathers". The reason I say that is my mother was with 2 different men, a week apart. She was with the first man on the 10th day of her cycle - July 19th, and with the 2nd man on the 17th day of her cycle- July 26th. I was born April 3rd, supposedly 3 weeks early. Which has the most likelihood of being my father? We are currently seeking DNA testing.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Your problem is that pesky word "supposedly"--You see on my first calculation one could be the father and on the second one which was your three week early supposition the second many seems to be the likely candidate. You are still running at a 50 percent chance for either--you are very wise to seek dna testing. Because you are all adults you do not need to involve lawyers or the court system. If you all are voluntary consider using one of our QuickHIT home paternity tests which is a free download at our website and you pay when you send in the sample--the cost for one you and one father would be 210 dollars while the second father would bring the total to 280--dit is a very powerful but inexpensive test. You can get the test kit by going to divorcenet's own Paternitynet.com. Inside the test kit is my number which you cna use if you need help while doing the collection. Hope this helps.


Question: Message: this is probably the dumbest question ever, but a friend of mine was approached by a girl he was sleeping with and she said he could be the father of her baby he says the baby looks just like him but he was told that if you sleep with someone that is pregnant that the baby could come out looking like you. i have never heard this until the other day, the child was already concieved so how would that be possible for another mans sperm to interfere with the appearance of the unborn child. please help me prove him wrong
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: A child's characteristics are determined by the genes of the biological father together with those of the mother. The genetic makeup of a child is set when the sperm fertilizes the egg. Sleeping with a second man after the woman has already gotten pregnant by another man won't in any way lead to the child acquiring the second man's characteristics. Now, if your BROTHER sleeps with a woman, she gets pregnant by him, and then you sleep with her, then the child might look a bit like you because you and your brother (presumably) resemble each other. But if the two men aren't related? No.


Question: I was curious...I had been with the father of my baby exclusively--and then ended up pregnant. He is a veteran and says the military told him he oculd not have babies..well, he obviously can. How accurate is that? Have you ever heard of the military telling someone they couldn't have babies? And, I am moving to be closer to my family which will mean we will live in two different states...will he still be responsible for child support? What are the drawbacks or pluses for having him on my babies birth certificate?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I cannot discuss the drawback of the birth certificates because I am not an attorney. Regarding the military, WHO in the military told him this. Does he have name? IS there a medical record? Unless he can prove otherwise he will be responsible for child support if you name him as the father. IT is likely that a paternity test may be warranted.


Question: A man in the process of getting a divorce doesnt think the child is his, what does he have to do to get a paternity test to see if he is the biological father. In the state of Michigan he is the legal father because they were married when the child was born, but he wants a paternity test. Does she have to consent to it or can he have one done regardless?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Generally, a man can have a test with a lab without the mother if his name is on the child's birth certificate or he has signed some sort of indemnity agreement with the laboratory.


Question: My Fiance and I had a paternity test done on my son who is now 3 weeks old. I have some concerns about the accuracy of this test. Number one they tested on 10 systems and he matched on 2 of them how is this possible since it was proven he is not he father according to that test? Also there are some things that I wonder if they could affect the result such as the fact that he smoked a ciggarette right before the test and the baby drank an entire bottle literally right before the testing. Can these things affect the accuracy of the test? Please let me know asap.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: He has to match on ALL the systems to be the father. He can match on a few but if there are two or more that he does NOT match on then he is NOT the father. I don't think cigarettes will adversely effect the outcome of the test nor the bottle...If the samples were effected the lab most likely would have asked for a recollection. If the lab is aabb certified then they would rerun the father's sample before releasing the report just to verify the exclusions. HOWEVER, I always say that if you do not like the outcome of a test it is always a good idea to do a second confirmatory test.


Question: my daughters father is taking me to court for paternity but he has signed her birth certificate almost 2 years ago can he do this now or will the judge rule in my favor
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I would not even pretend to be able to second guess a judge. It will depend on how you present your case and how your state laws approach this subject.


Question: Hello i just had a baby and they say hi blood type is B+. I was wondering if i have ab- and my husband is ab+ we can have a b+ kid. his mom and a few people are throwing up that it aint his and well i was wondering if you can get b+ out of what we are.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The blod type can be A, B, AB, or O The Rh type can be either Rh- or Rh+ So a B+ is certainly possible. I will suggest to you that you and your husband obtain one of our QuickHit Paternity test--it is inexpensive and quick and you can download the paper for the test at the following link: QuickHit Paternity Testing Kit I hope this helps.


Question: How many Locus should be tested for an accurate result of paternity when the child and father are the only ones tested? The test was done in home with friends doing the cheek swab.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: A lot of companies sell you on the hype that the more loci that you purchase the better the test. To you I say "Caveat Emptor". The AABB requires testing that is 99 percent or better and if he is NOT the father then he must be excluded on at least two systems. Furthermore, in the event that the man is excluded then the lab must run the father's sample at least ONE more time BEFORE releasing the results. It is not how many loci you test it is whether the lab takes the time to excercise a stringent quality control.


Question: CAN A MAN WHO THINKS HE MAY BE THE FATHER OF MY BABY ORDER MYSELF AND THE BABY TO HAVE A TEST? I DO NOT WANT ANYONE TO BE TESTED
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: He cannot order you but it is possible that he could obtain an order for paternity testing and you would have to comply with the wishes of the court.


Question: I am AB+ and my wife is B-ve our son is O+ is it possible to have a child o+ since your chart says that it is not possible. Please help
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You have to give an A or a B, and any child of yours would have to express one of these markers, unless some sort of mutation occurred. A DNA best would be a better indicator of paternity.


Question: My ex-wife began having an affair that co-incides with the time she became pregnant. What test can be done to determine if I am the father or not? If I am the father, what steps should I take to gain custody of the child in the state of Arizona.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: First, we do not advise on law issue--you need an arizona attorney. You do a paternity test to determine if you are the father of a child--I am assuming that the child is already born since you do not indicate that in your question but just in case the child has not been born you can do the test through either CVS or Amniotic fluid collection. Your will need the mother's physician to collect the sample or someone that he refers.


Question: I am divorced and I have 2 children that I pay 25% of my income for child support. A different lady I dated in the past who said she was on the pill at the time said she is pregnant by me. I felt she lied to me and got pregnant on purpose. I told her I did not want any part of the child or her in my future. She said she is going to come after me for support. I am not sure it is mine, but if it is, what amount of additional child support am I responsible for? Another 17%? For a total of 42% of my income. I asked her to get an abortion, but she refused and I told her that she would have it alone then. She said she wanted nothing of me, but now says she wants support. I live in NY state.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If you do a search on Google you can find what are called child support calculators. They calculate the amount of support that you will have to pay in a particular state. I did a search and came up with several. Good luck.


Question: Mother is B+, Father is A+, can we have a child who is O+????
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: A, B, AB or O are the possible types that can be produced. The Rh can be positive or negative so the answer to your question is yes.


Question: Message: My husband was involved in an affair in which the woman stated that he got her pregnant. Supposedly, it was a tubal pregnancy and she claimed at first to have it aborted. A month later, she claimed that she never had the abortion, but that the fetus was moved to her uterus. We have done some research on this and have found no cases where this is possible. While she was seeing my husband, she was living with her husband, yet claims that she didn't have sex with him. Supposedly, she is 13 weeks pregnant, and is trying to persuade my husband into taking a paternity test. We were told that the test cannot be performed until the baby is born, if there even is a baby. Can she exlude her lawful husband from taking a DNA test, or will both men be required to take the test? For her to demand a paternity test, even though she tells my husband that his name will not be listed on the birth certificate, tells me that she's actually unsure of who the father really is. Should we just sit back and wait for the baby to be born, or seek an attorney now? Supposedly, the baby is due in October, according to this woman's claims. If she is married to the man that she claims is her husband, and still living with him, who has financial responsibility for the baby?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: This woman sounds like she is in complete control of the situation. I would get an attorney. Take the paternity test AFTER the child is born. The court won't recognize and invasive procedure anyway. Get the attorney right now because of the financial responsibility issue because I think her husband may be responsible. It is possible that her marriage is on the line and if she gets the results before the baby is born then it is conceivable that the two could divorce and then the child would be born outside the marriage which could end up making you financially liable. Talk to your attorney but I would definitely wait to get the test. By the way, if she lied about the abortion how do you know she is not lying about the birth certificate? For that reason alone you need to have sensible counseling from a family law attorney. One other thing, if this child is your husband's then find out from the attorney what your rights are.


Question: ATTENTION: THERE WAS A MISPOST IN THE PREVIOUS QUESTION--I AM REPOSTING THE QUESTION AND ANSWER WITH THE CORRECT CONCEPTION CALCULATION. SORRY FOR THE INCONVENIENCE. Me and my "son's father" (?) broke up and i got back with my ex. Me and ex were only together about 3 weeks (between July 15-Aug.5). Me and son's father was only together July 11-14 that month due to me visiting family out of town. I believe i was having my monthly right b/f i came home which was the 8 & 9 and it only lasted a couple days b/c i was having light periods b/c i had just gotten off b/control. Well, I had my son on April 15,2000. That was his exact due date from the very start. My son's dad and I agreed to paternity test, well he has had two appointments set and missed both. Me and my son have taken ours.It is about to drive me crazy.Which father would "YOU" THINK it would be? (IF YOU HAD TO GUESS)? And is there any way to get him to take the test if he is not willing or won't show up?The computer says my conception date is July 23 but the dr. told me July 30 (i know it's a give or take a week)
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: on't ask me to guess which is the father because I will not--it is an excercise that is cavalier at best. The child would have been conceived somewhere between July 8th and July 23rd. SORRY FOR THE OCNFUSION.


Question: Me and my "son's father" (?) broke up and i got back with my ex. Me and ex were only together about 3 weeks (between July 15-Aug.5). Me and son's father was only together July 11-14 that month due to me visiting family out of town. I believe i was having my monthly right b/f i came home which was the 8 & 9 and it only lasted a couple days b/c i was having light periods b/c i had just gotten off b/control. Well, I had my son on April 15,2000. That was his exact due date from the very start. My son's dad and I agreed to paternity test, well he has had two appointments set and missed both. Me and my son have taken ours.It is about to drive me crazy.Which father would "YOU" THINK it would be? (IF YOU HAD TO GUESS)? And is there any way to get him to take the test if he is not willing or won't show up?The computer says my conception date is July 23 but the dr. told me July 30 (i know it's a give or take a week)
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Don't ask me to guess which is the father because I will not--it is an excercise that is cavalier at best. The child would have been conceived somewhere between November 7th and November 21st.


Question: is there anyway to do a prenatal paternity test like cvs or amnio an then send in a sample of something like a toothbrush or something from the father (he is in the military Iraq). Because I want to make sure he is the father before the baby is born not for legal issues or anything- just for my own piece of mind
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Actually the simplest and least expensive way to test your loved ones in Iraq is for them to go to the internet and download one of our free dna test kits call QuickHit. They collect the samples and just mail it in. You can get the test kit to look at yourself at QuickHit Patenity Solutions You can call 800-482-3025 if you have any questions. The toothbrush would be very expensive to do--the total cost of the quckhit test will be around 490 since you wish to have a prenatal test.


Question: I am from Mississippi and my boyfriend just received a letter stating that he owes $2600 in child support for 2 kids that he never knew he had. He took a paternity test and thought he was not the father. They are saying that they sent the letters saying he is the father. He never received those letters. He has not been in contact with the children's mother in about 10 years and now all of a sudden this comes up. I dont understand. He did not sign the birth certificate and never received positive results. The question I want to ask is if his name is not on the birth certificate, does he have to pay child support? and why are they just now contacting him after all this time and his momma has been at the same address forever. Should whosever name is on the certificate have to pay?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If he never knew he had children then why did he take a paternity test and have you seen the results of this test? IF he was NOT EXCLUDED then that means that he IS the father. This is one of the most common mistake made when reading a report summary. Also, if he ignored them then they can declare him father by default without so MY advice to you is to get him to an attorney quick and sort this out. The birth certificate does not dictate who pays child support--only a court does that. Regarding the letters he did not receive--it is his word against theirs.


Question: I had a baby several years ago and my then boyfriend refused to acknowledge the baby saying that he never wanted kids. His name is not on my son's birth certificate. Recently, I married and my husband wants to adopt my son. We were wondering if we could just add my husband's name to my son's birth certificate. Is that legal or would a paternity test need to be done?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The boyfriend needs to be tested and then will need to waive his paternity so that that he can waive his rights and the husband can adopt--otherwise, the ex boyfriend can continue to insert himself into your life at anytime. You will need to do this through an attorney.


Question: My husband had been a father to his daughter for 13 years when he recieved a paternity suit paper from a man his ex was now married to suing him for paternity of the daughter. He had a dna test done and it came back 97 % sure that maqn was the father and not her dad that raised her. The dad that raised her was married to her mom at the time of the childs birth, listed on the biorth certificate as the childs father nad ordered to pay support on the child, and listed in the divorce asthe father. Now they have taken away his last name and put the bio - dad's on there and taken the dad that raised her's name off the birth certificate and put the natural father on there. My husband still has visitation rights and we have her in contempt of court right now for the 3rd time due to her refusing us our court ordered visitation, and we haven't seen the child since march of 2003 and the courts have held her in contempt but they have never done anything to her for it and we still aren't seeing our daughte r.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The mother seems to have gotten her cake and gets to eat it too--at the child's emotional expense. If you haven't done this already, I would seek a opinions from more then one attorney--this sounds extremely screwy. I cannot advise you on legal issues. Good luck though.


Question: My fiance took a paternity test along with 3 other guys to determine the father about 4 years ago. He was proven to be the paternal father, but in his ethinic backround they have him as a white male, when he is italian and indian. His and the paternal mother whose a white female DNA are almost exactly alike which confuses me. the child looks nothing like him should we prompt for another test and which test are the most accurate?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Probably the faher incorrectly marked the form when he was asked for his race. Don't need to re-do the test--just have the lab recalculate the test using the correct setup for the race. Italian IS considered Caucasian (right)--you don't indicate what you mean by indian but if you are referring to native american then they can recalculate a seoond report to reflect that ethnic background--should be no problem.


Question: My blood group is B+. My wife's blood group is O+. > My female child blood group is B-. > Is it possible, though both of us are +ve but our child has -ve group? > My baby had ceaserian birth but the doctor didn't gave any vaccine within 48 hours. > What will be the fate of our next issue? > > Please give your opinion.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I think you're asking about the Rh blood group. Since Rh+ is dominant over Rh-, two people who test as Rh- may in fact carry the Rh- gene and product an Rh- child (the child would inherit the Rh- gene from each parent). The "vaccine" you refer to is only given when the mother is Rh- and is or may be carrying an Rh+ child. Rh- is exactly what the term implies: ABSENCE of the Rh factor, and it's the factor's PRESENCE that causes potential problems with the subsequent children. If the child is Rh+ and the mother is Rh-, her body makes antibodies to the Rh+ material. Those antibodies persist in mom's immune system and will attack the blood cells of any subsequent Rh+ child that she may conceive. In your case, there will be no problem of this sort, no matter what the Rh type of your children.


Question: I have lived with this guy for 2 years .we had a baby and he refused to sign birth certificate . after his birth.my child has his last name but my boyfriend is not listed as his father. i want to seperate from him but he is threating to file for legal custody. can my child be forced to take a DNA test without my consent?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If he is refusing to sign the birth certificate then how does he expect to have custody of the child--by not signing he is, in a nutshell, leaving the paternity issue in doubt and the courts are smart enough to see this. You could have named the child after Bill Clinton but that would not give Mr. Clinton any custodial rights nor even come close to implying that he is the father. If he gets a court order for paternity testing then you will have to comply to wishes of the court or face contempt. In order for the court to take your child away they would have to have proofe that you are an extremely unfit mother.


Question: Ok I am 17 and about 14 weeks preg. My boyfriend is 15 and his mom dont think its his kid even though ive never been with anyone else. If we get a paternity test does she have to pay for it or do I? Also I want to know if there is any dna test i can do while im pregnant and about how much it is and how it is done or where i can get info on it?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: First things first. You are seventeen, you are a minor--so is your boyfriend so BOTH of you have to abide by what your parents decide. It is up to the parents to decide between themselves who will pay for the test. Yes, you can do a test while you are pregnant--I suggest that you search this board--this subject has been covered in great detail.


Question: IS IT POSSIBLE FOR TWO CHILDREN WHO HAVE TWO DIFFERENT BLOOD TYPES TO HAVE THE SAME FATHER.ONE HAS AB, ONE HAS A
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I will say yes it is since you have failed to provide the mother and the father's type.


Question: If all three of us live in CA, would they send our blood to Greensboro, NC for paternity evaluation. Why? Is this legal? How can I tell if the report is a fake?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It would not be illegal but it also would not be terribly bright nowadays since there ARE NO paternity labs currently in operation in Greensboro, NC. If you had a test over seven years ago, then you would have used the now defunct GDI which was reputed to be one of the best labs in the country despite the fact that it was not in California. I can assure you that California did not and DOES NOT have any lab that could come even close to recreating the quality and professionalism of that lab. It was the lab that others modeled themselves upon. How do you tell if a report is fake--you need to track down the lab and show them the report. Other ways would be to look at the report itself--most people who fake reports work from the original report which is what they want to hide. Almost always, they will leave remnants of the original report intact and that is a dead give away. I will not go into detail here because I do not want this to become a forum on creating dummy reports.


Question: Is there any way to control the outcome of a swab paternity test? What I am saying, if it is possible for someone to be the father, can that person do something to make sure the results show that he is "not" the father?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: This is not a question that you should ask a laboratory because we would not tell you how to interfere in the outcome of a test. No ethical laboratory would.


Question: My boyfriend is almost 18 well he will be within the next 5 months. I just turned 15. We have been dating for 2 years and I love him more than life itself and I know he feels the same. I messed up a week or 2 ago and had sex with some guy..Me and my boyfriend have been trying to have a baby sounds weird but we have.. However the day I had sex with the other guy I was ovulating but we used a condom. My boyfriend found out I told him and he cried and the next 3 days we continued to try and have a baby. Im afraid if I end up pregnant which I should know within the next week. Maybe its not my boyfriends. Even though me and the other guy used a condom and me and my boyfriend didnt theres always the possibility. Can you take a DNA test while pregnant? Because if its not my boyfriends I can't have it.. Also do you know anything about laws? Will my boyfriend go to jail for statutory rape in Georgia even though its consentual?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: First, let me address statuary rape--you and he consented to have sex but you BOTH are minors--consent belongs to your guardian which I assume is your parents. We do not offer legal advise on this board. Regarding a paternity test, check all through this board but you can do a test while pregnant--usually at 10 weeks-- but, again, you will need YOUR parents consent and the consent of a doctor to perform the procedure. If you feel that abortion may be an issue--again, you need the consent of your parents or guardian. Hope this helps.


Question: My son received child support papers from a woman that claims he is the child's father. He can't even be sure of this woman's identity. He is in the military and is having difficulty getting legal advice. He had no idea there was a child, who may already be about a year old. What are his options? He was in Iraq from January 2003 till the end of May. He has been in a different state since January 2004. He had no contact with this woman after returning from Iraq.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Military lawyers will not go out of there way to help your son except to advise him to "get it taken care of as soon as possible".If your son is still in the military he should inquire with the Judge Advocate's office about filing for a continuance under the Soldiers and Sailors Civil Relief. A judge will have to approve it but basically it should give him 90 days to get things in order. If that happends, then he will need to obtain a civillian order. As far as the support papers go, he should check those papers to see if he has the right to request a paternity test--be careful about signing until you have read everything completely--again consult a civillian attorney at the quickest possible moment.


Question: Suppose a woman finds that she is pregnant, in the state of Georgia. Then she contacts the ONLY possible man who could be the father, concerning financial help from him in order to have an abortion, just to have im curse her and call her a lier and to never contact him again. Is there any way to have a paternity test that would force him, by state laws, to assist her financially to have this abortion if they both agree upon it?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: No, you will find that it is extremely difficult to get an order for a prenatal test because it is an invasive procedure. Lastly, don't expect the state of Georgia to help you with this financially.


Question: I recently found out that I am 9 months pregnant. I do not get 'regualar' periods and my last one was in November. I told the doctor this and she gave me a sonogram that said the baby was 7 weeks. Does that mean the the Baby is 7 weeks old? Or am I in week 7 of my pregnancy? The due date is November 11. When could conception have occured and is there a better way to pin down the conception date?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You should probably ask her about what the 7 weeks mean. I am not clear on what she is saying. If you are 9 months pregnant then you are 36 weeks along in your pregnancy. Conception based on the due date you gave would be somewhere between February 4th and February 17th.


Question: is there a way to tell if my unborn child will be black or white ? or will i have to wait until she is born?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You will have to wait until the child has been born.


Question: Is there any way to control the outcome of a swab paternity test? What I am saying, if it is possible for someone to be the father, can that person do something to make sure the results show that he is "not" the father?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Yes, but it is unlikely it would happen at the lab level--if something happened it would have most likely happened at the collecion point.


Question: I just recently found out that my husband has been having an affair for some time now. I discovered their "love nest" . He has denied the whole thing, He tells me she is buying this house w/ her boyfriend, but I have facts that prove this to be incorrect. She moved stuff out but later moved it back in to appear being used. Now I am pretty sure this women has a baby that may be about 7 to 8 months. There are items in the house used by the baby. I have talked w/ a lawyer but says this would take a long time. I collected some items such as a baby cup and dropper from some medicine the child has taken. I have my husbands tooth brush and hair from a brush. Is there any way to do a private DNA from these items. I don't plan on doing anything legally, but am desparate to know this information. Can a DNA be done legally from these items and where? Thanks for your information.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Actually it is possbile but expensive--look to spend around a thousand dollars or better. You can contact us here at Fairfax if you want to proceed but let me caution you that there is the possibility that dna will not be able to be extracted from those objects so think long and hard before submitting those samples.


Question: Message: Around April of 2003, the mother of my two sons sister called to tell me that she had a 3-month old son by my children's father. Upon speaking to him it was said that she came up to our city in April of 2002, they had unprotected sex and she left the next day. One to two weeks later she called and informed him that she was pregnant. She claims that he came to Georgia with her and that is when the baby was conceived. There was already a paternity test performed on her first child and it is his daughter and the new baby looks just like her. The little boy was born January 9, 2003. Who is telling truth about the conception date? He is trying to reconcile that is why I am concerned.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The conception should have been between March 31st and April 15th. Hope this helps.


Question: my best friend just got a new boyfriend and she already has two other kids from her current boyfriend from whom is involved in their lives. OK the question she had sex with a different guy but with the one she is with now and she thinks she is pregnant. her boyfriend said he would sign the birth certificate even though the child is not his. is this legal or not legal?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Pardon my bluntness but her boyfriend probably does not possess the brightest light bulb in the factory but it is not illegal. He can sign if he wants. The government loves people who step up to the plate and are willing to sign their lives away. This is no longer the age of "do the right thing and make her a proper woman (as in the Rifleman or Bonanza--it is more an age of cause and effect. I applaud his noble gesture but I think you need to point out to him that there are consquences such as child support issues and that it would be BETTER to have a paternity test BEFORE signing the paperwork. If the new boyfriend and the mother do not work out then things will get very complicated.


Question: Can I establish if the paternity of a child that was born to a woman that was legally married but not living with her husband, nor has been livng with him since. The mother claimed that she registered the child as her husbands for INS purposes. The child acknowkedges me as her father but is very confused because she has a different name. From a legal standpoint I would like to know what I can or cannot do to give this child equal benificiary status as my other child?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: if she said that her husband is the father and INS accepted it without a test which is a rarity these days(INS is now requiring more and more dna testing) then she may have committed a fraudulent act especially if she KNEW you were the father. I cannot advise, as I have said many times on this board, you on legal matters. I suggest you seek the help of a family law attorney who also specializes in immigrations issues and see where you stand.


Question: Iam married, however 11 months ago had a one night stand a baby was conceived from this, my husband & I are working through this and we already have 5 children together, now within this past month the biological father decides he wants rights to the baby (right after he was born a internet paternity test was ordered and it came back he was the father) does he have any rights to the baby and does this internet paternity tests hold up in court?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I have no idea. Your information is sketchy at best. If he had a court admissible test (his name would have had to have been on the birth certificate and you would have had to have given your permission) and a chain of custody would have been performed then MAYBE. If a home test was performed then NO. Regarding the first part of my answer: paternity laboratories CANNOT promise or guarantee court admissibility--BEWARE OF SUCH CLAIMS--ONLY A JUDGE can determine if a report will be allowed into court as evidence. You should do a google search for OCSE state profiles and check and see what are the parameters for presumed parentage are in your state. It could be that if the child has been born into the marriage then your husband could be the LEGAL father. Once last thing: I am curious as to how the alleged biological father gained access to the child in the first place in order to do the test.


Question: My x is pregnant now I'm not sure what to think. She claims her last Period was on Dec.23rd 2004. we had intercours on these dates, Dec 25th, January 1st and January 7th was our last time then we split up . My only concern is that I feel that her due date has me confused about her conception day. Please help !!
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: There is not any help that I can give you based on the conception information that you have provided except to say that if December 23rd is truly her LMP then you could very well be the father based on the dates that you have given me provided that she slept with no one else during that period. Your cause for suspicion leaves me curious as to whether you think there was another person. I hope this helps.


Question: i have a boyfriend and slept with my ex. we did not use a condom but i am on the pill. my period is now late, but i haven't taken a pregnancy test yet. if i am pregnant, would it be possible to get a test done to see if my ex is the fater or not? that way i don't have to tell my boyfriend about the affair if i don't have to. if there is a test, how would i go about it? what would it cost? and how far along would i have to be to take it? i live in BC, Canada.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: First, you should take the pregnancy test before worrying about the consequesces. You can have a prenatal test done at 10 weeks. You can find plenty of information on the subject by searching the threads in this forum. By the way we have a Fairfax Affiliate in BC.


Question: I know that my blood type is O-, and I just found out my sisters is AB. Does that mean we don't have the same father?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: IMPORTANT! UPDATE TO PREVIOUS QUESTION--PLEASE USE THE LINK BELOW TO OBTAIN THE SIBLING TEST. THANKS. determining sibling relationships with blood types is almost impossible to do. Your best solution would be to use of our QuickHit Sibling Edition tests which you can download at QuickHit Sibling Edition


Question: I know that my blood type is O-, and I just found out my sisters is AB. Does that mean we don't have the same father?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: determining sibling relationships with blood types is almost impossible to do. Your best solution would be to use of our QuickHit Sibling Edition tests which you can download at QuickHit Sibling Edition


Question: We are in contact with a birth mother and considering adopting the child when born. She says she was date raped at a party in January and the father could be either hispanic or black. Is there any type of test that could be performed during pregnancy that could determine the race of the father?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: None that I know of.


Question: MY FIANCE'S EX-GIRLFRIEND WAS SLEEPING WITH ANOTHER MAN AT THE TIME SHE GOT PREGNANT. SHE TOLD MY FIANCE THAT HE WASN'T THE FATHER AND THE OTHER MAN PUT HIS NAME ON THE BIRTH CERTIFICATE. MY FIANCE RECENTLY SAW THE LITTLE BOY AND HE LOOKS JUST LIKE HIM, NOW HE WANTS A PATERNITY TEST BUT THE GIRL WON'T GIVE HIM ONE. CAN HE TAKE HER TO COURT AND ORDER HER TO GIVE HIM A PATERNITY TEST?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: it is going to depend on what state that you are in. Search this forum for links that I have posted to OCSE State Profiles. It will take you to a government site that list rules for each of the states regarding OCSE issues. It will help you.


Question: i had sex with my bf on march 4th and then another guy on march 28 .. the 1st due date they gave me was december 27 then another one they gave me was december 21 but i had her on december 16 .. which one would be the father??
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It is likely that conception happened between March 8th and March 22nd.


Question: My husabnd & i split in feb 2001,he starting seeing someone in march.she had the baby 11-15-2001.now she said the baby is his because the man she thought is not.So if the baby was born 11-15-2001 can you tell me the conception date and if my husband can be the father? thanks
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The conception would have happened between February 8th through February 20th


Question: Their is a possibility that one of two men is the father of my son. I am A+ my boyfriend at the time is A- and the man that i had the affair with is O+. My son is O+. Does the fact that my son is the same blood type as the man i had the affair with hold any weight in determining who the father is.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Either the father OR the mother can determine the type of the child--the ABO system is a very weak system for determining paternity. You might want to consider using one of our inexpensive home kits which you may obtain at Fairfax Identity Laboratories


Question: If paternal parents are first cousins and they have two sons, genetically how different would they be? If a woman produced a child by sleeping with both of them would a paternity test be able to tell you who the father is?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: While there may be some genetic similarities between cousins, on the average about 7/8 of their genetic makeup is different. If two men named in a paternity action were cousins, standard paternity testing should be more than sufficient to distinguish between them.


Question: I am inquiring info re: the above subject for a friend. My friends son committed suicide in 1981 at the age of 20. Months prior to her sons death, his pregnant girlfriend claimed that the child to be born was her sons. Is it possible that my friend can prove or disprove paternity via DNA testing from other family members? Note: my friends son was cremated thus DNA via exhumation is out of the question.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Absolutely--you can use BOTH grandparents or you can use a combination of sibling and a grandparent or better still you can test any other children that he may have had to do a half sibling relationship.


Question: if the father is B+ and the mother is O what would the child be
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: B or O but since you only gave me one Rh, I will say positive or negaive is possible.


Question: I was married to my wife for 20 years, we have 5 kids from this marrige, three I pay child support for. Well after two years of being seperated she informs her freind that I'm not the father of the last two kids, what can I do?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Not a whole lot. I would talk to her first since you are getting this information second hand and you two need to decide if a paternity test is in order.


Question: I got an ultrasound that determined that my conception date was Feb. 5th. I got my depo shot on the 12th, obviously the test came back negative, then was regretably involved with another male on the 13th, what is the likelyhood that conception could have been on the 13th?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I do not have enough information here to answer your question. Please supply us with a rewritten question and provide me with the due date.


Question: My boyfriend and I are trying to get custody of his three year old daughter. His name was not on the birth cirtificate but the mother acknowledges that he is the father. How much harder will it be to get custody and should we go ahead and get a paternity test done even though there is no doubt?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: We are not lawyers here--you should direct this question to a qualified family law attorney. You should definitely move forward with establishing paternity--having no doubt is good but it is always better to have no doubt on paper. You can get a selection of test kits at Fairfax Identity Laboratories


Question: My guy was married 2 times. Has children from both marriages. He wants to know if the second child is his. The 1st child looks exactly like him, red hair and hazel eyes, freckles. The second child look snothing like him. Blonde hair , blue eyes, no freckles. And all kinds of allergies, including exzema, which neither parent has a history of. His mother has dark hair and brown eyes. Is there a possiblilty based on genetic traits that the child may not be his?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Honestly, facial features are not a good way to determine paternity. I noticed that you have quite an extensive list. You could speculate but you will never really know. You may want to consider using one of our downloadable home kits. They are only 210 dollars. You can get one at fairfaxidlab.com or paternitynet.com. The download is free. You pay for the test when the samples arrive.


Question: can I refuse a dna test on my daughter? me and er father who is on the birth certificate is raising her and now another guy wants to claim her and he is a drug dealer and he is in a gang and he also does not have a job.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If a court orders a test then you cannot refuse. If there is no court order then you both must agree to do the test since his name is NOT on the certificate.


Question: How do you go about doing a paternity test if I live in a different state than the child and her mother? If the test comes back that I am not the father and I signed the birth certificate and I am not paying child support that is court ordered can I still be held liable for paying child support if the baby's mother decides to file for child support. I really need your help.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Regarding the birth certificate issue--for those questions you should look through this forum of posted links to OCSE profiles where you can read about your state laws. Depending on the state, if you do a paternity test then you should take the results to an attorney if it shows that you are NOT the father. In some states you may be right but in others--no it will not relieve you from paying child support.


Question: I recieved a letter from Child Support Enforcement, stating that I am to be tested as an alleged father. It also says that if the tests show that I am not the father, they may request to have it done again. What is up with that? Is that because the State may not want to pay for the public assistance of this baby? It just seems odd that the letter said that.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I would hazard a guess that you may be in the State of Florida. They have contracted a primary and a Secondary lab--the purpose is to make sure that exclusions are confirmed. Ironically, the American Association of Blood Banks REQUIRES that exclusions be rerun before releasing the result to insure quality control. For those of you who buy a private test, this is not a stand out service that they are offering you--the labs who are certified do not really have a choice. It is required to insure quality control. As to your last questions--Of course they don't want to expend taxpayer money on welfare programs--that is money that could be appled to other areas such as education. That is the reason that states go after unpaying confirmed fathers. Now, if you are in Florida--here is the kick: If THEY run the second test it is because the mother is contesting the first test so in the end if you ARE excluded on the second test then it likely that they will leave you alone and move on to find the next possible father. Good luck with your test.


Question: Hi I live in Texas and I am due in april. The father of my child lives in Colorado and is denying the fact that he is the father of my child. Since we live in 2 different states how is paternity testing done and also who pays for it. I have been told that the courts pay for it and I have also been told that since he is the one questioning it he is the one that is supposed to pay for it please let me know so I can put a lot of minds at ease about who pays for the paternity test and how it is done. I need to know so that my mom and I can know who pays for it. By Texas law the attorney general's office pays for it if the child support division files for it but I am not sure if the laws are the same in Colorado.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It will depend on how texas is handling the case. Texas may opt to move forward without involving Colorado in which case Texas law would apply. If Colorado is brought in to assist then Colorado law would apply as it will be heard in their courts. Regarding who pays--there is no hard rule of thumb NOT even in the state of Texas--the individual judge in each court will decide who will pay for the test.


Question: I am currently 16 weeks pregnant. My boyfriend and I slept together up until the 9th of Dec. 2003. I got my period on the 11th of Dec. but it was only 3 days long and light compared to a normal 5-6 day regular flow. We split apart and on the 20th of Dec. I slept with a close friend. I went to the Doc. on Feb. 19th and was 10weeks 6 days my due date is Sept. 10th, 2004. Who is the father???? My bofriend is now my fiance' because of the pregnancy. Is there any way I can do a test while pregnant without him knowing that i am doubting him being the father if we cant tell when i conceved. thanks
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: First, you can not use another adults samples without his consent. As for the conception: December 1st through December 17th.


Question: If two persons has the same last name. One person was taken to do the test. The child was approximately 3 mths old. How accurate was the result
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I have no idea what the accuracy of a dna test has to do with a person's last name but a motherless test is just as accurate as one WITH the mother.


Question: I probably already know the answer to this question, but I am gonna take a shot anyway. With a probablity of paternity 99.98% and a combined paternity index of 4275, is there still a 2% chance that he isnt the father?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: no-- there is only a only a 0.02 percent chance that he is not the father.


Question: I read on the board about CVS testing to determine the father and that it can be done at 10 weeks. Can you please tell me more about the actual procedure? How is it done? Can it harm the baby or be dangerous to the pregnancy? How is the male involved in the test? I am assuming the test has to be performed by an OB/GYN. Do you know the approximate cost?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: CVS is performed by removing a small sample of the placenta (nourishment for the baby) from the uterus. It is removed with either a catheter (a thin tube) or a needle. Local anesthesia is used for this test. The sample of placenta may be obtained through the cervix. A catheter is inserted into the vagina and through the cervix and the sample is withdrawn. The sample also can be obtained by inserting a needle into the abdomen and withdrawing some of the placenta. Most women feel fine after the test, although some may have mild bleeding (spotting) afterward. CVS is usually done between the 10th and 12th weeks of pregnancy. Consult with your doctor to properly ascertain any potential risks.


Question: I am 38 years and have always known my father was one of two men. I am concerned about the cost of the test. I know only one of the men, and I really am not sure how to get started on this. Thank you for your assistance.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: just go to our website, fairfaxidlab.com, and download one of our test kits--they only cost 210 dollars and you send the money in when you send in the samples.


Question: My due date was first 6/8, then changed to 6/5 what would my dates of conception be for both dates??
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: August 31st though September 15th for both.


Question: If a baby was born on May 15, what is the date of conception?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: August 8th through 27th.


Question: I had sex with a guy on September 13th. My lmp was on september 16th. I had sex with my now husbandfor the 1st time around October 3rd. My cycles aren't normal. Mine are usually 45 days not 28. when i went to the doctor they said I was actually due on July 10th. Making my conception around the 16th when I should have started again. Can a sonogram be off by 5 weeks? Or is my husband the father?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If you want to find out if your husband is the faher then I suggest that you download one of our testkits. Sonograms are approximations and are not written in stone. Your erratic periods certainly do not reinforce the matter and are a strong arguement for following through with a test.


Question: My boyfriend is concerned that one of children is not his, His first born is the spiting image of him (brown hair & brown eyes)same face features The mother has ash brown hair& green eyes. His 2nd born has green eyes and ash blonde hair she has none of his face features. He already signed the birth certificate He does not know what he should get a Paternity test or if this is normal? Mother is White Fater is Mexican
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: There is nothing in this email that I can use--regarding the birth certificate, go to google and put in OCSE State Profiles. You can also find links for this site throughout this forum. It will give you the laws for your state regarding paternity.


Question: My son may have gotten a girl pregnant. Is it possible to find out paternity before the baby is born?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: yes, it is--if you read the thread of this forum you can get a lot of information. You can also get information at fairfaxidlab.com.


Question: If a baby was born on March 9th, and was < according to the hospital > 37 weeks. What would be the est. conception time frame be?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: May 31 through June 15th.


Question: Why is it that only the father is required to take a paternity test to determine patrimony. Doesn't the fetus receive both the maternal and paternal blood?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Sounds like someone is trying to make a quick sale to you for a paternity test. In fact, when you do a prenatal test the mother's samples MUST be part of the colletion process. If the baby has been born then a motherless test is ok since the lab will run additional test to account for the lack of the mother. STILL, it is helpful to the lab to always have the mother for reference.


Question: MY HUSBAND HAD SEX WITH ANOTHER WOMAN. SHE SAYS IT IS HIS. THE CHILD WAS BORN @ 2AM 3-25-04. SHE THE MOTHER OF THE CHILD WANTS HIM TO SIGN THE BIRTH CERTIFICATE. DOES HE HAVE TO SIGN IT IN THE STATE OF INDIANA? CAN HE HAVE THE HOSPITAL DO A DNA TEST AND GET THE RESULTS BEFORE HE SIGNS THE CERTIFICATE? IS THERE A WAY FOR HIM TO GIVE UP ALL RIGHTS TO THIS CHILD? IF SO WHAT IS THE TERM FOR THAT? WILL AN ATTORNEY HAVE TO BE INVOLED? THANKS
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Some of your questions will not be answered as they should be addressed by an attorney. NEVER sign a birth certificate if you are uncertain as to the parentage. Insist on the paternity test--the birth certificate could lock you into paying child support for many years to come. Look out for people in the hospital who try to take advantage of the emotional moment of child support. Generally they can be part of the state's paternity aknowlegement program--most hospitals now have such a coordinator in hospitals so beware.


Question: IS IT POSSIBLE THAT A PATERNITY SWAB COULD COME BACK WITH THE WRONG RESULTS. WHAT IS THE CORRECT PROCEDURE OF COLLECTING A SWAB DONE ON A 1 YEAR OLD DO YOU KNOW OF ANY NORTH CAROLINA LAWS THAT WOULD REQUIRE THE ALLEGED FATHER TO RETAKE A PATERNITY TEST IF HE REFUSES AT THE REQUSET OF THE MOTHER
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It is always possible but not very likely. You can download one of our test kits at fairfaxidlab.com and you can look over the collection instructions yourself. We do not answer legal questions here.


Question: My husband took a paternity test about 6 years ago on an alledged child. The results came back as being 96.4% of him being the father. What is the standard acceptable rate in a court of law?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: which court? Which county? Which state? You question is 50 states too vague. Get on Google and search OCSE State Profiles. You can find the requirements for your particular state there.


Question: I have been taken for 2 paternity test by 2 different women one in 1985 and one in 1995.Here are the results from mother and child #1:RED CELL > ABO D C E c e M N S s K k Fy(a) Fy(b) > Mom: O O O O + + + O + O + + O + > Kid: A O O O + + + O + O + + O + > Dad: A + + + + + + + + + O + O + > Leucocye Antigens(HLA) > Mom: A3 B13 A28 B27 > Kid: A3 B13 A32 B51 > Dad: A24 A28 B7 BW53 > Conclusion:0% probability >
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Many of the older tests involving HLA and red cell antigens were subject to the confusion of cross reactive markers as well as a number of quality control problems that needed close monitoring. That's why DNA testing is much better; the markers are much more clear cut. HLA typings don't change in a person, but can be mis-called when the results aren't completely clear.


Question: Due to the unavailability of one grandparent and the alleged father, Can grandparentage be determined by using the mother, child and one grandparent. If the child does not have 1/2 of the genetic material of the one grandparent, why wouldn't that be enough to exclude the child as grandchild.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It can be done in principle, but it's a whole lot more difficult. While the available grandparent should match on half of the tests performed, s/he won't match on the other half, and the combined relationship value is cut in half for each time the tested grandparent doesn't match. If the lab runs, say, 10 marker, the tested grandparent will theoretically match on five and not match ont the other five. The unavailable grandparent would have matched on these five, but s/he's not there to be tested. Consequently, the combined index will be halved five times. Overall, that means dividing the index by 2^5 or 32. An index of 1000 drops to about 30, which is too low to be admissible in any court system.


Question: Hi want to give my daughter a DNA test to find out if I'm her biological father. Since she was born I always had a feeling I was not her biological father because my ex-wife had an affair with someone during the time she became pregnant. My daughter resembles that man. Do you know where I can get that done here in Northern California? I live in San Jose California. Also I'm paying child support for her now, if she turns out not to be my biological daughter, do I still need to pay child support?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: At this time your best bet would be to just do a home test kit. Fairfax has a very inexpensive and reliable one at our website. I say this because you are already paying child support and it is unlikely that your will be able to overturn the judgement. You should check with an attorney.


Question: i gave birth to my son oct.11,2000.my lmp was jan 15,2000 i had sex with my exbf that day and jan.27 and with my recent bf jan.28.who do you think is the father?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: the child would have been conceived between January 3rd through January 18th. You need to rethink your dates.


Question: could you explain mutation i had test results with a probability of <99.9% for paternity but there was a mutation involved the numbers were one off between the point, the lab did mutational analysis and said that the mutation matched that of myself and there is no doubt that i am the father -are single mutations fairly common,and is there any health concern
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: A mutation, generally described, is any change in the genetic material. The vast majority of them (VAST majority) are harmless. The one you refer to is probably especially harmless because the tests that are used for paternity establishment look at regions of the DNA that don't have any medical importance. They are "silent" with regard to any sort of function, which is part of the reason they're used. Whether you want to call them common or not depends on your definition of "common." Most paternity reports are mutation free, but any lab that does a fair number of paternity tests will be no stranger to mutations. They're not anything to be surprised or concerned about, either for the lab or for the people who are tested. They typically manifest themselves as numbers that are, as in your case, one off between the parent and the child.


Question: My husband supposedly fathered two children one in 1998 and one in 2000, but in the city that performed the paternity test they used an old blood test from 1995 (on the first child) and a copy of an old dna test performed in 1999 on the second child. Does he need to go in and request a dna test on both children? Or do you believe that the results they produced are accurate?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It depends on the kind of test that was performed. An STR test should allow comparison between two people who have been tested by that method, although doing that test that way would be unusual. Also, very few labs were doing that kind of test in 1995. Most labs would prefer to run at the same time all of the people in question. In fact, in the absence of unusual circumstances, labs usually won't agree to provide a report of comparisons done in the way you have described. Testing everybody together will allow direct comparison between their genetic characteristics to be made clearly and with a lot less room for questions. I would suggest that he request new tests.


Question: Can DNA testing be done while pregnant and if so how early in the pregnancy can it done. And how would this be done?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Yes, 10 weeks, CVS sample collection.


Question: hi im 15 year old and i just had unprotected sex two weeks ago i have some pregnacy symptoms like spotting and the guy i had sex with is 18 and he gave me the morning after pill there was 8 of them he told me to take 4 now and 4 6 hours later i was not sure that they were morning after pills and i only took two b/c i wasnt sure is there a possibilty i could be pregnet?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If you did not get them from a doctor yourself, then I would not beleive your 18 year old sex partner. He is, after all, having sex with a minor which, in most states. is illegal. Never take drugs that someone just hands you--the best that you can do now is to just monitor your menstual period and if you think you are pregnant then have go to the drug store and get a home paternity test or better yet--see an ob/gyn or a Physican's Assistant who specializes in women's issues. Good luck.


Question: If a baby was born Sept 2. What is the date of conception?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: conception would have happened between Novemember 25th and December 10th.


Question: If I know who my baby's daddy is and we broke up and i slept with someone else and he did something in me . Will this affest my DNA results. Even though we know who the dad is?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Huh? Oh, I get it...I think....the man you believe to be the daddy was excluded. NO--it will NOT effect the test result--you need to have the other guy tested before you start questioning the first results. You have to exclude the second guy--there is a 50 percent chance that he could be the father.


Question: My current boyfriend and I have been together about 7 months. Before me, he had a strictly sexual relationship with a girl that started around July 20, 2003. She had split up with her ex about three weeks prior to their relationship. She said around the end of August that she was pregnant, and he was the father. She just gave birth to a little girl on February 28, 2004. She states the child was four weeks early. My boyfriend just got back in contact with her a week ago, and although she is back with her ex, he continues to go see the child, they meet in a public place so her ex will not know (the ex's name is on the birth certificate). She states she was on birth control (the pill) but when she got pregnant with her second child (this is now her third) that she was on the pill as well. My questions, I know birth control is around 99.8%...what are the chances of the .2% happening twice, to the same person, in a two year period? Also, around when would her conception date have been?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Conception would have happened between May 23rd and June 7th. I cannot guess on the .2 percent.


Question: i have a boyfriend and on october 10-18th i had sex with an ex while i went out of town. my LMP was on november 10th 2003 and my expected due date in august 14th 2004. at what time was conception?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: conception would have happened between Novemember 10th and November 25th.


Question: if a girl had sex with 2 guys in a span of two weeks and thinks she is pregnant, do either one of the guys have to take a DNA test? or can they go on with their lives. Also both of the guys used protection and the first guy didn't ejaculate at all and pulled out. And he checked the condom for any holes.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You would be foolish to think that either of you would be exempt from being a father because one of you "checked for holes" in the ocndom. Each of you have a 50 percent chance of being the father. As for the issue of whether you HAVE to have a test--well that is up to the mother. If she decides to take you to court and the court orders you to take a test you must comply. Likewise, if the other guy goes and asks for a test and names you in the complaint then both of you guys and the mother may have to comply.


Question: i just found out i am pregna t and haven't even missed a period yet but felt it took a test and it was positive. the problem is i am not sure who the dad is. my last date of my last menstral cycle was 2-29-04. i has sexual intercourse with one guy on 3-9-04, and 3-10-04., and another on 2-29-04 which was first day of my last period, and have been back with this same guy for about a week. i know you cannot give me an andwer, but can you at least give me an educated guess?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: conception would have happened betweeen March 1st and March 15th.


Question: how can we test the 1st cousin if he doesn't want to? my husband says he has proof he wasn't around when child was conceived. can he take the test results to court? even though it says 99.99% and prove he wasn't in montana at that time? i think the gave him a false possitive result!
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You can't. You could try taking it up with the court but don't look for anything to happen.


Question: Can a result of 68% of paternity test result, confirm 100% it being biological parent (father) California??
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I should not have to say this but do the math--a 32 percent margin of error and NO state in the country would seriously accept this result.


Question: A friend (male, 60) had sex with a female (50)about 2 weeks before her period. She says she is pregnant. What is the possibility of it being true?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It is possible actually--there is a 50/50 chance.


Question: Regarding the asking of "legal" questions.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: This is just a reminder that Fairfax Identity Laboratories only answers questions regarding paternity testing. DO NOT ask questions that you should be taking to an attorney. Emails of this nature will be deleted with response.


Question: Hi, i have a ?. There is this woman whom is claiming my husband to be the father of her child. My Husband said he has never been with the woman sexualy or had any relationship with her. His Cousin, however was with her, and is the suppose to be bilogical father. But she still insists that my husband is the father. We took a Paternity test and it showed 99.99%. I'm confused about the whole deal. As my husband keeps telling me over and over that he is not the father and that his cousin is. but how can the test show 99.99% if he is not the father as he says he is, and his cousin is? Please help me understand this situation, and tell me if it is possible that his cousin is the father.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It seems to me that your dilemma is whether to believe your husband or to believe the science. I would bank on the mother's claim that your husband is the father. We say the lab should know if there are first cousions (NOTICED I SAID FIRST COUSINS AND NOT JUST COUSINS) involved and if the lab knows then it can account for it in the testing--generally it DOES NOT effect the outcome.. the ONLY way you are going to resolve this issue is to insist that the cousin be tested.


Question: hi i was wondering if you could help me and my husband determine the dna test he took for a child he think might be his. he took the test and it does not have a percentage and on the colomns with the numbers all the mothers matches up but only 5 out of 9 match my husbands to the child...then at the bottom it says my husband can not be excluded as the biological father of the child.....there is also another man that never got tested for the child and the judge will not close the case....can you tell me what my husbands test means and could the other person be the father?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It sounds like you are seeking verification that he is not the father. You do no give me much to go with here. You are describing a scenario where the father has been excluded or find NOT to be the father. You do not indicate whether or not the test was obtained by court orer or whether it was a home kit. Lastly, a test excluding you is not a get of jail free card--please understand that a paternity test is only a PIECE of what the judge looks at to determine whether or not a case should be closed. Based on what you are NOT telling me I would hazard a guess that the judge must have his reasons.


Question: My blood type is AB NEGATIVE RH NEGATIVE COULD BLOOD TYPE O BE MY FATHER? Mother's blood type unknown. Both are deceased.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: There is not enought information provided here to give you any type of projection.


Question: Approx. 2 yrs. ago I found out my biological dad is different then the man who raised me. My mom has passed and everyone refuses to discuss it. Apparently they were seperated during my conception and there was "fling". My mom had O negative blood, my dad has A,positive blood, I am O negative. Is it possible for him to be biologicaly related? If not, what would the blood type of the other man have to be?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Go to fairfaxcryobank.com and you can do the calculations on a calcuator yourself and project the possible combinations.


Question: around march 2001 I had sex with my boyfriend before he left to go out of town for two weeks while he was gone I had sex with my ex. then in april i had an appointment with the doctor for birth control i think it was on the 9th they took a pregnancy test to see if i was pregnant/and i was they said i was about three weeks pregnant and my child was born on march 30th.I WAS JUST WANDERING WHICH ONE COULD BE THE FATHER
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: conception occurred between June 22nd to July 6th


Question: once paternity testing have been done what happens to the dna samples and the data received from the testing. And what are the chances of mistakes taking place during testing. That is what if you have two different results from two different testings. And how does ethnic(race)group fit into the testing process.Thanx
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Most labs store remaining samples. I can't speak for Non-AABB labs but the AABB requires that copies of the reports be placed on file to become part of the quality control protocols. No mistakes if you use Fairfax--I cannot speak for other labs. If you have two different results from two different testings then you need to determine paternity by performing a third test with a different lab--do not use the same lab. If the man has been included in the test then a caluation for the combined paternity index is performed taking into account the FATHER's race.


Question: If the father is A positive an the mother is A negative could the baby be A negative??
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It is possible.


Question: I have been on birth control for about a year now, and i just finished my first period in 2months (because i took my birth control back to back so i could skip it) i finished my pill pack about a week ago and got my period which ended four days ago, i havent started another pack of pills yet and had sex last night and my boyfriend deffinitly busted in me could i be pregnent or no?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If you are thinking that you are pregnant then do a home pregnancy test.


Question: My sons ex girlfriend is pregnant, She is with another guy that she slept with after my son. She told him the baby was his. He wanted a paternity test which proved he is NOT the father. Then she called my son and said he is the father. When he asked her if she was sure, she said there was another guy. Where can my son get a paternity test before the baby is born to find out for sure? Is there anywhere he can get one at low cost to him? What does he have to do if she won't get one? Does he have any recourse?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: First, you can't force her to have the test until after the child is born and that would be through a court order. There is no such thing as a low cost prenatal test and the procedure has to be performed under the care of a medical physician.


Question: Hi I am wondering if you could advise me a friend of mine has recently had a DNA test to see if he is the father of a child. He has been informed by his ex-partner's solicitor that he is not the father but is not legally able to see the test results. Has he any rights to see this document. He would like to Know if he is the father and would like to have proof. The solicitor has stated that he is not the father but is unable to give to give him information without the courts permission. Please advise as my friend is desperate to see this original document.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I am guessing by the things that you say in your message that you are not an American. Here in the States, the lab is obligated to provide a copy of a report to each Teated non-minor. If I were you, I would contact your own solicitor and make sure you are being told the truth.


Question: my wife got pregnant while we were dating, she was seprated from her now ex. her divorce was not final until after the baby was born. when the baby was born she was advised to put refused on the fathers name .how do i prove that the child is mine, he is 3yrs old now
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: you need to consult with an attorney.


Question: What are CVS and Amniotic testings. How are they done. Which is the easiest on mother and baby? If mother objects to tests (mother is 10 weeks along)what should the father do to make her have the tests?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: CVS and Amniotic testing are fetal collections performed at various points of the pregnancy. If the mother objects to having the test done at 10 weeks then the father should sit and wait for the baby to be born and then petition the ocurt for the test. You cannot court order an invasive procedure.


Question: My husband and his brother were both sleeping w/ a woman who conceived. The brother went on a talk show and was given a paternity test that did in fact prove he was over 99% sure the baby's father. However, my husband was not tested nor did the talk show know of the situation at hand. Is there still a possibility of my husband being the father of this child? I was under the impression that even though they are brother's that DNA is so precise that if the brother was not the father his test results would not have been so strong.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I doubt if you notified the talk show that they would have known what to do with the information. Not sharing this information was probably not the brightest idea--apparently at least three people know about it HOWEVER it is likely that the test did pick the correct father but it would have been nice to have had the husband tested as well--I am sure that the talk show would have jumped at that scenario. If you feel that the husband should have gotten test then have a paternity test performed.


Question: I am almost 20 weeks pregnant. The father has to be one of 2 men. One is white and one is black, is there any way to fine out the race of the baby?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: no


Question: I am due on May 23, 2004. I had sex with 3 different people within 2 weeks. Can you tell me when the estimated conception date was?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: conception would have occurred between August 16th through August 30th


Question: If you sleep with indentical twin brothers can you find out who the father is?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: no


Question: The alleged father has deceased and is survived by 2 brothers. Can paternity of a child be proven without exhuming the body. If so, will the test be adequate and/or conclusive. Thank you very much for your time and knowledge.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Using uncles to prove paternity is not the best way but it is do-able. The mother, the child, and the two uncles would need to be tested. You would be better off if you have the two paternal grandparents or at least one other child sired by the deceased.


Question: I AM MORE THAN 100% POSITIVE THAT MY BABY'S FATHER IS THE DAD. HE TOOK A PATERNITY TEST AT HOME, AND IT CAME OUT NEGATIVE, (HE WAS EXCLUDED AS MY SON'S BIOLOGICAL FATHER), AND I KNOW FOR A FACT THAT HE DID THE TEST AS HE WAS SUPPOSE TO. WHAT DO I DO? I HAVE BEEN DRIVING MYSELF CRAZY THINKING OF THE ODDS.I HAVE EVEN THOUGHT THEY SWITCH HIM IN THE HOSPITAL. IT'S LIKE IF HE'S NOT THE DAD, THEN I'M NOT THE MOM. HELP?!?!?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Home tests are just that--curiosity test and will not hold in a court of law. You saw him do the test--did you see him package the samples? Did you see him mail the samples? Was there ANY time he was alone with the samples? If you do not like the results then you should have a court admissible test to confirm the results of the first test.


Question: I found out that you can get a paternity test before the baby is born, but where can you get one done and how far along in the pregnacy can you get one. How much would it be to get one, and how sure is the test? Please answer me soon the baby is due in 8 weeks and i need to start buying for her and planing for her if she is mine because I will take fullcostudy of the child if she is mine.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You're going to have to wait until the baby is born. You waited too long to have a prenatal test.


Question: i am pregnant. there are only two people that the father could possibly be. i am almost 100% sure of who it is but would like for you to help me with calculations. I had sex with a guy Oct 18 and had sex with another guy Oct 26(actually did not penetrate but was close) and actually sex with him on Nov 15. My due date is Aug 11 could you tell me the likely hood which one of these it would be!!! also if i do not want the father to be on the birth cert do i have to put his name. does he have any rights if i do not want him to have any? can he make me have a test if i do not want to?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I am not going to decide for you which one that it might be. Conception could have occurred between October 31st and November 18th.


Question: I had sex with someone, but we had protection, and he did not ejaculate I guess due to intoxication. Is it possible that i could be pregnant by this man. Me and my boyfriend have had unprotected sex for a very long time, with him, never pulling out. What is your opinion on if it could be this other mans child? I have a due date, and how accurate are those dates that are guessed to be the due date?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Anytime that you have intercourse, protection or not, there is always a chance of pregnancy. There is NO 100 percent protection except for abstinance. I have no opinion on whose it could be since due datee are generally estimates. You should do a paternity test.


Question: I left my home on DEC. 4th; the morning of Dec 4th i had intercourse with my husband. On DEC 5th i had intercourse with a friend of mine. i am now pregnant and my due date is August 27th. I am unsure who the father is.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Hard to tell. YOu had interncourse with two diferent ment on two consecutive days. I would do a paternity test.


Question: My husband cheated July 5.And this female is pregant and is due April 18.Well she now saying the 27 or 28 now that I know.She says it isn't my husbands but I was wondering with those dates is there a chance.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Very close--there is a 50/50 chance.


Question: In 1998 I had a paternity test with the prognosis of a probibility rate of 99.98 and one in 5471 or something like that. The only problem is:first the child is darker than both of us together and secondly I have been studing genetics testing at the library and it specifically states that the newborn, while sharing similar genes, has it own unique set of genes and the right markers in a given race must be compared to establish probability. In my case she gave the wrong race and my feeling is that the test is flawed in this sense to carry me into such a high percentage rate of being this child's father. PLEASE HELP ME TO UNDRSTAND > SINCERELY,
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: "Inclusion" means that the questioned parent matches with the child where s/he needs to match. That isn't going to change under any circumstances. Matches are matches and are identified before any calculation is done that requires the racial information. The facile answer to the wrong race thing is to say that some of the paternity indices may be too high, but others may be too low, with the overall result not changing much because the "too highs" and the "too lows" tend to counteract each other. I have never had the time to actually try a calculation to see how much truth is actually in that idea, though. However, you talk in terms of the probability. If the index you give (5471) were two fold too high (which is probably an extreme if the race were wrong; it's not likely to be off nearly that much), that is, if, with the correct race the index came out to be 2736, the probability of paternity would still be 99.96% instead of the 99.98% you actually had on your report. If the 5471 were FOUR fold too high, i.e., 1368 instead of 5471, the probability would still be 99.93%.


Question: That's is true we get the fathers blood type?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: No--either the mother or the father but not exclusively the father.


Question: Can paternity of a fetus be determined before the child is born? If so, what type of tests are done and how, and at what gestational age. How reliable are the results?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: This has been posted over and over again on this board. Yes, CVS and Amniotic collection--between 10 and 20 weeks and yes, they are very accurate.


Question: If you have a child with someone can you test that child against another child to see if both children have the same mom and dad? How accurate is that test?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Yes, you can do a sibling test which we offer at our website, fairfaxidlab.com. The test is relatively inexpensive and is vry accurate.


Question: I just recently got married. The guy I married told me in October 2003 that when we were spit up he had protected sex with another female. The female calls him up one day in October and tells him that she is six months pregnant with his baby boy. She had the baby in January and now wants my husband to be apart of the child's life. I don't believe that this baby is his and I want proof before he pays out of pocket.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You never really asked a question her so I am going to tell you to move forward and do a paternity test before you sign anything that would cause a long term committment.


Question: Good afternoon. Someone close to me just did an over the net secret paternity test and found out the child is not his. (he has never been married to the girl, etc nor is there any court issues or child support involved) is is illegal to swab a childs mouth without the mothers knowledge?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Most labs allow the collection of home kits in this manner but will not do a court admissible version without some sort of consent.


Question: I am a 42 year old woman, and I want to determine if there is a biological relationship between myself and my father. I don't want him to know about the testing as I don't want to insult him or hurt his feelings. Are there samples of DNA I can easily collect and submit from him along with my own buccal samples?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Unless you have a power of attorney you cannot use his samples without his consent.


Question: I AM 27 WEEKS 5 DAYS PREGNANT. I WANT TO KNOW HOW SOON AFTER DELIVERY CAN I GET A PARTERNITY TEST DONE TO IDENTIFY THE FATHER OF MY SON?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: As soon as the baby is born you can move forward with the test.


Question: CAN U HAVE SEX WITHOUT A CONDOM 3 OR MORE TIMES AND STILL BE A POSIBILITY I WONT BE PREGNANT? IF MY PERIOD WAS SUPPOSED TO START ABOUT MARCH 6 AND IT IS NOW MARCH 17 OR CAN IT JUST BE LATE? CAN SOME ONE PLEASE ANSWER MY QUESTION I WOULD REALLY APRICIEATE IT...... THANKS...
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: when you have sex without a condom you are taking the chance that you will get pregnant. There is no grace period for having sex without a condom.


Question: My period starts on Jan 1st and finishes couple days later. On January 11th I had unprotected sex with my ex-boyfriend. Then on Jan 18th I had sex with this boy that I've been seeing for awhile when I was with my ex. But the new guy uses a condom. Now I'm pregnant and the due date is Oct 7th 2004. It there is a possiblity that it might be for my ex. The nurse told me it couldn't because I wasn't ovualating at the time i done it with my ex and that the condom might have broke with the new. They also told that the baby was conceive on Jan 19th. I'm still wondering who is the father of my baby.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Conception would have occured between December 30th and January 14th. There is a variance regarding your LMP however so I calculated based on your due date and then again on you LMP. Conception dates are estimations at best and should NOT be used as an inexpensive paternity test. I would have a paternity test with the seocnd one first ("this boy") and then take it from there.


Question: can there be a partenity test before the baby is born
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: yes


Question: What are loci? My test results came back 7 out of 16 loci which excluded me as the father. What does this mean and what is this in percentage?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: A genetic locus (plural is loci) is simply a section of the genetic material or a place on the DNA where information is coded. Paternity tests look at a number of such loci whose sequence varies from person to person. If you are excluded at seven loci, you are not the child's parent. The question about percentage doesn't make sense as an exclusions do not list percentages because there isn't one--if you have to have a number--it is ZERO percent.


Question: I recently found out I have a 1/2 sibling from dna test that proved to be 99.98% accurate. I would like to understand the locus numbers. For example D8s1179 we both have 14,TH01 we have 6,8 for her and 6,9 for me and CSF1P0 she has 10,12 and I only have 10. Also, the test said that we are 6614 more times to be related than a random person that is caucasian off the street. I am wondering how they came up with this number?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The locus numbers are perhaps best understood as genetic addresses. Related people are likely to have similar characteristics at a number of those addresses, but sometimes you can have similarities with somebody who's not related to you, just by chance. The test results that the lab obtains weigh the likelihood of sharing the characters by chance ("the random person off the street" situation) against the likelihood of sharing them if you're related and from that result calculates a probability that you and the other tested person are really biological relatives.


Question: If DNA test say 99% your not the father is there anything that could make a false reading,drugs,pot alcohol etc.My son, who is now in prison, had the test done and I, as a grandmother have a strong feeling it wasn't right.The child is 5 now but his looks, actions and personality are just like my sons and my son has not even been around him.I was adopted and I adopted another boy.When I meant my blood family at 20 years old I was just like them in everyway.We even talked alike!!!My personality was not at all like my adopted family. I also adopted a boy 21 years ago and 2 years ago we found his biological father.He is just like him in his emotions,personality and they both like the same things.I raised him like my my other 5 children but he isn't like his sibbling but like his blood dad.That is why I wanted to know about how accurate the test are and what can cause error.From experience I know that blood children get many things from their blood family even if they are raised by adopted parents.It
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If he was not the father, the report would NOT say 99 percent--99 percent is usually an indicator that he is the father. Reread the report and submit the summary to me and I will tell you what it means--usually people will take a phrase like "not excluded" to mean he is not the father but it is the exact opposite.


Question: I had sex with a girl that I know from my past on August 8, 16, & 29. I found out almost 1.5 months later that she was pregnant. The doctors told her when she first found that the baby was due May 28, 2004. She told me that her LMP was August 22, 2003. Now all of the sudden the due date has changed to May 7, 2004. I've been have second thoughts about this, even though we had unprotected sex all three times. I think she was already pregnant and didn't know it, because she didn't seem so concerned about getting pregnant. I think she is claiming this is mine, because her kids father doesn't come around and I think she wants me to be the dad. What are the chances that this could be my child?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: There is a 50/50 chance that this is your child. You have to understand that as the pregancy progresses that the doctor will adjust some of the dates that he may have originally given the mother and you. Look for the conception to probably have occured between August 1st and August 17h. I hope this helps.


Question: I was seperated from my husband for 1 year and entered into another relationship during the months of feb and march. This was a sexual relationship and the last time i had sex in this relationship was on March 28. Me and my husband got back together on April 3, that day was the first day of my menstral cycle. On May 10 I took a pregnancy test and it was positive. My doctor and sonogram said my EDD was Jan 13. My baby was born on Jan 14. I did the conception calendar and it said I conceived on April 23. However, my husband thinks that this baby is not his. I think it is impossible that it's not. Could he be right? The conception date is right because we had intercourse on that date and with only him the whole month of April.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Well you have to understand that the calculation and the any comments that you get from the doctor that these are all estimates. With the conception figure a week before and week after with the date as the mid point. If you think he really is the father, then indulge him and do one of our home kits. They are inexpensive and you just download them off of our site. You pay WHEN you send in the samples--not before.


Question: is it possible to get a DNA test while i am pregnant? Currently i am 6 months along, and i need to know who the father of my unborn child is. So is it possible to find out before i deliver??? The cost does not matter.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Yes, we have answered this question many times--if you search this forum you can find a lot on the subject.


Question: Does Hla Blood cells from samples degrade after 6 months? Can the results from Hla Blood tests be compromised because the blood samples are not fresh and the cells are half dead? Can labs obtain reliable results if Hla samples three years old being compared to another party's nine month aged Hla blood samples?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: They degrade long before 6 months. HLA has to be in the lab to be tested within 24-72 hours--it is a MAJOR drawback of using hla for paternity testing--in order to test with HLA the cells must be alive. YOu cannot use three year old HLA samples. Instead, you take the results on the paper and compare the numbers instead of working with dead samples.


Question: Is the accuracy the same for a mouth swab as it is for a blood sample?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: There is no difference.


Question: My daughter is now 14 and a half, and her father is suddenly demanding a paternity test. We were never married. What relevant questions are there to ask regarding ensuring the validity of a paternity test across international boundaries (my daughter and I will be tested in UK, he in Canada). He is organizing the test (through a court order) and paying for it at this stage. I have never been in doubt about paternity, but did the calculator test (your site) in any case, and came up with the exact date of conception.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I would make sure that the lab is certified by the American Association of Bloodbanks. I know that sounds strange but Canadian and UK labs carry this certification if they are reputable. Since you are dealing with two different countries there has to be a common bond when it comes to quality control of the sample. Don't accept any other type of lab and if he takes the time and looks hard enough he can find one.


Question: my sister and i were adopted. her blood type is AB+, mine is B+. we do not know anything about our bioligical mother. is there any way to determine whether or not we are biologically related by our blood types?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: NO--not by your blood types--you don't have enough genetic information to determine--you need to do a sibling relationship test. We sell a kit that you can download at fairfaxidlab.com. the cost is 400 dollars.


Question: MY CHILD IS NOW 7 YEARS OLD HER FATHER IS DECEASED (DIED AUG. 2003) NEVER PROVED PATERNITY CAN HIS (FATHER) SISTER TAKE A BLOOD TEST TO PROVE PATERNITY SO MY CHILD CAN GET SOCIAL SECURITY PLEASE TELL ME YES OR NO AND IF YES DO WE HAVE TO BE IN THE SAME STATE AND HOW MUCH WOULD IT COST DO I NEED A PATERNITY LAWYER
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If you decide that you should get a lawyer you will need one who specializes in social security issues--not paternity. Aunt to niece or nephew tests may not provide you with the answers that social security needs render a decision. You could go with mother, child and aunt but that would still be iffy--even better would be mother, child and at least one other child that he might have sired to do a sibling test. Both of the father's parents would be really good if they are available. Hope this helps.


Question: What determines the bloodtype of unborn fetus? In example, the father determines the sex of the baby.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It can be EITHER the father OR the mother.


Question: I took a paternity test that was ordered over the internet some years ago with a person who does not want to acknowledge my daughter as his. I want another test done because I don't think it was accurate (it stated he's not the father) and I was told it cannot be used in the court for the state in which we resided in because it was not done by a medical tech, doctor, ect. in a lab, and that blood was more accurate. Is this true?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You took a home test--if the Surgeon General came by your house and witnessed the home kit being collected it still could NOT be used in ANY court in this counntry. If the man tested thinks that he is not the father based on the home test then he should have NO real problem stepping up to take a court admissible version.


Question: Is there a way for an individual to fix the paternity test? Can it be altered to read positive or inconclusive? The person in question really wants to be the father. As it stands there is a 50/50 chance. Can we make the test more in our favor?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: We are not in the business of telling people how to "fix" a test.


Question: i've been sexually active with my boyfriend for 4 years I slept with this other guy on feb 16, but I've always had intercourse with my boyfriend before and after. My period was feb 4 is it true that if you slept with a person for so long that there bodies get immune to each other? In other words when was my possible conception date? I'm a about a 28 day cycle could the other guy possible be the father or could my boyfriend sperm reach there first I had been with him (boyfriend) the nights before the 16 and after the 16. I'm about 4 weeks and 6 days pregnant can you help please
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You cannot become immune to pregnancy by having long term sex with a constant partner. That is not the way the human reproductivie system like to work. If your LMP (if I am hearing you correctly) was February 4th then conception would have occurred between February 5th and February 17th.


Question: I had my son April 15,2000.I don't remember my LMP.Me and ex broke up and I was with someone else from July 15-30.I know i didn't have monthly @ this time. Around when would i have conceived?The computer says around July 24? Is there any way possible i could have conceived Aug.2 or later?????
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The conception would have occurred somewhere between July 5th and July 24th.


Question: I have a quick question.. I can't remember the exact date of my last period, But my doctor says that my due date is October 25,2004. I slept with someone on the 24th of Jan, but me and my boyfreind have been on and off alot. When i had sex with this guy- He had on protection, and he did not "finish". Is there any chance that this could be his baby- and could the doctor be off on his guess of how far along I really am???
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Conception would have occured somewhere between January 19th and February 1st which places the first guy in the running. Protection does not guarantee that you will not get pregnant--nature finds a way. Due dates are always an estimate but they can be pretty much on the mark--for an estimate.


Question: My husband had an affair the first or second weekend in july 2001 the girls baby was born April 24th 2002. could this baby be his?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The child could have been conceived anywhere between July 19th through August 2nd


Question: His father and his biological father in question are both deceased. His father and his biological father in question were brothers. Is there some way my husband and his brothers could be tested to see if they were all from the same father.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Yes but you should call the lab you are going to use before proceeding to make sure you and lab know exactly what it is you want to have done.


Question: Can a positive pregnancy test be wrong?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Pregancy tests are not 100 percent accurate and I believe that most of these drugstore tests advise that you confirm your pregnancy with a qualified medical doctor.


Question: hi there, can a judge order someone to take a parenity test if the female claims a certain guy to have fathered her child? Please explain to me what can possibly happen to the female and the male she says fathered her child? Does the guy have to appear in court/if he doesn't is there a bench warrant involved?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Allof this depends on the judge but yes, a judge can pretty much order anything he wants and the subjects of the order are compelled to comply. The consequences of contempt of court is at the sole discretion of the judge.


Question: I have a half sister that we are not sure that we have the same father. We have diffrent mothers. Our father is desecesd how can we determine the paternity of my sister with our father being deceased.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: yes, you can just download one of our QuckHit (Sibling Editionthen Test Solutions) and then do the test using those forms. The cost of the test is 400 dollars and you pay when you send in the samples--the test is secure and reliable--if you have questions feel free to contact us at 800-482-3025.


Question: i need to know specifically the risks and possible birth defects that could occur with prenatal paternity testing. i have looked and looked and everything just says that there are risks. i would like to know what they are to inform a soon to be father. thank you very much i appreciate your time and effort.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You are probably not asking the right people--we, for example, are not the right people. You should go to your local university medical center and ask to speak specifically to a person called a "genetic counselor". They will be able to answewr and then some. Good luck!


Question: Hello I was woundering how I go about receive the Voluntary Acknowledgment of Paternity form ?? If you could please send me iformation on how i can get 1 for my daughter thank you
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You contact Child Support Enforcement in your state and asked to be connected to their Voluntary Paternity Acknowledgemt Program. They can guide you from there.


Question: My husband had a brief sexual relationship with a woman. Nine months later the woman claimed my husband was the father of her child. Supposedly, my husband's name is on the birth certificate. This child is now 14 years of age. She has never asked for money and refused to take a paternity test 11 years ago when my husband doubted the validity. Now the son is asking about his biological dad's medical history, family genealogy etc.,. has sent pictures. We want to know if this is his son for sure. We are 2500 miles separated. Would you suggest a home paternity test? What if the mother does not want to put the son through it, for the fact she may tarnish her reputation? If the mother and son are in one state and the father in another, do we need two tests? We were also wondering, if she never asked for support in all these years, could she get back support for all this time?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: A home kit would certainly seem to be a good solution. You can download one at fairfaxidlab.com--click on pricing and then look for QuickHit(Home Identity Test)--click on that and it will download a file to your desktop--that is your kit. just follow directions and you will do fine. You do not pay the 210 dollars until you send in the kit PLUS the mother and child can be done in the different state by just downloading from our website as well. If you are paying the 210 dollars then they do not have to send in any money. If you have questions about this innovative test kit call 800-482-3024.


Question: my ex just filed devorce papers claiming he wants my daughter, he was a drunk that paid no attention to her the whole time we where married. and didnt even care that i moved with her out of state till he found out i moved in with my boyfriend. he is still very possesive of me, he knows he is not her father we met when she was 3 months old, yet his when we married we put his name on her birth records when she was 4 for for insurance reasons, it was easier. now hes trying to take her away cause he is hurt and jelous. is it possible to take his name off the records with dna ?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: No, only a court can take his name off the records--a dna test would be needed as proof but the court still may or may not help you.


Question: If a paternal uncle and nephew have sex on the same day with a girl.(she becomes pregnant) what would the DNA test results show? the nephew's test result was 97%. is it possible for the uncle to have the same result, if he were made to have the test done?also, in PA, if a paper is signed giving up your rights to a child, is it possible to reverse this procedure?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I am not answering the second question because it should be addressed to an attorney. I cannot tell you what the outcome of a dna test will be BUT if this DID happen and you did not tell the lab of the situation then you are wasting their time. The lab needs to know information like this to help them when examining the results for a report. Ther is a three percent chance the nephew is not the father. A 97 percent is NOT an acceptable standard by most quality labs.


Question: My friend is six months pregnant and she doesn't know who is the father of her unborn child. She thinks the child belongs to her boyfriend but she had slept with another man also six months ago. She found out later that the other man was her boyfriend's real father. Is there a test that could prove which is the father of my friend's baby?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Yes, it is called a prenatal paternity test but unfortunately, I doubt that she will be able to do it because she is too far along. She should wait until the baby is born and then have the test.


Question: My boyfriend has just found out that an ex-girlfriend is claiming that her son is his. Her husband has taken a paternity test that came back 96% that he is the childs father. She now is wanting my boyfriend to take a paternity test as well. The 96% postive husband/father is named on the birth certificate. How could a paternity test be so high for the husband and him still not be the father? Is that possible?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: the results should be a 99 percent or A Zero. A 96 percent is unacceptable. That test needs to be finished. Do do the test until the husband is retested with a better lab. It is likely that the husband is the father of the child but there is a four percent chance he is NOT. The ex-girlfriend needs to clear this up before going after your boyfriend.


Question: My boyfriend is fighting with his ex girlfriend over the fact that he doesn't think that her baby is his. When going to court who will have to pay for the DNA test the mother or the father if they are both uncertain about the paternity of the child?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Generally, the father pays but there is no hard rule of thumb--Bottom line: it is entirely up to the whim of the ocurt.


Question: Both of my parents are O+. They have both had their blood tested recently. But, my sister is AB-, I am B- and my brother is O+. The only type that makes sense is my brothers. Can you offer any explanations.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: No explanation needed. You are correct. An O plus an O will yield only an O and for the Rh--two positives will yield either a positive OR a negative Rh. Before you decide that something ominous may be afoot--choose to err on the side of caution and consider that someone had not been typed correctly--this is more common then you think.


Question: recently my daughters FATHER applied for a paternity test which we both know he is not the father with him being named on her birth certificate will he still pay me support on her also if he dosent can social services help me pay for a paternity test
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If he has a paternity test and it turns out that he is not the father tnen he CANNOT just stop paying support--the dna test is not a get out of jail free card--it is only part of the paternity determination process. Only a court can release him from his obligations and regarding social services--if they feel a paternity test is warranted then they will allow for one and MAYBE(not in every state) pay for the service. Chanceds are that he won't be released from his obligations (again depending on the state) because he signed the birth certificate. You should check with yor chld support agent to verify what I am saying.


Question: My husband had a blood type test done in 1983 the test peternity index calculations: are as followed, the odds in favor of paternity are 37 to 1, or 97.39% paternity is very likely. 16 out of 17 random men would be excluded as the father of ******* ********. my husbands blood type is O and her's is A1B and the child's is A1, I cant find info. on a A1B blood type, any help????
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I am not going to comment on the blood type--because the information that you are providing is very vague.--here is where you should be focusing your attention: on the percentage. 97.39 percent means that there is a 2.61 percent chance that he is NOT the father. With today's technology, he should probably be retested.


Question: On the DNA results the probability of paternity was 0.00%, I was told that there is always some percentage whether it's 1% or 99% is this true? Also at the top where it lists the mother, child and alleged father it lists the mother and alleged fathers race to be caucasian but does not list the childs race, why?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: 0.00 percent means that there is NO chance that he could be the father--if someone is excluded it is always 0 percent. Regarding the race--race is really only relevant when calculating an inclusion (he is the father) and only the father's race is used to make that determination.


Question: My son's ex-girlfriend was having multiple sexual partners and had a baby. She is claiming is my son's baby and my son even took a dna test to find out if is true, but now she does not want to take it, however she named the baby or use my son's last name on the baby's birth certificate without my son's permision. Can she do that? And, how can that affect him?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: She could have written Paul McCartney, Jr. on the child's birth certificate but unless Paul McCartney were to sign the BC it means absolutely nothing. Make sure that he DOES NOT sign anything until he has that test otherwise should very well lock him in as the father the test will become nothing more then wishful thinking.


Question: I wanted to know if a perons real sister wants to pass off as her mother. will the paternity test reveal the truth that she is not the mother but her sister or because their share the same bio logial parents it would not be possible to determine. Both the real biologoal have passed away.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: A laboratory will be able to tell the diference.


Question: I have to take a paternity test and I don't know what it consist of or where I have to take the test. I was told a social worker will be sending me the papers; however, the girl lives in a different state than me? HELP ME
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Well, first examine those papers carefully when you get them--you may want to have an attorney look them over--it is likely that they will want you to admit to the paternity by signing a paper--if you sign you may waive your right to the test. There may be somewhere on the paper that you can check that will give you the option of having the test. That is why you should have a lawyer look over the papers. As for the other being in another state--don't worry about that --labs collect between states routinely.


Question: My father is B+, My mother A+. I am B-. I asked where I got the -. My mother responded that my paternal grandmother was B-. As my father is + and his mother -, his father had to have been +. Is it possible that my grandmother had 8 children with no difficulties, miscarriages or jaundice in the 1930's to 40's and all of them are rhesus + and her with B- blood. It is my understanding that with each successive pregnacy the chance of developing immunities to + blood would have increased and that 8 healthy pregnancies resulting in 8 healthy babies is not possible.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You got your type from either your mother or your father--your grandparents have nothing to do with it--the reason you are a negative is because a positive and a negative will yield EITHER a negative or a positive. You could have just as well had a positive. Regarding inherited illnesses you should seek the advice of a qualified genetic counselor.


Question: I have been raising my son for Five years and now his mother tells me the truth that "My Son" is not mine. what should i do? if the DNA test come back negative that is not mine i want to get off child support. how do i do that
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: How do you know that if she has been lying to you all these years that she is telling you "the truth" now? Check with an attorney but I am sure, regardless of the outcome fo the test, that you will still be obligated to pay the support on the child as you ARE the child's legal parent.


Question: my husband recently was told he may have fathered a child 25 years ago does the child usually have the same blood type and rh factor as the father
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: not necessarily. He could have the same blood type and factor as the mother. The father DOES NOT always determine the type of the child. Do a paternity test.


Question: My boyfriend and I are not sure if he is the father of my unborn child. We want to do a DNA test as soon as possible after the baby is born. Is there an age restriction?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: No, there is not.


Question: I am still married but havent had contact with my husband in 4 yrs and I have a boyfriend now and we have a 2 month old together, A lawyer office told me that my husband needs to get a paterity test to prove he is not the father..I know he is not because I havent had contact in 4 years with him, does my husband and the baby father really need to get a paterity test??
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Yes--the child was born into the marriage and that makes him the legal father.


Question: what is the estimated wait time for paternity test results
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: 5 to 7 business days


Question: Is it scientifically possible for a blood transfusion given to an infant..in anyway alter the babys DNA...and 11 years later cause a paternity test to be inaccurate?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: No. It only takes 90 days for transfused blood to leave the systme. 11 years later the transfusion would be irrelevent. Blood transfusions cannot alter a persons dna.


Question: Hello i just found out that i am pregnant about a week ago and i just had my first ultra sound just the other day and the tech. told me that from my last menstral im about 21 weeks but from the way size of my baby he said it looks like more like 14 weeks and 4 days i found out that it is a boy and im excited this would be my 2nd child my first is 4yrs old and and a little girl ive been married about 4yrs and have been seperated a year of those 4yrs. Ive been with someone and he is aware of this and im aware of the same about him being with another, we have been tring to settle our diffrences and have been sexually active now he wants a peternity test to know if its his. And im stressing and cring and just want this heart ach to end and know the true father so we can by-pass this and move on to important things.....like my unborn child!!! My question to you is that i heard of peternity tests being done while the pregnancy is in affect and i was woundering about side affects to the baby,
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: we do not discuss the risks involved regarding invasive procedures on this board. The paternity test is of no harm to the child or to the mother HOWEVER the collection is invasive so before moving forward I would suggest that you discuss the CVS or Amnio collection procedure with an OB/GY or a Genetic Counselor to acess the risks.


Question: I just want to be very clear here. My wife has O+ and I have O- blood. We have a son that has B+. She claims he is mine, I have read the charts and just want be sure. Is it possibe that he could be mine?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The type of the child must be either O positive or O negative.


Question: My girlfriend from highschool went to court for child support when her son was 16 she took paternity test at the hospital she works at prior to this child turning 16 I Had no knowledge of him. I have a son from a previous marriage to whom I pay child support and two children to support in current my current marriage. The state of Texas is taking 651.00 out of my check every month. I have to work overtime in order to support my family and my health is failing due to my hectic schedule. I strongly believe I am being unfairly charged in the amount I have to pay for child support. I also would like another paternity test done at a hospital she does not work at. What rights and or resources do I have to to help me with my problem?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You're not going to like this answer but if you are paying child support and want another test to refute the previous test then you will have to take that up with the court. If you had a test now and it said you were not the father, the court will not necessarily release you from the obligation of paying support. Resources: see a family support lawyer.


Question: Message: mom child me ABO O A A RH DCce DCe DCcEe MNS M M MN HLA A 1,29 1,29 29, B 12,17 12,17 12 How do I calculate CPI?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I made a comment earlier about leaving the lab short of pertinent information and this is a good example. To calculate a combined paternity index, you need to know the index of each system which is placed on your report along with a calculation for CPI. If the reason that you have left out the index is because the father was exlcuded on this testing understand that an eclusion is zero and so there would be NO CPI. By the way, these are not dna systems so I am assuming you had a test quite some time ago.


Question: Can I refuse the court order for dna testing on my son if i choose to close my case
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: No--you are compelled by the court to cooperate.


Question: I had recently moved from Hawaii to Midwest and my period schedule (30 days) was a little off key. I am pregnant now, and my question is : My last period was Jan. 17th. I had protected sex with an old Boyfriend on the 6th of Feb. He never ejaculated. And I was very careful. I had a surprise visit from my Hawaiian B.F. on the 13th , that was unprotected sex and I took a positive test on the 29th of Feb. How likely is it that the first man would be father?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: There is a 50/50 chance that he could be the father.


Question: if a baby's due date is set for May 31st, when would conception have taken place?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: August 24 throught September 7


Question: I live in Michigan and am having a baby I do not want my ex in my life or that of my baby so I am refusing to put him on the Birth Certificate. He has thretend me about this and he wants his name on it, is there anything I can do to avoid getting a paternity test so his name isn't on the Birth Certificate? Please help.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I guess my question to you is what is to stop him from obtaining an order for paternity testing. If you have alleged that he is the father in any way--he may be able to obtain and order and if he does then you are compelled by the court to cooperate.


Question: I was wondering how would paternity be established if the father could possibly be the mother's father as well? Is there an accuracy that is different from regular dna's? Please if you can help me I would greatly appreciate it
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The testing would not be different--it would be a good idea to bring in BOTH potential fathers but if that is not possible then it is imperative that the lab be notified of the situation. Holding back information is something that test subjects frequently will do--it is not a smart idea to NOT give a lab relevant information.


Question: I recently had a paternity test done. I reviewed the results and understand the format of the results, but I would like more inforamtion about the actual test results, such as: What does D3S1358 mean?, and what does the numbers mean that are indicating which genes I have in common with my son. If you can point me in the right direction, it would help me out a lot.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: To use the example given, the notation "D3S1358" is interpreted as follows: "D" means that the location is on the DNA of the human genome (there are some organisms who have RNA as genomes;" "3" indicates that the location, or locus, being tested is on chromosome #3; "S" means that there is normally only a Single copy of the genetic sequence anywhere in the entire haploid genetic makeup of the person; "1358" is a "catalog number," for want of a better word. You could think of it as the 1358th sequence characterized on chromosome 3, if you like. The sequences that are studied are short stretches of genetic subunits, called bases, that are repeated one after another. The numbers that two related people share indicate the number of repeats of the sequence at the genetic locus in question.


Question: Well, I had a c-section August 28. They took my son at 37 1/2 weeks.. The man I got pregnant by we did a home dna test I did not see him do the test. And Later after that I knew he had someone at his work do it for him because he is married and he was scared.And it was Negative. DUH. I now want to retest him and me do the swab and he keeps giving me the run around.. I just wonder can you tell me what my due date was. I think I got Pregnant the last week of December in 1999. Help me what should I do. He looks just like him I was with another man in the beginning of December.. I just know that the one I tested is the father and i dont know about the Home dna test cause the Genetic System Chart is not the same as others I looked at.. I just dont want to believe hed do this to this lil boy and me.. My son is 3 1/2 years old and it has taken this long to finally get him to do it I dont believe he really did it or the test is wrong..
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You have already answered your question. You said he did a home test and that you did not see him take the test. Retake a test and this time pay a little for to have a court admissible version done and make sure that you are tested as well--make sure all samples are collected the same place at the same time.


Question: Can you tell the race or age of alleged father by any of the Dna Profile. I think he got someone else to do the test. THe father is African american my son is biracial , I am White.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: no, you cannot.


Question: I got pregnant in 2001, and when I had my ultrasound on 8/15/01, the gestational age for sonogram was 19weeks 1day. With a range of (17weeks 5days-20weeks 3days)? and the estimated due date was 01/08/02.I did not know the date of my last menstral period to determine time of conception. I delivered my first child on 01/10/02-8lbs-7oz-22in. Unfortunately I had a fallen out with my partner and turned to another man. We had sex one time on 05/05/01. I was wondering if possible to figure out time of conception? Also how likely is it that my partner may not be the father? How accurate are sonograms in the second trimester?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: March 25th through April the 8th would be the time of conception. You need to take a paternity test to answer your second question and you should discuss the merits of sonograms with a qualified medical professional.


Question: Say that a woman is pregnant but she has had two sex partners within the last month, and she finds out that she is pregnant, is there a way that she can find out who the father is before the child is born?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Yes, you can search this forum for the many post that we have put on on the subject of prenatal testing... They should answer your question.


Question: My husband had an affair july 2001 the girl became pregant she told my husband that she had sex the same night with her other two children,s father. the baby was born april 24th 2002, when would she have conceived?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: between July 18th and August 1st.


Question: Can pre-birth paternity test harm the baby, or cause premature labor or anything like that??
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: A prenatal paternity test is an invasive procedure and any invasive procedure may involve risks. You must check with a physician or a qualified Genetic Counselor in order to properly ascertain risks.


Question: My seventen year old daughter had her first child last September. The problem is she is just now admitting to having slept with her ex and her current boyfriend within the same week. The first day of her last menstrual (before she got pregnant)was Dec 14th. She had relations with her ex on Dec 25 and sex with her current on Dec 28,which according to her regular 28-day cycle, she started ovulating on the 28th. Let me also mention that her ex of 4 years had never gotten her pregnant. Is it true that after being with the same person for a long period of time his sperm forms a coverage in the vagina? And who could be the father?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I don't know what a "coverage in the vagina" is. Suffice it to say that some people have lots of kids over lots of years, so that in itself, if you think about it for a second, argues against what I THINK you're saying, that the likelihood of a woman having children with a man goes down the longer she has sex with him. Which one could be the father? Either one could be, on the basis of the information provided. Get a test to be sure; that's the only way.


Question: My boyfriend of about 2 years had unprotected sex with another woman during the time we had a 2 month break up (from november to december). She claims to be pregnant and told him yesterday. We don't know how far along she is, nor if she really is pregnant. If she is, we'd like to know if the baby is really his or someone else's problem. How far along in her pregnancy must we wait to have a paternity test? And when is too late to have an abortion?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You can do the test at the 10th week--you will have to check with your local health department or abortion clinic. Abortion cut off times will vary from state to state.


Question: If a paternity test in conducted could two woman share the same (8)characteristics of said child, and if what would the percent be.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Huh? I have no idea what your questions is. Please restate your question.


Question: My husband was notified recently that 8 years ago he fathered a child as a result of a one night stand. He was contacted by the state, and the mother said to forget it, and that they could pursue this matter privately. Since then, my husband acknowledged his intention to follow-up on the paternity test, but the mother has left her job, remarried, and apparently moved. Can she pursue back chld support now? We cannot locate her, and she has made no effort to contact my husband.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: she can refile anywhere that she goes but it will take time for the state to pick up her case to the point where they will come seeking aknowledgement. When they do, ask for the test before you sign anything.


Question: ALERT
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If you submit questions that should be more properly answered by an attorney those questions will be immediately deleted with NO response. Please direct those questions to the appropriate lawyer driven forums of Divorcenet.com. Ask the Experts is not a lawyer forum.


Question: I have a son that is now 29 years old and believe that his father is someone that died in 1996. His potential fathers' parents are dead as well. Is there a way to establish paternity with one of his sisters or brothers?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You could but it would be better to get one of the deceased's children and do a sibling relationship testing for half or no sibship.


Question: if my childs birthday is may 10th more than likely when was she concieved
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: somewhere between August 3rd and August 18th


Question: How does an 18 y.o.putative father pursue paternity testing when the infant's mother,also 18, died during childbirth- the couple had no longer been dating.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I would start by contacting an attorney and see about petitioning for a test. If you are the father, the attorney will be able to counsel you on your legal rights.


Question: how far along do you have to be in your pregnancy before you can have a dna test done and how is it performed? also how accurate is this procedure?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: 10 weeks and it is a dna test so it is very accurate.


Question: Is there any way to get a paternity test befor the baby is born?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: yes, you can find the answer here from previous post.


Question: Mother Blood type is O father Blood type is A What would the blood type be for the child?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The child will be an A or an O


Question: If myself and my husband are A positive and my child is 0 positive...could the child not be my husbands based on this?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: two positives will produce either a negative OR a positive Rh. Two A's will produce eith an A or an O. He could very well be the father of the child but consider taking one of our home tests.


Question: My son was born April 15,2000.There are 2 possible fathers.Me and my boyfriend were broken-up and I was dating someone else.I went back to my boyfriend and in the middle of it all I got pregnant.I was only with the other guy for 1 month and me and my boyfriend didn't get back 2-gether until around Aug.1 or 2. Who is the more possible father?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It is hard to say since your information is vague. Regardless, as I have said in my previous posts, calculation are estimates and I would not tell you who is more likely to be the father. Get a test.


Question: My question is, when you have a paternity test done and the results say 97% probabilty. What does that mean? Yes he is or he could be but not sure still.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: In some states, paternity is considered conclusive at 97 percent. A 97 percent indicates a 3 percent margin of error.


Question: Hello. My question(s) is as follows. The last date I slept with my ex wife was December,15,2001. She had the baby November,18,2002. She told me she carried the baby 41 weeks. Does this make me the father of that child if all dates are accurate that ive stated? And when would her conception date have been, based on her sons date of birth? My ex wife also stated that she slept with another man January 29 to mid february and so on. She states the baby has some of my features such as curly hair and a fairly sized head which i had of both as a child. We are going to get a paternity test done, but should I have to get this done if the dates over rule me of even being the slightest chance the father?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Have the paternity test. Forget the features issue and also consider that the conception calculations are estimates and so are not entirely accurate. You need to move forward with the test to give yourself closure.


Question: I got married in May of 2003....after me and my husband got married him and i seperated..>Not legally...he moved back to his moms and i went back to my moms..and were apart for about a month...I was with an ex at the end og august beginning of september and my period had just stopped...So we were together sexually...a few days in a row...Me and my husband saw each other before he went to the army around the end of september...And slept together....I found out October 5th i was pregnant...My doctor told me my due date was June 11th and i concieved on September 5th...After an ultrasound They moved my Due date to June 18th...But said I concieved september 12th...Im not sure when my real due date is now....I assume june 11th-18th...Maybe sooner..When you caluate on the calender with how many weeks i am its the beginning of june...I know i need a DNA test...but who is likely to be the father??....Also...I told my husband about me being with another man...He told me he wanted to raise it as his own...
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Well, as I see it, the change in dates has you somewhat confused. Remember that these types of calculations have a variance of give or take two weeks before or after. In your case I would consider doing two calculations which I will do now. Lets Start with June 11th: the child would have been conceived between September 9th through September 22nd--NOW let's take the other extreme--June 18th--the child would have been between September 19th and September 27th. Unfortunately, you cannot say who the father is because the times that you had intercourse with these two men overlap--and you are right you need to do a molecular based test which will accurately pinpoint your father. I am getting the impression that you are trying to decide which man you will test first. I would say you should consider testing the husband first and then go on from there if need be. good luck.


Question: I've filed a paternity suit and had first test come back 99.99%+ positive, father has requested additional test to which I've submitted to. Now he is requesting that my husband be tested as well. My husband and I know undoubtedly that he is not the father. Would a judge be likely to grant such test already having first results in evidence?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It will depend on the judge but I would let your husband be tested and THEN take it the judge for a decision--otherwise this man will continue to test this case into eternity.


Question: My son was informed that a girl he dated for 2 weeks may be pregnant with his child. This girl also dated other guys. My son will support this child(if it's his). She has put her last name on the birth certificate only. If the child is his, does she have a legal obligation to change the last name on the certificate? Also, who is responsible for paying for the paternity test? My son is in the military and will have little contact with this child( which is unfortunate), and I doubt if she will make any effort to see my son. Her parents want to raise the child Jewish and they say it must have her last name to do that! Is that true? Which type of legal service should he see for all of these issues? I realize the DNA test must come first(which I feel she should pay or at least split the costs). Thank you for you help with this.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I don't know anything about the Jewish faith so you should check with someone more knowlegable spirtually. She can give the child any name she wants. The real question is WHOSE name is going on the certicate as the father? As far as paying or splitting the cost, the lab won't care who pays it--that is between you two to decide--or, if you two cannot make the decision between you--a court to decide.


Question: I was wondering if there is a chance that if a man took a paternity test and it came back 99.99% that he is the father, is there a chance if another man was tested that the test could come back 99.99% for him too. The reason I am asking is because the baby doesn't look anything like the man tested. I know there isn't much room for error in these tests but is it possible? If so how could we go about getting the other man to take a test?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: if the first man came back included at that percentage, I would be very surprised is the second father came back with the same result.


Question: I am married to a woman of which I was with several years ago. Approximately 9 months after the last time we were together, she ahd a baby girl. She was married at the time of the birth to someone else. Now we are married. Can I initiate DNA testing on my "step-daughter" to see if I am her father. I have always had doubts about this issue, but I am not sure if the alleged father or my wife is willing to say ok to her being tested. I ordered a home kit, but I am not sure If I can do it without the consent of her mom. Please let me know if you have any clue. Thanks from Texas.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Home kits are not court admissible and are for "curiosity" ONLY. Most of these tests are done without the participation of the mother.


Question: I live in NJ and my daughter's father signed the birth certifate and ecknowledges our child as his own. If i were to take him to court for child support would they make him take a paternity test?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: search this board for the links that I have posted to the Federal OCSE state profiles. When you get there, click on the state of your choice and then click on paternity--you will find your answer there.


Question: My boyfriend of six years and I recently got engaged. A week ago he came clean with the fact that before we met he was with a woman that had just broken up with her boyfriend that he had been with one time. Shortly after they were together he found out that she was pregnant. She never contacted him(my fiance) and her ex boyfriend at the time was declared the father of the baby. He(my fiance) questions if there ever was a paternity test done. If we find out that the father is paying child support and has visitation rights does that necessarily mean that he has had an actual paternity test? If someone just assumes that they are the dad can they just pay and not question anything? Or is it possible now for my fiance to have a paternity test? What are the steps we should take?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You can probably find most of the answers to your question by contacting the clerk of courts offices as court proceedings are a matter of public record. A paternity test does not have to be performed to determine paternity--the signing of the birth certificate in some state will settle the issue--in some states a signing of the birth certificate AND a paternity aknowledgement will determine paternity and paternity can be declared by the court "in default" if a man is deemed uncooperative. A paternity test is only part of the picture you see.


Question: If two brothers have the same father yet different mothers, are they half brothers or whole brothers. What determines half siblings?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: if they have the same father and different mothers they are half siblings--likewise, if they have different fathers but the same mother they are also half siblings--that is what determines a half sibling relationship.


Question: I was wondering what would happen if a mother refused to let the father or patiental fathers to do a dna test? CAN YOU REFUSE TO HAVE ONE DONE AS LONG AS THERE NAME IS NOT ON THE BIRTH CERTIFICATE????? PLEASE HELP SOON!!!!!!!!!
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: you have to have the test if you are compelled by the court to do so. If the court tells her to have then she has to comply


Question: I live in MO and the father of my 6 week old lives in IN. His name is not on the birth certificate but I want him to sign over paternity rights so he can never come back and want visitation or any kind of relationship with my son, he wants to sign over rights so he doesn't have to pay support. Will the state let us sign over his rights and if so how do we go about doing it, what are our options?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Before he can sign over his rights you have to establish the child's actual parentage. YOu and the guy need to do a paternity test first then take results to an attorney.


Question: My boyfriend is havening a hard time with establishing his divorce because a child is involved. His Ex will not execpt the paternity papers. We have just found hair of his daughter's from a haircut we had given her 3yrs prior. Could paternity be established with this hair??
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: No. It cannot.


Question: My friend is not for sure that this baby this girl is having is his baby. He knows that he can get a paternity test done while she's still pregnant but he wants to know how much will it cost.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: figure on spending around 2200 dollars in out of pocket expenses. Insurance will not cover this proecdure.


Question: I have a 7 year old son, and a man has been taking care of him all of his life...he is in the military...he has known from day one that they may be a chance he is not the biological father, he didnt care,said he wanted to be the father anyway...He signed the paternity acknowledgement when our son was 6 months for the military, at that time we also got his name on the birth certificate....We had another child which is 100% his and we did the exact same thing...we even went to court and he has been paying court ordered child support (state of Va) Now the other possible father wants a Dna test and he has even petitioned the court....Can this be done? even if someone elses name is on the birth cert? and if this man turns out to be the father, would i be liable to pay back the child support? The man thats been taking care of my son is threating to take me to court to make me pay back the child support he paid if the other man turns out to be the father...I dont feel that is fair since he knew the situation and he was willing to be the father...he signed the waivers in court. Please help.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: In the state of Virginia, paternity is conclusive if the paternity aknowledgement has been signed AND the birth certificate has been signed. I doubt seriously if the man can get a peternity test and have himself declared the father of the child. Legal paternity has been established.


Question: My girlfriend is 14wks pregnant and we would like to know the paternity before the child is born. Through research, 3 methods have been shown, Amniocentesis, CVS and Maternal Blood or Fetal Cell. The latter is a new method supposedly with a 95-98% accuracy and I have found sites saying not to depend on it for serious decisions, this is making me unsure of its accuracy. Can I depend on this test for valid results?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: No. There is no serious validation studies performed in this country to make it an acceptable solution and it is currently NOT endorsed by the American Association of Blood Banks. You are better off spending your money on tried and true procedures.


Question: Do the father make the siblings whole siblings or half siblings. I always thought mother mother was the one that made the siblings whole and the father made them half, is this true?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: yes--and no. You have it half right which is appropriate for sibling question. Half sibling wil share only ONE common parent while whole siblings will share BOTH parents. In half siblings the common parent can be EITHER the mother OR the father. It does not matter.


Question: I recently received results of DNA test with an exclusion @ D21S11 with child 29,30 and AF 28,33.2 and was told the term "rare micro variant" What does that mean and is it possible that the exclusion at this loc. not valid?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Mutations in any genetic test system are not unknown, and they typically manifest as a unit number difference (such as 29 in the child and 28 in the AF). Know two things: first, it depends on whether or not the 29 is truly the allele that had to have come from the child's biological father, and since no mother's data are given, this can't be known for sure; and second, it's important to know whether or not this was the only exclusion on the report. No lab testing to accepted standards will exclude a man on the basis of only one genetic inconsistency. At least two are required, and for the STR-type tests (as in this case), each of them should be a mismatch that is off by more than a unit number difference. If this exclusion is one of several, then it really doesn't matter if it's real or not; there are others that would reinforce the conclusion of nonpaternity.


Question: Last year my ex-girlfriend got pregnant and its really 50/50 (for all I know) who the father is.She recently lost her job and is now seeking child support from me. I feel like the child is not mine. She said she was going to sned the courts after me and make me take a paternity test so that I have to pay her.I am in college and have very little income.Do I have to agree to take the test, and if I am the father how much would I probably pay?(we live in Texas)
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: First, if you look around on the internet there are caluclators that you can find for each state that will calculate how much child support you could expect to pay. Second, IF the Attorney General's office orders you, through the court order, your are compelled to submit. If you do NOT take the test they could declare you to be the father by default and you would still end up paying child support--do not neglect any contact that you have may have with the AG's office. Lastly, confirm what I have said here with an attorney.


Question: how can you get a women that says that her daughter is not yours but has ever facilal featuers and look like you so much that your parents and grandparents think it is yours but she wont let me get a test done what can i to get her to let me get one done. thank you
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If she doesn't want the test get an attorney and see if you can have a court ordered test performed.


Question: Hi, my niece is unwed in the state of Ga. She just gave birth to a baby girl and the birth certificate her boyfriend did not have his name on it or signing. She received a letter from the hospital stating that he must sign a paper or the baby remains in her last name.(She did put his name on the certificate for the babies last name, but his name was never on or signed .The bottom line is, he does not want anything to do with this child, as he has removed himself from her. His mother(which would be the grand-mother if married ) wants full custody of my nieces child. No marriage involved as she resides at a good home with my sister and her husband. My niece does not want any child support or him to have any paternity rights. He is abusive possibly Manic dep. and is no way a father figure. Now my question is, can she continue to raise her baby by herself or does he or his mother have ways to fight for full rights. Sounds like a soap opera-unreal actually
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Grandmother wants full custody of the child? Bearing in mind that she raised a child who is allegedly manic depressive and potentially abusive, she should probably concentrate on the child that she does have. Until paternity is established, she has no rights as a grandparent but you should check with an attorney to determine her rights, if there are any at all.


Question: my b/f and his ex have a daughter, however no bloodtest have been taken to prove it and she admits to being with someone else. he wants to pay child support and help take care of her and raise her, but the mother gets irate at the idea of getting a bloodtest. the reason he wants a bloodtest is so that his name is on the birth certificate and so he has rights to his daughter. the other problem is that she is in canada and he is in the united states and we are unclear of the laws in canada. hes afraid of paying child support and her not letting him see or have a say in their daughter that he so far has no legal rights to. who pays for a dna test? and if the child is his will he have to pay back from when it was born? money is definately an issue as he is a single father of 2 with no help from the mother and he wants to do what is right.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Well, first things first--don't sign that birth certificate without a test. If she does not want a test then there must be some sort of reason. Secondly, BEFORE you enter into a support agreement you should contact Queens Counsel in Canada and find out EXACTLY what Canada's stance is on this subject and how child support works. Canada DOES have a reciprocal agreement with the United States for the collection of child support so try to establish what you need under Canadian law.


Question: My friend's g/f is pregnant, and he is unsure if he is the father. She gives her due date as "middle to end of July." I think she chose this vague "due date" to fit in with the time they first had sexual relations. I think she's at least a month further along than she says she is. She will probably have a good sized baby, as she herself was a big baby. My question: If she has the baby in June, will she be able to pass it off as premature? Or will the doctor be able to tell if it's full-term? (not on the basis of birth weight alone)
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It does not sound to me as is she is going to be forthright about any information that will help you to detemine paternity. I would just insist on a paternity test BEFORE any papers, including the birth certificate, are signed. I could not even begin to speculate on whether or not should could pass the baby off as pre-mature.


Question: What is the law exactly?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: HUH?


Question: An elderly family friend has been contacted by a 50 year old man oversees who is claiming to be his son. He has stories of a horrible childhood, and claims to just want to meet face to face and be acknowledged in order to "make himself whole" My friend was overseas in the country this man is calling from and may have had a child around that time. He was named on a birth certificate by a woman with whom he had a brief relationship. What should he be cautious of? Is there a scam out there like this in foreign countries where people get the Birth Certificates with males GI's and start calling them asking for things?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If this child wants "closure" then he should have no problem take a paternity test. Our Quickhit kits are downloadable and only cost 210 dollars. If he tries to play with the test in anyway--the child would be excluded so you could probably assume that there would be no monkey business on the part of the child. Tell your friend NOT to do anything until he has a test. If you have questions about QuickHit, you can contact us at 800-482-3025.


Question: is ther a statue of limitaions in ohio for establishing paternity
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If you search through this board you will find links to a site called OCSE State Profiles. You should be able to get you answer at that site.


Question: I am haveing twins and would like to know if they are idential or not i have one placenta two sac
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I cannot tell you if the babies are identical twins based on this information alone. We sell a twin test that you can download from our website which is on 285 dollars but you can't do the test until the babies have been born.


Question: I have been paying child support for 11 years in texas. I find out later that I am not the biological father because of a home paternity kit. I want to stop making payments and give up every right to the child who isnt mine. Can this happen and can the real father step in?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: No,child support has to be overtuned by the oourt and home test kits are NOT admissible in a court of law.


Question: Can a buccal swab determine cocaine use, and if yes, how long does a user have to be clean (free of cocaine use) before it will no longer show up on a buccal swab?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: A drug testing company would be better qualified to answer those questions.


Question: My ? is how old does the baby have to be before this test can be done.They plan on joint custody so early testing would be great.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You can do the test the very day the baby is born.


Question: I was wondering if a father (parent) has passed away and there were questions whether the father was the actual parent can testing still be done and in what fashion?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: There are three ways. 1. using both paternal grandparents 2. using a sample from the deceased. 3. Testing children of the deceased for sibling relationships.


Question: Are there precautions that can be taken to assure the paternity testing will be accurate? We don't want the father to be able to alter the results?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: laboratories have quality controll measures in place as a matter of routine. The best thing to do is to make sure that ALL are pleasant at the time of the collection and stay until it is packed and shipped.


Question: I have an 11 yr old daughter that I am paying child support on. I recently found out that she is not mine biologically and child support says I am in arrears $27,000 half of this being interest. Is there any way to get the interest knocked off my arrearages?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The only way is if the child support people agree to waive the back support. Talk with an attorney and get some legal input before pursuing this option.


Question: I have a friend that may have a son. The mother has told him 2 different stories and he wants to know if he has a child or not. What are his rights as an unknown father? Can she keep going in circles to keep him from his son? How can he legally pursue this issue?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Well, he could do a home test on himself and the child--not court admissible but it will give him answer. He could go to court and seek a paternity test as well so yes, he can legally pursue the case--start by consulting with an attorney.


Question: I am pregnant by a guy who refuses to accept any responsibilty for the child, he says that he will refuse to take a paternity test, even though he knows the child is his. What can I do as far as trying to get him to be tested for paternity?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: When the child is born, go to child support and file for support. They will ask you the names of the people whom you suspect is the father of the child. Let them take care of this for you.


Question: The father of my child is denying first dna results until he rules out human error with a second test. I have absolutely not a doubt, but I am kind of curious now if there are any studies about paternity "human error" cases. Heard of any?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: No studies that I know of--I am curious--how is the second test going to rule out human error--what if the first test was correct all along and the second test is in error.


Question: My son and his girlfriend have a daughter. His name is on the birth certificate as the father and I believe he signed it as father. Does the mother have the right to deny him rights just because they were not married and she has a new boyfriend now? Are there any rights gained by having him listed as father on the birth certificate if a marraige was not established?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If he is the legal father, she cannot deny him his rights as a father. Take this up with a family law attorney and ask about things like joint custody and visitation. In some states, the birth certificate is considered conclusive proof of parentage.


Question: The same thing happen to me with the DNA test coming back negative, I was not with another person, so my child does not belong to another person and when I called the Attorney General's office some people were mean others really cared and said that mistakes happen. I stayed in court for 6 hours for the Judge to deny my request for a second test, now I have to get a lawyer. Yesterday I did receive a letter saying that the other parent was served and I would be informed of a court date later, what does that mean, did they approve my request anyways? And what rights do I have to ask for a second test, I am thinking the seventh amendment maybe? I am willing to pay for the second test and I do not even care how the first one can back negative, I get medicaid and half of my daycare paid from the State of Texas and they will cut me off if I do not work with the Attorney General and my son has no other father. If you could please give me some ideas or some direction I would really appreciate it.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: you should probably contact the AG's office to find out if there is another test. You are challenging the results so do not look for the court to pay for the second test--except in Florida where they will pay for a second test.


Question: A girl my big brother had a relationship claims she's pregnant by him. He wants to have the parternity test done before the baby is born so he will know what he's up for when she has the baby,is it possible to have a test done before the baby is born and if so how far alond does the pregnancy need to be in order to get the test?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: you can read more about this subject by search the entrie thread. Yes, it is possible and the process can start at about 10 weeks.


Question: Is it possible for a mother, father and child all to be type opositive?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: absolutely


Question: Message: two years ago, i had a dna test done to determine that a certain guy was my chid's father. the test came back 0%. i was shocked because i know that he is the father of my child. i tried calling the child support services and try to get a retest, but they only gave me attitude and the run around. i hav e strong reason to believe that the alleged father did not go and take the test. he told me that they use something like spoon to collect his dna and not a cotton swab. he also claimed that the process cut the inside of his mouth.but that's not the only thing that he lied about, he also stated that he was tested at different facility and it was not the child support office. am i grasping for straws or does his story sound a little to fishy? what should i do to prove to the child support services that there should be a retest?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Personally, I do think you are grasping at straws--the swab he decribed as spoon shaped is just a different sytle of swab--there are many types. The court gave you an "attitude" because they consider the issue closed. Child support offices do not always collect on site so it does not surprise me that he was tested at an off site facility. IF there is a father--a potential father that you have NOT tested against then you need to test him and any others before you go after the first guy again. You need to eliminate ALL variables in order to make your argument credible.


Question: If your blood work was done in CA would they send it to greensboro NC to test it? How can I tell if the results are forged or not
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: They used to send it to Greensboro but that lab is now defunct--they could send it to Burlingotn. If results are forged then the lab who did the testing will be able to tell you. If the lab who tested your case was in Greensboro, NC--just fax it to me at 336-883-3856. I will probably be able to tell you.


Question: My boyfrind of 2 years as just rencently recive court papers to appear in court about a child he's quite positive is not his. He's already taken a paternity test in 1999 but she never showed up for the results so the case was thrown out. Now she wants money and We we're wondering can we still use the old test or does he have to be tested again? and Do they keep records of these tests?? thank you for your time.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: See an attorney before you go to the court and YES take your paternity test with you to show to the judge. Consult with an attorney first.


Question: My fiance had been married in Kansas to a woman who said she was pregnant with his child and if they did not get married she would have an abortion. After a few years she said it is not his child and the red hair and freckles kind of make it certain since her ex was red hair and freckles. Now all these years later living in a different state (PA) back child support is due. How do you go about paternity testing when you married her, paid her support before being told the truth. Can he be stuck paying support and arrears for eight years that he has not seen the child and she has remarried and in trying to have her new husband adopt him. My finance is not responding to her request since he is not the father just the guy on the birth certificate.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If the child was born into their marriage then he will most likely be liable to pay child support and I will be surprised if he is able to get a test. He needs to contact an attorney immediately.


Question: My child is three years old and her dad wants a paternity test He is not on the birth certificate and I have sole legal custody can he have the test done without my consent. And Can he get his name on her birth certificate she was born in North Carolina
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: He could take the child and perform a home test but without the birth certificate he would be hard pressed to get one that is court admissible.


Question: My boyfriend received a letter from a girl he had slept with 9 years ago that stated "as you know you have a daughter" and that she was looking to get child support. He was never told that he was a father in all that time. He feels ripped off if he is because he missed out on all those years. In the state of NJ is she still entitled to child support... he did not evade this - he never knew about it...she could have reached him at any point in time as he had not moved or changed his phone number in all of that time. He is planning to go for DNA testing, do you have any further advice?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Unfortunately, the world is not fair and this is one of those unfair examples. If she is going for child suport and they are going to come after him, he will most likely have the opportunity to ask for the test--do NOT sign ANYTHING until you talk to the agency about the test option--you should also take any document that they send you to sign to an attorney to make sure you get the opportunity for a test. Good luck.


Question: I had a girlfriend for a year and suddenly she dumps me and I find out she's pregnant. She does not deny the child is mine, but says she wants nothing to do with me and that I have no rights. I want to be this baby's father and in this childs life. I am willing to do whatever it takes, what are my rights?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: She is alleging that you are the father. First, you will have to wait for the baby to be born, due to the uncooperative state of the mother, to get that paternity test. Since your name is most likely NOT going to be placed on the birth certificate, then get a court order for a paternity test to establish paternity. Do this under the advice of a family law attorney. They have the expertise to insure that you are afforded your paternal rights. If you ARE the father then the law protects your rights as a parent and only the law can take them away from you.


Question: I am pregnant by a guy who refuses to accept any responsibilty for the child, he says that he will refuse to take a paternity test, even though he knows the child is his. What can I do as far as trying to get him to be tested for paternity?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Wait until the baby is born and then file for child support. Let them give him the option of taking a test.


Question: A recent swab test came back showing my son's alledged father to be 99.99%+ positive. He has asked for an additional test which I agreed to. When the lab called, they said it was a blood draw and I do not feel there is any legitimate reason to draw blood instead of using swab. Everything I've read indicates that there is no difference in accuracy of blood vs. swab. Is this not correct? Have you heard of any cases where a judge manadated a blood test?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The father has convinced himself that there is a difference between a swab and a blood collecion--either way he is getting a dna TEST. A judge ignorant of the differences might order blood to be collected but is is very rare. He is grasping straws.


Question: My sister and I have reason to believe we do not share the same father. How can we find out for sure? Can we do a DNA test without our parents involvement?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You can go to patenitynet.com and get a sibling test there at an inexpensive price..This test will allow you to test wihout your parents.


Question: I was married in 90 my son born in 94 my ex signed the birth certificate knowing the child might not be his we have gone through a bitter custody battle and after years he won. I want to have a DNA test done to prove he is not the father and if it comes out that way can I take custody of the child from him. We also have another son born in 90 who he has custody of but threw out of his home 2 years ago. That child is actually his. Where do I stand on this and is it worth paying a lawyer to regain custody?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I think you have answered your own question. First,a dna test is only a piece of evidence. It will not automatically cause the child to be returned to you. The court will examine all of the evidence and then decide if it is in the interest of the child that you regain custody. The same for the second child. Get the lawyer.


Question: My boyfriend took a paternity test for a child that he was allegedly the father of. A mouth swab was taken and was dealt with through both parties lawyers. The results came back as 0.00% paternity or that he was exclusive. The girl claims that he IS the father and that the baby has down syndrome and this must have effected the test. Can the baby having down syndrome effect the results at all?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Downs Syndrome does NOT effect the outcome of a paternity test. The mother is grasping at straws.


Question: My girlfriend recently got pregnant by another person. We are still sexually active. Is there any chances of me becoming the biological father.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If you were still sexually active with her at the time of conception BEFORE she got pregnant then there is a chance that you could be the father and would be a 50/50 chance. You did not indicate how you knew he was definitely the father.


Question: A girl had a baby on Dec. 6, 2003. She is claiming that I am the father. I did sleep with her 1 time during Feb. 2003. It was early in the month of February. I flet sure this was not my baby so I agreed to pay for a swab test so she would know the same and stop telling people I am the father. The results came back 99.96% probablity that the baby is mine. I want to pay for my child if it is mine. I went to the child support office to explain this situation. They told me that she would have to come in and fill out the appropriate paperwork and they would then request a blood test. One day she tells me she is willing to do this and the next day she tells me she wants me to have nothing to do with the baby.I know of several other guys that she was with last year. Should I give these names to the Child Support Office. I think that if they are tested and I agree to be retested, the results could differ this time. What do you think?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I think there is only a 0.4 percent that one of those other men could test positive. Those are pretty slim chances. As for giving the names to the child support, will that is up to you but do not expect them to give you a retest.


Question: My girlfriend is pregnant and I have some doubts if I am the father. What are the repercussions if the baby were have my last name and then find out I was not the (biological) father? I think I am doing the right thing in being with her through the pregnancy. If I wasn't with her and I find out the child is mine I would be upset that I missed his whole pregancy. Any advice or support would be great. Thanks
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: First, the other can give the child any last name that she chooses. She could name the child. She could give the child the last name of Disney but that does not mean that Walt Disney is the father of the child. Depending on the state, the birth certificate may or may not constitute a presumed paternity according to the Federal Office of Child Support Enforcement, Health and Human Services. You indicated in an email response to me that you live in the state of virginia. In the state of Virginia, a paternity is presumed if the man's name is on the birth certificate AND he has signed a paternity aknowledgement paper. BEWARE, in Virginia there are privatized agents who will seek to get you to sign the birth certificate and the PA paper when the child is born. You wil probalby feel some pressure but ,in reality, you don't HAVE to sign anything. I strongly urge you to do a paternity test first. Since you are in Virgina, you and the mother can come into Fairfax to our lab to do the test and we can get you the results in 5-7 working days. That is more then enough time for you to decide what you will sign. Please confirm what I have said with an attorney.


Question: I was recently told by a child support agenecy that I can not get a paternity test done becaus 8yrs ago when my daughter was born I sign a weiver saying she was mine here recently I've been told she may not be so! how do i go by getting a test done!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You can't get one that the court accepts--you signed away that right and don't look for them re-open the case and potentially bastardize the child. You could do home test kit, which we can provide, but it cannot be used in a court of law.


Question: IF you pull out before ejaculation inside a woman, but then she have sex 2 days later with another man who in fact ejaculated in her what is the percentage that the one who pulled out is the father.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You've got to be kidding me. You can't break up paternity into percentages based on who pulled out and who didn't. I am sorry but the chances are still 50/50. Take a dna test.


Question: When my son was conceived 11 years ago I had reason to believe that the childs mother had a affair. I tried to do the right thing by raising the child as my own. When the child was 3 years old, the mother took him out of state without my permission and continued to file for child support of which I am now liable. She is refusing me any contact with the child even though I solely raised him up until the time she left. My question is can I still have DNA testing done now to verify that he truly is my son? And if he is not my son would I still be liable to pay child support? Also can this be done without disrupting the child's life? Or more specific can it be proven by blood type?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Blood typing is as about as unspecific as you can get--you can heighten your suspicions but you will still be paying the child support. Regarding the issue of the mother moving to another state, you will need to consult with an attorney in the state where the mother resides. Also, i believe that if you are the father of the child you are allowed parental rights by law. Ask the attorney about those rights and about the possiblity of a dna test. Depending on what state you are in, marriage may constitute a presumed paternity.


Question: im not married and i have a 11 month old boy whos mother wont let me see him Neither of us have filed any court papers what is the first step i need to do to see my son
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I think you have already answered your own question. The mother is preventing, according to you, you from seeing your own son. You need to file your papers and seek visitation. You might also want to ask the judge to order a paternity test while you are at it.


Question: i recently had dna testing done to determine prove father of my child. The lab results came back inconclusive because two mutated genes or cells were found. The labs were sent out to another state and i have not receiced the test. it has been almost a month on hte 8 of march? what does this mean
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: your results were shipped, possibly to another state, to a second laboratory for "extended testing". You can expect this to take a lot longer--figure at least four to six weeks when you consider that it has to be sent back to the original lab for release and it will still need to be evaluated by the original lab. This is a common turnaround time in these cases.


Question: Can DNA results be wrong if the person has had traditional chemotherapy and CHOP and also radiation. I had a paternity test done on my son who was conceived before his cancer treatment, and the results came back that my husband was not the father.I know in my heart he is. Is there anything that does alter paternity results?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: it is not likely.


Question: how can i get paternity for my son when the father lives in another state and is not will to due the test? can he be made to take the test and due i have to have a lawyer to help with this? can you tell me how much you think this will cost me?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I would file for child support if you believe that it wil be diffult to get him to cooperate. I you do a test then with the child support involved then it will be whatever their contract price is.


Question: My friend had a brief affair with a women who was involved with two other men at the same time. The women gave birth on the 22nd Jan. Given the variation in gestational length (she had been given two due dates 30th Dec (LMP) and 10th Jan (US) and the proportion of first births that arrive 'on time', how likely is it that sex on the 8th or 15th April could have resulted in conception in the time window indicated by your calculator.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: very likely


Question: Does a child and there parents blood type have to match? For example my Fiance has an A Blood type and his Parents Mother B- and his Father is O? Is it possible one of them isn't his parent??
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The child will receive the type from only ONE of the parents but it can be either--neither the father nor the mother will dominate the determination of the child's blood type.


Question: have a daughter who is going to be 3 years old soon. I had recently gotten a DNA test done with the man i felt was her father. The test came back 0%. The man had file a petition for parternity and custody.We have to go back to court for the paternity case and the custody case. Now that we have taken the test and gotten the results, what will happen with the case? Will they throw it out, (the custody case). Can he sue? He never really did anything for her, he gave here and there. My daughter calls him by his first name,for the simple fact he came and went never really establishing a fim relation. He would be around and she would get use to him, then he would disapper for 3 months or so since she was born. I also want to know what was the time of conception, how can i find out? she was born june11,2001. thanks
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The child would have been conceived between September 5th and September 19th. Regarding yur court case--I am assuming that the child was not born into a marriage beween you two. In other words, you and he were never married to each other when the child was born? I could not see a court giving this man custody but do check with a lawyer--can he sue you? Again, check with an attorney but I could see what he could sue you for--that you misled him? I have noticed over the years that some men (not all) will use the "make you have the paternity test and then get custody (Read--take mama from her child) as a tactic to scare the mother into backing down from going for child support. Again, check with an attorney to confirm everything that I have said.


Question: My mother is threatening to have a paternity test on my son. Does she have any legal right to request such a thing? How possible is it that she could legally get that accomplished? His father and I do not want one done. Thanks
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The grandmother does not have the right to have the test without the consent of the parent or a court order--I would be surprised to a court order such a test--well, not true entirely--she could talk the father's parents into doing a grandparentage test but she would have to have access to the child. In any case, she would have to the father's cooperation to do the test. Which brings me to the next question that comes to mind--is she in contact with someone that she THINKS is the father? If she IS talking to such a person, then I would keep an eye on her--she could do the test as a home kit which would need neither your consent nor a court order--it would not hold up in court but it would be a major irritation for you and the father. Talk to an attorney about what you can do to protect your child if you do not wish this test to be conducted.


Question: i'am type O and my wife is type o also, it is possible that my child is have a type B blood? it is only denpends in the parents blood type the blood type of the child? there is no effect the blood type of there grandparents to there grand child blood type?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Two O's will not make a B. Blood typing is passed directly form the parents--NOT the grandparents.


Question: i've been in childs life since day one and after 5 yrs she claimed im not the father and she knows who father is, but when child was 1 years old she took me to court 4 child support and in my heart i believed i was father.ive paid child support for many years and now she wont allow me in childs life or any visitation..and she hasnt made any signs of getting me my money back since the court took me for child support..they asked for money & now they wont pay it back and she constantly moving to avoid courts since she knew she was wrong since day one,please send me some input on my rights and what can i do in my situation.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If it has been determined that you are the father of the child you have rights and it is not the mother's place to determine the limit of the rights--it is up to the court. Talk to an attorney and lay out for him your situation. Since you indicate that she is constantly on the move then ask the lawyer to consider looking into custody. I do not know the entirety of your situation but you need to have the lawyers working for you so that you can excercise your paternal rights.


Question: how do i find out about a paternity test that was taken on my new husband. he had a child supposedly with a past girlfriend.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You cannot. Paternity information is secured informaiton. If the test was conducted privately then ONLY your husband can get you that information--or you could ask the mother of the child that was tested. The laboratory will not provide that information for you unless you possess a court order and I seriously doubt you would be able to obtain a court order in this situation.


Question: Who may challegen paternity? My daughter is a drug addict (10 year documented history of arrests) with additional jail time for other criminal offenses. We have had very limited contact ( several calls and one visit) in the past 8 years. She contacted us just prior to the birth. The child was born addicted. We visited her ( in another state) and put in place all the programs, (State protective services, methadone clinics..etc) The system worked as we were notified that she had left the child in a crack house but was sold back to one of her boyfriends for cash and cigarettes. This boyfriend signed paternity papers. Legally, he is the father. She indicated to us that he WAS NOT the father, and in fact she really had no idea who was. She also has a long history of prostitution. We attempted through all of those agencies to obtain voluntary custody..but the boyfriend would not agree..he believed if he kept the child she would come back to him...although one wonders why.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: As I sat here reading your note one thing came to my mind, and I certainly do NOT mean to be insensitive, is where is your evidence. If you wish to make a case you have to have something concrete that you can take to an attorney. I would speak to social services and see if they will help--otherwise, you need to take your strong gathered evidence to a CARING private attorney who practices in that state.


Question: I am an American pregnant by a British citizen that I am not married to. I am married to an American man but he is not the father and we will get divorced soon. Can I sue the father for child support even though he is in England? Will the court declare my husband the legal father? If so what will the mean for a paternity suit against the real father?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You file for child support locally like you would do normally. The local authority will petition to the state level who petitions to the national level who petitions to the regeistry in the UK at Queen Anne' Gate. They can then initiate collection procedures on your behalf.


Question: How does the free quick hit test work and how do i get one the web site was confusing to me?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Well first--the test is not free--the kit is--you download it from our website and follow the directions. The cost of the test is 210 dollars. You can call us at 800-482-3025 if you would like us to walk you through a download.


Question: What paternity test can be done while the baby is still in utero? Do you know of any places that perform this in the Kansas City area. Thanks
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You can either do paternity testing by CVS or Amnio collection. You need a doctor to perform the extraction. I do not know of anyone in Kansas City who performs this test.


Question: What types of parernity test are available and what is required for each? (that is, how long, what material, time of return for results)
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Fairfax Identity Laboratories performs dna testing--our turnaround time is 5-7 business days. We use buccal swab collection for the taking of the samples.


Question: I AM IN THE MILITARY AND I LIVE IN LOUISIANA. I HAVE A POSSIBLE CHILD WHO LIVES IN GEORGIA. I HAVE A DNA SAMPLE IN MY RESPIRATORY. WITH US BEING APART IS THERE ANY WAY A DNA TEST COULD BE DONE WITHOUT ME HAVING TO GO ALL THE WAY TO GEORGIA?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I think you mean "repository". If you are referring to the DNA that was collected for the military dog tagging program then the answer would be "NO". However, you do NOT have to go to Georgia to take a test. We typically perform interstate tests for our clients. You can contact us at 800-482-3025 to set up a test.


Question: are there any precautions taken by labs that would eliminate someone tampering with testing (adding other saliva to their mouth)? Will this method change the signif. change the results of the test?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The collector has to keep a sharp eye out for such activity but overall it is unlikely that it will happen--there are safeguards mandated by the American Association of Bloodbanks that AABB labs are supposed to follow to help insure the integrity of the test. I cannot not speak for non--aabb labs. They do not have to abide by the same quality control standards.


Question: I recently found out that my daughter is pregnant and her boyfriend may also be her half brother. This would be on her Father's side. (Same Father, Different Mother). My daughter's Father has refused to help us establish if this is true and her boyfriends Mother reacts the same way. We need to know for sure if they are related. What advice can you give for the most accurate test to determine if they are half brother and sister and what is the average cost of such a test? Thank you for your help.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: very simple. You can go to our website at fairfaxidlab.com and obtain one of our downloadable QuickHit Sibling Edition Test kits--the down load is free --the test is 400 dollars and you just send in the money with the test kit. This kit will help you to accurately discern if these two are indeed half siblings.


Question: My son's girlfriend ran away with her biological son (23 months now) last December 2003. My son signed an acknowledgement of paternity when the baby was born and subsequently received the baby's birth certificate with his name as the father. Last Oct. 25th, I swabbed the baby's mouth with a q-tip & also clipped his hair. Can you use this specimen that I took before my grandson was taken away w/ my son's (he's here with us) to establish paternity that would e admissible in court. My son would like joint custody. Also, please confirm which kit is appropriate if we purchase one.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I am sorry to hear about your current conflict. We have a test kit that you can download at our website whose address I posted on a listing this morning. The kit that you want is the QuickHit Home Identity Test. The cost is 210 dollars. We do not make you pay for test kits--it is not our style. THAT BEING SAID--we cnnot use your swab sample because there is no way to verify conclusively that it came from the child that you wish to test. You have to have the paperwork from the kit before you collect the sample so that you can insure a sufficient chain of custody under AABB guidlines. I would talk to the police and see if they can suggest anything--being a domestic issue they may not be able to help you but it would be worth a try. Also, talk to an attorney about other issues including joint custody. Regarding the clipped hair--it is of no use.


Question: My girlfriend and I are seperated by 2,000 miles and we plan to be married after she moves to my home state. We currently use "the pill" for family planning however, after feeling nautious for a few days in her company, I asked her to get a pregnacy test. The results were positive. She had an ultrasound performed on January 29th, 2004, to which she was told she was 6 weeks and 5 days pregnant. This time line is very delicate...for the simple reason of her arrival date to my home for the Christmas & New Year holidays. We had intercourse on Christmas eave. How accurate are the ultrasounds at this stage and do I have reason to suspect the worst case?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Well you are separated by 2000 miles so I can assume that she is in another country? Ultrasound as a conception tool is an approximation. Should you be suspicious--not at this time but if yo continue to doubt then you could, after the 10th week of preganancy, consider a prenatal test.


Question: Is is true you have a home kit for $210 to test DNA and find out if a child is yours.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: THERE WAS A PROBLEM WITH LINK ON THE PREVIOUS POSTING--HERE IS THE QUESTION AGAIN WITH THE CORRECTED LINK: Absolutely--you downnload it at Fairfaxidlab.com. Hope this helps.


Question: Is is true you have a home kit for $210 to test DNA and find out if a child is yours.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Absolutely--you downnload it at Fairfaxidlab.com. Hope this helps.


Question: I am 21 weeks pregnant and it feels like an emaculate conception because both of the potential father's should not be able to have children. My husband and I have had three kids, however about three and a half years ago he had a surgery for a pretty severe varicocele and was told he would never have more children. When he climaxes he hardly even poduces seamen if he produces any at all. The other possibility had a vasectamy 3 years ago. Shockingly to me he wants this child to be his so he has gotten a sperm count twice since I told him I was pregnant. Both tests came back with a zero sperm count. And I swear on my life they are the only two possibilities. So I guess my question would be what are the percentages for each to even father a child. Even with two negative sperm counts, is there still even a slight possibility that it is his? Thank you for any information you can provide.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I would suggest that you wait until the baby is born and then have a home test perform--if he is excluded then move on to the second man. you can acquire the test at the following location: Get Test Kit.


Question: The Father of my baby wants a paternity test...how long is the wait for a result? Do both the child and father need to be screened at the same time? Can this procedure be done at my local hospital? What would the average cost of such a procedure cost? Thank you for your time.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: We can do a home test for you for 210 dollars. You do the collection of the sample at home. It is that simple--you can acquire the test at the following location: Get Test Kit.


Question: my son came home for a visit, his ex-girlfriend said that they slep together, my son says that they did not. now she is about eight weeks pg, and say my son is the father. the date that she slept with my son is november 30, 2003. she had her last cycle on dec 1, 2003. and is not sure when she had a cycle before that.my son says that he did not sleep with this girl. also, how safe would it be to get an amniocentesis, and how soon can we get one, and about how much would it cost?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: expect to pay an out of pocket expense of around 2000 dollars when you figure in the cost of the paternity test and the collection of the fetal sample. You can do the test of course but only with the consent of the mother and the approval of the physician who will perform the collection.


Question: I am about to have a baby in April, and the father of my baby is now claiming that this may not be is child, which I gave him no reason to believe. He told my mother this information. Also he wants a DNA test done. But now he will not speak up on it. I was wondering if the test can be give after the birth of my child? Also would I have to pay for it since I am getting all the information for this even though he brought the testing up?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Who pays for the test is really between you two but if he is contending that he is not the father then it seems to me that the burden of proof is on him to prove his claim so she shuld pay for the test. You can do this test within DAYS after the baby is born--If he has an issue with paying for a test you might have him check out one of our QuickHit Paternity tests which only cost 210 dollars.


Question: I would like to konw how I can a free dna.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You cannot--it is sad but true--DNA laboratories are businesses and, as such, like to be paid for their services. Your best bet would be to see if someone you know would pay the cost of the test.


Question: How accurate is the swap test?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The "swab" test is no different in accuracy from the blood test. It is a good test.


Question: Is it possible to determine a baby's father while it is still in the womb? A girl I slept with says that there are two possibilities as to who the father may be. Can this be determined through testing?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: yes, you can but you will need th authorization of the mother's physician.


Question: My boyfriend and I found out a year ago that his prior girlfriend was caliming that her baby was his. She told everyone but him, we found out first from friends of ours whom she had told, then we found out from his sister and mother whom she presented the child to as their granddaught and neice. They immediately believed it and never asked my boyfriend if the child was his. They showere the mom with gifts and helped her financialy. Then when my boyfiend cut off ties to them because he would not admit the child was his, he does not believe it is. They finally stopped paying the mom and she cut them off from seeing the child and went after my boyfriend for child support. Him being a red blooded male and stubborn as all get out ignored the letters to appear in court. They sent a sheriff to the house with papers, a friend signed for them. He talked to an attorney at the court house who told him if he was not personally served he did not have anything to worry about, bad move. So he did noti
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: you said bad move and the story ended there--but I will bet you that he took the attorney's advice and ignored the service. In child support cases, a court can hold the father in "default" and declare him to be the father and liable for all child support. I would get a second opinion from a lawyer who specializes in family support.


Question: Back in September my spouse and I had a major fight and we weren't talking much. And he decided to go live with his mother for a little while to think things over. Well about 2 to 3 weeks later he had an affair with my brothers wife. And we just found out about a week ago that she is pregnant. But she has not said anything to My him about this. She said that she doesn't know if he or my brother is the father and she won't go and get checked by a doctor to find out how far along she is, so he can determine if he's the father or not. Is there anything we can do legally to make her go and get checked. He and I have 2 children together, and if this is his child she is carrying, it will be thier half sibbling/cousin. And we don't want that. It's not right and he knows this now. As he put it, it should of never happened, cause you don't have sex with your relatives, blood related or not. And the times it happened she got him drunk and seduced him while he was under the influence.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You cannot force her to have this test at this time--I would also be surprised if you are able to get a court order since the brother is going to be the legal father. I would suggest that you wait until the child is born and ask the mother to participate in a simple home test to put the problem to bed.


Question: i have a year old daughter my husband believes that she is not his because she is light skin and he is dark skin but she takes it from me im light skin. we goin though a divorce so i think he is doin it so he wont poay child support, but on the borth certificate he signed as the father. he said he had doubts since she was born. I was told that he would still have to pay child support even if she wasnt his and is there a specific age that u have to get a patenity tes? thank u.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: you can have a paternity test at any age. I hope this helps.