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Question: My husband who passed away last year has a son who is now 11 years old. It has always been a question as to whether or not the boy is really my deceased husband's son. The mother collects Social Security Death Benefits for the boy. Can it be proven whether or not my deceased husband is the father or not? There is most likely hospital records with his blood type. How would the testing be done and does the boy need to know it's being done. I don't want to hurt him. He's innocent, it's the mother I know to be pretty deceptive. Just wondering because if proven my husband were not the father, would Benefits be taken away. Thanks for your help. >
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I cannot answer questions about benefits but consider that you will need the mother's permision to test the child and of course you will need the child. If you and your son's biologicial father are availabe you can do a grandparentage test with the child or you could use deceased samples from the father gather from either the medical examination if an autopsy was performed OR from an exhumation. If the father had OTHER children, then a sibling relationship study can be performed. I hope this helps.


Question: I HAVE READ SEVERAL TIMES THAT EYE COLOR HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH PATERNITY. IF THIS IS TRUE CAN YOU EXPLAIN WHY AND HOW EYE COLOR IS DETERMINED. MY CHILD HAS BROWN EYES, HER FATHER HAS BLUE AND I HAVE HAZEL. IT WOULD ANSWER ALOT OF QUESTIONS.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Pigmentation, whether it be of eyes, skin, or hair, is due to not one gene but several in combination. You have to understand that any pigment is made in the body by a series of biochemical processes that occur one after another. Imagine that the series goes something like: Molecule A ----> Molecule B ----> Molecule C ---> Pigment where the Pigment is the stuff that makes eyes brown, hair dark, or skin dark. The way this works is that if my body has Molecule A but can't turn it into Molecule B, then, up to a point, my body will build up a bunch of Molecule A. If my body could make B, then I could make C from it, and from C I could make Pigment. The important point is that, without being able to make B from A, neither will I make C or Pigment, and my eyes will be blue. I have sex with a girl who also has blue eyes, but her eyes are blue, but her lack of the brown pigment isn't because she can't make B, but instead she can't turn B into C. She can make B just fine, but doesn't have the genetic makeup that allows her to go to the next step. Since C is necessary to make Pigment, her eyes are blue, too, just like mine but for a different reason. The abilities to turn A into B, or B into C, or C into Pigment is hereditary. If our encounter creates a child, that child can gain the mother's abiity to turn A into B, which I can't do, and gets my ability to turn B into C, which the mom can't do. This child of ours now can carry out each of the transformations in the sequence, and the result is brown eyes.


Question: My son has XYY. He also had a swab paternity test done. Could the extra Y make any difference on the results? >
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: No. The gender marker is not used in calculating a likelihood of paternity.


Question: Could you please explain this to me, what exactly is a Paternity Index and what does the above indicate to you? > This is from a paternity test I took part in. Thank you.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: This tells me first of all that you're giving the results of a motherless test, that is, one in which a sample from the mother was not tested. If it were, the X value would be either 0.5 or 0.25, most likely. The X value is the likelihood of the tested parent(s) producing the child. The Y value is the likelihood of finding that child in a randomly-chosen population. The ratio of the two (X/Y) is the paternity index. A value of 86+ indicates that the characteristic that the child and the tested man share is relatively rare, and on the basis of this one trait, evidence is relatively strong that the man and the child are related.


Question: if the mother and the father share the same number gene, should the child not inherit that gene too. for example.....mother 29 31.2 child 27 29 alledged father 27 31.2 this same senerio happened on 3 of the 10 areas looked at. the child got one of the genes from each but not the shared gene. should further testing be done?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Whether a child inherits a gene from a parent or not is a matter of chance. If the mother is, to use your example, 29, 31.2, then the odds of inheriting the 29 or the 31.2 are 50/50 The same is true for inheriting a gene from the father. The odds of the child inheriting the 29 from the mother and the 27 from the father are 50% x 50%, or 25%, which is not a very small probability; 25% of the time, you will see this happen. On the basis of what you have presented, there is no reason to do any further testing. The results are not at all unusual.


Question: My mother took my brother's father to court for child support in 1978. A blood test was performed to determine paternity. The results of the test were that it was not possible to establish non-paternity for the father. He never had to pay child support or anything,so I don't know if the case was thrown out (three blood test were taken) or the jury ruled in his favor (I think the whole case was fixed). The results were as follows: > Es-D/EAP/PGM/AK/Pep-A/Hp/Hgb > Dad B ccee MN ss kk Fya-b- 1 A 2-1 1 1 2 A > Mom AB CcDee MN ss kk Fya-b- 1 A 1 1 1 1 A > kid B ccDee MN ss kk FYa-b- 1 A 1 1 1 2-1 A > > Is there anyway you could read these results and tell me what you think? Also, If the result of the test could not determine anything back in '78 if we located a sister of the alledged dad (or another child) would the new test results remain the same or could something be determined? > We have located his dad's side through research, but we would like proof that he is the father(to ease their minds) before we approach them. Also, I was reading some of the other questions. I read about a lady whose baby's dad had passed away (both my brother's parent's are deceased)and it was advised to her to obtain samples from the medical exmainer to get social security payments. Is that possible if the dad died in '96 and the mom in 2000?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The tests that were run back then included genetic factors that didn't have a very high ability to exclude a tested man. Without doing the calculations, I would guess that the probability wasn't high enough to reach the legally dictated level. Either that, or the judge/jury didn't understand the science of it and so didn't consider it. You ought to be able to get a transcript of the legal proceedings to find out what happened. You could do DNA based testing at this date, using samples from the alleged father's siblings or VERIFIED children. Alternatively, samples from the deceased individuals could be used if they're available. If there are hospital or autopsy samples from the alleged grandparents, those could be used. What, exactly, would be gained, however, in opening this investigation up more than 25 years after the original test? If it's to have a connection to the father's family for the sake of that connection alone, be sure you're not going to stir up any animosity. At least, since the child is no longer a minor, nobody should get defensive about anybody seeking back support. That can't be done.


Question: My ex and I did a dna test bought online. The company is located in Seattle Wash, but the swabs were mailed to Canada. I have seen where you state that we should only use labs in the US, but my question is this. The samples took 3 weeks from the date I overnighted the samples to them to get us the result. First, could they still be accurate, and second, I have checked the better business bureau and found nothing, but could this company be actually not doing the testing??
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: unless you can actually speak to someone on the phone, you should NEVER buy a paternity kit from someone online. While you can freely download our kits and send a total of only 165 dollars to pay for the complete test, we always include a support number to help you during the collection process so that you know that we are for real. Not knowing anything about this lab, I would be hesitant to comment.


Question: My cousin has tested two men as the potential father of her son. Both came back excluded...she swears it is one of them. My question is could these men have done anything to sabotage the results? We believe, obviously there must be at least a third man, but she says different.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: in a case like this the ONLY thing you can do is to retest--but make sure she is footing the bill. Sabotage is always possible but is unlikely. She is challenging your results and so she needs to come up with the cash--it is that simple. Also--NO home kits in this case--full service, court admissible, and collected by someone at a collection site.


Question: When my daughter was born, they told us her blood type was B+. My ex-wife and I are both O+ and all the research I have done says that the only blood type possible for our offspring is O. My wife told me that it is rare, but possible to have . Is this true?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I suggest you do a paternity test--it is extremely unlikel;y that the child's blood type would be a B. I have never heard of it but I am sure someone on the internet will agree with your wife but it seems to me, having done research yourself that you don't have a confirmation to her claim. Get a test. You can get a private downloadable home test by going to Fairfaxidlab.com for only 165 dollars. That will definitely settle the issue. When you get there, click on pricing and you want product number three.


Question: I HAD UNPROTECTED SEX WITH A WOMEN AROUND THE 16TH OF JUNE. SHE WENT TO THE DOCTORS TWO DAYS BEFORE AND STATES SHE WAS NOT PREGNANT BUT WAS TOLD SHE COULD NOT GET HER BIRTH CONTROL DEPO SHOT UNTIL SHE HAD HER PERIOD. I HAD UNPROTECTED SEX WITH HER THREE MORE TIMES WITHIN A WEEKS PERIOD. BUT EACH TIME FROM THE FIRST OCCASION TO THE LAST I NEVER EJACULATED.WITHIN TWO WEEKS AFTER THAT SHE TOOK A HOME PREGNANCY TEST AND TOLD ME SHE IS PREGNANT AND IT IS MINE. HOW LIKELY IS IT THAT SHE COULD BE PRGNANT BY ME.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You are asking us to speculate on this woman's promiscuity? We will not do that. If you had sex with her then consider that is could be likely that you are the father of the child--then consider having a paternity test after the child is born.


Question: My husband and I have been married over 21 years (been together prior to marriage) and have 2 biological children, one will be 17 and the other daughter just turned 19. I am really tired of the fact that when we get into arguments, it always turns around with him stating that the children are not his. This always happens. Both girls are definitely his children. His responses are that they do not look like him. People that he has never met, alway say how his daughters look like him. One is blonde w/blue eyes, the other has dark hair w/brown eyes. He has dark hair w/blue eyes and I am blonde with brown eyes. I want to get DNA testing done, but I am on social security and do have alot of money, but I need to have this done. We do however have insurance. I will be filing a divorce, because this is no way to live. My girls have problems dealing with this, and has really gone on too long. Please advise.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Well, insurance will not cover a paternity test--however, we have one that is only 165 dollars (add an extra 55 dollars for the second child ) that you can download either at our website, fairfaxidlab.com or at Divorcenet's sister site, paternitynet.com. I would strongly suggest that you do one of these. Regards.


Question: Can you still get a paternity test after the mother has passed away. My son would like to have one done, but the mother just recently passed away and if so will it be as accurate.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: sure, it is called a motherless calculation and nowadays the tests are very accurate.


Question: I know someone that says they had an abortion done at 6wks gestation and had a DNA test done to prove the paternity of the father. I was wondering if this was possible. Wouldn't that be too early and the fetus too small?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It is certainly possible using POC or Products of Conception if enough fetal cells can be collected


Question: My last period was 1/21/02, I had sex on 2/5 and 2/9 with two different men. I had a mouth swab dna test for parentage and both came back as not the father! How can that be? Aren't dna mouth swab tests 99.9% accurate? What can I do to get an accurate test. Both men think they are off the hook and won't submit again for another test.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: in the case of there of a man being "NOT THE FATHER" the result is 100 percent conclusive. Neither of these men fall within the ocnception period. Either there is a third man or a sample was mishandled by the person who took the sample. I suspect it was the former and that there is a third man.


Question: Ok, my husband had an affair back in November. He received a phone call on Christmas day to let him know that she was pregnant. A few weeks later, he decided to work on our marriage and end things with her. The only contact she had with him was asking for money to have an abortion. When he did get a hold of her she told him the pregnancy had ended (whether by miscarriage or abortion, I am unclear). We figured that was the end of it. A couple of days ago, he received a phone call from her that she had a baby and needs help. How can we believe her? We know for a fact that she was constantly partying and drinking. We want to believe it is not his. Could it be someone else's child? What should we do? We are just trying to get our family back in order again.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Put this to bed immediately. Do not offer help until she consents to a paternity test.


Question: would like to know if the alleged father is unavailable for testing can a sibling of the alleged father be used for dna testing?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: uncle to niece or nephew tests are very iffy in nature. If you call 1-800-234-2528, the lab can help you put together a possible testing scenario.


Question: I hope you can help at the time of my childs birth my little girls father was in jail they didn't allow me to put his name on the birth certificate (she has his last name).. now my little girls father has died recently and there was a autopsy done but I also have a braid of his hair that he kept I need to know where i should go from here to get benefits from his death and to have him put on the birth certificate his family doesn't even know where to begin I hope you can help thanks
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The braid is useless. You need to contact the medical examiner's office and see about getting the samples released for a test. If you need help in getting the test set up contact Lonna Hall at 800-234-2528.


Question: Which is more accurate, the swab or blood test? and does it make a difference if one or both parents do the test?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: These are EXCELLENT questions to ask any lab that wants to sell you a paternity test. You can tell by their answers if they actually know what they are talking about and, personally, I won't buy from ANYONE who doesn't know their own product. Here are the answers:Which is more accurate, the swab or blood test?--Neither--they are the same. Both are vehicles for retrieving samples for a test. In blood, the dna is extracted from the white cells while in swabs the dna is extracted from the buccals. HOW CAN one be more accurate then the other? The only notable exception to my comments on blood and buccal is with blood--there is a second kind of test called an HLA test which is commonly referred to as a blood test. It is an immunological marker test and is NOT as powerful or as accurate as a dna test. does it make a difference if one or both parents do the test?--no, NOT REALLY but if you supply the mother you are making the task at hand simpler. Today's technology makes is easier to perform a dna test without the mother but sometimes the lab will be forced into performing extra testing which can hinder,in some instances, the turnaround time. Having the mother available usually allows the lab to be able to bypass the need for additional testing.


Question: If both parents have brown eyes and the baby {1 yr. old) has blue eyes. Should the father get a DNA test?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: No. both parents should test if there is a doubt as to the paternity of the child. Eyes have nothing to do with it.


Question: My wife has been unfaithful and is now pregnant. I don't know if the baby is mine. When The baby gets here in a few days I am going to have a DNA test performed. It will take 7-10 days to get results back. If I give my name as the father for the birth certificate and then the test comes back it is the other man's child and i file for divorce will I be obligated to pay child support and take care of this baby since I put my name on birth certificate ? If I do not put my name on birth certificate and it is my baby then what do i do ? Please help me.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: sounds like the hospital is putting pressure on you to sign some papers. They CLAIM they have a deadline for getting these in--I have seen hospitals wait for results to come back. Have a lawyer contact the hospital on your behalf and make sure that NOTHING gets processed until you have your results back. By the way, talk to them BEFORE you acquire the lawyer--you might start with the medical records people and if that doesn't work--talk to administrators--doctors and nurses won't be able to help you with this. You may also want to contact child support enforcement to see if marriage is considered conclusive proof of paternity.


Question: After 10 years, they have finally tracked down my son's father and we now have to go through DNA testing. I'm remarried and pregnant. Will my current pregnancy cause any problems with results? And will the testing itself be dangerous for the baby?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Oh, goodness no! Samples are collected from the mouth so no invasive action will occur that oculd endanger your child.


Question: Message: Hello, I have a question I was hoping you could help me with. My LMP was around October 15, 2003 and I had completely unprotected sex with my husband on around the 21 and on the 31 of October. During this time I was also intimate with another male but did not have any unprotected sex at all and no sex around the times I had sex with my husband. I delivered a healthy full term child on July 16, 2004. The other guy says he wants a paternity test done when I feel it is clear that the child is not his, the dates don't match to me at all and we were incredibly careful. Also, I have other children by my husband and this child looks EXACTLY the same as them, there is just no doubt and I think this guy is just harrassing me. Do I hvae to give him a test, I want him to get away from me. If I refuse, what are the chances a court will force the test? Thanks
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The child would have been conceived somewhere between October 15 to around October 30th. You did not indicate when you had sex with the other man so it is hard to tell if he falls into the ocnception period. the court may be hesitant to order a test on a child who has a legal father--what I would do would be to do a home test with your husband to see if he actually is or is not the father. You can download an inexpensive version at our website--165 dollars.


Question: Hi, and thank you so much for taking the time to look over my question! I am 34 weeks pregnant and my due date is September 14, 2004. I have been with my husband for 6 years now and I cheated on him with another man on November 16, 2003. I did have my period in the first week of December, and found out I was 8 weeks pregnant on February 4, 2004. My due date is September 14, 2004, and my doctor is using December 9, 2003 as my LMP. Please tell me who is most likely to be the father of my baby, my husband or the other man? Just for peace of mind. Thank you so much.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Actually the LMP would be more like December 7th which would make the conception date somewhere between December 7th and December 22nd.


Question: I recently found out that my boyfriend may be the father of 2 children with 2 different mothers. Paternity tests have never been done and only 1 of the mother's has filed for support. There are possible other fathers for both of these children. He now owes back-child support now on this child. What I want to know is if a) he starts making child support payments and we find out that the child is not his, what will happen to that money, and b) how can we go about getting paternity done in the state of Kentucky when we live in California and have had no contact with these women in almost 5 years? He needs to find out if he is the father and he is willing to take responsibilty if he is, but how do we start?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I guess my question is can he even GET a paternity test on a child that he is supposed to be paying support on. Lastly, you have to discuss outcomes directly with child support. We cannot answewr that question. To start,he needs to contact child support to make sure they will accept a paternity test.


Question: WHY AREN'T MY LEGAL QUESTIONS BEING ANSWERED?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: BECAUSE I DELETED THEM. AS WE HAVE STATED BEFORE, WE ARE NOT LAWYERS AND CANNOT COMMENT ON THE RIGHTS AND LAWS OF EACH STATE. HAVING SAID THIS, PLEASE BE AWARE THAT WE WILL NOT RESPOND TO THESE QUESTIONS AND THAT THEY WILL BE DELETED FROM THE BOARD.


Question: Can A paternity test be done before the child is born? If so at what month of the pregancy and are there any risk?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Risks must be assessed by a medical physician. You can do a paternity test at the 10th week of preganancy.


Question: ok this is kind of long but here it goes. the last time i got my period was march 1st 2004. my bf and i had broken up march 20th. we had sex in between then. i was supposed to get my period march 28th. but i didnt. i waited about a week maybe a little more and i took a cheap dollar store test. it came back negative. i started seeing another guy and we ended up having unprotected sex april 17th, 18th, and 19th. i took a test the 20th and it came back positive. my due date is december 8th 2004. my bf and i are back together now is there any chance that this may be the other guys kid? i had my ultrasound done at 19 weeks and she said i was right on and that my due date didnt change should i worry about getting a dna test done? also i had gotten drunk april 3rd and there was a point when i blacked out and i really dont remember a couple hours of that night. if i had sex that night with the other guy could it be his or still my bfs?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The child would have been conceived between March 1st and March 15th based on the information that you have supplied.


Question: Can someone forge a DNA Test? Can someone go to the lab with someone else's sylvia inserted in their cheeck in order to confuse the outcome of the test results?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I think you have asked this quesiton before--the answer is no--the lab would be able to spot such shannanigans.


Question: hi my daughter was born april,30 2003. she was two days over due. i did the math and figured out about when i concieved her, july 17,2002 give a day or so was i right
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The child would have been conceived somewhere between July 23 through August 8th. You cannot pinpoint date of conception down to one date. It is a range.


Question: Is there a limit on how many times a paternity test can be taken?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: For a home test kit--NO. For a court ready test, it depends on how the judge rules in the case. Ask your local lawyer for details on the legal aspect of this question.


Question: brother did a dna test with an ex girlfriend of five years,the >child and the daughter did the test together and he did his later, he didn't >notice though that he placed his test swab on top of the child's envelope >and got it really wet with his silavaeffect the dna results? Also how can he >trust the test results when the first set of results wern't his and then >they got the birth days wrong on the second form and then they only charged >us 200$, I just want to know if the results are to be belived due to >everything that happened please let us know thanks
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The price of the test does not denote the quality of the test--that is irrelevant. You also tell me that this is a home kit so the results will not hold up in a court of law. It does not matter if the two people are collected together. From what you tell me about the saliva, I doubt seriously if it would have affected the results--the lab would have noticed if the child's sample contained two dna samples. First, the lab did not get the birth dates wrong--if this is a home kit which is what you are indicating then the collectors are getting it wrong--NOT THE LAB. The lab is only testing what it receives. It assumes that the collectors are honest enough to submit the test correctly. I would believe these results.


Question: hi, thank u for having this forum available. our whole family has been rocked by a girl claiming my brother got her preg. these 2 had a 4 day fling between feb. 13-18 of '03. she left town, called him in march, apr, may, never said anything about pregnancy. just called out of the blue 2 weeks ago and is > 5 mos preg. we went w/her for her ultrasound. acc. to the sonogram, the LMP is 2/10/04, the EDD is 11/15/04. baby is 25 wks 2 days. i checked yr conception calendar, could this baby be his or not? is it possible? could the edd be off b/c the baby is just small for age? any help or advice would be appreciated. we are all going crazy here.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Based on the LMP, it is more likely that the EDD is 11/11/04 which would make the time of conception between February 4th and February 16th so based on the informatin that has been supplied--yes it is possbile and he should look into getting a test as soon as the baby is born.


Question: A family member who was adopted as a infant has recently located her biological mother's family and is trying to determine who her father is. A possible father and the adoptee submitted samples to different labs and the results came back inconclusive. They were told additional testing would still be inconclusive. Does this mean he is unlikely to be the father? The mother is deceased and never identified the father to her family.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It doesn't sound like the lab has much genetic information to go on. I might suggest that you contact Lonna Durrance at 800-234-2528 and consult with her about a new test if it is at all possible. She will want to know everyone who is available for testing.


Question: How old does a newborn have to be in order to take a test to determine paternity of the father?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: From the time of birth-less then one day old.


Question: A paternity test revealed the THO1 results as 7,9.3. I know that 9.3 is a variation of the Caucasian allele, but what racial origin is the 7? > Which loci are racial indicators? Where can I find an explanation of paternity test results, in a format I can understand? > Hope you can help.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I don't know where you are getting the idea that any allele is a racial indicator. Both allele 7 and allele 9.3 at the TH01 locus are found in ALL racial populations. The frequency within a particular population may vary, but neither the locus nor any of its alleles are "racial indicators."


Question: I am the alleged father, this woman named only me and she knows I'm not the father, We both have dark brown eyes and the baby has gray eyes like his sister and her father----the test came back making me the father, I noticed that the speciment numbers on the lab are out of sequence, the baby and mother's numbers are 57 and 58 and mine is 91, we took the test togetherso, i think the test was compromised and it happened at the court.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: First off, the points about eye color are irrelevant. I'm not sure why they're even mentioned since they have little bearing on paternity establishment. As for the numerical sequencing, it depends on how the samples are processed within the lab. If by "we took the test together," the writer means that everybody's sample was taken at exactly the same time at the courthouse, then those samples should have been package together and sent to the lab together. It would be the case, again in some labs but not necessarily all, that the package would have been opened and all three samples (mom, child, and tested man) cataloged together, in which case they might be expected to have sequential numbers. However, if there was some contentiousness between this tested man and the mother, it would be normal for the mother and the child to have their samples taken at a time separate from the tested man. Some people just don't play well together under situations of disputed parentage, and a wise court will separate them when possible. In that case, the man may have had his sample packaged at a time different from the mother and the child. That package would have been opened at the lab at a different time and thus would have a number out of sequence from the other two. I would assume that this is likely to have happened here, especially in light of the writer's comment that "the test was compromised and it happened at the court." The only way I can think of that anybody would suspect something like this would be if the samples were not packaged up at the same time. Then, as I suggested, the numerical sequence of the samples is not remarkable at all.


Question: A paternity test was performed using another lab. The following alleles shared markers ...D3S1358, THO1, D21S11, D18S51, D5S818, D13S317, D7S820, D16S539, CSF1PO, vWA, D8S1179, TPOX, FGA, and Amelogenin. The result was 99.99%, but the scientist stated that he couldn't get all the alleles when trying to test for the 3rd time but he thought he had enough to render a result. I have read that 2 exclusions can represent an exclusion. If he didn't get them all, might the test be nonconclusive? Is this possible in this case? Thank you!
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: There seems to be a growing conviction, coming from where I don't know, that a certain NUMBER of markers needs to be tested for a test to be valid. THIS IS MISLEADING. What is necessary is that the test combination exclude a certain percentage of men who, in validation studies, would be falsely accused of fathering a child. For example, if the power of exclusion of a combination of tests is 99.99%, this means that 99.99% of the men, who are not fathers but are accused by the mother of being their child's father, will in fact be excluded by the test combination. In theory, that could happen if only six or seven markers are tested, and no reputable lab will test fewer than this. However, there is NO need to test every available genetic marker in order to issue a valid paternity evaluation report. If you want that level of certainty, fine, but no lab should tell you that you MUST have a very large number of markers tested or else your test is no good. If they tell you that, they're trying to take your money for no valid reason.


Question: If a sample is sent to a paternity testing facility that in > turn > > sends it to another lab for analysis, and it takes over a month for > results > > should one consider a retest? The scientist could not get a good punch for > > genetic material was given as the reason for the delay, but assuredly, > great > > care was given to obtain an acceptable sample. The facility was > > unprofessional in their dealings, as they demonstrated no degree of > > confidentiality at all. When inquiring if the test had been performed > after > > two weeks, they simply asked the name of the alleged father. When calling > > back two weeks later to see where the results were, they said " You want > the > > results over the phone?" Needless to say, one would be inclined to feel > that > > the test was mishandled and now the question of it's accuracy has come > into > > question.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Some of what you cite indicates a lack of professionalism, certainly, on the lab's part, and I, too, would wonder about their overall credibility in view of the questions raised. As for the length of time that the lab took to get the results to you, it sounds odd but then again, things can happen in spite of quality of the original sample. If you want peace of mind, a retest won't hurt.


Question: If the mother is white and the father is black is it possible for another black male to be the father if 3 of 13 markers were off, eg. D18s51 = child 12.19, father = 17.19, D13s317 child = 12.14 > father = 14, D16s539 child = 11.13, father = 9.13 > Is it possible that another black male is the father? And if so, would ALL the numbers match exactly?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The three markers you cite are not off. There are matches between the man and the child on all three: The D18 has the man and the child with a 19, the D13 has the man and the child with 14, and the D16 has the man and the child sharing 13. Therefore, I don't understand your question.


Question: How do I know if the DNA labs on the internet offering free test kits and/or reduced priced results are actually going to give accurate test results? Is there something to look for or a lab you could recommend? I don't need the results for court, just to ease my daughter's father's mind, as people keep commenting that she looks like a different race than either of us are.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: We off free downloadable test kits and reduced prices as a GENUINE AABB certified Laboratory. We are the ONLY laboratory that uses an AABB adapted chain of custody with our test kit. We conduct the same quality and standards that are used on our Full Service (court prepared test). Honestly, I would only use ours-we require a witness and full identification. That is why you can trust us--not because a television personality told you to use it or because a kit is free but cause we don't EVER sacrifice the quality of our product The reason our tests are cheap is NOT because we are trying to lure buyers but because we work very hard at eliminating overhead and there is NOT a single reason to pass the cost of a test off onto a client. You can take a look at our QuickHIT downloadable series by going to Fairfax Identity Laboratories Look at product offering number three.


Question: How do I know if the DNA labs on the internet offering free test kits and/or reduced priced results are actually going to give accurate test results? Is there something to look for or a lab you could recommend? I don't need the results for court, just to ease my daughter's father's mind, as people keep commenting that she looks like a different race than either of us are.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: We off free downloadable test kits and reduced prices as a GENUINE AABB certified Laboratory. We are the ONLY laboratory that uses an AABB adapted chain of custody with our test kit. We conduct the same quality and standards that are used on our Full Service (court prepared test). Honestly, I would only use ours-we require a witness and full identification. That is why you can trust us--not because a television personality told you to use it or because a kit is free but cause we don't EVER sacrifice the quality of our product The reason our tests are cheap is NOT because we are trying to lure buyers but because we work very hard at eliminating overhead and there is NOT a single reason to pass the cost of a test off onto a client. You can take a look at our QuickHIT downloadable series by going to Fairfax Identity Laboratories Look at product offering number three.


Question: Is it possible for DNA testing to distinguish between fatherhood if the two possibilities are blood uncle and nephew?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: absolutely--as long as the lab knows that a common relationship exists between the two father.


Question: I had sex with my daughters mother on 12/27/03 and she had the baby on 7/25/04. I have not slept with this woman in over 10 years and on that day we got together had a couple of drinks and this happen. three days latter she said she's having a baby. I told her I didn't need another kid she got three kids of her on and so do I. Can I waive my paternal rights for this baby even if I didn't want it. Also could you tell me like around what month and day did she realy get pregnat. thank you
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It is likely that the child was conceived in OCTOBER and not in December based upon the dat of birth of the child.


Question: my ex-boyfriend had a dna test done in 98/99 however i was not available to keep my appointment will this testing still be good i have no idea were he is at this time and before i go looking i would like to be sure. i was thinking i can use that test compare it to myself and my son and go from there thanks
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Chances are that the samples from that time may have been eliminated to make space or other newer cases. You need to check with the lab that did the test to see if sample is available. If not then you will have to do a new test.


Question: can dna be done from hair,and what are the laws on a mom donig this without me knowing. She said she got a hair off my shirt and toke it in,can thi be done?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You are an adult--she cannot test your samples without your consent. Also, the samples are NO good because of the way that they were collected. I will tell you that she will need more then ONE hair.


Question: I recently received the results of a DNA test (negative). The 2 people being tested are located in two different states. The test kits were mailed out via FEDEX to the separate locations and individually done (at home, not witnessed, not legally binding), and returned. After the swab test was completed they were set on top of a desk and a fan was blowing towards the swabs, with the intention to dry them before re-packaging for shipment. Would the air moving from a fan, in a closed room, have the ability to contaminate the swabs, or attach fine particles of another persons DNA to the swab?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It's kind of an odd way to dry a swab since they dry pretty quickly but I can see no reason why holding a swab in from of a fan would cause it to become contaminated. Besides, if you used a competent lab and there are AT LEAST a couple out there then the lab should be able to pick up on any odd readings.


Question: I had sex with this girl in either April or May of 2001 she then had a child in january 2002, but she never told me anything about this until now July 2004 do I have to submit to a paternity test?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The only time that you HAVE to submit to a paternity test is if you are ordered by a court. If you do not do the test voluntarily then the mother could ask the court to intervene.


Question: ATTENTION: Hows about I ask a legal question
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: lET ME JUST SAY THIS AS I HAVE SAID MANY TIMES BEFORE. IF YOU POST A QUESTION HERE THAT SHOULD BE ASKED OF AN ATTORNEY IT WILL BE DELETED. WE ARE NOT LAWYERS AND WE NEVER WILL BE.


Question: Because one of your brothers is the father and being a twin is not a reason for shirking responsibilty. There was precedent for this type of situation in a court in Virginia--Man came into the court thinking he could evade support and of course DNA could not determine the father so the Judge ordered the child support to be split BETWEEN the two brothers. Hope that answers your question.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I have identical triplet brothers Two have slept with the same girl and she got pregnant. They both had a DNA test, which obviously resulted in the same number results. ONE of them is the father, but we will never know which one through testing. The courts in Washington county, Minnesota are still pursuing a jury trial to make one responsible for paying child support. Is this legal, or do they have any grounds to do this? Why can't my brothers lawyers (who are working together in this case)ask for this case to be thrown out since it will never be determined who the actual father is?


Question: ********** conducted a paternnity test on 10/29/93. The results of the DNA are: D10SB (Mother-1.83) (Child 1.83) (Father 3.78) TBQ7/HAEiii (Mother 1.08) (Child 1.53) (Father 1.53) Probability of Paternity 99.15% It's my understanding that there are at least 16 markers that should be tested to establish paternity. If all markers from the father match the child markers, then you cannot be excluded, however, if one marker does not match your excluded. How can paternity be established when the father is only tested for two markers (when infact there are 16 testable markers) and that those markers do match the child?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I guess my quetion to you is why dont you just find a lab that will sell you the 16 markers (this is the new DNA hype to sell tests by the way) and have this retested? My reccolection is that ************ which was acquired by ***** was one of the best labs in the country at the time. The testing you have here does not reflect ther quality but instead reflects the requirement of the American Association of Bloodbanks (AABB). It would not hurt for you to retest is you feel at ALL uncomfortable with the test.


Question: I have a question I hope you can answer. I have never had a close relationship with the woman I have believed to be my mother. One day when my dad was in the hospital, he needed a blood transfusion and I found out he had type A positive blood. Just out of curiosity, I wondered what my blood type was. My mom got very defensive when I asked her if she knew. She told me basically that it didn't matter. Later on when I had my first child, i found out that i have type O positive blood. I thought about that conversation again with my mom and thought she must have the same blood type as me. I asked her about it again and again, she got very defensive and said what does it matter because i am your mother. i was telling someone in my family about this and was told that she was not my mother. In some ways, i was shocked but then thought about the realtionship that she and i had over the years. I always felt like an outsider. How can i find out the truth?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If you have the a sibling and you KNOW you share the same father, then do a sibling study to determine maternity. If you are siblings then you will whole--if she is NOT your mother then you will only be half sibs.


Question: I want to know if it is possible if my last mentstral period was December 21, 2003 could I have gotten pregnant on December 25, 2003 this is when I had sex with my husband and I then had sex with my ex on December 29,30, January 2,3,4,5 my doctor said my conception date was around the January 3 or 4th. I just wanted to know if it was possible for me to have gotten pregnant on december 25 and my due date is September 27, 2004
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Your last menstrual should calculate with the due date. In this case if your last menstrual period was december 21st then your probable due date would calculate out to be Sepember 27th. NOW if your due date is actually September 27th, then the date RANGE of conception would have occurred somewhere between December 21st and January 5th so your doctor is correcto. EITHER man could be the father of the child.


Question: If the mother is AB- and the child is O+, the charts say this is not usually possible. What does "not usually" mean? What could cause this? Could incest cause this to happen?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The mother has to pass either an A or a B gene to any child she has, and the child will express that gene. That is, the child will be either A or B or AB, depending on what the type of the father is. Whether there is an incestuous relationship or not is irrelevant. "Not usually" means that a mutation would have to occur. Mutations are rare by definition, hence they are "not usually" seen.


Question: I have a friend who is being forced to pay support on a child that he has no proof is his because he was married the the child was born and refused a DNA test. He knew his wife was having an affair and the judge blocked him from getting a DNA test for proof. Is there any way around this? He just wants to know if the child is his or not. I know Michigan was working on bills that would allow men to stop paying if it was proven they were not the father but it is different when you were married when the child was born. Please help, I have tried to find information to help but it has not been easy.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: We cannot assist you with legal inforamtion but I would start by consult with a family law attorney.


Question: Is it legal to get a DNA test on a minor without parents consent?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: not without a parent, conservator, guardian or a court order.


Question: My boyfriend has lived in oklahoma all of his life he calms all of his family worked for the city, is lawyer, or basically has power. Said if i put child support or have DNA test done he can get it fixed because he knows people. Is it possible for him to do that if he knows a lot of people that will do things for him?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: He doesn't know me and I am not known for doing "favors". What you want to do in this case is make sure that you pick the lab and that you control the collections. It is possible for him to exert influence on the collection. I will not speak for other labs that I do not know but frankly for 405 dollars a test (legal version) i am not going to sacrifice my career.


Question: would a standard dna test for paternity identify whether or not the child being tested is a male or female. Basically, to what degree do testers assure that the child from whom the sample is taken is actually the child in question?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Well, it would not be a matter of quality control assurances. When labs extract the dna they will know immediately the sex of the child. You cannot trick a lab on the molecular matter.


Question: I have a question I hope you can answer. I have never had a close relationship with the woman I have believed to be my mother. One day when my dad was in the hospital, he needed a blood transfusion and I found out he had type A positive blood. Just out of curiosity, I wondered what my blood type was. My mom got very defensive when I asked her if she knew. She told me basically that it didn't matter. Later on when I had my first child, i found out that i have type O positive blood. I thought about that conversation again with my mom and thought she must have the same blood type as me. I asked her about it again and again, she got very defensive and said what does it matter because i am your mother. i was telling someone in my family about this and was told that she was not my mother. In some ways, i was shocked but then thought about the realtionship that she and i had over the years. I always felt like an outsider. How can i find out the truth?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: There is actually two ways--confront her and ask for a maternity test--if you have a brother or a sister that you KNOW she gave birth to test to see if you are siblings.


Question: I am so confused. My ex(joe) thinks he's my son father. I broke up with him the middle of April 2002 I got back with my other ex(bob) in may. My lmp was Between April 15-20 2002. My son was born feb, 20 2003 full term. is it possible that my joe could be the father of my son? i did not have sex with joe in may only bob.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: conception would have clearly happened in May.


Question: If the due date was March 31 what was the conception date. The doctor said that the conception date was either the last week in June or the first week in July. She slept with her ex around the week of the 13 thru 18 once proteceted I was having unprotected sex with her. They had to do a see section on her on April 8 because he turnned back around. I took a home DNA test it said to exclude me as the father I wanted to know is it anyway possible that the Swabs could've been effected thru the mail because I couldn't get a good swab froom the childs mouth because he was jerking away. Do you think we should go in the clinic and get another test. Because it said 5 out of 15 CPI I dont know because I probobly didnt get a good swab or it could have got effected in the mail.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You're misreading the report--5 out of 15 LOCI and that is a very BIG exclusion so according to the test you are not the father. I CANNOT over emphasize that ANYTIME you doubt a paternity test, get a second opinion--that means have a NON HOME test to verify the first.


Question: concerned father pending paternity test. child has doubts about biological dad. mother never confessed to cheating. mother appears extremely tense and worried which makes husband nervous, and more worried moreso by the fact that the wife look very worried. if someone never cheated during conception, or other, is there a reason for her worry about?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Only the paternity test can tell you. Good luck.


Question: If someone has sex one time between Aug.24-Sept. 12,1997 and the child was born July 3, 1998, Could this be possible? Within those dates?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: not likely.


Question: My question is one of time frame. I am currently 7mos pregnant and the father of the child has now re-entered my life. He questions the paternity because I had advised him that I was with another man the month prior. The dates are as follows- On Nov. 30, 2003 I was with another man, my last LMP was 12-15-03. I then had relations with the father of my unborn child sometime during the week of dec. 23. I took a pregnancy test the second week of Jan. and came up positive. I advised him that there is no chance that the unborn child could be the result of my Nov. encounter, but yet he questions paternity. Is there still options of having a paternity test this late in the pregnancy or is it best to wait after?, also can the test be done at the time of birth of the baby or is it best to wait until the child is a couple of weeks older? In my mind I am 100% sure that he is the father, but he has that one doubt because of the prior month.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: At your stage, you should wait until the baby is born--you only have to wait a couple of days--not weeks. By the way, if your LMP is 12/15/03 then the range of conception would be 12/15/03 to 12/30/03.


Question: My gynocologist said I (the mother) was o+ and my husband's military record shows he's o+. My 3 year old son is o+ but my 5 year old daughter is A. Is that possible despite your possible blood type charts?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: No,not possible.


Question: hi thank you for reading this my husband found out he may have made a child when he was 16 yrs old hes 33 now were just finding out he took a paternity test 3 months ago we havent gotten any word on the results (that i have seen) is that possible and if not how do ifind out the results this means alot to me because if its true im leaving him he knew about this years ago it was a high posibility and he may be hiding it from me and i really need to know my realtionship depends on it thank you
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It is his right to have access to those results--it only takes 5-7 days for a GOOD lab to process a test. Contact the lab and find out what the hold up is and how he can get a copy of the results. IF the lab does not cooperate, then get a supoena.


Question: I HAD SEX WITH A GIRL WHO HAD ALSO HAD SEX WITH TWO OTHER GUYS. SHE GOT PREGNANT AND WE DONE A DNA TEST JUST ON ME, NOT THE OTHER TWO GUYS. IT WAS 95 PERCENT. DOES THAT MEAN I AM THE FATHER OR COULD ONE OF THE OTHER GUYS BE THE FATHER?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: 95 percent leaves a 5 percent margin of error. The test is not finished. They either need to finish the test or you can grab one of inexpensive home kits that are listed in our moste recent threads. Our test ARE accurate.


Question: My girlfriend was with another guy 1 time, it was protected sex and he didn't come. She was with me everyday for over a year and I always came in her. She was on the pill but had missed taken it alot. We had a Non-Invasive Prenatal Paternity Test done by ***********, they took her blood samples and seperated the baby's dna cell from it and compared it to a swab test from my mouth. They said I was excluded as being the father. She says theres no way that i'm not the father. We've since heard some people say that the accuracy of that tes isn't good. Any opinions on that test?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Oh, good lord--you DO know those samples were shipped to Canada and tested by a foreign lab, right. So, the results are NOT endorsed by the AABB and the results, no matter what the lab tells you, are NOT statistically validated in this country not to mention that courts generally DO NOT recognize prenatal test to begin with. NOW assuming that you have invested a pile of money in this test, wait unti the baby is born and do one of our INEXPENSIVE home versions. ANYONE who has the fetal cell separation test owes it to themselves to take this test. YOu can get the free downloadable kit by going to Free Downloadable FIL Paternity Test Kit" Good Luck!!!


Question: I keep reading and hearing conflicting answers to the question 'who pays for a paternity test'? I'm in MA and read that (for children born out of wedlock) that the Department of Revenue would cover the cost if it's the mother bringing the suit. I've also read that the father would have to reimburse them if the test is positive that he's the father. I was also told by a lawyer since I was the mother and the one bringing the suit, that I would have to come up with the money. And then, once I brought the suit (with a lawyer) the judge advised the father to get the test and it was "his understanding" that DOR doesn't really seek reimbursement. Yet when I sent DOR an email, they said they would absolutely seek reimbursement. For the life of me, I can't figure out who's responsibility it would be to have to pay for the test...do you know??? And if you do know, would you know how much it would cost?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Here is the REAL deal--honestly, it depends on what the court decides when the case is heard. The court has all of those options to choose from so the reason you are confused is because EVERYONE is right.


Question: OK MY GIRLFRIEND AND I RECENTLY HAD A KID ON JUNE 17TH OF THIS YEAR. WE HAVE BEEN THROUGH SOME VERY ROCKY TIMES LATELY AND DURING ONE ARGUMENT SHE SAID SOMETHING REGARDING OUR CHILD THAT ALARMS ME. I HAVE HAD MY SUPISCIONS ALL ALONG. MY QUESTION IS WHO HAS TO BE PRESENT FOR A DNA TEST. CAN IT JUST BE MY SON AND I TO DETERMINE THE RESULT, OR DOES MY GIRLFRIEND HAVE TO BE PRESENT ALSO? OR IS IT POSSIBLE THAT I GET A TEST DONE BY MYSELF TO DETERMINE THE RESULT? I GUESS WHAT IM REALLY TRYING TO ASK IS CAN I GET A TEST DONE WITHOUT HER HAVING ANY KNOWLEDGE OF IT OR GETTING INVOLVED?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You can go to our website, Fairfax Identity Lab FREE Test Kit and look at product 3.. Just download the kit and you and the child and an impartial witness can do the test--quietly. Take care. ----- Original Message -----


Question: The mother of a child wants me to participate in a paternity test, I've acknowledged verbally that the child is mines. That is as far as I am willing to go.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Ok.....I have NO idea why you are saying this in this forum but let me cryptically state: "Let's see how far she is willing to go..."


Question: do you think that the paternity test that we can buy on ine are really good? or should i say accurate?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Again, ours are--won't vouch for quality of others.


Question: do you think that the paternity test that we can buy online are accurate?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Ours are-- because we are an actual laboratory--there are centers and testings and facilities online that are nothing more then fronts for other labs so you may not like one lab for a particular reason and so you go online--see a product that you like and unbeknowst to you--the lab you did not like gets the test. How dishonest is that? ONLY use a company if you can verify they are an actual lab. Our phone number is all over the site--we are not afraid to be reached. I will not endorse other products on the net and watch out for companies that want to send you FREE kits. Just go to our site and download one--why wait and you don't put any money down until you send in the sample.


Question: I'm Caucasian and I thought the alleged father was Italian. However, we just got the DNA test back at 99.98% and it says that the alleged father is Hispanic. And based on comparison with the North American Hispanic population, the alleged father can not be excluded. Now, I always knew he was the father, but, since he wants nothing to do with this child, is it possible that he could ask the courts for another DNA test based on him stating that he is not Hispanic? He is trying his best to get out of paying child support. Also, is 99.98% legal standard? I know others who have gotten 99.99% back.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: recalculation will likely just raise the percentage--race just helps narrow down the numbers--by the way, Italians are European Caucasion, not hispanic. Recalc couldnt hurt but is not necessary. Regarding your last question, most states do not require 99.9 or even 99.0--I have seen some states that stil accept 97 so the 99 percentile is courtesy of the labs--NOT THE STATE. Most are willing to settle for much less.


Question: What is the possible range of Conception for a July 4th due date
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: August 28th through september 11th


Question: I am trying to decipher who the father of my baby is. On July 7th my HCG level was 65, and my last period started between June 1 and 4. I know there is no way of telling for sure, but if you have an estimate or any help I would greatly appreciate it. I was also wondering about prenatal paternity tests using our blood. Is there such a thing and how much does it cost?Thanks.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: courts do not accept prenatal test results so you would be wasting your time with the so called fetal cell separation test which I understand can cost over 1000 dollars. If you can be more specific with your LMP I might be able to help you so drop me a line if you figure it out--happy to help.


Question: can dhr in alabama have a paternity test done without you the mother signing for it?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: DHR can do whatever they want--they are officers of the court.


Question: The father of my child is requesting a paternity test (ordered through the court) and we are waiting to have it done. My daughter is 3years old and there's absolutely NO possibility of her being anyone else's child. I was just kind of wondering what percentages it could come back as? Since he's absolutely the father, would it by any way come back 100% or is 99.9% the highest? And even though he IS the father, is it possible the test would come back too low to prove he is the father(in court)?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It will NOT come back as 100 percent. 99.9 or better will be the best you can get but not 100. Also,the test does not have to come back at 99.9 or better--it only has to meet the state's requirement. If you search this forum you will find an link to the federal ocse and they have the percentages listed there.


Question: (Obviously I'm getting a little nervous over the paternity test ordered between me, my daughter, and the father.) I've noticed a lot of the questions about numbers and percentages (among other words I don't know included on a paternity test). Since the court ordered a paternity test to be done and I KNOW the father IS DEFINITLY the father, I was just wondering how difficult the end test results are going to be to read? From what I'm reading it's not going to be cut and dry (like he IS or ISN'T the father) but more like a probability. I was wondering if the results were going to be difficult to understand with different numbers and such or if they might summarize it into something like "the probability is xxx"?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Scientist place their reporting in carefully worded statements--because they have to and because, as scientists, I just don't think they can help themselves. Seriously though, our client, pick up the phone and call us--I will usually ask them to read the final statement and then I can explain to them. "Included" means he IS the father, Excluded means he is NOT the father--also look out for the biggest confuser of them all "NOT Excluded". That means that he IS the father. If you do not understand, just contact the lab and if they have good customer service then they should help you right out--if not--drop me a line here at the experts board.


Question: even though i am 16yrs. of age does my mother has to come to take the paternity test with me and my father?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If the father does not have custody of you and his name is not on your birth certificate then you will need the mother to sign for you.


Question: If you had protected sex, and your boyfriend ejaculated some sperm inside of you, but pulled out to release the rest of the sperm, somehow could you still end up pregnate if the condom wasnt ripped, or if anything else wast wrong with it?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Yes, you can still get pregant.


Question: Message: my husband and i merried 7yrs. he has 4 kids henever sees. 2 of the kids he never singed a birth certificate on. but still paying support. can the state of maine do this? he has never ben dna tested to say he is the father. who singed the papers. thank you help me get a peace of mind.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If he signed papers of ANY KIND OR RUFUSED TO sign papers or participate with or repond to the court OR he was married to the mother when these children were born then, YES the court can pretty much do whatever it wants.


Question: I was told that I would have to wait until after my baby is born to get a cort ordered paternity test. Is it at all possible to get a court order to have the father a t the hospital to do a paternity test there?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The court will NOT address this until the baby is acutally born and don't look for the hospital to get involved with collecting a test is you are so ready to involve a court. Hospitals have risk management teams that encourage the hospitals to shy away from such issues.


Question: if a blood test is done at birth in the hospital how long do it take to find out the result and should the baby have the same blood type as the father.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: a test should only take 5-7 days to complete. the baby will have EITHER the type of the mother OR the type of the father. The father does NOT determine the type.


Question: a girl i was dating is now pregnant and saying its mine. im not signing the birth certifacate until i get a dna test done. however, she says she is not going to come after me for the test or child support. my question is if down the road she decides to come after child support can i get charged backed child support if the test shows its mine? also, can she put me on the birth certifacate without my consent?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Famous last words. When the child is financially a burden she is going to want some help--IF she goes on public aid-she will not come after you but the state certainly will because they are a collection agency. You have to sign to have your name placed on the certificate so DO NOT SIGN anything especially papers the hospital will try to hand to you to sign. If the state comes after you for support they will also want back support.


Question: this guy feels sorry for my baby that was in the hosp.he was 2 months early the hosp offers a dna test but he refused to take it but now he is 8 month old now he want a dna test for the baby can i refused him of a dna test now since he refused to take one 8 month ago
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Unless he gets a court order, it is up to you if you want a test--if he obtains a court order then you must comply.


Question: my husband had a dna test 10 yrs ago and was not the father. now all this has come back up and he has been ordered to take another dna test? The test was taken and he was now found to be 99.9% the father. But,the mother and father had the same dna that matched to the child. we ask for another test. And the attorney got ugly. Denied us that. But noone wanted to go to court and would never tell why? We feel the dhs wanted someone to pay. I called a dna testing and gave them the results, there question was are they brother and sister. when I confrunted the attorney with this, he was real ugly and denied another test. This woman was married to another man at the time of conception and the child has his last name. But he is in the pen. No money can be collected from him. what do we need to do. The courts and lawyers wont listen. Dhs even tried to deni the testing 10 yrs ago, but I still had court order and all paper work, but that didnt matter. They wanted someone to pa! y. help us?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I am afraid I cannot help you here but keep trying different attorneys until you get one that will help. Ge the dna test (both tests) looked at by an AABB certificed laboratory. Finally, if you CANNOT get help resolving this issue--go to the media, the talk shows and even your congressman as well as the bar association and talk loudly. Good luck.


Question: which states does not have administrative order to establish genetic testing, thanks
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Your question is not clear to me but ALL states are empowered and are required by the Federal Government to establish paternity.


Question: Can a father with a positive blood type and a mother with a b negitive blood type produce five children all with the blood type of o?,and if so,what are the odds of this happening?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: There are four possbile combinations with that type and O is one of them. So your answer is yes. I can't give you odds.


Question: I am trying to show paternity with someone who is now deceased and was cremated. I know that his father is dead but not sure if his mother is dead. I believe he has either a sister or a brother still living. Is there any way to get DNA testing from a relitive of the the father's when the father is deceased? Also, if there is a way to use his siblings or another relitive, can I go through the courts to make them give DNA testing.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: First, don't look for the courts to give you an order for this test. Your best bet would be to get with a rep at at dna lab and go over your options--the rep will ask you a series of questions so that he can advise you of the best test possible in your situation. You may be leaving out information here so talking to someone directly is important. The answer is yes, you can but you should brace yourself for an expensive and longe term test. You best bet is see if he has any other childrend and try to get them tested. Aunt or uncle relatiionship studies are very "hit and miss".


Question: If the mother of a child wants me to participate in a paternity test, am I obligated to take it no matter what? Or do I have the right to refuse to take it? What are the circumstances in which I would or wouldn't be obligated to take one?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Bottom line: you can always refuse a test but the court can MAKE you the father is you refuse to cooperate.


Question: Hello, I recently got married. My husband and myself have been married almost a year. Clayton County of Georgia recently contacted my husband regarding a paternity test. The child is approximately 5yrs old and lives in New Orleans, Louisiana. We are currently awaiting information for a court date and for him to take a DNA test. My question is, my husband is the third gentleman to be tested. What is the likelihood that this child is his? The two previous gentlemen were negative. What should we be preparing to do? Legally, what are the differences in the state? Please explain the time frame involved, between the beginning and the end of this process. Also what legal insight can you give me, being his wife? I thank you in advance. danielle
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: This is a paternity forum and we do not give legal advice. I don't know the particulars of the case but the more people who are excluded the possibility for faher becomes great each time a man is eliminated. he should just wait for the results and at some point get some solid legal advice.


Question: i had sex with my baby father on dec.26or27th of 2003 then i had sex with a one nite stand on jan7th of 2004 i ended up preg.i have a due date of oct.10th who could it be?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Probably the one night stand--you really need to get a pternity test.


Question: The start of my last period was 05/14. I was with one guy on 06-05 and became active with my current boyfriend on 06-19. On 07-07 my hormone level tested at 806. Is it too close to tell which man is the father?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: according to what you are telling me NEITHER of them fall into the conception period which would be May 14 to May 27th. Was there a third guy you were with earlier?


Question: Hello, i wanted to know if there is a possibility that my husband could not be the father of a boy, he has taken a DNA test, and it showed 99.99%. But my husband says he has never been with the childs mother, and that he is not the father, but his half-brother was messing around with the childs mother at that time, So is it possible that he could be the father and not my husband? and i also wanted to know, if my husband has proof he was gone during time of conception, can he use it in court and be excluded as the father? i'm just trying to find ways to support him if he is being honest. the child was born on September 5th 1998, when was the child concieved exactly? or would you know? thank you so much!
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I find it curious that he is claiming he is not the father, claims his HALF brother could be the father but he has never openly appealed to the court to have the HALF brother tested. There is a 0.01 percent chance that your husband is NOT the father of the child. To get the court to overturn the evidence he would NEED some pretty substantial verifiable proof that would or could be accepted into a court of law as evidence and that means evidence that is secured NOT to have been tampered with. November 29th to December 15th would have been the conception period but because the conception calculations are only estimates don't expect to be able to use it as evidence. Good luck.


Question: I just found out that im pregnet. Me and my soon to be ex husband have slept together 2 may 31 and June 5. I have slept with another guy on june 9. I cant sleep at night just wondering if the guy i slept with on june 9 could be the daddy if he never cummed? my last period date was may 9.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: you have a 50 50 chance either way--hard to tell at this point.


Question: How old does a baby have to be before a paternity test can be done? We keep getting different answers from the Mother. I have been told by a few friends that the baby should be 6 months old, is the true? If so, why the wait? Just Curious.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Your few friends should check their facts--6 months is absolutely NOT true. You can test as soon as the child enters this world. BTW, the 6 month myth in dna testing comes from the old HLA blood test where typically you drew blood at months but that was even untrue because hand sticks, finger stick and heel sticks were available to collec the child even earlier.


Question: I have a couple questions. Can DNA testing be done when a woman is pregnant? If so, when in the pregnancy? If the woman refuses can the man get a court order? or does the man have to wait untill after the baby is born in orer to get the court order? We prefer to know now and not in 7-8 months. That way we can help this woman...if it is my husband's.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: As we have posted many times before--10 weeks. You can't get a court order for an invasive procedure. If the woman refuses you will just have to wait.


Question: Message: can the mother of a supposed father be used for a dna test to determine paternity if the father is not available for the test? would it have a accurate result?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Some labs will tell you differently but you need BOTH grandparents on the father's side. Otherwise, the lab is just smiling with teeth gleaming holding out a hand to take your money. Always get second opinions.


Question: Hi, I gave birth to my beautiful daughter 3/9/87. My due date was 3/10. I was pretty sure the 1st day of my LMP was 5/31, as I told the doctor. The first doctor I went to tested me in the office on 6/30 and it came back negative. The doctor was pretty insistant that I was not pregnant, but I felt I was, so she sent it out to be tested at the lab which came back positive. I was with my ex-boyfriend on 5/5 and 5/8 (this 2nd one is when I got paranoid he didnt withdraw quick enough). NOW, Back in the middle of May I was out, got drunk and went with some guy (which I do not know at all) and do not remember what happened. How possible is it that the unknown guy could be the father? I remember my girlfriend telling me my 5/31/86 cycle may have not been a real one. I am nervous about having a test done without knowing the complete possibilities of both guys. Thanks for your help, Y ps. by the way, my daughter was a perfect little 7lb, 3oz, 20-1/2" long and healthy as could be from day one. She is my angel and I have 3 boys (9, 3, and 1) since 1987. Again, thanks for your help.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: the child would have been conceived between May 31st and June 15th. Hope this helps.


Question: HAVE THERE BEING ANY NEW MEDICAL DEVELOPMENT THAT WILL ALLOW CVS PRENATAL TESTING BEFORE THE 10TH WEEK? AND IF YOU MANAGE TO HAVE IT DONE BEFORE THE 10TH WEEK HOW ACCURATE CAN THE RESULTS BE?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: None that I know of and since we don't perform the test before the 10th week I could not answer the second part of your question.


Question: My husband was contacted by a girl he had dated 16 years ago stating he was the father of her daughter who is now 15. Another man that she tricked into thinking was the father questioned paternity when the child was 2 and was tested. His test came back 89.9% that he could be the father, but according to this woman, the State of Missouri does not recognize paternity of it comes back less than 90% so he left. Now she has contacted my husband and we are requesting paternity as well, however, all the tests that I have researched designate that it's either 0% (exclusion)or at least 99% (inclusion), how did they get 89.9% and is there still a chance that my husband could come back at a lower percentage rate than this other guy and be excluded or is this other guy automatically excluded if he wasn't 99%? She claims there was only two men in her life during this time. Not all of the pieces are adding up. She was born on May 23, 1989 with a due date of May 19, 1988. Any ! advise is appreciated.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I haven't seen a test in the eighties in quite some time--simplly put--more testing on that man needed to be done and Missouri should have and probably did tell her that. Go ahead and do the test but keep very close eye on his collection and make sure you are famiiar with the lab that does the test and I would not use the first one--they did not finish the job.


Question: My brother was killed in a car accident Feb 24, 1963. A close friend of his that is very trustworthy has just told me that my brother's girlfriend was pregnant at the time of his death. The only item I have that could possibly be used to identify his DNA is his hair which is in his hair brush that I personally have in my posession. Can an accurate test be done on his hair in order to prove
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: will depend on if there are hair folicles. You may want to see if there was an autopsy--if there was, the coroner's office may have plenty of samples in storage.


Question: My brother was killed in a car accident Feb 24, 1963. A close friend of his that is very trustworthy has just told me that my brother's girlfriend was pregnant at the time of his death. The only item I have that could possibly be used to identify his DNA is his hair which is in his hair brush that I personally have in my posession. Can an accurate test be done on his hair in order to prove
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: will depend on if there are hair folicles. You may want to see if there was an autopsy--if there was, the coroner's office may have plenty of samples in storage.


Question: Hi there, I just found out, that all 4 of my siblings are Rh-, and this includes my 1 1/2 brother who is the eldest. My two older sisters are AB- and O-, I am the youngest in the family and have O+ blood type. Is it possible that we are from the same father...as everyone else is Rh- and I am Rh+???
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: you left out crucial information--the types and Rh of BOTH your parents. Looking at your siblings means nothing. Consider this though: a positive and a positive wil yield a negative or a positive. A negative and a negative will yield ONLY a negative and a negative and a positive will yield either a positive OR a negative. Hope this helps.


Question: My boyfriend and I live in California. He has three children and 2 of the 3 look like him, one of his sons and his daughter. He pays child support and back child support on all 3. His other son looks just like a co-worker. This co-worker dated my boyfriends ex-girlfriend at the right time for the timing of the birth of his son. My boyfriend signed the birth certificate and believed that his was his son, until he saw my co-worker. He is scheduled for a paterity test. My questions are that if the test comes out with him not being the father the current child support will stop, right? What can he do with the back child support on his son? Can he transfer it to his daughter's? This lady claimed a "welfare" type assistance while she was in Oregon, claiming both of the kids and his. She has lied for 12 years and we are trying to get the truth out of her and also get back what is rightfully his.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: it is likely that he will continue to pay child support so you should see an attorney as soon as the results are available so that you can weigh your options.


Question: 8 YRS AGO I HAD A DNA TEST WHICH EXCLUDED ME FROM BEING THE FATHER OF A THEN 4YR OLD GIRL MY TEST CAME BACK 0.0%. THE MOTHER TOLD THE COURTS THAT THE TEST WAS WRONG AND THEY ISSUED ANOTHER TO WHICH SHE HAD TO PAY FOR. SHE HAD NO MONEY AT THE TIME OF THE TEST. 8 YRS LATER IAM BEING TAKEN BACK TO COURT BY THE SAME WOMAN FOR THE SAME CHILD. HOW OFTEN ARE DNA TESTS WRONG?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Not very often if the first test was conducted correctly and was not a home test you did on your own(they weren't commonly available 8 years ago so it probably was not a home kit) and you did not send in a ringer or bribe someone. You should be ok.


Question: Can you do a DNA Paternity Test from Hair cut from a child collected during a normal haircut?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: no


Question: My daughter by a previous marriage I suspect was fathered by my best friend,now deceased.How could I determine if I am NOT the father without alerting either my ex or my daughter?I have close contact with the daughter and 4 grandchildren.I am 71 and would like to know personally as my best friend had serious health problems that should be brought to my daughters attention.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You need her dna sample to compare to hers. As an adult you need her permission.


Question: What happens if my husband wants to do a paternity test to see if he's the father of the alleged child but the mother wont consent and the procedure has already been paid for ?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: He probably should have check with her before putting out the money. All he can do how is see a lawyer.


Question: How early into a woman's pregnancy can you take a paternity test? ...a test that will come back with accurate results, I might add.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: 10 weeks.


Question: My boyfriend is facing a paternity suit after 15 years, for a child that he didn't know existed in South Carolina. Is there anything he can do about it in New York? Opposed to writing out a big check?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: When Family court comes for him he will need to request a paternity test at that time.


Question: i got a girl pregnant, can i get a prenatal test done through my insurance? If not, how much do they cost if i have to pay out of pocket? is it better to wait till the baby is born? Why?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You will have to pay out of pocket. The decision as to have the test is entirely up to you but if money the weighing factor then it is cheaper to wait until the baby is born.


Question: I don't believe that my father is my biological father. I am wondering if there is a way to test through a glass or toothbrush that I could do without him knowing. He will always be my dad so I don't want to bring this up and cause him pain.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Yes, but you need his consent to use his dna


Question: I'm 7 months and recently had a Aminocentesis done to run test to see if there was any infection or problems with the amniotic fluid. My childs father want a paternity test done. Can I use that Aminocentesis to get the results since they collected the cells..or do I have to take another one specifically for DNA results?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: No,the sample would have expired by now and you are at 28 weeks. He will have to be patient and wait until the baby is born.


Question: I am a man wondering how I can go about getting a paternity test done with a women who refuses.I wasnt at the hospitaland havent signed anything.Is there a way I can get paternity without omission of bieng the father?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Your best bet is to get a court order so you will need an attorney.


Question: does the child having down syndrome make any difference when a dna test is done to determine paternity? does the lab need to know the child has downs or does it make no difference
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It does NOT effect the outcome of the paternity test.


Question: What and how can I get a negative result on a PATERNITY TEST?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I am NOT going to tell you how to do that.


Question: I have been involved with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years now. For a period of one month in October of 2002 we split up and during the break up i slept with one other man numerous times during that month. The last time i slept with the other man was October 31, 2002. I found out that i was pregnant in January and when i went to the doctor they told me that I conceived during or around the week of November 14th of 2003 so i assumed that they were correct and my boyfriend and i had our baby boy on September 2nd, 2003. The other man swears up and down that my son is his baby and in fact, they do look quite similar. Also, i looked at the conception calander on your website and they dated my conception for December 10th so i am very confused and afraid that the doctors may have made a mistake and i really conceived earlier than what they told me. My now ex-boyfriend has signed the birth certificate and believes in every way possible that is his son.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Take your boyfriend and go have a test--you are not going to resolve this by sitting around speculating. Just take a test.


Question: I live in San Jose, CA. The mother of the child lives in stockton CA. Would they send our blood to greensboro NC for paternity test. Why would they do this. How can I validate the results.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: They would not send the results to Greensboro, NC. There are no Paterity labs there anymore. As for you validating the results--well you can find out WHO the lab actually is and contact them yorself if you have questions about their procedures.


Question: My girl friend 's period comes on 18th of every month. I had sex with her on the 28th Dec 2002 and on 1st January 2003. She became pregnant and give birth on 20th sept.2004. I want know the possiblity of myself being the father.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: the conception would have ocurred between December 13th and December 28th.


Question: can seamen get a girl pregnant
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If you mean Navy Seaman or the Merchant Marines then the answer is yes. If you mean SEMEN then YES IF the semen contains sperm. It is the sperm which penetrates the egg--the semen is the carrier.


Question: My question is that I am pregnant and I was wondering if there was a DNA test that could be done on my child before it was born. I am approxamitly 6 weeks.. Please Help.. I really can't wait until the child is born for several reasons of of them is that I need the moral supoort as well as the financial support of the child's fathter..
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: With the approval of your physician you can do one at 10 weeks up until the 20th. Please see the many other postings that we have seen on this subject.


Question: I dated a man last year, and into the beginning of this year. After continual infidelity, on his part, I left him at the end of February. I found out that I was pregnant with his child the first week of March. He has abandoned the situation and claims no responsibility. I am aware that paternity testing is available, and can be mandated after the child's birth- but the father is insisting that there is a way to safely / effectively determine the paternity BEFORE the child is born. I am 6 months pregnant- can you tell me if this is true, or what our options would be?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Wait until the child is born and have a paternity test through Child Support Enformcement. Prenatal testing is not recognized by the court system and so is useless if the is found to be the father. The procedures in this country is invasive and you CANNOT get a test at 6 months--you are too far along. There is a procedure in another country but it is not validated, cost OVER 1000 dollars American and frankly is a waste of time.


Question: My husband is supposedly the father of a twelve year old girl that he has never seen, the woman who had the child slept with both him and his brother who was married to her sister at the time. My husband took a paternity test and it was decided that he was the father although we never got the results or anything. His brother refused to take the test. How can we tell who is the father? I mean, what percentage does it need to be? My husband's only came out to an 88% or something of that nature. We are considering supeonaing his brother for a test. How much of a difference in brother's on dna testing?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: He can get the results by contacting the lab that did the testing. He might need a court order in order for the lab to be able to cooperate. Until you see the results you cannot tell who the father is. 88 percent is too low--99 percent is more accpetable.


Question: I am in a situation with a woman I had a one night stand with and she had a child. I took the paternity test ordered by the State of Texas along with another possible father. We were both excluded as being the father of this child. However the mother still thinks I am the father, and my test came back with a 0.00% as paternity possibility, but since I took my test on 12/18/03 and she and the child took there test on 11/17/03 she thinks the test are wrong. I took the test; the lab has my photo and fingerprints on file from when I took the test the first time. What are the possibilities that my test will come back different? Once again I took the first test, and I took the second test also. By the way when I went to court the representative for the State of Texas stated according to the "markings" that there is a 3rd party involved! What does that mean?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I think she may be wasting her time if there were two excluded fathers and one OTHER father not tested--she is in denial--she needs to test the third guy and remove all of the variables.


Question: If a female had a relationship with twin brothers and ended up pregnant, is there a way to determine the father of the child?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If the twins are identical--no. If the twins are fraternal, then a standard paternity test will answer the question.


Question: I just had a paternity test done and I was wondering what the locus are: D21S11, D7S820, CSF1PO, D3S1358, D13S317, D2S1338, D19S433, VWA, D18S51, D5S818, FGA? Also what does the PI, allele, and sizes number mean?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The lab that did the test for you should be very willing to answer these questions. If they aren't, you're not dealing with a very professional outfit. The loci are, to put it simply, regions of the DNA that exist in people, and that have different physical sizes in different people. The regions differ with regard to the number of times a small section of the DNA at these loci is repeated. The numbers recorded for the mother, the child, and the alleged father indicate the number of repeats. At each locus, the tested people will have two alleles, or forms of the marker. One of the alleles gets passed on to, or is inherited from, each of a person's parents. The PI or paternity index is the likelihood that the tested man is the father of the tested child, compared to the likelihood of finding those same genetic markers in the population by chance that the man and the child share.


Question: Hello, I was wondering if you could help me. I have grown up all of my life without a father. I started a relationship with a family friend and come to find out that my mother says his uncle is my father. The man refuses to have a dna test. But I don't want him to be my father because I love the man I am seeing alot. The only one that has a problem with me being with my boyfriend is his ex-wife. She is keeping his children away because of us being cousins. Is there any way that I can just get a copy of a negative dna test letter to put my name on it to give to her so she will leave us alone. There needs not be any legal part in it. We are both fixed and have no intention of any more children so what is the big deal of us being together.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: NO REPUTABLE LABORATORY WOULD ASSIST YOU IN WHAT YOU ARE ASKING. IT IS DISHONEST.


Question: What is the difference between a 9 marker, 11 marker & 15 marker test. If the test comes back with only 5 markers coming from the father alone, but no marker to totally exclude the father, what is the probability that someone else could be the father? The time frame of the birth is wrong for conception to have occured when the relationship was active and the mother had other sexual partners. I need to know is we should try to challenge the paternity of the child, or if it's useless. >
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Testing is done to reach a level stipulated by the state legislature where you live. That level is usually relatively low, however, considering the level of testing that can be done. However, the lab typically has a policy of testing to a certain probability of paternity, after which a report is issued. If the stipulated probability of paternity is 99.9% and that level of certainty is reached with after 9 markers, further testing is not automatically done. (I don't understand what you mean by "only 5 markers coming from the father alone." If only five tests were done, that is a little light for my liking. If you mean that there were other markers tested but for them there wasn't complete clarity as to which marker came from the mother and which came from the father, that's OK. It's taken into consideration when the calculations are done.) The lab also tests to something called a "power of exclusion" which is typically in the neighborhood of 99.9% too. That means that 99.9% of other men, unrelated to the tested guy, would be excluded solely by the tests that were performed. If you say that the timing of the birth was wrong compared with the time of the sexual encounter, you could challenge the test results on that basis, but be prepared to back up your claim about the timing with airtight documentation. Your word alone as to when the sexual encounter happened won't be good enough.


Question: my ex boyfriend and i was ordered to do a DNA test by the child support office. after 30 days they called me to ask if my ex boyfriend`s father, brother or son could be my son`s father. i told them his father has been dead for 25 years and he has no brother. my child is the only son he has. the lady from the child support office said they was some kind of gene mutation, but since he has no close male relative, then he must be the father. how is this possible?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: By the overall evidence of the remaining genetic matches. DNA has a documented rate of change, and the form of that change is also characterized and documented. (If DNA didn't change, all living things would still be just little blobs swimming in the ocean and nothing more.) The lab also should have done additional testing to look for more mismatches between the child and the alleged father; a single mismatch is not enough to declare that he's not the father, precisely because of the possibility of mutations happening. To cover all the bases, the lab also checked to see whether a close relative of the alleged father might also have been involved, because that can lead to many matches with a few mismatches. When close relatives are involved, the number of mismatches is usually more than one, however. With no mismatches and only a single mismatch, the reasonable assumption of a mutation was made and the likelihood of that mutation was factored into the calculation of the overall paternity index. Look for a paternity index (or X/Y ratio) somewhere in the neighborhood of 0.001, which will be far lower than any of the others on the report.


Question: I am 29 yrs old, and a month ago I found out that the man I knew as my father could possibly not be my father. My mother cheated on her boyfriend in 1974, and soon I came along. The alleged father never knew I existed. I took a swab test with the alleged father. The cultures flew from America to Canada. It sat in customs for about 8-10 days, and I still waited another 7 days for the results.The results were exclusive. Is there a chance the results were wrong? Would it be a waste of time to take a blood test?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Anytime that you doubt the validity of a test you should retake the test--only this time use an American lab so that you can be in constant touch with the testing facility and no customes issue will crop up.


Question: My husband and I seperated and have 2 children together and he pays child support for one. We have been to court and have court ordered support for one. We had a paternity test taken back in March 2004 but never heard anything. He has moved out of Georgia and I have moved to Texas with my 2 children. I have been in contact with the DHR office back in May but still haven't heard anything as of yet. Maybe you could help me out and give me some advice. He (my husband)has asked if I have heard anything. My son just turned 7years old and Iwould like to have some closure to this as would his father. Please, help me out on this. Thank you!
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I cannot help you--the results will be sent from the lab to the court first and then the court will release the results. You just have to keep calling and checking in. No magic formula here unfortunately--you just need immense patience.


Question: My husband and Ihave taken a paternity test on our 7 year old son, back in March 2004. We both lived in the same town in Ga. Now, I live in Texas with my kids and he lives elsewhere with a new girlfriend. I have contacted the child support office back in May but yet still no word. We know the child is his, but in the state of ga. they wanted to be sure. I am wanting to know the results.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I am sorry but I don't know your results. You will have to get them from the child support office--it may take quite a bit of time so be patient.


Question: How many months do you have to be to do a Parenting test?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: 10 weeks.


Question: When can paternity testing be safely done? Do you have to wait until after the baby is born? If paternity testing is court mandated, how do you find someone who can do it and how much does it cost?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Do the testing AFTER the child is born if you can--testing after the child is born is non invasive and painless. If the court mandates a test, contact us and we will help you arrange for testing.


Question: had a one night stand unprotected with a girl about 11 months ago. I was very intoxicated. She wanted me to come in her, because she was on the pill. She said if she got pregnant she would have an abortion, not to worry about it. So I came in her. I never talked to her again until last night. I ran into her at the bar and she told me that she had a kid not too long. She said it might be mine. She also said she it getting a paternity test done to find out. She is foreign, I think Persian or something. I am caucasian. From paternity tests can they find out if the kid comes from a caucasian? What if I don't submit to a paternity test?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: She tells you she is on the pill and that she would have an abortion if she got pregnant? Paternity testing cannot determine the race of a child. If you do not submit to a test it is possible that she could take you to court and you could be compelled to take the test.


Question: My son is questioning if the baby is his.The baby is 19months old blonde hair blue eyes and the mother and my son have medium to dark brown hair, eyes are hazel and brown.Would it be wise to have the test done?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: ANYTIME that a paternity is cast in doubt is a wise time to have a test.


Question: My daughters fiancee took a paternity test and the cpi index was 76,597 to 1 giving a proability of 99.99%. He doesn't think the child is his. They based the cpi on a race of caucsian and he is actually hispanic (mother is caucasian. would this have any bearing on the test? would additional tests give different results?. how likely is it that the test could be challenged?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: No,not really. There might be a variance of a couple of points in the PI but he would still calculate out to be the father.


Question: Child is now two years old, and we just found out she existed. Mother wants money from alleged father. A DNA test will be done, but assuming he is the biological father, what rights do we have? Can sue her for keeping it a secret, and can we take the child away from her if we can better provide for the child? > Also, some other guy has his name on the birth certificate, so what kind of trouble could that cause? He was her boyfriend when the child was born, but not married. He may come back and say he wants the child. > I don't know how the biological father is, but we will find out soon enough if the accusations are correct. In which case we will do everything in out power to take full custody, and never pay the mother a penny. She is unfit, and irresponsible. And I feel very sorry for the baby girl.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Don't take the test UNTIL you talk to an attorney first--and DON'T SIGN ANYTHING--the reason being is that paternity may already be established since the other guy signed the birth certificate--take the test ONLY under the advice of an attorney. He can also advise you on your other legal questions. Point is--depending on your state--and the attorney will know--the birth certificate may make all the difference in the world.


Question: I was together sexually with this girl at a New Years party 1998-99. She said she got pregnant that night by me. We only had sex one time, and it was protected. She gave birth to a child on Oct. 15, 1999. Her due date was Oct. 8, 1999. Do I need DNA testing? >
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It is cutting it close--she conceived between the 5th and the 25th of January. I would insist upon a test to place yourself in the clear. DON'T sign anything until you have that test.


Question: Does a baby take the mothers or fathers blood type?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It can be either the mother or the father.


Question: I was recently contacted by someone I had a relationship with long ago. She had a child almost 10 years ago. She got married to another guy assuming the child was his. They divorced. He later tested the child without her knowledge and said he was not the father and forced her to agree to let him give away his rights. She now says I am the father since I was the only other person she had slept with in that time period. She said she did not want to tell me but now she wants financial help. I am married with a child of my own. What rights do I have if any? I was led to beleive 10 years ago that the other guy was the father and now she wants help.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: you need to do a paternity test with her--do not negotiate on this point. If he did a test without her knowlege, chances are that he used a home test kit and if he did, how does she know he is telling her the truth? Forced her to let him give away his rights--was an attorney even involved? The whole thing rings suspicious to me. Do a test--make sure that it is court admissible and make sure she is tested with you. This is not too much to ask of her in exchange for accepting a lifetime of responsibility.


Question: I was with my ex and another guy that i was currently seeing back in february of 2002 and i had my baby nov 14 02 well my ex signed the birth certificate when she was born without doing a paternity test, now the other guy wants a test done and i cant find anywhere to go to have one because social services says that the birth cert. was already signed and they can't so anything about it now where can we go to have a test done!!!
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Well, they are right--they won't pay for a test where paternity is already established and that is what the man did when he signed the birth certificate which is why you should NEVER sign anything until the test is done. you can get a simple and inexpensive test by going here: Get Free DNA Test Kit Here you will see a list of products. Choose product number three and download the paperwork.


Question: Message: My seventeen year old is being told he is the father of a baby born may 11th 2004. He admits this is possible but the girl and her mother do not want the test for paternity done but they want him to pay support what can we do? Can we do the test without her consent and no proof but her word that it is his? Confused mother of 17 year old
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Well, first--don't sign anything and if you can afford it act under the advice of an attorney. The mother's word is not enough and you're talking about 18-21 years of the life of your child. You can do a simple home test kit that is downloadable from our website. The address is Get Free Test Kit Here You will see a list of products--go to product number three--download the paperwork and you can then begin the test. There is a support number in the paperwork if you need assistance. Good luck.


Question: hi, my husband knows that the baby we just had could be from someone else ...i am not sure who the father is .its either my husband or the guy i cheated on my husband with 2 weeks prior i had sex with my husband. i wanna find out who the father is and i wanna get a paternity test done with this other guy because my husband is not willing to get a test done ...is it possible for me to get a test done with this other guy without my husbands consent? and if not what am i supposed to do ?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Oh, good lord yes! You only need the consent of ONE parent--go have the test and consider using Fairfax Identity Laboratories.


Question: i got pregnant back in sept of 2000 by my at the time he was my boyfreind now my ex then i got back together with one of my other exs in jan of 2001 and we slept together he ( the one i slept with in jan of 2001) is trying to say that my son could be his i had my son june 7th of 2001 my ex that i slept with in jan is trying to tell me that a baby dna can be changed when i was only 3 1/2 to 4 months pregnant. I was wondering if is possible that the dna can be changed then? if you could help clear this up for me i would
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Your January ex needs to NEVER consider a career in genetics. The DNA never changes. I don't know where he got that idea but he is absolutely wrong.


Question: I have been dating this guy. This girl ended up getting pregnant. They took a test his test took 5 days to arrive at the lab and her test took 1 day to arrive. How is that so? Is there any way that she could have altered with the test or the people at the lab because, the months that she supposed to have been pregnant doesn't add up. She also made herself fake labor and have the baby in december to try ro trap him. When really she was due in march. So when did she become pregnant? and she only starting showing around october.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I am not sure if you are really asking questions or if you are just venting. Ok. You were dating a guy and a girl got pregnant. So you are the girlfriend and your boyfriend allegedly impregnated a girl--not you. There was a test done. NOW. I cannot tell you why one sample arrived at the lab sooner then the other sample. It could be anything from it being mailed on a friday or maybe one was shippied by us mail as opposed to one being shipped by Fed Ex. There is simply no way to tell. You said that she "faked" being in labor--does that mean she produced a fake baby? I do not think that is what you meant. These questions are not ones that I can answer for you because they make absolutely no sense. Without information you cannot expect me to tell you when she became pregnant based on when she started "showing".


Question: I am thinking about terminating my paternal rights to my 4 year old daughter. If I do will my poarents still have "grandparents rights". I live in the state of Kentucky. Thanks >
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: That is a very good question--we have a grandparents rights board over here at divorcenet.com and I would suggest that you consider posting this question there. Unfortunately, this board only deals with paternity issues.


Question: My question is how old does a baby have to be in order to get a paternity test done??? >
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You can test the baby before the birth at the 10th week and typically up to roughly the 20th under the supervision of a qualifed physician. You can test the baby THE DAY it is born if you are willing to put up with dealing with hospital administrations and their typically self-protective policies (risk management isssues) but generally when the child comes home from the hospital is the best time to start considering the prospect of a test.


Question: My question is can DNA tests be altered in any way? Do they swab the entire mouth or just one cheek? I was wondering if my husband maybe put some translucent tape in his cheek and obtained his friends DNA then was swabbed. This is what I was told, is it possible and how long do cheek cells live?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: 1. Tape will not stick to the wet inside of a mouth. 2. Cells applied to anything that is then kept inside the mouth will be washed off rather quickly by the mouth's saliva. 3. Typically, both cheeks are swabbed. 4. Living cheek cells are not needed for a swab test.


Question: My friend was seeing a girl and slept with her for the first time on the 2nd may 2003 and continued to have unprotected sex with her until about 8 weeks later. She had a baby boy on 8th may 2004. Is it possible he could be the father?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: conception would have happened between July 30 and August 15th.


Question: Is it possible to have a child Rh - if both parents are Rh +?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: absolutely.


Question: A girl I was sexually involved with the first week of August, 2003 just delivered a baby today 5-18-04. We used a condom. What are the chances that it is mine. She doesn't want a paternity test, I am scared to have one. My parents want one done. I am 17 and she is 21.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You are a minor, I noticed. For me, the first thing that popped in my head was the statutory rape issue. There is a 50 percent chance that it is yours and you DO need to get this out of the way now. Bottom line: 1-it is not fair to the child--2-there are potential grandparents who certainly have the right to know and who can provide an invaluable line of support for the child and 3) there is the possibility that the mother will come after you and your family for child support--she may say she will not but sooner or later when she feels the burden of bringing up a child she is going to get that extra support one way or another and if you wait then you are talking about a potential accumulation of back support. DON'T sign anything like papers at the hospital. HAVE THE TEST. You both owe it to the child if not to each other. By the way, she should have the test privately because your parents could always obtain a court order and compell her to submit to the test and with your age an issue--well that could spell a problem for the mother. HAVE THE TEST.


Question: My brother in law is in jail and says he has a little girl....is there any way to get a dna test for him while he is in jail? Do they allow you to do that? Or do you have to wait until he is out for a paternity test? Thank you for your time.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: A paternity test is a simple thing really. A paternity test in a jail is a logistical headache but it can be done. The issue is not whether the sample can be collected but whether the prison will ALLOW it to be collected. There are three ways to collect asample. 1)a phlebotomist goes into the prison and collects the samples, 2)the prison collects the samples and 3)the prsion transports the prisoner outside of the prison and is taken, usually in chains, to a collection station where the sample is taken. The problem is the prison--prison officals are concerned with security and also with the violation of the civil rights of the prisoners. You usaully have to have a court order or a signed stipulation by the prisoner. My advice to you is to contact your brother in law and see if he has a prison counselor that he deals with. If he does, then all you have to do is contact the counselor and ask him to help. He can guide you through the steps needed to get this acomplished. IF at anytime the man decides NOT to do the test--the prison will no longer cooperate--even if there is a court order.


Question: CAN A WOMAN WITH O BLOOD AND A MAN WITH B BOOLD TYPE HVE A BABY WITH A TYPE
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The type produced by a woman with an O and a Man with a B will be either a B or an O. Hope this helps.


Question: i have a daughter that has a father that is cherokee indian, what type of blood test can be done to determine the percentage of indian blood she has?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I do not know if you want to get on the tribal roll or not but there are tests out there that purport to be able to tell if you are an indian or not--the problem with this is that what you get back is a fairly broad statement and nothing that could get you inducted into the tribe. Generally, tribes are relying on standard types of paternity testing such as paternity, maternity, grand parentage, and sibling relationship studies. Using advanced technologies such as Y STR and Mitchondrial DNA sequencing a relationship can be traced back through many generations. If your daugher's father is a confirmed Cherokee then a simple paternity test will suffice. If the father is not availabe then a grandparentage study could be performed and if the father has OTHER confirmed children then a sibling relationship study would be advised.


Question: I was wondering..is it possible to have a DNA test done before the baby is born. Rather than having to wait to see who the father is for 9 months?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: absolutely! Paternity can be performed at the 10th week of pregnancy through CVS collection and then later through an amniotic fluid collection. Both are invasive techniques and must be supervised by a physician.


Question: I'm in a relationship with this man.A girl was said that she was pregnant by him.Nobody's knows the month that she was pregnant because, she ended up making herself have the baby early and trying to trap him. The baby stayed in the hospital for some months. They say she supposed to had the baby in February and she made herself had it in December. Why do that when your only two months away? They took a test and his sample took 6 days to reach the GeneScreeb Lab and she took her test on the 16th and they recieved it the next day. How is that so? and is there anyway that the test could be alterd with in when taking the swab, sending it off, or the results paper. When the results came back he got one sheet of paper stating he was the father. How many papers do you supposed to get back from the test? Also I have a friend that got a copy off t he computer and used that for the results of one of her tests.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Transit times of the sample from the time of draw to the lab can vary, although 6 days sounds excessive. I am concerned about the "friend who got a copy of the test off the computer." I'm not sure I understand what you're saying here, but if you mean that somebody got access to the test results by accessing them on line, something is not right.


Question: I have a friend who was just sentenced to 20 years in prison for the alleged sexual assault of a minor. His DNA was tested(more than one year after it was collected due to administrative errors) and showed that he was 4million times more likely to be the father than any other unrelated, unknown parties in a database of Caucasians, Blacks, and Hispanics. He is Hispanic. 13 loci were tested. He denies sexual contact with the victim but knows that his first cousin and his biological son were having sex with her around the time that she would have conceived the child. She delivered the child 5/29 and claims that he(my friend) had sex with her around 9/27. The child was full term. Would it be beneficial to try to have the courts test the cousin and son? Where could I get genetic precedents for this that might carry some weight with the appeals process?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The main concern isn't the cousin but the biological son. With 13 loci tested, the chances are small, but not insignificant, that the son could be the true biological father. If involvement of the son was raised at the trial, it is inconceivable to me that the judge would not have ordered the son to be tested too. Check with an attorney for specifics, but this sounds on its face to be something worthy of followup.


Question: Can paternal testing harm an unborn baby?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The DNA test itself cannot harm the baby. The viability of the procedure for collection is one that must be predetermined as safe by the medical physician attending to the care of the mother. Each pregnancy is different.


Question: My father is deceased. I have a cousin, whom is my father's great niece, (his sister's grandaughter). She says she thinks my father is her father?! Is there away to test to see if she is my sibling or my cousin? With my father being deceased? If anything, I feel I need to fight for my deceased father's innocence. Thank you
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You certainly can. Use one of our QuckHIT test solutions that you can download at Fairfax Identity Laboratories The test is inexpensive and convenient. Best of all there is a support number inside the kit so that if you get stuck you can just pick up the phone and someone will answer your questions. Make sure that you include the fact that you and the other party being tested are cousins.


Question: is it possible for me to become pregnant from someone that had a vasectomy more than 10+ years ago? i was beginning my period on March 20 and had sex so it did not actually start till March 23. I am know pregnant and had sex on 4/6 and 4/12, s which day did i conceive?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Absolutely--the procedure is not 100 percent fool proof. I cannot tell you exactly which day that you conceived.


Question: Message: I had a DNA test done while we were stationed in Germany and found out our baby wasn't mine. We later seperated, but off and on till Jan 2002. She has been with the father of the child till recently. She had the 2nd boy 22 Oct 02. I me this seem like my kid but she had sex with both of us within 2 weeks. Recently, the dad had a paternity test done but only the 1st son is his. My Ex sent pictures 2 days ago saying the 2nd boy is my son. He looks just like my younger brothers. But what gets me is the 2nd boy have a blood type of A+. the mother and I have blood types of O+?. Also, will a lab use both my test result from 2yrs ago (in Germany) to compare it to the recent test (USA)? Or would we have to redo the test. Im in ND they are in VA. Thanks
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It is highly unlikely you are the father--you will have to do a test and use fresh samples.


Question: i have a problem with working out my dates my baby is due on the 30th of september this year but i slept with one bloke on the 23rd and my x boyfriend on the 30th please help ?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You're having problems because BOTH fathers fall into the conception range. I would test whichever one is best available.


Question: A friend of mine had a peternity test done on his 5yr old daughter and it came back that she has a 80 something percent chance of being his. Is that possible and what does that mean that he is or isn't? Second, they told him that he may not be the father but one of his 5 brothers could be,so t have them tested too. None of them even live in town and they've all emphatically denied the possibility. Is it possible that one of them could not be? If not where do you go from here?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I would get your money back--an 80 percent leaves a 20 percent margin of error. Extended testing should have bee performed. Look on this thread and find one of the links to our website and have the QuckHIT home test which is only 210 dollars. IT is an extremely powerful test.


Question: My son is 19. His girlfriend is 18. They jsut had a baby 4/25. Her parents and grandparents are denying him any access to the girl or their child. They did not let him sign as the father and have told him to stay out of their lives. He is in love with the girl and the baby. What rights does he have? Should he try to establish paternity?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The mother and the father a adults--the grandparents have NO say in this--especially sense there are two set of grandparents, you know. Your son needs to obtain a court order for paternity testing. The maternal grandparents do not have the authority to deny him access to his child--only a court can do that.


Question: Can an error occur in a DNA locus paternity test? Mother was not tested, child and two alleged fathers were. 7 locus were tested. Samples were taken by friends and mailed to the lab. Could there be an error in exclusion in this type of method?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: From what you are describing, it sounds like the error,if there was one, would have occured at the collection level not at the lab.


Question: My last lmp was Sept.16th/2004, I had sex with an ex on Oct 7th, my due date is June 22/04, the ultrasound confims this to 1 day off. I did the non-invasive prenatal test with the alleged father and had nothing but trouble with the comapny. They said that it would take 14 business days and it took a month and a half(39 business days). They seemed unorganized and when I called to express my concerns I was dismissed. When I finally got the results over the phone I was told that the alleged father could not be excluded as the father. I was sent an e-mail and there was no percentage as to how accurate it is. My file is H5666-H5702-H5730. Does that have anything to do with the testing?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Wait until the baby is born and retest. Fetal Cell separation is not validated in this country and cannot be used in court and is a complete waste of your time and money---as evidenced by your complaint. Who knows what the file number means--it is nonsense to me.


Question: I got the results and it concluded that I am 99.99% the father. Now, I noticed they have the female down as "Caucasian" and me down as "Mixed". I am 75% Italian and 25% Swedish. SHE is 50% Italian and 50% Puerto Rican. Being that she said she was "caucasian", does this change the way the test is callibrated for different ethnicities? Just wondering. Should there be a re-test?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: No, the mother's race is not figured into the calculation--only the father's race is considered.


Question: My babies father denies that our son is biologically his, but I am 100% positive. He oddly enough refuses to take a DNA test. He now has nothing to do with me or our child and I'm forced to care for him on my own.---How if possible can I obtain a DNA test without his direct consent? Do I have to obtain a court order or are there a variety of ways I can handle this? Most importantly if he is forced to take the test I know he will refuse to pay for it, so will I be held accountable for that too?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I would file a complaint with the child support office enforcement office and name his as the father. He will then be given the opportunity to ask for a test--if he still refuses then they will court order him to comply and if he still refuses then he will be declared the father by default. I know this sounds harsh but if he is convinced that he is not the father then he should provide--it is that simple. Regarding the payment of the test cost--that will be entirely up to the child support office as how payment will be decided. Each agency has its own different policies.


Question: I want to know which testing is more reliable swab or blood. I have legal guardian of my grandchild her mother left her with her father 16 months ago. We had a swab test which was out of state that said he was most likely not the father will a blood test be advised. Thank You.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: This question drives me nuts because the whole swab vs blood thing came about as simply bad information spread by labs who, at the time, were unable to make the swab technology work for them. Nowadays, EVERYBODY does swabs. IT IS NO DIFFERENT THEN BLOOD so testing with blood is a complete waste of time. HOWEVER, I would retest if an AABB lab was not used (like Fairfax for example)--AABB labs are required to run exclusions at LEAST twice before releasing the results. Hope this helps.


Question: I have been living with my boyfriend for two and a half years and we have had unprotected sex plenty of times. I am not on any birth control and I have never gotten pregnant. We had split up for about 3 weeks and he had sex with another girl, she claims she got pregnant. She had the baby in June of last year and the baby was about 3 months early. What is the chance of him being the father and when would she have conceived? She was also at the time living with another man and sleeping with another man plus slept with my boyfriend once.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Still a 50/50 chance until he has the test. I might want to comment that maybe you and him should consider seeing a doctor and checking to see if you can conceive or if he has a low or null sperm count. After you folks talk to the doctor--I would then insist on a paternity test to get this resolved.


Question: My husband had sex one time with an ex around December 26-December 31. We have a child together and are trying to work through his adultery. She called 3 weeks ago and said she is pregnant, her due date is the end of August/first of September. Our son was pre-mature and had several health issues. My husband has no medical background due to adoption. We have asked her to check with her doctor for testing that would offer health and paternity results and also allow us to contact our medical insurance for the unborn (twins). She was to call us back two weeks ago with the best recommendation for the safety of the babies. We haven't heard from her. What rights does the alleged father have? And with this estimated due date, is it really possible he is the father? There is also the issue of my health, I am a diabetic and not doing well trying to deal with all this. My doctor just did an EKG and my blood sugars are very uncontrolled since this has been brought to our attention.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: This is a very interesting topic. First, based on the information that you have provided, I cannot make an estimate of the conception date without the due date of the child. I am curious as to why she has not called you back. Your husband, at this time, really does not have any rights until the child is born and THEN the first order of business is to have the paternity test which we would be happy to provide. DO NOT sign anything until you have that test--this is one right that he does have and MUST excercise. Regarding Diabetes, I hope that you have a diabetic team consisting of your Doctor, a nurse (the doctor's), a podiatrist for your feet, a heart specialist, and a dietitican/diabetic educator. Stress does raise sugar levels severely in diabetics so you have to step up your excercise program(UNDER YOUR DOCTOR'S ADVISEMENT) and review your current diet with your educator. If you are not walking regulary you may want to start doing that again (again check with your doctor first). By the way, I am NOT a medical doctor but am VERY close to this subject as this disease does run in my family so I deal with it every day. Talk to your doctor about stress management courses and maybe talking to a counselor. You're having to deal with the issue of your husband's adultery and with your health burden. Please talk to your doctor and feel free to show him my note to you. Good luck.


Question: If two male sibbling (same Parents) are unknowingly intimate with the same female and she conceives, can the true father of the child be determine?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Absolutely!


Question: 1. in paternity testing, how many different loci are necessary? 2. which kind of certificates are required for a lab to do paternity test? AABB ? others?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: 1. How many loci--I am not being flippant here but really you only need enough loci to EITHER get you two exclusions or a 99.9 percent or better if he is the father. Labs who boast about how many loci they use are using a common sales tool: overkill is better--the idea is capitalize on your fear that not enough testing was performed. Fairfax Identity Laboratories prefers NOT to feed off of a client's fears. 2. I cannot speak for other labs but the most accepted certification is that of the AABB (American Association of Bloodbanks). Why have this certification--well think about walking into a restruant with your family and you sit down to a nice meal--you look up and there is that big "C" rating in front of you--no you KNOW that the rating should be A so you also Know that you are NOT going to eat there. Well that is what the AABB is--a big restruant sticker--having the AABB certification says that the lab CARES enought to maintain the highest quality controls available and that they make their laboratories open to onsite inspections by the AABB. I have seen labs on the internet who do not carry that certification and they will claim that it is not needed--they are wrong--aak the State Department, Immigration and Naturalization and the US court system and they will all disagree. It is important. Here are our certifications. We are certified by the AABB, By CLIA (lab certification-federal), the City and State of New York, and are certified as a CODIS laboratory criminal DNA Databasing. With these certifications, you can be assured that Fairfax Identity Laboratories is accepted on all levels from Local to state to federal in ALL of the United States and abroad.


Question: I am 6 weeks pregnant and I'm trying to determine who the father of my child could be. I had unprotected sex with someone on the 6th of November 2003 and on the 20th of November 2003. Who would my baby more likely be for. My due date is August 13, 2004. Is it possible I could have had sex with someone else after the 20th or before the 20th for my child to be for them? could you please tell me which days could I have had sex on for it to match up with my due date? The first day of my last period was November 3, 2003. Please help me, I'm trying to figure it out so that I won't have to get a blood test done. If I had an idea of the dates that would be more accurate of me getting pregnant then I would know.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It could be either--they BOTH fall into the conception period. Unfortunately, I cannot pinpoint precisely the days that you had sex and that the baby would have been conceived. You can get an inexpensive paternity test after the baby is born--check out the link two quesitons up.


Question: My boyfriend is going through a situation were he signed the birth certificate of his ex girlfriend's daughter. He is now obligated to pay child support and find out that the child may or may not be his. We cannot afford a paternity test straight out, and we were wondering if there is a way to prove before his court date that the child is not his or not. We need finacial help in West Virginia.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: unfortunately, I do not know of anyone who will give away a free test--you should look at the previous question where we have a link provided to access the paternity solutions at our website. A few are inexpensive and thus affordable.


Question: Hi. I was needing to know if Tenncare paid for paternity tests. See my babies father is wanting a paternity tests but he is wanting me to have tenncare pay for it. I think he should pay for it, i know who the father is just because he doesnt want t acknowledge it is not my fault. Also, we had started dating while i was going through my divorce and my divorce still is not final and it is almost time for the baby to be born and he is mad that i will have to give his child my ex husbands last name if it is born before my divorce is final and i get my maiden name back.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: He needs to pay for the paternity test. Do NOT look for TennCare to cover it. It is not a medically necessary test. You should consider one of our QuickHIT home paternity solutions that you can download at Go to Paternity Solutions The cost is affordable at only 210 dollars.


Question: I am currently pregnant. My last period started on September 19, 2003. My due date is June 25, 2004. I am married and we were trying to get pregnant. I got drunk and had a one night stand on October 1, 2003 and the only method of birth control we used was the pull-out method. What are the chances that the one night stand is the father and not my husband? What test can be done to tell before the baby is born?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I am assuming that you were still having sex at that time with your husband when I post his answer. Because the time that you were with the man falls into the period when conception could have happened, the chances of THAT man being the father is 50 percent. You do prenatal testing under the supervision of your physician between the 10 and the 20th week of pregnancy. CVS is performed between the 10th and the 13th week and amnio fluid collection is performed fromt he 14th to the 20th week.


Question: divored in 1998 , agreed on joint custody with placement with mom. I paid child support until Nov,2002. we revised the agreement in court and the placemnt was granted to me. she move out of the state and never paid child support. A DNA test now proved I am not the biodad. I can give up my right and remove any obligation toward him he is 12 yrs old now. can I go back and ask for the $20, 000 chiuld support that I paid. is this a paternity fraud case, will she go to jail?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I doubt you will be able to collect the money--you will need an attorney to process the case. Fraud is hard to determine so again ask your attorney.


Question: I was born in the 60, in Virginia to an unwed mother. They did not allow the fathers name to be put on my birth certficate. My Dad died a few years ago, and he has always publicly acknowledge that I am his child. What is the process of getting his name put on my birth certificate. He was seperated from his wife at the time of my birth. He had children in within his marriage, however he questioned his paternity about some of the kids. After his divorce he had more kids, but his name is not on their birth certificate either but he did publicly claim them as his kids also and we all knew we were sisters and brother, (without DNA we look and act like him, there is no question in our minds) The siblings from the marriage are not willing to take the DNA test. We just want our birth certificates to be complete.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Your problem is the proof. He claimed that you were his children but he did not sign the birth certificate--the first thing that I would do is to contact the bureau of vital statistics in Richmond who are the keepers of the birth record and see if there is anything that you can do. I suspect that they are going to need more tangible proof then what you currently have and so a dna test may be your only way of proving your point. If a deceased sample is inovolved then you definitely want to consider using our services. Once you have proven your paternity then your will have to go to court to have the doucment altered.


Question: I have a situation which involves me and two brothers. I had found out that my brothers where having sex with the same girl I was. I had stopped seeing her the 1st of Jan. one year. I didn't see her for about two and a half years. Then one day in Oct. I saw her with a baby, she said it was mine. But one thing puzzled me she had him that Feb. right after I saw her, she didn,t even look pregnant. I'm not for sure she could of had him early. He lives with the grandmother and she wanted child support, so her daughter told her I was the father. She didn't mention sleeping with my brothers too. I was the only one the state order to take a Paternity Test. Here I was shocked, young, and stupid. Everything took me by surprise. Anyway I was wondering I one of my siblings DNA test be higher then mine. The summary of findings: is not excluded as the biological father. Combined paternity index=1660 Probability of paternity=99.94% (50% prior probability) Test that where done DNA Probes (bp) pYNH24/D2S44 mothe > r 1 >
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It is actually possible but you are going to have to be insistent that they submit to a test. It is only fair, after all. Let me say this--it is unlikely that the others will also be found to be the father but it has happened albeit on a rare occasion. Try to get them to cooperate and if not then you will need to engage an attorney and tell him your story. If he cannot help you get a second opinion.


Question: Can an alledged father request a cord blood paternity test at birth?? All the info I have read says the mother can request the test kit but never says the father can request it...I just want to know paternity results as soon as possible. Thanks
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I think that cord blood collect is an invasion to what is supposed to be an intimate moment. It is expensive--you have to involve doctors and hospital administration not to mention their risk management team. Can the father request it without your consent--NO. He wouldn't be able to get a court order at this time either. If you want to know about the paternity of the child--wait until you get home, download one of our QuickHIT home test and only pay 210 dollars when you send in the samples--you will get your results back in 5-7 business days. It is private and is every bit as accurate as our 480 dollar court admissible version.


Question: I had my son on March 28 I was soppose to have him on the 26 .. The first date of my last menstrual period was on the second of july .. I made a mistake and cheated on my ex boyfriend once with a man who is 30 and said he couldnt have no kids on July 10th with out a condom ..My ex boyfriend and my son took one of those home kit paternity test when he came down here.. it was a saliva one but the thing was he said i didnt have to take it so it was just him and my child.. and from what I have heard its soposse to be the mother the alleged father and the child..well he got the results and I really dont understand it and trust it this is what it says.System Child Alleged Father Paternityindex > D321358 15,16 15,16 1.99 > vWA 17,18 15,17 .92 > D2s1338 17 21,22 0.00 exclusion > D8S1179 12 11,15 0.00 EXCLUSION > D21S11 30,33.2 30 1.92 > D18S51 14,16 15,16 1.34 > D19S433 13,15.2 11,13 0.96 FGA 21,25 21,24 1.42 > D16539 9,14 11, 12 0.00EXCLUSION > > They also messed up on the Alleged Fathers Race he is Latin and they put Cacusian and didnt even put a race for my son .. I have also heard that when the mother does not do the test there is a possibility that she might have the other genes and cover for those exclusions .. what do you think is it possible?? please help .. thank you
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Not having the mother tested may lead to a false INCLUSION on VERY rare occasions, but a man's biological child will share markers with him whether the mother is tested or not. Exclusionary results will not change to inclusions if the mother is tested. Also, the race of the tested man is irrelevant when the test excludes him. The race of the child is never used in any event.


Question: Can the non-custodial parent in Texas terminate his rights because he does not want to pay over due child support? I thought parental rights could only be terminated if it was agreed upon and the child was being adopted by mom's husband other than that it is not possible??? Or is he just bluffing he states that he terminated his rights to his other children by getting a family layer. I hope someone can help!
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You should probably check with the Texas Attorney General's office regarding this issue. An attorney cannot terminate a man's parental rights--only a court of law can do that and that means a judge. Termination can happen in the case of an adoption or if the court deems a parent to be unfit. Generally, proof of paternity is required before such a step is taken.


Question: MY HUSBAND IS THE FATHER OF 3 CHILDREN FROM A PREVIOUS MARRIAGE, AGES 18, 16, 14. HE HAD PREVIOUSLY HAD A PATERNITY TEST ON HIS SON PRIOR TO THEIR MARRIAGE BUT NEVER ON THE GIRLS (BECAUSE THEY WERE MARRIED)...HE SIGNED THEIR BIRTH CERTIFICATES ETC. NOW HE IS QUESTIONING HIS YOUNGEST DAUGHTERS PATERNITY BECAUSE THEY WERE ON/OFF AGAIN, HE WAS OUT OF TOWN ALOT AND SHE HAD CHEATED BEFORE. WHAT ARE THE GUIDELINES FOR PROVING PATERNITY...WE ARE IN OHIO. BASICALLY I WANT TO KNOW BECAUSE THEY WERE MARRIED AND HE SIGNED THE B.C. IS IT UP TO THE JUDGE TO MAKE HIM PAY CHILD SUPPORT EVEN IF HE IS NOT LEGALLY THE FATHER? DO WE NEED PERMISSION FROM THE MOTHER TO GET THE TEST DONE? IS IT BEST TO GO THROUGH THE COURT AND AHVE A TEST ORDERED? CAN THE JUDGE DENY THE REQUEST? THANK YOU,
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: For the legal aspects of your question go to google and do a search for OCSE State Profiles. When you get there, you will see a map, click on it and then click on paternityh. You should find this most helpful. Child Support is usually court ordered through a child suport collection agency. A Judge can order a paternity test and YES a judge can deny the request for the test. If his name is on the birth certificate most labs will do the test for him. I hope this helps.


Question: ok my ex had hazel eyes and i have blue eyes. > i have dirty to brownish hair, blonde at birth. > and she has blonde hair.my daughter has blonde hair very dark brown eyes kinda choc color. > every body says shes not mine because of eye color. my ex brother in law married her sister and she also has hazel eyes. he has blue eyes and both his kids have blue eyes.just want to know is it possible for my girl to have brown eyes over dominant blue? > thanks
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Eye color is due to multiple genes. In the simplest case, brown is dominant over blue, but the exact color can depend on the mixture of several characteristics. Intelligent people who are aware of these facts would never use eye color alone as any kind of indicator of parentage


Question: Father 0+, mother A- and child AB+. This is not a case of adultry. We are very concerned. Obviously a paternity/maternity test is required. Where can I read more about ABO mutation?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: ABO mutation isn't widely published on. You could start with a good current textbook on human genetics, with special attention to the chapters on blood groupings. You could also search the web on "ABO blood types."


Question: I have a daughter who is 25 and about a year and a half ago she sent me a letter telling me she figured out I lied to her about her biological father. This aquaintence from 25 years ago has told my daughter that she believes that her husband at the time, is my daughter's father. I have no idea what or where she received her information from, but the fact of the matter is I never had intercourse with her husband. I recently received information that my daughter was going to see her doctor and get her blood type done to see if that person in question is her father. That person had deceased 24 years ago, but the wife who has accused me of this I'm sure knew his blood type. I have o- blood type, my daughter is a+ because I had to haave the rogam shot after she was born. My qustion is will that determine that he could have been her father by an exact match? And if so what would be the percentage rate? I believe that a DNA test would give better results as he has two living daughters.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: First, what a hurtful thing for someone to tell you daugher. Since she is an adult, it escapes me as to what purpose this would serve except to drive a wedge between you and her. The blood typing is a waste of time. The woman could go to any place with a blood type on the web and choose the one that she knows matches. A sibling study between her and one of the daughters is more appropriate. If you want, I would be more then happy to speak to your daughter. Have her contact me through this forum and I will arrange to speak with her.


Question: I did a paternity test that was called a fetal cell id test. this is where they take blood from the mother, during the pregnancy, and separate the dna from the mother and unborn baby and then use a toothbrush of the alleged father to gain paternity results. Is this test legitimate or are the only test that are reliable are the amino and cvs please tell me.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The test is not valid in the United States. It is a waste of money if you plan on using this for court. Secondly, if you have more then one child then the test may not be accurate. In fairness to the ocmpany they do try to point this out to their clients but many people take this test because it is non-invasive. As far as I know the company does not try to mislead its clients. The company sells the product through an affiliate in the United States but the testing is performed in Canada. Fetal cell testing is the Holy Grail of paternity testing--the quest is still on --we are not quite there yet.


Question: I am currently in my 7th month of pregnany and the father of my baby and I split up 3 months ago. He currently lives and works in another state now and he is demanding that the baby have his name on the birth certificate not only as the father but also his last name which is different from mine. I feel adament about the last name of my child being the same as mine. Does he have a legal right to demand this or can I name my child the what I want? While I am not wanting to deny the fact that he is the father, he is wanting to take the child out of state for visitation when it is born. I fear that he would skip with the child. What can I do to protect my child and myself from this happening?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: This is only an observation mind you but it sounds like he does NOT want to be the father and he is trying to scare you. Let him demand all he wants. Also do NOT let him pressure you into taking a prenatal paternity test. Let him take one after the baby is born. Right now you are letting him control you. If you need help after the child is born consider filing for child support with your local child support agency and let them deal with him and then consult an attorney on what he can and cannot do.


Question: One week after I married my husband, we were approached by this girl at the mall who said he was the father of her 6 month old child. We tried to set up a paternity testing but she refused. Twelve months later we were sent a letter stating that my husband had to take a paternity test to establish paternity. Both he and his brother slept with this girl, however my husband was only tested. Is it possible that he is not the father and the test needs to be retaken with both him and his brother?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You never told me the outcome of the test but by your question I am assuming that he tested positive. It is unlikely the brother needs to be tested but many people cling to the notion that the presence of a brother will automatically overturn a result. It oculd happen but it is very unlikely. I would say do the test but only for your own peace of mind. Don't look for the answer you seek though--it is MOST LIKELY that the testing of the brother will serve to confirm your husband's test.


Question: What is the accuracy in determining Paternity with Blood Type testing V.S. DNA testing?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You are not being specific. Blood can be either DNA or HLA--swabs are dna only. DNA is more CONCLUSIVE then HLA. Both,however,can yield results in the 99 percentile.


Question: My husband is all the sudden a father of 2 14 year old girls from the same woman. They have no contact since all these years now she is demanding he is the father and she has 8 kids by 8 different guys. He has to take a paternity test. How long do the results take?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Generally, a paternity test only takes 5-7 days to process.


Question: I just had paternity done on a man and my child and the results came back that he was the father. My question is: If there are mutations present, how will it read on the PI? There are a couple of PIs that read as 0.69 and 0.93, are these considered mutations?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: PIs are much lower than that. For those particular systems in your case, you should see matches between the child and him. That wouldn't be true if there were mutations. The reason the numbers are less than one is because the characteristics that he and the child share are pretty common in the population as a whole.


Question: if a baby was born on Jan 10, 2003 could the conception be on March 6th or anywhere around there?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Actually, a January 10th date would put the conception somewhere within the first two weeks of April.


Question: My question is what is the earliest a woman can take a perterinty test? Can she take one while she still is pregnant?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Yes, she can--testing can be done as early as the 10th week.


Question: I want a paternity test done secretly (without my husbands knowledge), is that possible?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I suppose you could--we would not do it but there are plenty of people out there who are more then willing to put money over ethics. An AABB laboratory should never do this...period.


Question: I am in my mid 20's and have just now decided to contact my "fathers". The reason I say that is my mother was with 2 different men, a week apart. She was with the first man on the 10th day of her cycle - July 19th, and with the 2nd man on the 17th day of her cycle- July 26th. I was born April 3rd, supposedly 3 weeks early. Which has the most likelihood of being my father? We are currently seeking DNA testing.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Your problem is that pesky word "supposedly"--You see on my first calculation one could be the father and on the second one which was your three week early supposition the second many seems to be the likely candidate. You are still running at a 50 percent chance for either--you are very wise to seek dna testing. Because you are all adults you do not need to involve lawyers or the court system. If you all are voluntary consider using one of our QuickHIT home paternity tests which is a free download at our website and you pay when you send in the sample--the cost for one you and one father would be 210 dollars while the second father would bring the total to 280--dit is a very powerful but inexpensive test. You can get the test kit by going to divorcenet's own Paternitynet.com. Inside the test kit is my number which you cna use if you need help while doing the collection. Hope this helps.


Question: Message: this is probably the dumbest question ever, but a friend of mine was approached by a girl he was sleeping with and she said he could be the father of her baby he says the baby looks just like him but he was told that if you sleep with someone that is pregnant that the baby could come out looking like you. i have never heard this until the other day, the child was already concieved so how would that be possible for another mans sperm to interfere with the appearance of the unborn child. please help me prove him wrong
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: A child's characteristics are determined by the genes of the biological father together with those of the mother. The genetic makeup of a child is set when the sperm fertilizes the egg. Sleeping with a second man after the woman has already gotten pregnant by another man won't in any way lead to the child acquiring the second man's characteristics. Now, if your BROTHER sleeps with a woman, she gets pregnant by him, and then you sleep with her, then the child might look a bit like you because you and your brother (presumably) resemble each other. But if the two men aren't related? No.


Question: I was curious...I had been with the father of my baby exclusively--and then ended up pregnant. He is a veteran and says the military told him he oculd not have babies..well, he obviously can. How accurate is that? Have you ever heard of the military telling someone they couldn't have babies? And, I am moving to be closer to my family which will mean we will live in two different states...will he still be responsible for child support? What are the drawbacks or pluses for having him on my babies birth certificate?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I cannot discuss the drawback of the birth certificates because I am not an attorney. Regarding the military, WHO in the military told him this. Does he have name? IS there a medical record? Unless he can prove otherwise he will be responsible for child support if you name him as the father. IT is likely that a paternity test may be warranted.


Question: A man in the process of getting a divorce doesnt think the child is his, what does he have to do to get a paternity test to see if he is the biological father. In the state of Michigan he is the legal father because they were married when the child was born, but he wants a paternity test. Does she have to consent to it or can he have one done regardless?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Generally, a man can have a test with a lab without the mother if his name is on the child's birth certificate or he has signed some sort of indemnity agreement with the laboratory.


Question: My Fiance and I had a paternity test done on my son who is now 3 weeks old. I have some concerns about the accuracy of this test. Number one they tested on 10 systems and he matched on 2 of them how is this possible since it was proven he is not he father according to that test? Also there are some things that I wonder if they could affect the result such as the fact that he smoked a ciggarette right before the test and the baby drank an entire bottle literally right before the testing. Can these things affect the accuracy of the test? Please let me know asap.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: He has to match on ALL the systems to be the father. He can match on a few but if there are two or more that he does NOT match on then he is NOT the father. I don't think cigarettes will adversely effect the outcome of the test nor the bottle...If the samples were effected the lab most likely would have asked for a recollection. If the lab is aabb certified then they would rerun the father's sample before releasing the report just to verify the exclusions. HOWEVER, I always say that if you do not like the outcome of a test it is always a good idea to do a second confirmatory test.


Question: my daughters father is taking me to court for paternity but he has signed her birth certificate almost 2 years ago can he do this now or will the judge rule in my favor
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I would not even pretend to be able to second guess a judge. It will depend on how you present your case and how your state laws approach this subject.


Question: Hello i just had a baby and they say hi blood type is B+. I was wondering if i have ab- and my husband is ab+ we can have a b+ kid. his mom and a few people are throwing up that it aint his and well i was wondering if you can get b+ out of what we are.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The blod type can be A, B, AB, or O The Rh type can be either Rh- or Rh+ So a B+ is certainly possible. I will suggest to you that you and your husband obtain one of our QuickHit Paternity test--it is inexpensive and quick and you can download the paper for the test at the following link: QuickHit Paternity Testing Kit I hope this helps.


Question: How many Locus should be tested for an accurate result of paternity when the child and father are the only ones tested? The test was done in home with friends doing the cheek swab.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: A lot of companies sell you on the hype that the more loci that you purchase the better the test. To you I say "Caveat Emptor". The AABB requires testing that is 99 percent or better and if he is NOT the father then he must be excluded on at least two systems. Furthermore, in the event that the man is excluded then the lab must run the father's sample at least ONE more time BEFORE releasing the results. It is not how many loci you test it is whether the lab takes the time to excercise a stringent quality control.


Question: CAN A MAN WHO THINKS HE MAY BE THE FATHER OF MY BABY ORDER MYSELF AND THE BABY TO HAVE A TEST? I DO NOT WANT ANYONE TO BE TESTED
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: He cannot order you but it is possible that he could obtain an order for paternity testing and you would have to comply with the wishes of the court.


Question: I am AB+ and my wife is B-ve our son is O+ is it possible to have a child o+ since your chart says that it is not possible. Please help
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You have to give an A or a B, and any child of yours would have to express one of these markers, unless some sort of mutation occurred. A DNA best would be a better indicator of paternity.


Question: My ex-wife began having an affair that co-incides with the time she became pregnant. What test can be done to determine if I am the father or not? If I am the father, what steps should I take to gain custody of the child in the state of Arizona.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: First, we do not advise on law issue--you need an arizona attorney. You do a paternity test to determine if you are the father of a child--I am assuming that the child is already born since you do not indicate that in your question but just in case the child has not been born you can do the test through either CVS or Amniotic fluid collection. Your will need the mother's physician to collect the sample or someone that he refers.


Question: I am divorced and I have 2 children that I pay 25% of my income for child support. A different lady I dated in the past who said she was on the pill at the time said she is pregnant by me. I felt she lied to me and got pregnant on purpose. I told her I did not want any part of the child or her in my future. She said she is going to come after me for support. I am not sure it is mine, but if it is, what amount of additional child support am I responsible for? Another 17%? For a total of 42% of my income. I asked her to get an abortion, but she refused and I told her that she would have it alone then. She said she wanted nothing of me, but now says she wants support. I live in NY state.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If you do a search on Google you can find what are called child support calculators. They calculate the amount of support that you will have to pay in a particular state. I did a search and came up with several. Good luck.


Question: Mother is B+, Father is A+, can we have a child who is O+????
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: A, B, AB or O are the possible types that can be produced. The Rh can be positive or negative so the answer to your question is yes.


Question: Message: My husband was involved in an affair in which the woman stated that he got her pregnant. Supposedly, it was a tubal pregnancy and she claimed at first to have it aborted. A month later, she claimed that she never had the abortion, but that the fetus was moved to her uterus. We have done some research on this and have found no cases where this is possible. While she was seeing my husband, she was living with her husband, yet claims that she didn't have sex with him. Supposedly, she is 13 weeks pregnant, and is trying to persuade my husband into taking a paternity test. We were told that the test cannot be performed until the baby is born, if there even is a baby. Can she exlude her lawful husband from taking a DNA test, or will both men be required to take the test? For her to demand a paternity test, even though she tells my husband that his name will not be listed on the birth certificate, tells me that she's actually unsure of who the father really is. Should we just sit back and wait for the baby to be born, or seek an attorney now? Supposedly, the baby is due in October, according to this woman's claims. If she is married to the man that she claims is her husband, and still living with him, who has financial responsibility for the baby?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: This woman sounds like she is in complete control of the situation. I would get an attorney. Take the paternity test AFTER the child is born. The court won't recognize and invasive procedure anyway. Get the attorney right now because of the financial responsibility issue because I think her husband may be responsible. It is possible that her marriage is on the line and if she gets the results before the baby is born then it is conceivable that the two could divorce and then the child would be born outside the marriage which could end up making you financially liable. Talk to your attorney but I would definitely wait to get the test. By the way, if she lied about the abortion how do you know she is not lying about the birth certificate? For that reason alone you need to have sensible counseling from a family law attorney. One other thing, if this child is your husband's then find out from the attorney what your rights are.


Question: ATTENTION: THERE WAS A MISPOST IN THE PREVIOUS QUESTION--I AM REPOSTING THE QUESTION AND ANSWER WITH THE CORRECT CONCEPTION CALCULATION. SORRY FOR THE INCONVENIENCE. Me and my "son's father" (?) broke up and i got back with my ex. Me and ex were only together about 3 weeks (between July 15-Aug.5). Me and son's father was only together July 11-14 that month due to me visiting family out of town. I believe i was having my monthly right b/f i came home which was the 8 & 9 and it only lasted a couple days b/c i was having light periods b/c i had just gotten off b/control. Well, I had my son on April 15,2000. That was his exact due date from the very start. My son's dad and I agreed to paternity test, well he has had two appointments set and missed both. Me and my son have taken ours.It is about to drive me crazy.Which father would "YOU" THINK it would be? (IF YOU HAD TO GUESS)? And is there any way to get him to take the test if he is not willing or won't show up?The computer says my conception date is July 23 but the dr. told me July 30 (i know it's a give or take a week)
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: on't ask me to guess which is the father because I will not--it is an excercise that is cavalier at best. The child would have been conceived somewhere between July 8th and July 23rd. SORRY FOR THE OCNFUSION.


Question: Me and my "son's father" (?) broke up and i got back with my ex. Me and ex were only together about 3 weeks (between July 15-Aug.5). Me and son's father was only together July 11-14 that month due to me visiting family out of town. I believe i was having my monthly right b/f i came home which was the 8 & 9 and it only lasted a couple days b/c i was having light periods b/c i had just gotten off b/control. Well, I had my son on April 15,2000. That was his exact due date from the very start. My son's dad and I agreed to paternity test, well he has had two appointments set and missed both. Me and my son have taken ours.It is about to drive me crazy.Which father would "YOU" THINK it would be? (IF YOU HAD TO GUESS)? And is there any way to get him to take the test if he is not willing or won't show up?The computer says my conception date is July 23 but the dr. told me July 30 (i know it's a give or take a week)
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Don't ask me to guess which is the father because I will not--it is an excercise that is cavalier at best. The child would have been conceived somewhere between November 7th and November 21st.


Question: is there anyway to do a prenatal paternity test like cvs or amnio an then send in a sample of something like a toothbrush or something from the father (he is in the military Iraq). Because I want to make sure he is the father before the baby is born not for legal issues or anything- just for my own piece of mind
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Actually the simplest and least expensive way to test your loved ones in Iraq is for them to go to the internet and download one of our free dna test kits call QuickHit. They collect the samples and just mail it in. You can get the test kit to look at yourself at QuickHit Patenity Solutions You can call 800-482-3025 if you have any questions. The toothbrush would be very expensive to do--the total cost of the quckhit test will be around 490 since you wish to have a prenatal test.


Question: I am from Mississippi and my boyfriend just received a letter stating that he owes $2600 in child support for 2 kids that he never knew he had. He took a paternity test and thought he was not the father. They are saying that they sent the letters saying he is the father. He never received those letters. He has not been in contact with the children's mother in about 10 years and now all of a sudden this comes up. I dont understand. He did not sign the birth certificate and never received positive results. The question I want to ask is if his name is not on the birth certificate, does he have to pay child support? and why are they just now contacting him after all this time and his momma has been at the same address forever. Should whosever name is on the certificate have to pay?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If he never knew he had children then why did he take a paternity test and have you seen the results of this test? IF he was NOT EXCLUDED then that means that he IS the father. This is one of the most common mistake made when reading a report summary. Also, if he ignored them then they can declare him father by default without so MY advice to you is to get him to an attorney quick and sort this out. The birth certificate does not dictate who pays child support--only a court does that. Regarding the letters he did not receive--it is his word against theirs.


Question: I had a baby several years ago and my then boyfriend refused to acknowledge the baby saying that he never wanted kids. His name is not on my son's birth certificate. Recently, I married and my husband wants to adopt my son. We were wondering if we could just add my husband's name to my son's birth certificate. Is that legal or would a paternity test need to be done?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The boyfriend needs to be tested and then will need to waive his paternity so that that he can waive his rights and the husband can adopt--otherwise, the ex boyfriend can continue to insert himself into your life at anytime. You will need to do this through an attorney.


Question: My husband had been a father to his daughter for 13 years when he recieved a paternity suit paper from a man his ex was now married to suing him for paternity of the daughter. He had a dna test done and it came back 97 % sure that maqn was the father and not her dad that raised her. The dad that raised her was married to her mom at the time of the childs birth, listed on the biorth certificate as the childs father nad ordered to pay support on the child, and listed in the divorce asthe father. Now they have taken away his last name and put the bio - dad's on there and taken the dad that raised her's name off the birth certificate and put the natural father on there. My husband still has visitation rights and we have her in contempt of court right now for the 3rd time due to her refusing us our court ordered visitation, and we haven't seen the child since march of 2003 and the courts have held her in contempt but they have never done anything to her for it and we still aren't seeing our daughte r.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The mother seems to have gotten her cake and gets to eat it too--at the child's emotional expense. If you haven't done this already, I would seek a opinions from more then one attorney--this sounds extremely screwy. I cannot advise you on legal issues. Good luck though.


Question: My fiance took a paternity test along with 3 other guys to determine the father about 4 years ago. He was proven to be the paternal father, but in his ethinic backround they have him as a white male, when he is italian and indian. His and the paternal mother whose a white female DNA are almost exactly alike which confuses me. the child looks nothing like him should we prompt for another test and which test are the most accurate?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Probably the faher incorrectly marked the form when he was asked for his race. Don't need to re-do the test--just have the lab recalculate the test using the correct setup for the race. Italian IS considered Caucasian (right)--you don't indicate what you mean by indian but if you are referring to native american then they can recalculate a seoond report to reflect that ethnic background--should be no problem.


Question: My blood group is B+. My wife's blood group is O+. > My female child blood group is B-. > Is it possible, though both of us are +ve but our child has -ve group? > My baby had ceaserian birth but the doctor didn't gave any vaccine within 48 hours. > What will be the fate of our next issue? > > Please give your opinion.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I think you're asking about the Rh blood group. Since Rh+ is dominant over Rh-, two people who test as Rh- may in fact carry the Rh- gene and product an Rh- child (the child would inherit the Rh- gene from each parent). The "vaccine" you refer to is only given when the mother is Rh- and is or may be carrying an Rh+ child. Rh- is exactly what the term implies: ABSENCE of the Rh factor, and it's the factor's PRESENCE that causes potential problems with the subsequent children. If the child is Rh+ and the mother is Rh-, her body makes antibodies to the Rh+ material. Those antibodies persist in mom's immune system and will attack the blood cells of any subsequent Rh+ child that she may conceive. In your case, there will be no problem of this sort, no matter what the Rh type of your children.


Question: I have lived with this guy for 2 years .we had a baby and he refused to sign birth certificate . after his birth.my child has his last name but my boyfriend is not listed as his father. i want to seperate from him but he is threating to file for legal custody. can my child be forced to take a DNA test without my consent?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If he is refusing to sign the birth certificate then how does he expect to have custody of the child--by not signing he is, in a nutshell, leaving the paternity issue in doubt and the courts are smart enough to see this. You could have named the child after Bill Clinton but that would not give Mr. Clinton any custodial rights nor even come close to implying that he is the father. If he gets a court order for paternity testing then you will have to comply to wishes of the court or face contempt. In order for the court to take your child away they would have to have proofe that you are an extremely unfit mother.


Question: Ok I am 17 and about 14 weeks preg. My boyfriend is 15 and his mom dont think its his kid even though ive never been with anyone else. If we get a paternity test does she have to pay for it or do I? Also I want to know if there is any dna test i can do while im pregnant and about how much it is and how it is done or where i can get info on it?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: First things first. You are seventeen, you are a minor--so is your boyfriend so BOTH of you have to abide by what your parents decide. It is up to the parents to decide between themselves who will pay for the test. Yes, you can do a test while you are pregnant--I suggest that you search this board--this subject has been covered in great detail.


Question: IS IT POSSIBLE FOR TWO CHILDREN WHO HAVE TWO DIFFERENT BLOOD TYPES TO HAVE THE SAME FATHER.ONE HAS AB, ONE HAS A
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I will say yes it is since you have failed to provide the mother and the father's type.


Question: If all three of us live in CA, would they send our blood to Greensboro, NC for paternity evaluation. Why? Is this legal? How can I tell if the report is a fake?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It would not be illegal but it also would not be terribly bright nowadays since there ARE NO paternity labs currently in operation in Greensboro, NC. If you had a test over seven years ago, then you would have used the now defunct GDI which was reputed to be one of the best labs in the country despite the fact that it was not in California. I can assure you that California did not and DOES NOT have any lab that could come even close to recreating the quality and professionalism of that lab. It was the lab that others modeled themselves upon. How do you tell if a report is fake--you need to track down the lab and show them the report. Other ways would be to look at the report itself--most people who fake reports work from the original report which is what they want to hide. Almost always, they will leave remnants of the original report intact and that is a dead give away. I will not go into detail here because I do not want this to become a forum on creating dummy reports.


Question: Is there any way to control the outcome of a swab paternity test? What I am saying, if it is possible for someone to be the father, can that person do something to make sure the results show that he is "not" the father?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: This is not a question that you should ask a laboratory because we would not tell you how to interfere in the outcome of a test. No ethical laboratory would.


Question: My boyfriend is almost 18 well he will be within the next 5 months. I just turned 15. We have been dating for 2 years and I love him more than life itself and I know he feels the same. I messed up a week or 2 ago and had sex with some guy..Me and my boyfriend have been trying to have a baby sounds weird but we have.. However the day I had sex with the other guy I was ovulating but we used a condom. My boyfriend found out I told him and he cried and the next 3 days we continued to try and have a baby. Im afraid if I end up pregnant which I should know within the next week. Maybe its not my boyfriends. Even though me and the other guy used a condom and me and my boyfriend didnt theres always the possibility. Can you take a DNA test while pregnant? Because if its not my boyfriends I can't have it.. Also do you know anything about laws? Will my boyfriend go to jail for statutory rape in Georgia even though its consentual?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: First, let me address statuary rape--you and he consented to have sex but you BOTH are minors--consent belongs to your guardian which I assume is your parents. We do not offer legal advise on this board. Regarding a paternity test, check all through this board but you can do a test while pregnant--usually at 10 weeks-- but, again, you will need YOUR parents consent and the consent of a doctor to perform the procedure. If you feel that abortion may be an issue--again, you need the consent of your parents or guardian. Hope this helps.


Question: My son received child support papers from a woman that claims he is the child's father. He can't even be sure of this woman's identity. He is in the military and is having difficulty getting legal advice. He had no idea there was a child, who may already be about a year old. What are his options? He was in Iraq from January 2003 till the end of May. He has been in a different state since January 2004. He had no contact with this woman after returning from Iraq.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Military lawyers will not go out of there way to help your son except to advise him to "get it taken care of as soon as possible".If your son is still in the military he should inquire with the Judge Advocate's office about filing for a continuance under the Soldiers and Sailors Civil Relief. A judge will have to approve it but basically it should give him 90 days to get things in order. If that happends, then he will need to obtain a civillian order. As far as the support papers go, he should check those papers to see if he has the right to request a paternity test--be careful about signing until you have read everything completely--again consult a civillian attorney at the quickest possible moment.


Question: Suppose a woman finds that she is pregnant, in the state of Georgia. Then she contacts the ONLY possible man who could be the father, concerning financial help from him in order to have an abortion, just to have im curse her and call her a lier and to never contact him again. Is there any way to have a paternity test that would force him, by state laws, to assist her financially to have this abortion if they both agree upon it?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: No, you will find that it is extremely difficult to get an order for a prenatal test because it is an invasive procedure. Lastly, don't expect the state of Georgia to help you with this financially.


Question: I recently found out that I am 9 months pregnant. I do not get 'regualar' periods and my last one was in November. I told the doctor this and she gave me a sonogram that said the baby was 7 weeks. Does that mean the the Baby is 7 weeks old? Or am I in week 7 of my pregnancy? The due date is November 11. When could conception have occured and is there a better way to pin down the conception date?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You should probably ask her about what the 7 weeks mean. I am not clear on what she is saying. If you are 9 months pregnant then you are 36 weeks along in your pregnancy. Conception based on the due date you gave would be somewhere between February 4th and February 17th.


Question: is there a way to tell if my unborn child will be black or white ? or will i have to wait until she is born?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You will have to wait until the child has been born.


Question: Is there any way to control the outcome of a swab paternity test? What I am saying, if it is possible for someone to be the father, can that person do something to make sure the results show that he is "not" the father?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Yes, but it is unlikely it would happen at the lab level--if something happened it would have most likely happened at the collecion point.


Question: I just recently found out that my husband has been having an affair for some time now. I discovered their "love nest" . He has denied the whole thing, He tells me she is buying this house w/ her boyfriend, but I have facts that prove this to be incorrect. She moved stuff out but later moved it back in to appear being used. Now I am pretty sure this women has a baby that may be about 7 to 8 months. There are items in the house used by the baby. I have talked w/ a lawyer but says this would take a long time. I collected some items such as a baby cup and dropper from some medicine the child has taken. I have my husbands tooth brush and hair from a brush. Is there any way to do a private DNA from these items. I don't plan on doing anything legally, but am desparate to know this information. Can a DNA be done legally from these items and where? Thanks for your information.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Actually it is possbile but expensive--look to spend around a thousand dollars or better. You can contact us here at Fairfax if you want to proceed but let me caution you that there is the possibility that dna will not be able to be extracted from those objects so think long and hard before submitting those samples.


Question: Message: Around April of 2003, the mother of my two sons sister called to tell me that she had a 3-month old son by my children's father. Upon speaking to him it was said that she came up to our city in April of 2002, they had unprotected sex and she left the next day. One to two weeks later she called and informed him that she was pregnant. She claims that he came to Georgia with her and that is when the baby was conceived. There was already a paternity test performed on her first child and it is his daughter and the new baby looks just like her. The little boy was born January 9, 2003. Who is telling truth about the conception date? He is trying to reconcile that is why I am concerned.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The conception should have been between March 31st and April 15th. Hope this helps.


Question: my best friend just got a new boyfriend and she already has two other kids from her current boyfriend from whom is involved in their lives. OK the question she had sex with a different guy but with the one she is with now and she thinks she is pregnant. her boyfriend said he would sign the birth certificate even though the child is not his. is this legal or not legal?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Pardon my bluntness but her boyfriend probably does not possess the brightest light bulb in the factory but it is not illegal. He can sign if he wants. The government loves people who step up to the plate and are willing to sign their lives away. This is no longer the age of "do the right thing and make her a proper woman (as in the Rifleman or Bonanza--it is more an age of cause and effect. I applaud his noble gesture but I think you need to point out to him that there are consquences such as child support issues and that it would be BETTER to have a paternity test BEFORE signing the paperwork. If the new boyfriend and the mother do not work out then things will get very complicated.


Question: Can I establish if the paternity of a child that was born to a woman that was legally married but not living with her husband, nor has been livng with him since. The mother claimed that she registered the child as her husbands for INS purposes. The child acknowkedges me as her father but is very confused because she has a different name. From a legal standpoint I would like to know what I can or cannot do to give this child equal benificiary status as my other child?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: if she said that her husband is the father and INS accepted it without a test which is a rarity these days(INS is now requiring more and more dna testing) then she may have committed a fraudulent act especially if she KNEW you were the father. I cannot advise, as I have said many times on this board, you on legal matters. I suggest you seek the help of a family law attorney who also specializes in immigrations issues and see where you stand.


Question: Iam married, however 11 months ago had a one night stand a baby was conceived from this, my husband & I are working through this and we already have 5 children together, now within this past month the biological father decides he wants rights to the baby (right after he was born a internet paternity test was ordered and it came back he was the father) does he have any rights to the baby and does this internet paternity tests hold up in court?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I have no idea. Your information is sketchy at best. If he had a court admissible test (his name would have had to have been on the birth certificate and you would have had to have given your permission) and a chain of custody would have been performed then MAYBE. If a home test was performed then NO. Regarding the first part of my answer: paternity laboratories CANNOT promise or guarantee court admissibility--BEWARE OF SUCH CLAIMS--ONLY A JUDGE can determine if a report will be allowed into court as evidence. You should do a google search for OCSE state profiles and check and see what are the parameters for presumed parentage are in your state. It could be that if the child has been born into the marriage then your husband could be the LEGAL father. Once last thing: I am curious as to how the alleged biological father gained access to the child in the first place in order to do the test.


Question: My x is pregnant now I'm not sure what to think. She claims her last Period was on Dec.23rd 2004. we had intercours on these dates, Dec 25th, January 1st and January 7th was our last time then we split up . My only concern is that I feel that her due date has me confused about her conception day. Please help !!
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: There is not any help that I can give you based on the conception information that you have provided except to say that if December 23rd is truly her LMP then you could very well be the father based on the dates that you have given me provided that she slept with no one else during that period. Your cause for suspicion leaves me curious as to whether you think there was another person. I hope this helps.


Question: i have a boyfriend and slept with my ex. we did not use a condom but i am on the pill. my period is now late, but i haven't taken a pregnancy test yet. if i am pregnant, would it be possible to get a test done to see if my ex is the fater or not? that way i don't have to tell my boyfriend about the affair if i don't have to. if there is a test, how would i go about it? what would it cost? and how far along would i have to be to take it? i live in BC, Canada.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: First, you should take the pregnancy test before worrying about the consequesces. You can have a prenatal test done at 10 weeks. You can find plenty of information on the subject by searching the threads in this forum. By the way we have a Fairfax Affiliate in BC.


Question: I know that my blood type is O-, and I just found out my sisters is AB. Does that mean we don't have the same father?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: IMPORTANT! UPDATE TO PREVIOUS QUESTION--PLEASE USE THE LINK BELOW TO OBTAIN THE SIBLING TEST. THANKS. determining sibling relationships with blood types is almost impossible to do. Your best solution would be to use of our QuickHit Sibling Edition tests which you can download at QuickHit Sibling Edition


Question: I know that my blood type is O-, and I just found out my sisters is AB. Does that mean we don't have the same father?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: determining sibling relationships with blood types is almost impossible to do. Your best solution would be to use of our QuickHit Sibling Edition tests which you can download at QuickHit Sibling Edition


Question: We are in contact with a birth mother and considering adopting the child when born. She says she was date raped at a party in January and the father could be either hispanic or black. Is there any type of test that could be performed during pregnancy that could determine the race of the father?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: None that I know of.


Question: MY FIANCE'S EX-GIRLFRIEND WAS SLEEPING WITH ANOTHER MAN AT THE TIME SHE GOT PREGNANT. SHE TOLD MY FIANCE THAT HE WASN'T THE FATHER AND THE OTHER MAN PUT HIS NAME ON THE BIRTH CERTIFICATE. MY FIANCE RECENTLY SAW THE LITTLE BOY AND HE LOOKS JUST LIKE HIM, NOW HE WANTS A PATERNITY TEST BUT THE GIRL WON'T GIVE HIM ONE. CAN HE TAKE HER TO COURT AND ORDER HER TO GIVE HIM A PATERNITY TEST?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: it is going to depend on what state that you are in. Search this forum for links that I have posted to OCSE State Profiles. It will take you to a government site that list rules for each of the states regarding OCSE issues. It will help you.


Question: i had sex with my bf on march 4th and then another guy on march 28 .. the 1st due date they gave me was december 27 then another one they gave me was december 21 but i had her on december 16 .. which one would be the father??
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It is likely that conception happened between March 8th and March 22nd.


Question: My husabnd & i split in feb 2001,he starting seeing someone in march.she had the baby 11-15-2001.now she said the baby is his because the man she thought is not.So if the baby was born 11-15-2001 can you tell me the conception date and if my husband can be the father? thanks
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The conception would have happened between February 8th through February 20th


Question: Their is a possibility that one of two men is the father of my son. I am A+ my boyfriend at the time is A- and the man that i had the affair with is O+. My son is O+. Does the fact that my son is the same blood type as the man i had the affair with hold any weight in determining who the father is.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Either the father OR the mother can determine the type of the child--the ABO system is a very weak system for determining paternity. You might want to consider using one of our inexpensive home kits which you may obtain at Fairfax Identity Laboratories


Question: If paternal parents are first cousins and they have two sons, genetically how different would they be? If a woman produced a child by sleeping with both of them would a paternity test be able to tell you who the father is?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: While there may be some genetic similarities between cousins, on the average about 7/8 of their genetic makeup is different. If two men named in a paternity action were cousins, standard paternity testing should be more than sufficient to distinguish between them.


Question: I am inquiring info re: the above subject for a friend. My friends son committed suicide in 1981 at the age of 20. Months prior to her sons death, his pregnant girlfriend claimed that the child to be born was her sons. Is it possible that my friend can prove or disprove paternity via DNA testing from other family members? Note: my friends son was cremated thus DNA via exhumation is out of the question.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Absolutely--you can use BOTH grandparents or you can use a combination of sibling and a grandparent or better still you can test any other children that he may have had to do a half sibling relationship.


Question: if the father is B+ and the mother is O what would the child be
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: B or O but since you only gave me one Rh, I will say positive or negaive is possible.


Question: I was married to my wife for 20 years, we have 5 kids from this marrige, three I pay child support for. Well after two years of being seperated she informs her freind that I'm not the father of the last two kids, what can I do?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Not a whole lot. I would talk to her first since you are getting this information second hand and you two need to decide if a paternity test is in order.


Question: I got an ultrasound that determined that my conception date was Feb. 5th. I got my depo shot on the 12th, obviously the test came back negative, then was regretably involved with another male on the 13th, what is the likelyhood that conception could have been on the 13th?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I do not have enough information here to answer your question. Please supply us with a rewritten question and provide me with the due date.


Question: My boyfriend and I are trying to get custody of his three year old daughter. His name was not on the birth cirtificate but the mother acknowledges that he is the father. How much harder will it be to get custody and should we go ahead and get a paternity test done even though there is no doubt?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: We are not lawyers here--you should direct this question to a qualified family law attorney. You should definitely move forward with establishing paternity--having no doubt is good but it is always better to have no doubt on paper. You can get a selection of test kits at Fairfax Identity Laboratories


Question: My guy was married 2 times. Has children from both marriages. He wants to know if the second child is his. The 1st child looks exactly like him, red hair and hazel eyes, freckles. The second child look snothing like him. Blonde hair , blue eyes, no freckles. And all kinds of allergies, including exzema, which neither parent has a history of. His mother has dark hair and brown eyes. Is there a possiblilty based on genetic traits that the child may not be his?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Honestly, facial features are not a good way to determine paternity. I noticed that you have quite an extensive list. You could speculate but you will never really know. You may want to consider using one of our downloadable home kits. They are only 210 dollars. You can get one at fairfaxidlab.com or paternitynet.com. The download is free. You pay for the test when the samples arrive.


Question: can I refuse a dna test on my daughter? me and er father who is on the birth certificate is raising her and now another guy wants to claim her and he is a drug dealer and he is in a gang and he also does not have a job.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If a court orders a test then you cannot refuse. If there is no court order then you both must agree to do the test since his name is NOT on the certificate.


Question: How do you go about doing a paternity test if I live in a different state than the child and her mother? If the test comes back that I am not the father and I signed the birth certificate and I am not paying child support that is court ordered can I still be held liable for paying child support if the baby's mother decides to file for child support. I really need your help.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Regarding the birth certificate issue--for those questions you should look through this forum of posted links to OCSE profiles where you can read about your state laws. Depending on the state, if you do a paternity test then you should take the results to an attorney if it shows that you are NOT the father. In some states you may be right but in others--no it will not relieve you from paying child support.


Question: I recieved a letter from Child Support Enforcement, stating that I am to be tested as an alleged father. It also says that if the tests show that I am not the father, they may request to have it done again. What is up with that? Is that because the State may not want to pay for the public assistance of this baby? It just seems odd that the letter said that.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I would hazard a guess that you may be in the State of Florida. They have contracted a primary and a Secondary lab--the purpose is to make sure that exclusions are confirmed. Ironically, the American Association of Blood Banks REQUIRES that exclusions be rerun before releasing the result to insure quality control. For those of you who buy a private test, this is not a stand out service that they are offering you--the labs who are certified do not really have a choice. It is required to insure quality control. As to your last questions--Of course they don't want to expend taxpayer money on welfare programs--that is money that could be appled to other areas such as education. That is the reason that states go after unpaying confirmed fathers. Now, if you are in Florida--here is the kick: If THEY run the second test it is because the mother is contesting the first test so in the end if you ARE excluded on the second test then it likely that they will leave you alone and move on to find the next possible father. Good luck with your test.


Question: Hi I live in Texas and I am due in april. The father of my child lives in Colorado and is denying the fact that he is the father of my child. Since we live in 2 different states how is paternity testing done and also who pays for it. I have been told that the courts pay for it and I have also been told that since he is the one questioning it he is the one that is supposed to pay for it please let me know so I can put a lot of minds at ease about who pays for the paternity test and how it is done. I need to know so that my mom and I can know who pays for it. By Texas law the attorney general's office pays for it if the child support division files for it but I am not sure if the laws are the same in Colorado.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It will depend on how texas is handling the case. Texas may opt to move forward without involving Colorado in which case Texas law would apply. If Colorado is brought in to assist then Colorado law would apply as it will be heard in their courts. Regarding who pays--there is no hard rule of thumb NOT even in the state of Texas--the individual judge in each court will decide who will pay for the test.


Question: I am currently 16 weeks pregnant. My boyfriend and I slept together up until the 9th of Dec. 2003. I got my period on the 11th of Dec. but it was only 3 days long and light compared to a normal 5-6 day regular flow. We split apart and on the 20th of Dec. I slept with a close friend. I went to the Doc. on Feb. 19th and was 10weeks 6 days my due date is Sept. 10th, 2004. Who is the father???? My bofriend is now my fiance' because of the pregnancy. Is there any way I can do a test while pregnant without him knowing that i am doubting him being the father if we cant tell when i conceved. thanks
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: First, you can not use another adults samples without his consent. As for the conception: December 1st through December 17th.


Question: If two persons has the same last name. One person was taken to do the test. The child was approximately 3 mths old. How accurate was the result
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I have no idea what the accuracy of a dna test has to do with a person's last name but a motherless test is just as accurate as one WITH the mother.


Question: I probably already know the answer to this question, but I am gonna take a shot anyway. With a probablity of paternity 99.98% and a combined paternity index of 4275, is there still a 2% chance that he isnt the father?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: no-- there is only a only a 0.02 percent chance that he is not the father.


Question: I read on the board about CVS testing to determine the father and that it can be done at 10 weeks. Can you please tell me more about the actual procedure? How is it done? Can it harm the baby or be dangerous to the pregnancy? How is the male involved in the test? I am assuming the test has to be performed by an OB/GYN. Do you know the approximate cost?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: CVS is performed by removing a small sample of the placenta (nourishment for the baby) from the uterus. It is removed with either a catheter (a thin tube) or a needle. Local anesthesia is used for this test. The sample of placenta may be obtained through the cervix. A catheter is inserted into the vagina and through the cervix and the sample is withdrawn. The sample also can be obtained by inserting a needle into the abdomen and withdrawing some of the placenta. Most women feel fine after the test, although some may have mild bleeding (spotting) afterward. CVS is usually done between the 10th and 12th weeks of pregnancy. Consult with your doctor to properly ascertain any potential risks.


Question: I am 38 years and have always known my father was one of two men. I am concerned about the cost of the test. I know only one of the men, and I really am not sure how to get started on this. Thank you for your assistance.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: just go to our website, fairfaxidlab.com, and download one of our test kits--they only cost 210 dollars and you send the money in when you send in the samples.


Question: My due date was first 6/8, then changed to 6/5 what would my dates of conception be for both dates??
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: August 31st though September 15th for both.


Question: If a baby was born on May 15, what is the date of conception?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: August 8th through 27th.


Question: I had sex with a guy on September 13th. My lmp was on september 16th. I had sex with my now husbandfor the 1st time around October 3rd. My cycles aren't normal. Mine are usually 45 days not 28. when i went to the doctor they said I was actually due on July 10th. Making my conception around the 16th when I should have started again. Can a sonogram be off by 5 weeks? Or is my husband the father?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If you want to find out if your husband is the faher then I suggest that you download one of our testkits. Sonograms are approximations and are not written in stone. Your erratic periods certainly do not reinforce the matter and are a strong arguement for following through with a test.


Question: My boyfriend is concerned that one of children is not his, His first born is the spiting image of him (brown hair & brown eyes)same face features The mother has ash brown hair& green eyes. His 2nd born has green eyes and ash blonde hair she has none of his face features. He already signed the birth certificate He does not know what he should get a Paternity test or if this is normal? Mother is White Fater is Mexican
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: There is nothing in this email that I can use--regarding the birth certificate, go to google and put in OCSE State Profiles. You can also find links for this site throughout this forum. It will give you the laws for your state regarding paternity.


Question: My son may have gotten a girl pregnant. Is it possible to find out paternity before the baby is born?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: yes, it is--if you read the thread of this forum you can get a lot of information. You can also get information at fairfaxidlab.com.


Question: If a baby was born on March 9th, and was < according to the hospital > 37 weeks. What would be the est. conception time frame be?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: May 31 through June 15th.


Question: Why is it that only the father is required to take a paternity test to determine patrimony. Doesn't the fetus receive both the maternal and paternal blood?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Sounds like someone is trying to make a quick sale to you for a paternity test. In fact, when you do a prenatal test the mother's samples MUST be part of the colletion process. If the baby has been born then a motherless test is ok since the lab will run additional test to account for the lack of the mother. STILL, it is helpful to the lab to always have the mother for reference.


Question: MY HUSBAND HAD SEX WITH ANOTHER WOMAN. SHE SAYS IT IS HIS. THE CHILD WAS BORN @ 2AM 3-25-04. SHE THE MOTHER OF THE CHILD WANTS HIM TO SIGN THE BIRTH CERTIFICATE. DOES HE HAVE TO SIGN IT IN THE STATE OF INDIANA? CAN HE HAVE THE HOSPITAL DO A DNA TEST AND GET THE RESULTS BEFORE HE SIGNS THE CERTIFICATE? IS THERE A WAY FOR HIM TO GIVE UP ALL RIGHTS TO THIS CHILD? IF SO WHAT IS THE TERM FOR THAT? WILL AN ATTORNEY HAVE TO BE INVOLED? THANKS
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Some of your questions will not be answered as they should be addressed by an attorney. NEVER sign a birth certificate if you are uncertain as to the parentage. Insist on the paternity test--the birth certificate could lock you into paying child support for many years to come. Look out for people in the hospital who try to take advantage of the emotional moment of child support. Generally they can be part of the state's paternity aknowlegement program--most hospitals now have such a coordinator in hospitals so beware.


Question: IS IT POSSIBLE THAT A PATERNITY SWAB COULD COME BACK WITH THE WRONG RESULTS. WHAT IS THE CORRECT PROCEDURE OF COLLECTING A SWAB DONE ON A 1 YEAR OLD DO YOU KNOW OF ANY NORTH CAROLINA LAWS THAT WOULD REQUIRE THE ALLEGED FATHER TO RETAKE A PATERNITY TEST IF HE REFUSES AT THE REQUSET OF THE MOTHER
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It is always possible but not very likely. You can download one of our test kits at fairfaxidlab.com and you can look over the collection instructions yourself. We do not answer legal questions here.


Question: My husband took a paternity test about 6 years ago on an alledged child. The results came back as being 96.4% of him being the father. What is the standard acceptable rate in a court of law?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: which court? Which county? Which state? You question is 50 states too vague. Get on Google and search OCSE State Profiles. You can find the requirements for your particular state there.


Question: I have been taken for 2 paternity test by 2 different women one in 1985 and one in 1995.Here are the results from mother and child #1:RED CELL > ABO D C E c e M N S s K k Fy(a) Fy(b) > Mom: O O O O + + + O + O + + O + > Kid: A O O O + + + O + O + + O + > Dad: A + + + + + + + + + O + O + > Leucocye Antigens(HLA) > Mom: A3 B13 A28 B27 > Kid: A3 B13 A32 B51 > Dad: A24 A28 B7 BW53 > Conclusion:0% probability >
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Many of the older tests involving HLA and red cell antigens were subject to the confusion of cross reactive markers as well as a number of quality control problems that needed close monitoring. That's why DNA testing is much better; the markers are much more clear cut. HLA typings don't change in a person, but can be mis-called when the results aren't completely clear.


Question: Due to the unavailability of one grandparent and the alleged father, Can grandparentage be determined by using the mother, child and one grandparent. If the child does not have 1/2 of the genetic material of the one grandparent, why wouldn't that be enough to exclude the child as grandchild.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It can be done in principle, but it's a whole lot more difficult. While the available grandparent should match on half of the tests performed, s/he won't match on the other half, and the combined relationship value is cut in half for each time the tested grandparent doesn't match. If the lab runs, say, 10 marker, the tested grandparent will theoretically match on five and not match ont the other five. The unavailable grandparent would have matched on these five, but s/he's not there to be tested. Consequently, the combined index will be halved five times. Overall, that means dividing the index by 2^5 or 32. An index of 1000 drops to about 30, which is too low to be admissible in any court system.


Question: Hi want to give my daughter a DNA test to find out if I'm her biological father. Since she was born I always had a feeling I was not her biological father because my ex-wife had an affair with someone during the time she became pregnant. My daughter resembles that man. Do you know where I can get that done here in Northern California? I live in San Jose California. Also I'm paying child support for her now, if she turns out not to be my biological daughter, do I still need to pay child support?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: At this time your best bet would be to just do a home test kit. Fairfax has a very inexpensive and reliable one at our website. I say this because you are already paying child support and it is unlikely that your will be able to overturn the judgement. You should check with an attorney.


Question: i gave birth to my son oct.11,2000.my lmp was jan 15,2000 i had sex with my exbf that day and jan.27 and with my recent bf jan.28.who do you think is the father?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: the child would have been conceived between January 3rd through January 18th. You need to rethink your dates.


Question: could you explain mutation i had test results with a probability of <99.9% for paternity but there was a mutation involved the numbers were one off between the point, the lab did mutational analysis and said that the mutation matched that of myself and there is no doubt that i am the father -are single mutations fairly common,and is there any health concern
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: A mutation, generally described, is any change in the genetic material. The vast majority of them (VAST majority) are harmless. The one you refer to is probably especially harmless because the tests that are used for paternity establishment look at regions of the DNA that don't have any medical importance. They are "silent" with regard to any sort of function, which is part of the reason they're used. Whether you want to call them common or not depends on your definition of "common." Most paternity reports are mutation free, but any lab that does a fair number of paternity tests will be no stranger to mutations. They're not anything to be surprised or concerned about, either for the lab or for the people who are tested. They typically manifest themselves as numbers that are, as in your case, one off between the parent and the child.


Question: My husband supposedly fathered two children one in 1998 and one in 2000, but in the city that performed the paternity test they used an old blood test from 1995 (on the first child) and a copy of an old dna test performed in 1999 on the second child. Does he need to go in and request a dna test on both children? Or do you believe that the results they produced are accurate?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It depends on the kind of test that was performed. An STR test should allow comparison between two people who have been tested by that method, although doing that test that way would be unusual. Also, very few labs were doing that kind of test in 1995. Most labs would prefer to run at the same time all of the people in question. In fact, in the absence of unusual circumstances, labs usually won't agree to provide a report of comparisons done in the way you have described. Testing everybody together will allow direct comparison between their genetic characteristics to be made clearly and with a lot less room for questions. I would suggest that he request new tests.


Question: Can DNA testing be done while pregnant and if so how early in the pregnancy can it done. And how would this be done?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Yes, 10 weeks, CVS sample collection.


Question: hi im 15 year old and i just had unprotected sex two weeks ago i have some pregnacy symptoms like spotting and the guy i had sex with is 18 and he gave me the morning after pill there was 8 of them he told me to take 4 now and 4 6 hours later i was not sure that they were morning after pills and i only took two b/c i wasnt sure is there a possibilty i could be pregnet?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If you did not get them from a doctor yourself, then I would not beleive your 18 year old sex partner. He is, after all, having sex with a minor which, in most states. is illegal. Never take drugs that someone just hands you--the best that you can do now is to just monitor your menstual period and if you think you are pregnant then have go to the drug store and get a home paternity test or better yet--see an ob/gyn or a Physican's Assistant who specializes in women's issues. Good luck.


Question: If a baby was born Sept 2. What is the date of conception?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: conception would have happened between Novemember 25th and December 10th.


Question: If I know who my baby's daddy is and we broke up and i slept with someone else and he did something in me . Will this affest my DNA results. Even though we know who the dad is?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Huh? Oh, I get it...I think....the man you believe to be the daddy was excluded. NO--it will NOT effect the test result--you need to have the other guy tested before you start questioning the first results. You have to exclude the second guy--there is a 50 percent chance that he could be the father.


Question: My current boyfriend and I have been together about 7 months. Before me, he had a strictly sexual relationship with a girl that started around July 20, 2003. She had split up with her ex about three weeks prior to their relationship. She said around the end of August that she was pregnant, and he was the father. She just gave birth to a little girl on February 28, 2004. She states the child was four weeks early. My boyfriend just got back in contact with her a week ago, and although she is back with her ex, he continues to go see the child, they meet in a public place so her ex will not know (the ex's name is on the birth certificate). She states she was on birth control (the pill) but when she got pregnant with her second child (this is now her third) that she was on the pill as well. My questions, I know birth control is around 99.8%...what are the chances of the .2% happening twice, to the same person, in a two year period? Also, around when would her conception date have been?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Conception would have happened between May 23rd and June 7th. I cannot guess on the .2 percent.


Question: i have a boyfriend and on october 10-18th i had sex with an ex while i went out of town. my LMP was on november 10th 2003 and my expected due date in august 14th 2004. at what time was conception?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: conception would have happened between Novemember 10th and November 25th.


Question: if a girl had sex with 2 guys in a span of two weeks and thinks she is pregnant, do either one of the guys have to take a DNA test? or can they go on with their lives. Also both of the guys used protection and the first guy didn't ejaculate at all and pulled out. And he checked the condom for any holes.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You would be foolish to think that either of you would be exempt from being a father because one of you "checked for holes" in the ocndom. Each of you have a 50 percent chance of being the father. As for the issue of whether you HAVE to have a test--well that is up to the mother. If she decides to take you to court and the court orders you to take a test you must comply. Likewise, if the other guy goes and asks for a test and names you in the complaint then both of you guys and the mother may have to comply.


Question: i just found out i am pregna t and haven't even missed a period yet but felt it took a test and it was positive. the problem is i am not sure who the dad is. my last date of my last menstral cycle was 2-29-04. i has sexual intercourse with one guy on 3-9-04, and 3-10-04., and another on 2-29-04 which was first day of my last period, and have been back with this same guy for about a week. i know you cannot give me an andwer, but can you at least give me an educated guess?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: conception would have happened betweeen March 1st and March 15th.


Question: how can we test the 1st cousin if he doesn't want to? my husband says he has proof he wasn't around when child was conceived. can he take the test results to court? even though it says 99.99% and prove he wasn't in montana at that time? i think the gave him a false possitive result!
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You can't. You could try taking it up with the court but don't look for anything to happen.


Question: Can a result of 68% of paternity test result, confirm 100% it being biological parent (father) California??
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I should not have to say this but do the math--a 32 percent margin of error and NO state in the country would seriously accept this result.


Question: A friend (male, 60) had sex with a female (50)about 2 weeks before her period. She says she is pregnant. What is the possibility of it being true?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It is possible actually--there is a 50/50 chance.


Question: Regarding the asking of "legal" questions.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: This is just a reminder that Fairfax Identity Laboratories only answers questions regarding paternity testing. DO NOT ask questions that you should be taking to an attorney. Emails of this nature will be deleted with response.


Question: Hi, i have a ?. There is this woman whom is claiming my husband to be the father of her child. My Husband said he has never been with the woman sexualy or had any relationship with her. His Cousin, however was with her, and is the suppose to be bilogical father. But she still insists that my husband is the father. We took a Paternity test and it showed 99.99%. I'm confused about the whole deal. As my husband keeps telling me over and over that he is not the father and that his cousin is. but how can the test show 99.99% if he is not the father as he says he is, and his cousin is? Please help me understand this situation, and tell me if it is possible that his cousin is the father.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It seems to me that your dilemma is whether to believe your husband or to believe the science. I would bank on the mother's claim that your husband is the father. We say the lab should know if there are first cousions (NOTICED I SAID FIRST COUSINS AND NOT JUST COUSINS) involved and if the lab knows then it can account for it in the testing--generally it DOES NOT effect the outcome.. the ONLY way you are going to resolve this issue is to insist that the cousin be tested.


Question: hi i was wondering if you could help me and my husband determine the dna test he took for a child he think might be his. he took the test and it does not have a percentage and on the colomns with the numbers all the mothers matches up but only 5 out of 9 match my husbands to the child...then at the bottom it says my husband can not be excluded as the biological father of the child.....there is also another man that never got tested for the child and the judge will not close the case....can you tell me what my husbands test means and could the other person be the father?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It sounds like you are seeking verification that he is not the father. You do no give me much to go with here. You are describing a scenario where the father has been excluded or find NOT to be the father. You do not indicate whether or not the test was obtained by court orer or whether it was a home kit. Lastly, a test excluding you is not a get of jail free card--please understand that a paternity test is only a PIECE of what the judge looks at to determine whether or not a case should be closed. Based on what you are NOT telling me I would hazard a guess that the judge must have his reasons.


Question: My blood type is AB NEGATIVE RH NEGATIVE COULD BLOOD TYPE O BE MY FATHER? Mother's blood type unknown. Both are deceased.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: There is not enought information provided here to give you any type of projection.


Question: Approx. 2 yrs. ago I found out my biological dad is different then the man who raised me. My mom has passed and everyone refuses to discuss it. Apparently they were seperated during my conception and there was "fling". My mom had O negative blood, my dad has A,positive blood, I am O negative. Is it possible for him to be biologicaly related? If not, what would the blood type of the other man have to be?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Go to fairfaxcryobank.com and you can do the calculations on a calcuator yourself and project the possible combinations.


Question: around march 2001 I had sex with my boyfriend before he left to go out of town for two weeks while he was gone I had sex with my ex. then in april i had an appointment with the doctor for birth control i think it was on the 9th they took a pregnancy test to see if i was pregnant/and i was they said i was about three weeks pregnant and my child was born on march 30th.I WAS JUST WANDERING WHICH ONE COULD BE THE FATHER
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: conception occurred between June 22nd to July 6th


Question: once paternity testing have been done what happens to the dna samples and the data received from the testing. And what are the chances of mistakes taking place during testing. That is what if you have two different results from two different testings. And how does ethnic(race)group fit into the testing process.Thanx
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Most labs store remaining samples. I can't speak for Non-AABB labs but the AABB requires that copies of the reports be placed on file to become part of the quality control protocols. No mistakes if you use Fairfax--I cannot speak for other labs. If you have two different results from two different testings then you need to determine paternity by performing a third test with a different lab--do not use the same lab. If the man has been included in the test then a caluation for the combined paternity index is performed taking into account the FATHER's race.


Question: If the father is A positive an the mother is A negative could the baby be A negative??
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It is possible.


Question: I have been on birth control for about a year now, and i just finished my first period in 2months (because i took my birth control back to back so i could skip it) i finished my pill pack about a week ago and got my period which ended four days ago, i havent started another pack of pills yet and had sex last night and my boyfriend deffinitly busted in me could i be pregnent or no?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If you are thinking that you are pregnant then do a home pregnancy test.


Question: My sons ex girlfriend is pregnant, She is with another guy that she slept with after my son. She told him the baby was his. He wanted a paternity test which proved he is NOT the father. Then she called my son and said he is the father. When he asked her if she was sure, she said there was another guy. Where can my son get a paternity test before the baby is born to find out for sure? Is there anywhere he can get one at low cost to him? What does he have to do if she won't get one? Does he have any recourse?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: First, you can't force her to have the test until after the child is born and that would be through a court order. There is no such thing as a low cost prenatal test and the procedure has to be performed under the care of a medical physician.


Question: Hi I am wondering if you could advise me a friend of mine has recently had a DNA test to see if he is the father of a child. He has been informed by his ex-partner's solicitor that he is not the father but is not legally able to see the test results. Has he any rights to see this document. He would like to Know if he is the father and would like to have proof. The solicitor has stated that he is not the father but is unable to give to give him information without the courts permission. Please advise as my friend is desperate to see this original document.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I am guessing by the things that you say in your message that you are not an American. Here in the States, the lab is obligated to provide a copy of a report to each Teated non-minor. If I were you, I would contact your own solicitor and make sure you are being told the truth.


Question: my wife got pregnant while we were dating, she was seprated from her now ex. her divorce was not final until after the baby was born. when the baby was born she was advised to put refused on the fathers name .how do i prove that the child is mine, he is 3yrs old now
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: you need to consult with an attorney.


Question: What are CVS and Amniotic testings. How are they done. Which is the easiest on mother and baby? If mother objects to tests (mother is 10 weeks along)what should the father do to make her have the tests?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: CVS and Amniotic testing are fetal collections performed at various points of the pregnancy. If the mother objects to having the test done at 10 weeks then the father should sit and wait for the baby to be born and then petition the ocurt for the test. You cannot court order an invasive procedure.


Question: My husband and his brother were both sleeping w/ a woman who conceived. The brother went on a talk show and was given a paternity test that did in fact prove he was over 99% sure the baby's father. However, my husband was not tested nor did the talk show know of the situation at hand. Is there still a possibility of my husband being the father of this child? I was under the impression that even though they are brother's that DNA is so precise that if the brother was not the father his test results would not have been so strong.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I doubt if you notified the talk show that they would have known what to do with the information. Not sharing this information was probably not the brightest idea--apparently at least three people know about it HOWEVER it is likely that the test did pick the correct father but it would have been nice to have had the husband tested as well--I am sure that the talk show would have jumped at that scenario. If you feel that the husband should have gotten test then have a paternity test performed.


Question: I am almost 20 weeks pregnant. The father has to be one of 2 men. One is white and one is black, is there any way to fine out the race of the baby?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: no


Question: I am due on May 23, 2004. I had sex with 3 different people within 2 weeks. Can you tell me when the estimated conception date was?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: conception would have occurred between August 16th through August 30th


Question: If you sleep with indentical twin brothers can you find out who the father is?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: no


Question: The alleged father has deceased and is survived by 2 brothers. Can paternity of a child be proven without exhuming the body. If so, will the test be adequate and/or conclusive. Thank you very much for your time and knowledge.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Using uncles to prove paternity is not the best way but it is do-able. The mother, the child, and the two uncles would need to be tested. You would be better off if you have the two paternal grandparents or at least one other child sired by the deceased.


Question: I AM MORE THAN 100% POSITIVE THAT MY BABY'S FATHER IS THE DAD. HE TOOK A PATERNITY TEST AT HOME, AND IT CAME OUT NEGATIVE, (HE WAS EXCLUDED AS MY SON'S BIOLOGICAL FATHER), AND I KNOW FOR A FACT THAT HE DID THE TEST AS HE WAS SUPPOSE TO. WHAT DO I DO? I HAVE BEEN DRIVING MYSELF CRAZY THINKING OF THE ODDS.I HAVE EVEN THOUGHT THEY SWITCH HIM IN THE HOSPITAL. IT'S LIKE IF HE'S NOT THE DAD, THEN I'M NOT THE MOM. HELP?!?!?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Home tests are just that--curiosity test and will not hold in a court of law. You saw him do the test--did you see him package the samples? Did you see him mail the samples? Was there ANY time he was alone with the samples? If you do not like the results then you should have a court admissible test to confirm the results of the first test.


Question: I found out that you can get a paternity test before the baby is born, but where can you get one done and how far along in the pregnacy can you get one. How much would it be to get one, and how sure is the test? Please answer me soon the baby is due in 8 weeks and i need to start buying for her and planing for her if she is mine because I will take fullcostudy of the child if she is mine.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You're going to have to wait until the baby is born. You waited too long to have a prenatal test.


Question: i am pregnant. there are only two people that the father could possibly be. i am almost 100% sure of who it is but would like for you to help me with calculations. I had sex with a guy Oct 18 and had sex with another guy Oct 26(actually did not penetrate but was close) and actually sex with him on Nov 15. My due date is Aug 11 could you tell me the likely hood which one of these it would be!!! also if i do not want the father to be on the birth cert do i have to put his name. does he have any rights if i do not want him to have any? can he make me have a test if i do not want to?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I am not going to decide for you which one that it might be. Conception could have occurred between October 31st and November 18th.


Question: I had sex with someone, but we had protection, and he did not ejaculate I guess due to intoxication. Is it possible that i could be pregnant by this man. Me and my boyfriend have had unprotected sex for a very long time, with him, never pulling out. What is your opinion on if it could be this other mans child? I have a due date, and how accurate are those dates that are guessed to be the due date?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Anytime that you have intercourse, protection or not, there is always a chance of pregnancy. There is NO 100 percent protection except for abstinance. I have no opinion on whose it could be since due datee are generally estimates. You should do a paternity test.


Question: I left my home on DEC. 4th; the morning of Dec 4th i had intercourse with my husband. On DEC 5th i had intercourse with a friend of mine. i am now pregnant and my due date is August 27th. I am unsure who the father is.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Hard to tell. YOu had interncourse with two diferent ment on two consecutive days. I would do a paternity test.


Question: My husband cheated July 5.And this female is pregant and is due April 18.Well she now saying the 27 or 28 now that I know.She says it isn't my husbands but I was wondering with those dates is there a chance.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Very close--there is a 50/50 chance.


Question: In 1998 I had a paternity test with the prognosis of a probibility rate of 99.98 and one in 5471 or something like that. The only problem is:first the child is darker than both of us together and secondly I have been studing genetics testing at the library and it specifically states that the newborn, while sharing similar genes, has it own unique set of genes and the right markers in a given race must be compared to establish probability. In my case she gave the wrong race and my feeling is that the test is flawed in this sense to carry me into such a high percentage rate of being this child's father. PLEASE HELP ME TO UNDRSTAND > SINCERELY,
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: "Inclusion" means that the questioned parent matches with the child where s/he needs to match. That isn't going to change under any circumstances. Matches are matches and are identified before any calculation is done that requires the racial information. The facile answer to the wrong race thing is to say that some of the paternity indices may be too high, but others may be too low, with the overall result not changing much because the "too highs" and the "too lows" tend to counteract each other. I have never had the time to actually try a calculation to see how much truth is actually in that idea, though. However, you talk in terms of the probability. If the index you give (5471) were two fold too high (which is probably an extreme if the race were wrong; it's not likely to be off nearly that much), that is, if, with the correct race the index came out to be 2736, the probability of paternity would still be 99.96% instead of the 99.98% you actually had on your report. If the 5471 were FOUR fold too high, i.e., 1368 instead of 5471, the probability would still be 99.93%.


Question: That's is true we get the fathers blood type?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: No--either the mother or the father but not exclusively the father.


Question: Can paternity of a fetus be determined before the child is born? If so, what type of tests are done and how, and at what gestational age. How reliable are the results?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: This has been posted over and over again on this board. Yes, CVS and Amniotic collection--between 10 and 20 weeks and yes, they are very accurate.


Question: If you have a child with someone can you test that child against another child to see if both children have the same mom and dad? How accurate is that test?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Yes, you can do a sibling test which we offer at our website, fairfaxidlab.com. The test is relatively inexpensive and is vry accurate.


Question: I just recently got married. The guy I married told me in October 2003 that when we were spit up he had protected sex with another female. The female calls him up one day in October and tells him that she is six months pregnant with his baby boy. She had the baby in January and now wants my husband to be apart of the child's life. I don't believe that this baby is his and I want proof before he pays out of pocket.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You never really asked a question her so I am going to tell you to move forward and do a paternity test before you sign anything that would cause a long term committment.


Question: Good afternoon. Someone close to me just did an over the net secret paternity test and found out the child is not his. (he has never been married to the girl, etc nor is there any court issues or child support involved) is is illegal to swab a childs mouth without the mothers knowledge?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Most labs allow the collection of home kits in this manner but will not do a court admissible version without some sort of consent.


Question: I am a 42 year old woman, and I want to determine if there is a biological relationship between myself and my father. I don't want him to know about the testing as I don't want to insult him or hurt his feelings. Are there samples of DNA I can easily collect and submit from him along with my own buccal samples?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Unless you have a power of attorney you cannot use his samples without his consent.


Question: I AM 27 WEEKS 5 DAYS PREGNANT. I WANT TO KNOW HOW SOON AFTER DELIVERY CAN I GET A PARTERNITY TEST DONE TO IDENTIFY THE FATHER OF MY SON?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: As soon as the baby is born you can move forward with the test.


Question: CAN U HAVE SEX WITHOUT A CONDOM 3 OR MORE TIMES AND STILL BE A POSIBILITY I WONT BE PREGNANT? IF MY PERIOD WAS SUPPOSED TO START ABOUT MARCH 6 AND IT IS NOW MARCH 17 OR CAN IT JUST BE LATE? CAN SOME ONE PLEASE ANSWER MY QUESTION I WOULD REALLY APRICIEATE IT...... THANKS...
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: when you have sex without a condom you are taking the chance that you will get pregnant. There is no grace period for having sex without a condom.


Question: My period starts on Jan 1st and finishes couple days later. On January 11th I had unprotected sex with my ex-boyfriend. Then on Jan 18th I had sex with this boy that I've been seeing for awhile when I was with my ex. But the new guy uses a condom. Now I'm pregnant and the due date is Oct 7th 2004. It there is a possiblity that it might be for my ex. The nurse told me it couldn't because I wasn't ovualating at the time i done it with my ex and that the condom might have broke with the new. They also told that the baby was conceive on Jan 19th. I'm still wondering who is the father of my baby.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Conception would have occured between December 30th and January 14th. There is a variance regarding your LMP however so I calculated based on your due date and then again on you LMP. Conception dates are estimations at best and should NOT be used as an inexpensive paternity test. I would have a paternity test with the seocnd one first ("this boy") and then take it from there.


Question: can there be a partenity test before the baby is born
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: yes


Question: What are loci? My test results came back 7 out of 16 loci which excluded me as the father. What does this mean and what is this in percentage?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: A genetic locus (plural is loci) is simply a section of the genetic material or a place on the DNA where information is coded. Paternity tests look at a number of such loci whose sequence varies from person to person. If you are excluded at seven loci, you are not the child's parent. The question about percentage doesn't make sense as an exclusions do not list percentages because there isn't one--if you have to have a number--it is ZERO percent.


Question: I recently found out I have a 1/2 sibling from dna test that proved to be 99.98% accurate. I would like to understand the locus numbers. For example D8s1179 we both have 14,TH01 we have 6,8 for her and 6,9 for me and CSF1P0 she has 10,12 and I only have 10. Also, the test said that we are 6614 more times to be related than a random person that is caucasian off the street. I am wondering how they came up with this number?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The locus numbers are perhaps best understood as genetic addresses. Related people are likely to have similar characteristics at a number of those addresses, but sometimes you can have similarities with somebody who's not related to you, just by chance. The test results that the lab obtains weigh the likelihood of sharing the characters by chance ("the random person off the street" situation) against the likelihood of sharing them if you're related and from that result calculates a probability that you and the other tested person are really biological relatives.


Question: If DNA test say 99% your not the father is there anything that could make a false reading,drugs,pot alcohol etc.My son, who is now in prison, had the test done and I, as a grandmother have a strong feeling it wasn't right.The child is 5 now but his looks, actions and personality are just like my sons and my son has not even been around him.I was adopted and I adopted another boy.When I meant my blood family at 20 years old I was just like them in everyway.We even talked alike!!!My personality was not at all like my adopted family. I also adopted a boy 21 years ago and 2 years ago we found his biological father.He is just like him in his emotions,personality and they both like the same things.I raised him like my my other 5 children but he isn't like his sibbling but like his blood dad.That is why I wanted to know about how accurate the test are and what can cause error.From experience I know that blood children get many things from their blood family even if they are raised by adopted parents.It
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If he was not the father, the report would NOT say 99 percent--99 percent is usually an indicator that he is the father. Reread the report and submit the summary to me and I will tell you what it means--usually people will take a phrase like "not excluded" to mean he is not the father but it is the exact opposite.


Question: I had sex with a girl that I know from my past on August 8, 16, & 29. I found out almost 1.5 months later that she was pregnant. The doctors told her when she first found that the baby was due May 28, 2004. She told me that her LMP was August 22, 2003. Now all of the sudden the due date has changed to May 7, 2004. I've been have second thoughts about this, even though we had unprotected sex all three times. I think she was already pregnant and didn't know it, because she didn't seem so concerned about getting pregnant. I think she is claiming this is mine, because her kids father doesn't come around and I think she wants me to be the dad. What are the chances that this could be my child?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: There is a 50/50 chance that this is your child. You have to understand that as the pregancy progresses that the doctor will adjust some of the dates that he may have originally given the mother and you. Look for the conception to probably have occured between August 1st and August 17h. I hope this helps.


Question: I was seperated from my husband for 1 year and entered into another relationship during the months of feb and march. This was a sexual relationship and the last time i had sex in this relationship was on March 28. Me and my husband got back together on April 3, that day was the first day of my menstral cycle. On May 10 I took a pregnancy test and it was positive. My doctor and sonogram said my EDD was Jan 13. My baby was born on Jan 14. I did the conception calendar and it said I conceived on April 23. However, my husband thinks that this baby is not his. I think it is impossible that it's not. Could he be right? The conception date is right because we had intercourse on that date and with only him the whole month of April.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Well you have to understand that the calculation and the any comments that you get from the doctor that these are all estimates. With the conception figure a week before and week after with the date as the mid point. If you think he really is the father, then indulge him and do one of our home kits. They are inexpensive and you just download them off of our site. You pay WHEN you send in the samples--not before.


Question: is it possible to get a DNA test while i am pregnant? Currently i am 6 months along, and i need to know who the father of my unborn child is. So is it possible to find out before i deliver??? The cost does not matter.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Yes, we have answered this question many times--if you search this forum you can find a lot on the subject.


Question: Does Hla Blood cells from samples degrade after 6 months? Can the results from Hla Blood tests be compromised because the blood samples are not fresh and the cells are half dead? Can labs obtain reliable results if Hla samples three years old being compared to another party's nine month aged Hla blood samples?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: They degrade long before 6 months. HLA has to be in the lab to be tested within 24-72 hours--it is a MAJOR drawback of using hla for paternity testing--in order to test with HLA the cells must be alive. YOu cannot use three year old HLA samples. Instead, you take the results on the paper and compare the numbers instead of working with dead samples.


Question: Is the accuracy the same for a mouth swab as it is for a blood sample?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: There is no difference.


Question: My daughter is now 14 and a half, and her father is suddenly demanding a paternity test. We were never married. What relevant questions are there to ask regarding ensuring the validity of a paternity test across international boundaries (my daughter and I will be tested in UK, he in Canada). He is organizing the test (through a court order) and paying for it at this stage. I have never been in doubt about paternity, but did the calculator test (your site) in any case, and came up with the exact date of conception.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I would make sure that the lab is certified by the American Association of Bloodbanks. I know that sounds strange but Canadian and UK labs carry this certification if they are reputable. Since you are dealing with two different countries there has to be a common bond when it comes to quality control of the sample. Don't accept any other type of lab and if he takes the time and looks hard enough he can find one.


Question: my sister and i were adopted. her blood type is AB+, mine is B+. we do not know anything about our bioligical mother. is there any way to determine whether or not we are biologically related by our blood types?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: NO--not by your blood types--you don't have enough genetic information to determine--you need to do a sibling relationship test. We sell a kit that you can download at fairfaxidlab.com. the cost is 400 dollars.


Question: MY CHILD IS NOW 7 YEARS OLD HER FATHER IS DECEASED (DIED AUG. 2003) NEVER PROVED PATERNITY CAN HIS (FATHER) SISTER TAKE A BLOOD TEST TO PROVE PATERNITY SO MY CHILD CAN GET SOCIAL SECURITY PLEASE TELL ME YES OR NO AND IF YES DO WE HAVE TO BE IN THE SAME STATE AND HOW MUCH WOULD IT COST DO I NEED A PATERNITY LAWYER
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If you decide that you should get a lawyer you will need one who specializes in social security issues--not paternity. Aunt to niece or nephew tests may not provide you with the answers that social security needs render a decision. You could go with mother, child and aunt but that would still be iffy--even better would be mother, child and at least one other child that he might have sired to do a sibling test. Both of the father's parents would be really good if they are available. Hope this helps.


Question: What determines the bloodtype of unborn fetus? In example, the father determines the sex of the baby.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It can be EITHER the father OR the mother.


Question: I took a paternity test that was ordered over the internet some years ago with a person who does not want to acknowledge my daughter as his. I want another test done because I don't think it was accurate (it stated he's not the father) and I was told it cannot be used in the court for the state in which we resided in because it was not done by a medical tech, doctor, ect. in a lab, and that blood was more accurate. Is this true?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You took a home test--if the Surgeon General came by your house and witnessed the home kit being collected it still could NOT be used in ANY court in this counntry. If the man tested thinks that he is not the father based on the home test then he should have NO real problem stepping up to take a court admissible version.


Question: Is there a way for an individual to fix the paternity test? Can it be altered to read positive or inconclusive? The person in question really wants to be the father. As it stands there is a 50/50 chance. Can we make the test more in our favor?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: We are not in the business of telling people how to "fix" a test.


Question: i've been sexually active with my boyfriend for 4 years I slept with this other guy on feb 16, but I've always had intercourse with my boyfriend before and after. My period was feb 4 is it true that if you slept with a person for so long that there bodies get immune to each other? In other words when was my possible conception date? I'm a about a 28 day cycle could the other guy possible be the father or could my boyfriend sperm reach there first I had been with him (boyfriend) the nights before the 16 and after the 16. I'm about 4 weeks and 6 days pregnant can you help please
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You cannot become immune to pregnancy by having long term sex with a constant partner. That is not the way the human reproductivie system like to work. If your LMP (if I am hearing you correctly) was February 4th then conception would have occurred between February 5th and February 17th.


Question: I had my son April 15,2000.I don't remember my LMP.Me and ex broke up and I was with someone else from July 15-30.I know i didn't have monthly @ this time. Around when would i have conceived?The computer says around July 24? Is there any way possible i could have conceived Aug.2 or later?????
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The conception would have occurred somewhere between July 5th and July 24th.


Question: I have a quick question.. I can't remember the exact date of my last period, But my doctor says that my due date is October 25,2004. I slept with someone on the 24th of Jan, but me and my boyfreind have been on and off alot. When i had sex with this guy- He had on protection, and he did not "finish". Is there any chance that this could be his baby- and could the doctor be off on his guess of how far along I really am???
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Conception would have occured somewhere between January 19th and February 1st which places the first guy in the running. Protection does not guarantee that you will not get pregnant--nature finds a way. Due dates are always an estimate but they can be pretty much on the mark--for an estimate.


Question: My husband had an affair the first or second weekend in july 2001 the girls baby was born April 24th 2002. could this baby be his?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The child could have been conceived anywhere between July 19th through August 2nd


Question: His father and his biological father in question are both deceased. His father and his biological father in question were brothers. Is there some way my husband and his brothers could be tested to see if they were all from the same father.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Yes but you should call the lab you are going to use before proceeding to make sure you and lab know exactly what it is you want to have done.


Question: Can a positive pregnancy test be wrong?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Pregancy tests are not 100 percent accurate and I believe that most of these drugstore tests advise that you confirm your pregnancy with a qualified medical doctor.


Question: hi there, can a judge order someone to take a parenity test if the female claims a certain guy to have fathered her child? Please explain to me what can possibly happen to the female and the male she says fathered her child? Does the guy have to appear in court/if he doesn't is there a bench warrant involved?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Allof this depends on the judge but yes, a judge can pretty much order anything he wants and the subjects of the order are compelled to comply. The consequences of contempt of court is at the sole discretion of the judge.


Question: I have a half sister that we are not sure that we have the same father. We have diffrent mothers. Our father is desecesd how can we determine the paternity of my sister with our father being deceased.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: yes, you can just download one of our QuckHit (Sibling Editionthen Test Solutions) and then do the test using those forms. The cost of the test is 400 dollars and you pay when you send in the samples--the test is secure and reliable--if you have questions feel free to contact us at 800-482-3025.


Question: i need to know specifically the risks and possible birth defects that could occur with prenatal paternity testing. i have looked and looked and everything just says that there are risks. i would like to know what they are to inform a soon to be father. thank you very much i appreciate your time and effort.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You are probably not asking the right people--we, for example, are not the right people. You should go to your local university medical center and ask to speak specifically to a person called a "genetic counselor". They will be able to answewr and then some. Good luck!


Question: Hello I was woundering how I go about receive the Voluntary Acknowledgment of Paternity form ?? If you could please send me iformation on how i can get 1 for my daughter thank you
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You contact Child Support Enforcement in your state and asked to be connected to their Voluntary Paternity Acknowledgemt Program. They can guide you from there.


Question: My husband had a brief sexual relationship with a woman. Nine months later the woman claimed my husband was the father of her child. Supposedly, my husband's name is on the birth certificate. This child is now 14 years of age. She has never asked for money and refused to take a paternity test 11 years ago when my husband doubted the validity. Now the son is asking about his biological dad's medical history, family genealogy etc.,. has sent pictures. We want to know if this is his son for sure. We are 2500 miles separated. Would you suggest a home paternity test? What if the mother does not want to put the son through it, for the fact she may tarnish her reputation? If the mother and son are in one state and the father in another, do we need two tests? We were also wondering, if she never asked for support in all these years, could she get back support for all this time?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: A home kit would certainly seem to be a good solution. You can download one at fairfaxidlab.com--click on pricing and then look for QuickHit(Home Identity Test)--click on that and it will download a file to your desktop--that is your kit. just follow directions and you will do fine. You do not pay the 210 dollars until you send in the kit PLUS the mother and child can be done in the different state by just downloading from our website as well. If you are paying the 210 dollars then they do not have to send in any money. If you have questions about this innovative test kit call 800-482-3024.


Question: my ex just filed devorce papers claiming he wants my daughter, he was a drunk that paid no attention to her the whole time we where married. and didnt even care that i moved with her out of state till he found out i moved in with my boyfriend. he is still very possesive of me, he knows he is not her father we met when she was 3 months old, yet his when we married we put his name on her birth records when she was 4 for for insurance reasons, it was easier. now hes trying to take her away cause he is hurt and jelous. is it possible to take his name off the records with dna ?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: No, only a court can take his name off the records--a dna test would be needed as proof but the court still may or may not help you.


Question: If a paternal uncle and nephew have sex on the same day with a girl.(she becomes pregnant) what would the DNA test results show? the nephew's test result was 97%. is it possible for the uncle to have the same result, if he were made to have the test done?also, in PA, if a paper is signed giving up your rights to a child, is it possible to reverse this procedure?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I am not answering the second question because it should be addressed to an attorney. I cannot tell you what the outcome of a dna test will be BUT if this DID happen and you did not tell the lab of the situation then you are wasting their time. The lab needs to know information like this to help them when examining the results for a report. Ther is a three percent chance the nephew is not the father. A 97 percent is NOT an acceptable standard by most quality labs.


Question: My friend is six months pregnant and she doesn't know who is the father of her unborn child. She thinks the child belongs to her boyfriend but she had slept with another man also six months ago. She found out later that the other man was her boyfriend's real father. Is there a test that could prove which is the father of my friend's baby?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Yes, it is called a prenatal paternity test but unfortunately, I doubt that she will be able to do it because she is too far along. She should wait until the baby is born and then have the test.


Question: My boyfriend has just found out that an ex-girlfriend is claiming that her son is his. Her husband has taken a paternity test that came back 96% that he is the childs father. She now is wanting my boyfriend to take a paternity test as well. The 96% postive husband/father is named on the birth certificate. How could a paternity test be so high for the husband and him still not be the father? Is that possible?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: the results should be a 99 percent or A Zero. A 96 percent is unacceptable. That test needs to be finished. Do do the test until the husband is retested with a better lab. It is likely that the husband is the father of the child but there is a four percent chance he is NOT. The ex-girlfriend needs to clear this up before going after your boyfriend.


Question: My boyfriend is fighting with his ex girlfriend over the fact that he doesn't think that her baby is his. When going to court who will have to pay for the DNA test the mother or the father if they are both uncertain about the paternity of the child?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Generally, the father pays but there is no hard rule of thumb--Bottom line: it is entirely up to the whim of the ocurt.


Question: Both of my parents are O+. They have both had their blood tested recently. But, my sister is AB-, I am B- and my brother is O+. The only type that makes sense is my brothers. Can you offer any explanations.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: No explanation needed. You are correct. An O plus an O will yield only an O and for the Rh--two positives will yield either a positive OR a negative Rh. Before you decide that something ominous may be afoot--choose to err on the side of caution and consider that someone had not been typed correctly--this is more common then you think.


Question: recently my daughters FATHER applied for a paternity test which we both know he is not the father with him being named on her birth certificate will he still pay me support on her also if he dosent can social services help me pay for a paternity test
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If he has a paternity test and it turns out that he is not the father tnen he CANNOT just stop paying support--the dna test is not a get out of jail free card--it is only part of the paternity determination process. Only a court can release him from his obligations and regarding social services--if they feel a paternity test is warranted then they will allow for one and MAYBE(not in every state) pay for the service. Chanceds are that he won't be released from his obligations (again depending on the state) because he signed the birth certificate. You should check with yor chld support agent to verify what I am saying.


Question: My husband had a blood type test done in 1983 the test peternity index calculations: are as followed, the odds in favor of paternity are 37 to 1, or 97.39% paternity is very likely. 16 out of 17 random men would be excluded as the father of ******* ********. my husbands blood type is O and her's is A1B and the child's is A1, I cant find info. on a A1B blood type, any help????
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I am not going to comment on the blood type--because the information that you are providing is very vague.--here is where you should be focusing your attention: on the percentage. 97.39 percent means that there is a 2.61 percent chance that he is NOT the father. With today's technology, he should probably be retested.


Question: On the DNA results the probability of paternity was 0.00%, I was told that there is always some percentage whether it's 1% or 99% is this true? Also at the top where it lists the mother, child and alleged father it lists the mother and alleged fathers race to be caucasian but does not list the childs race, why?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: 0.00 percent means that there is NO chance that he could be the father--if someone is excluded it is always 0 percent. Regarding the race--race is really only relevant when calculating an inclusion (he is the father) and only the father's race is used to make that determination.


Question: My son's ex-girlfriend was having multiple sexual partners and had a baby. She is claiming is my son's baby and my son even took a dna test to find out if is true, but now she does not want to take it, however she named the baby or use my son's last name on the baby's birth certificate without my son's permision. Can she do that? And, how can that affect him?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: She could have written Paul McCartney, Jr. on the child's birth certificate but unless Paul McCartney were to sign the BC it means absolutely nothing. Make sure that he DOES NOT sign anything until he has that test otherwise should very well lock him in as the father the test will become nothing more then wishful thinking.


Question: I wanted to know if a perons real sister wants to pass off as her mother. will the paternity test reveal the truth that she is not the mother but her sister or because their share the same bio logial parents it would not be possible to determine. Both the real biologoal have passed away.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: A laboratory will be able to tell the diference.


Question: I have to take a paternity test and I don't know what it consist of or where I have to take the test. I was told a social worker will be sending me the papers; however, the girl lives in a different state than me? HELP ME
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Well, first examine those papers carefully when you get them--you may want to have an attorney look them over--it is likely that they will want you to admit to the paternity by signing a paper--if you sign you may waive your right to the test. There may be somewhere on the paper that you can check that will give you the option of having the test. That is why you should have a lawyer look over the papers. As for the other being in another state--don't worry about that --labs collect between states routinely.


Question: My father is B+, My mother A+. I am B-. I asked where I got the -. My mother responded that my paternal grandmother was B-. As my father is + and his mother -, his father had to have been +. Is it possible that my grandmother had 8 children with no difficulties, miscarriages or jaundice in the 1930's to 40's and all of them are rhesus + and her with B- blood. It is my understanding that with each successive pregnacy the chance of developing immunities to + blood would have increased and that 8 healthy pregnancies resulting in 8 healthy babies is not possible.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You got your type from either your mother or your father--your grandparents have nothing to do with it--the reason you are a negative is because a positive and a negative will yield EITHER a negative or a positive. You could have just as well had a positive. Regarding inherited illnesses you should seek the advice of a qualified genetic counselor.


Question: I have been raising my son for Five years and now his mother tells me the truth that "My Son" is not mine. what should i do? if the DNA test come back negative that is not mine i want to get off child support. how do i do that
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: How do you know that if she has been lying to you all these years that she is telling you "the truth" now? Check with an attorney but I am sure, regardless of the outcome fo the test, that you will still be obligated to pay the support on the child as you ARE the child's legal parent.


Question: my husband recently was told he may have fathered a child 25 years ago does the child usually have the same blood type and rh factor as the father
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: not necessarily. He could have the same blood type and factor as the mother. The father DOES NOT always determine the type of the child. Do a paternity test.


Question: My boyfriend and I are not sure if he is the father of my unborn child. We want to do a DNA test as soon as possible after the baby is born. Is there an age restriction?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: No, there is not.


Question: I am still married but havent had contact with my husband in 4 yrs and I have a boyfriend now and we have a 2 month old together, A lawyer office told me that my husband needs to get a paterity test to prove he is not the father..I know he is not because I havent had contact in 4 years with him, does my husband and the baby father really need to get a paterity test??
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Yes--the child was born into the marriage and that makes him the legal father.


Question: what is the estimated wait time for paternity test results
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: 5 to 7 business days


Question: Is it scientifically possible for a blood transfusion given to an infant..in anyway alter the babys DNA...and 11 years later cause a paternity test to be inaccurate?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: No. It only takes 90 days for transfused blood to leave the systme. 11 years later the transfusion would be irrelevent. Blood transfusions cannot alter a persons dna.


Question: Hello i just found out that i am pregnant about a week ago and i just had my first ultra sound just the other day and the tech. told me that from my last menstral im about 21 weeks but from the way size of my baby he said it looks like more like 14 weeks and 4 days i found out that it is a boy and im excited this would be my 2nd child my first is 4yrs old and and a little girl ive been married about 4yrs and have been seperated a year of those 4yrs. Ive been with someone and he is aware of this and im aware of the same about him being with another, we have been tring to settle our diffrences and have been sexually active now he wants a peternity test to know if its his. And im stressing and cring and just want this heart ach to end and know the true father so we can by-pass this and move on to important things.....like my unborn child!!! My question to you is that i heard of peternity tests being done while the pregnancy is in affect and i was woundering about side affects to the baby,
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: we do not discuss the risks involved regarding invasive procedures on this board. The paternity test is of no harm to the child or to the mother HOWEVER the collection is invasive so before moving forward I would suggest that you discuss the CVS or Amnio collection procedure with an OB/GY or a Genetic Counselor to acess the risks.


Question: I just want to be very clear here. My wife has O+ and I have O- blood. We have a son that has B+. She claims he is mine, I have read the charts and just want be sure. Is it possibe that he could be mine?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The type of the child must be either O positive or O negative.


Question: My girlfriend from highschool went to court for child support when her son was 16 she took paternity test at the hospital she works at prior to this child turning 16 I Had no knowledge of him. I have a son from a previous marriage to whom I pay child support and two children to support in current my current marriage. The state of Texas is taking 651.00 out of my check every month. I have to work overtime in order to support my family and my health is failing due to my hectic schedule. I strongly believe I am being unfairly charged in the amount I have to pay for child support. I also would like another paternity test done at a hospital she does not work at. What rights and or resources do I have to to help me with my problem?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You're not going to like this answer but if you are paying child support and want another test to refute the previous test then you will have to take that up with the court. If you had a test now and it said you were not the father, the court will not necessarily release you from the obligation of paying support. Resources: see a family support lawyer.


Question: Message: mom child me ABO O A A RH DCce DCe DCcEe MNS M M MN HLA A 1,29 1,29 29, B 12,17 12,17 12 How do I calculate CPI?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I made a comment earlier about leaving the lab short of pertinent information and this is a good example. To calculate a combined paternity index, you need to know the index of each system which is placed on your report along with a calculation for CPI. If the reason that you have left out the index is because the father was exlcuded on this testing understand that an eclusion is zero and so there would be NO CPI. By the way, these are not dna systems so I am assuming you had a test quite some time ago.


Question: Can I refuse the court order for dna testing on my son if i choose to close my case
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: No--you are compelled by the court to cooperate.


Question: I had recently moved from Hawaii to Midwest and my period schedule (30 days) was a little off key. I am pregnant now, and my question is : My last period was Jan. 17th. I had protected sex with an old Boyfriend on the 6th of Feb. He never ejaculated. And I was very careful. I had a surprise visit from my Hawaiian B.F. on the 13th , that was unprotected sex and I took a positive test on the 29th of Feb. How likely is it that the first man would be father?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: There is a 50/50 chance that he could be the father.


Question: if a baby's due date is set for May 31st, when would conception have taken place?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: August 24 throught September 7


Question: I live in Michigan and am having a baby I do not want my ex in my life or that of my baby so I am refusing to put him on the Birth Certificate. He has thretend me about this and he wants his name on it, is there anything I can do to avoid getting a paternity test so his name isn't on the Birth Certificate? Please help.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I guess my question to you is what is to stop him from obtaining an order for paternity testing. If you have alleged that he is the father in any way--he may be able to obtain and order and if he does then you are compelled by the court to cooperate.


Question: I was wondering how would paternity be established if the father could possibly be the mother's father as well? Is there an accuracy that is different from regular dna's? Please if you can help me I would greatly appreciate it
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The testing would not be different--it would be a good idea to bring in BOTH potential fathers but if that is not possible then it is imperative that the lab be notified of the situation. Holding back information is something that test subjects frequently will do--it is not a smart idea to NOT give a lab relevant information.


Question: I recently had a paternity test done. I reviewed the results and understand the format of the results, but I would like more inforamtion about the actual test results, such as: What does D3S1358 mean?, and what does the numbers mean that are indicating which genes I have in common with my son. If you can point me in the right direction, it would help me out a lot.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: To use the example given, the notation "D3S1358" is interpreted as follows: "D" means that the location is on the DNA of the human genome (there are some organisms who have RNA as genomes;" "3" indicates that the location, or locus, being tested is on chromosome #3; "S" means that there is normally only a Single copy of the genetic sequence anywhere in the entire haploid genetic makeup of the person; "1358" is a "catalog number," for want of a better word. You could think of it as the 1358th sequence characterized on chromosome 3, if you like. The sequences that are studied are short stretches of genetic subunits, called bases, that are repeated one after another. The numbers that two related people share indicate the number of repeats of the sequence at the genetic locus in question.


Question: Well, I had a c-section August 28. They took my son at 37 1/2 weeks.. The man I got pregnant by we did a home dna test I did not see him do the test. And Later after that I knew he had someone at his work do it for him because he is married and he was scared.And it was Negative. DUH. I now want to retest him and me do the swab and he keeps giving me the run around.. I just wonder can you tell me what my due date was. I think I got Pregnant the last week of December in 1999. Help me what should I do. He looks just like him I was with another man in the beginning of December.. I just know that the one I tested is the father and i dont know about the Home dna test cause the Genetic System Chart is not the same as others I looked at.. I just dont want to believe hed do this to this lil boy and me.. My son is 3 1/2 years old and it has taken this long to finally get him to do it I dont believe he really did it or the test is wrong..
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You have already answered your question. You said he did a home test and that you did not see him take the test. Retake a test and this time pay a little for to have a court admissible version done and make sure that you are tested as well--make sure all samples are collected the same place at the same time.


Question: Can you tell the race or age of alleged father by any of the Dna Profile. I think he got someone else to do the test. THe father is African american my son is biracial , I am White.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: no, you cannot.


Question: I got pregnant in 2001, and when I had my ultrasound on 8/15/01, the gestational age for sonogram was 19weeks 1day. With a range of (17weeks 5days-20weeks 3days)? and the estimated due date was 01/08/02.I did not know the date of my last menstral period to determine time of conception. I delivered my first child on 01/10/02-8lbs-7oz-22in. Unfortunately I had a fallen out with my partner and turned to another man. We had sex one time on 05/05/01. I was wondering if possible to figure out time of conception? Also how likely is it that my partner may not be the father? How accurate are sonograms in the second trimester?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: March 25th through April the 8th would be the time of conception. You need to take a paternity test to answer your second question and you should discuss the merits of sonograms with a qualified medical professional.


Question: Say that a woman is pregnant but she has had two sex partners within the last month, and she finds out that she is pregnant, is there a way that she can find out who the father is before the child is born?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Yes, you can search this forum for the many post that we have put on on the subject of prenatal testing... They should answer your question.


Question: My husband had an affair july 2001 the girl became pregant she told my husband that she had sex the same night with her other two children,s father. the baby was born april 24th 2002, when would she have conceived?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: between July 18th and August 1st.


Question: Can pre-birth paternity test harm the baby, or cause premature labor or anything like that??
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: A prenatal paternity test is an invasive procedure and any invasive procedure may involve risks. You must check with a physician or a qualified Genetic Counselor in order to properly ascertain risks.


Question: My seventen year old daughter had her first child last September. The problem is she is just now admitting to having slept with her ex and her current boyfriend within the same week. The first day of her last menstrual (before she got pregnant)was Dec 14th. She had relations with her ex on Dec 25 and sex with her current on Dec 28,which according to her regular 28-day cycle, she started ovulating on the 28th. Let me also mention that her ex of 4 years had never gotten her pregnant. Is it true that after being with the same person for a long period of time his sperm forms a coverage in the vagina? And who could be the father?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I don't know what a "coverage in the vagina" is. Suffice it to say that some people have lots of kids over lots of years, so that in itself, if you think about it for a second, argues against what I THINK you're saying, that the likelihood of a woman having children with a man goes down the longer she has sex with him. Which one could be the father? Either one could be, on the basis of the information provided. Get a test to be sure; that's the only way.


Question: My boyfriend of about 2 years had unprotected sex with another woman during the time we had a 2 month break up (from november to december). She claims to be pregnant and told him yesterday. We don't know how far along she is, nor if she really is pregnant. If she is, we'd like to know if the baby is really his or someone else's problem. How far along in her pregnancy must we wait to have a paternity test? And when is too late to have an abortion?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You can do the test at the 10th week--you will have to check with your local health department or abortion clinic. Abortion cut off times will vary from state to state.


Question: If a paternity test in conducted could two woman share the same (8)characteristics of said child, and if what would the percent be.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Huh? I have no idea what your questions is. Please restate your question.


Question: My husband was notified recently that 8 years ago he fathered a child as a result of a one night stand. He was contacted by the state, and the mother said to forget it, and that they could pursue this matter privately. Since then, my husband acknowledged his intention to follow-up on the paternity test, but the mother has left her job, remarried, and apparently moved. Can she pursue back chld support now? We cannot locate her, and she has made no effort to contact my husband.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: she can refile anywhere that she goes but it will take time for the state to pick up her case to the point where they will come seeking aknowledgement. When they do, ask for the test before you sign anything.


Question: ALERT
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If you submit questions that should be more properly answered by an attorney those questions will be immediately deleted with NO response. Please direct those questions to the appropriate lawyer driven forums of Divorcenet.com. Ask the Experts is not a lawyer forum.


Question: I have a son that is now 29 years old and believe that his father is someone that died in 1996. His potential fathers' parents are dead as well. Is there a way to establish paternity with one of his sisters or brothers?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You could but it would be better to get one of the deceased's children and do a sibling relationship testing for half or no sibship.


Question: if my childs birthday is may 10th more than likely when was she concieved
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: somewhere between August 3rd and August 18th


Question: How does an 18 y.o.putative father pursue paternity testing when the infant's mother,also 18, died during childbirth- the couple had no longer been dating.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I would start by contacting an attorney and see about petitioning for a test. If you are the father, the attorney will be able to counsel you on your legal rights.


Question: how far along do you have to be in your pregnancy before you can have a dna test done and how is it performed? also how accurate is this procedure?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: 10 weeks and it is a dna test so it is very accurate.


Question: Is there any way to get a paternity test befor the baby is born?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: yes, you can find the answer here from previous post.


Question: Mother Blood type is O father Blood type is A What would the blood type be for the child?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The child will be an A or an O


Question: If myself and my husband are A positive and my child is 0 positive...could the child not be my husbands based on this?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: two positives will produce either a negative OR a positive Rh. Two A's will produce eith an A or an O. He could very well be the father of the child but consider taking one of our home tests.


Question: My son was born April 15,2000.There are 2 possible fathers.Me and my boyfriend were broken-up and I was dating someone else.I went back to my boyfriend and in the middle of it all I got pregnant.I was only with the other guy for 1 month and me and my boyfriend didn't get back 2-gether until around Aug.1 or 2. Who is the more possible father?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It is hard to say since your information is vague. Regardless, as I have said in my previous posts, calculation are estimates and I would not tell you who is more likely to be the father. Get a test.


Question: My question is, when you have a paternity test done and the results say 97% probabilty. What does that mean? Yes he is or he could be but not sure still.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: In some states, paternity is considered conclusive at 97 percent. A 97 percent indicates a 3 percent margin of error.


Question: Hello. My question(s) is as follows. The last date I slept with my ex wife was December,15,2001. She had the baby November,18,2002. She told me she carried the baby 41 weeks. Does this make me the father of that child if all dates are accurate that ive stated? And when would her conception date have been, based on her sons date of birth? My ex wife also stated that she slept with another man January 29 to mid february and so on. She states the baby has some of my features such as curly hair and a fairly sized head which i had of both as a child. We are going to get a paternity test done, but should I have to get this done if the dates over rule me of even being the slightest chance the father?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Have the paternity test. Forget the features issue and also consider that the conception calculations are estimates and so are not entirely accurate. You need to move forward with the test to give yourself closure.


Question: I got married in May of 2003....after me and my husband got married him and i seperated..>Not legally...he moved back to his moms and i went back to my moms..and were apart for about a month...I was with an ex at the end og august beginning of september and my period had just stopped...So we were together sexually...a few days in a row...Me and my husband saw each other before he went to the army around the end of september...And slept together....I found out October 5th i was pregnant...My doctor told me my due date was June 11th and i concieved on September 5th...After an ultrasound They moved my Due date to June 18th...But said I concieved september 12th...Im not sure when my real due date is now....I assume june 11th-18th...Maybe sooner..When you caluate on the calender with how many weeks i am its the beginning of june...I know i need a DNA test...but who is likely to be the father??....Also...I told my husband about me being with another man...He told me he wanted to raise it as his own...
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Well, as I see it, the change in dates has you somewhat confused. Remember that these types of calculations have a variance of give or take two weeks before or after. In your case I would consider doing two calculations which I will do now. Lets Start with June 11th: the child would have been conceived between September 9th through September 22nd--NOW let's take the other extreme--June 18th--the child would have been between September 19th and September 27th. Unfortunately, you cannot say who the father is because the times that you had intercourse with these two men overlap--and you are right you need to do a molecular based test which will accurately pinpoint your father. I am getting the impression that you are trying to decide which man you will test first. I would say you should consider testing the husband first and then go on from there if need be. good luck.


Question: I've filed a paternity suit and had first test come back 99.99%+ positive, father has requested additional test to which I've submitted to. Now he is requesting that my husband be tested as well. My husband and I know undoubtedly that he is not the father. Would a judge be likely to grant such test already having first results in evidence?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It will depend on the judge but I would let your husband be tested and THEN take it the judge for a decision--otherwise this man will continue to test this case into eternity.


Question: My son was informed that a girl he dated for 2 weeks may be pregnant with his child. This girl also dated other guys. My son will support this child(if it's his). She has put her last name on the birth certificate only. If the child is his, does she have a legal obligation to change the last name on the certificate? Also, who is responsible for paying for the paternity test? My son is in the military and will have little contact with this child( which is unfortunate), and I doubt if she will make any effort to see my son. Her parents want to raise the child Jewish and they say it must have her last name to do that! Is that true? Which type of legal service should he see for all of these issues? I realize the DNA test must come first(which I feel she should pay or at least split the costs). Thank you for you help with this.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I don't know anything about the Jewish faith so you should check with someone more knowlegable spirtually. She can give the child any name she wants. The real question is WHOSE name is going on the certicate as the father? As far as paying or splitting the cost, the lab won't care who pays it--that is between you two to decide--or, if you two cannot make the decision between you--a court to decide.


Question: I was wondering if there is a chance that if a man took a paternity test and it came back 99.99% that he is the father, is there a chance if another man was tested that the test could come back 99.99% for him too. The reason I am asking is because the baby doesn't look anything like the man tested. I know there isn't much room for error in these tests but is it possible? If so how could we go about getting the other man to take a test?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: if the first man came back included at that percentage, I would be very surprised is the second father came back with the same result.


Question: I am married to a woman of which I was with several years ago. Approximately 9 months after the last time we were together, she ahd a baby girl. She was married at the time of the birth to someone else. Now we are married. Can I initiate DNA testing on my "step-daughter" to see if I am her father. I have always had doubts about this issue, but I am not sure if the alleged father or my wife is willing to say ok to her being tested. I ordered a home kit, but I am not sure If I can do it without the consent of her mom. Please let me know if you have any clue. Thanks from Texas.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Home kits are not court admissible and are for "curiosity" ONLY. Most of these tests are done without the participation of the mother.


Question: I live in NJ and my daughter's father signed the birth certifate and ecknowledges our child as his own. If i were to take him to court for child support would they make him take a paternity test?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: search this board for the links that I have posted to the Federal OCSE state profiles. When you get there, click on the state of your choice and then click on paternity--you will find your answer there.


Question: My boyfriend of six years and I recently got engaged. A week ago he came clean with the fact that before we met he was with a woman that had just broken up with her boyfriend that he had been with one time. Shortly after they were together he found out that she was pregnant. She never contacted him(my fiance) and her ex boyfriend at the time was declared the father of the baby. He(my fiance) questions if there ever was a paternity test done. If we find out that the father is paying child support and has visitation rights does that necessarily mean that he has had an actual paternity test? If someone just assumes that they are the dad can they just pay and not question anything? Or is it possible now for my fiance to have a paternity test? What are the steps we should take?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You can probably find most of the answers to your question by contacting the clerk of courts offices as court proceedings are a matter of public record. A paternity test does not have to be performed to determine paternity--the signing of the birth certificate in some state will settle the issue--in some states a signing of the birth certificate AND a paternity aknowledgement will determine paternity and paternity can be declared by the court "in default" if a man is deemed uncooperative. A paternity test is only part of the picture you see.


Question: If two brothers have the same father yet different mothers, are they half brothers or whole brothers. What determines half siblings?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: if they have the same father and different mothers they are half siblings--likewise, if they have different fathers but the same mother they are also half siblings--that is what determines a half sibling relationship.


Question: I was wondering what would happen if a mother refused to let the father or patiental fathers to do a dna test? CAN YOU REFUSE TO HAVE ONE DONE AS LONG AS THERE NAME IS NOT ON THE BIRTH CERTIFICATE????? PLEASE HELP SOON!!!!!!!!!
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: you have to have the test if you are compelled by the court to do so. If the court tells her to have then she has to comply


Question: I live in MO and the father of my 6 week old lives in IN. His name is not on the birth certificate but I want him to sign over paternity rights so he can never come back and want visitation or any kind of relationship with my son, he wants to sign over rights so he doesn't have to pay support. Will the state let us sign over his rights and if so how do we go about doing it, what are our options?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Before he can sign over his rights you have to establish the child's actual parentage. YOu and the guy need to do a paternity test first then take results to an attorney.


Question: My boyfriend is havening a hard time with establishing his divorce because a child is involved. His Ex will not execpt the paternity papers. We have just found hair of his daughter's from a haircut we had given her 3yrs prior. Could paternity be established with this hair??
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: No. It cannot.


Question: My friend is not for sure that this baby this girl is having is his baby. He knows that he can get a paternity test done while she's still pregnant but he wants to know how much will it cost.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: figure on spending around 2200 dollars in out of pocket expenses. Insurance will not cover this proecdure.


Question: I have a 7 year old son, and a man has been taking care of him all of his life...he is in the military...he has known from day one that they may be a chance he is not the biological father, he didnt care,said he wanted to be the father anyway...He signed the paternity acknowledgement when our son was 6 months for the military, at that time we also got his name on the birth certificate....We had another child which is 100% his and we did the exact same thing...we even went to court and he has been paying court ordered child support (state of Va) Now the other possible father wants a Dna test and he has even petitioned the court....Can this be done? even if someone elses name is on the birth cert? and if this man turns out to be the father, would i be liable to pay back the child support? The man thats been taking care of my son is threating to take me to court to make me pay back the child support he paid if the other man turns out to be the father...I dont feel that is fair since he knew the situation and he was willing to be the father...he signed the waivers in court. Please help.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: In the state of Virginia, paternity is conclusive if the paternity aknowledgement has been signed AND the birth certificate has been signed. I doubt seriously if the man can get a peternity test and have himself declared the father of the child. Legal paternity has been established.


Question: My girlfriend is 14wks pregnant and we would like to know the paternity before the child is born. Through research, 3 methods have been shown, Amniocentesis, CVS and Maternal Blood or Fetal Cell. The latter is a new method supposedly with a 95-98% accuracy and I have found sites saying not to depend on it for serious decisions, this is making me unsure of its accuracy. Can I depend on this test for valid results?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: No. There is no serious validation studies performed in this country to make it an acceptable solution and it is currently NOT endorsed by the American Association of Blood Banks. You are better off spending your money on tried and true procedures.


Question: Do the father make the siblings whole siblings or half siblings. I always thought mother mother was the one that made the siblings whole and the father made them half, is this true?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: yes--and no. You have it half right which is appropriate for sibling question. Half sibling wil share only ONE common parent while whole siblings will share BOTH parents. In half siblings the common parent can be EITHER the mother OR the father. It does not matter.


Question: I recently received results of DNA test with an exclusion @ D21S11 with child 29,30 and AF 28,33.2 and was told the term "rare micro variant" What does that mean and is it possible that the exclusion at this loc. not valid?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Mutations in any genetic test system are not unknown, and they typically manifest as a unit number difference (such as 29 in the child and 28 in the AF). Know two things: first, it depends on whether or not the 29 is truly the allele that had to have come from the child's biological father, and since no mother's data are given, this can't be known for sure; and second, it's important to know whether or not this was the only exclusion on the report. No lab testing to accepted standards will exclude a man on the basis of only one genetic inconsistency. At least two are required, and for the STR-type tests (as in this case), each of them should be a mismatch that is off by more than a unit number difference. If this exclusion is one of several, then it really doesn't matter if it's real or not; there are others that would reinforce the conclusion of nonpaternity.


Question: Last year my ex-girlfriend got pregnant and its really 50/50 (for all I know) who the father is.She recently lost her job and is now seeking child support from me. I feel like the child is not mine. She said she was going to sned the courts after me and make me take a paternity test so that I have to pay her.I am in college and have very little income.Do I have to agree to take the test, and if I am the father how much would I probably pay?(we live in Texas)
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: First, if you look around on the internet there are caluclators that you can find for each state that will calculate how much child support you could expect to pay. Second, IF the Attorney General's office orders you, through the court order, your are compelled to submit. If you do NOT take the test they could declare you to be the father by default and you would still end up paying child support--do not neglect any contact that you have may have with the AG's office. Lastly, confirm what I have said here with an attorney.


Question: how can you get a women that says that her daughter is not yours but has ever facilal featuers and look like you so much that your parents and grandparents think it is yours but she wont let me get a test done what can i to get her to let me get one done. thank you
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If she doesn't want the test get an attorney and see if you can have a court ordered test performed.


Question: Hi, my niece is unwed in the state of Ga. She just gave birth to a baby girl and the birth certificate her boyfriend did not have his name on it or signing. She received a letter from the hospital stating that he must sign a paper or the baby remains in her last name.(She did put his name on the certificate for the babies last name, but his name was never on or signed .The bottom line is, he does not want anything to do with this child, as he has removed himself from her. His mother(which would be the grand-mother if married ) wants full custody of my nieces child. No marriage involved as she resides at a good home with my sister and her husband. My niece does not want any child support or him to have any paternity rights. He is abusive possibly Manic dep. and is no way a father figure. Now my question is, can she continue to raise her baby by herself or does he or his mother have ways to fight for full rights. Sounds like a soap opera-unreal actually
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Grandmother wants full custody of the child? Bearing in mind that she raised a child who is allegedly manic depressive and potentially abusive, she should probably concentrate on the child that she does have. Until paternity is established, she has no rights as a grandparent but you should check with an attorney to determine her rights, if there are any at all.


Question: my b/f and his ex have a daughter, however no bloodtest have been taken to prove it and she admits to being with someone else. he wants to pay child support and help take care of her and raise her, but the mother gets irate at the idea of getting a bloodtest. the reason he wants a bloodtest is so that his name is on the birth certificate and so he has rights to his daughter. the other problem is that she is in canada and he is in the united states and we are unclear of the laws in canada. hes afraid of paying child support and her not letting him see or have a say in their daughter that he so far has no legal rights to. who pays for a dna test? and if the child is his will he have to pay back from when it was born? money is definately an issue as he is a single father of 2 with no help from the mother and he wants to do what is right.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Well, first things first--don't sign that birth certificate without a test. If she does not want a test then there must be some sort of reason. Secondly, BEFORE you enter into a support agreement you should contact Queens Counsel in Canada and find out EXACTLY what Canada's stance is on this subject and how child support works. Canada DOES have a reciprocal agreement with the United States for the collection of child support so try to establish what you need under Canadian law.


Question: My friend's g/f is pregnant, and he is unsure if he is the father. She gives her due date as "middle to end of July." I think she chose this vague "due date" to fit in with the time they first had sexual relations. I think she's at least a month further along than she says she is. She will probably have a good sized baby, as she herself was a big baby. My question: If she has the baby in June, will she be able to pass it off as premature? Or will the doctor be able to tell if it's full-term? (not on the basis of birth weight alone)
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It does not sound to me as is she is going to be forthright about any information that will help you to detemine paternity. I would just insist on a paternity test BEFORE any papers, including the birth certificate, are signed. I could not even begin to speculate on whether or not should could pass the baby off as pre-mature.


Question: What is the law exactly?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: HUH?


Question: An elderly family friend has been contacted by a 50 year old man oversees who is claiming to be his son. He has stories of a horrible childhood, and claims to just want to meet face to face and be acknowledged in order to "make himself whole" My friend was overseas in the country this man is calling from and may have had a child around that time. He was named on a birth certificate by a woman with whom he had a brief relationship. What should he be cautious of? Is there a scam out there like this in foreign countries where people get the Birth Certificates with males GI's and start calling them asking for things?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If this child wants "closure" then he should have no problem take a paternity test. Our Quickhit kits are downloadable and only cost 210 dollars. If he tries to play with the test in anyway--the child would be excluded so you could probably assume that there would be no monkey business on the part of the child. Tell your friend NOT to do anything until he has a test. If you have questions about QuickHit, you can contact us at 800-482-3025.


Question: is ther a statue of limitaions in ohio for establishing paternity
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If you search through this board you will find links to a site called OCSE State Profiles. You should be able to get you answer at that site.


Question: I am haveing twins and would like to know if they are idential or not i have one placenta two sac
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I cannot tell you if the babies are identical twins based on this information alone. We sell a twin test that you can download from our website which is on 285 dollars but you can't do the test until the babies have been born.


Question: I have been paying child support for 11 years in texas. I find out later that I am not the biological father because of a home paternity kit. I want to stop making payments and give up every right to the child who isnt mine. Can this happen and can the real father step in?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: No,child support has to be overtuned by the oourt and home test kits are NOT admissible in a court of law.


Question: Can a buccal swab determine cocaine use, and if yes, how long does a user have to be clean (free of cocaine use) before it will no longer show up on a buccal swab?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: A drug testing company would be better qualified to answer those questions.


Question: My ? is how old does the baby have to be before this test can be done.They plan on joint custody so early testing would be great.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You can do the test the very day the baby is born.


Question: I was wondering if a father (parent) has passed away and there were questions whether the father was the actual parent can testing still be done and in what fashion?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: There are three ways. 1. using both paternal grandparents 2. using a sample from the deceased. 3. Testing children of the deceased for sibling relationships.


Question: Are there precautions that can be taken to assure the paternity testing will be accurate? We don't want the father to be able to alter the results?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: laboratories have quality controll measures in place as a matter of routine. The best thing to do is to make sure that ALL are pleasant at the time of the collection and stay until it is packed and shipped.


Question: I have an 11 yr old daughter that I am paying child support on. I recently found out that she is not mine biologically and child support says I am in arrears $27,000 half of this being interest. Is there any way to get the interest knocked off my arrearages?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The only way is if the child support people agree to waive the back support. Talk with an attorney and get some legal input before pursuing this option.


Question: I have a friend that may have a son. The mother has told him 2 different stories and he wants to know if he has a child or not. What are his rights as an unknown father? Can she keep going in circles to keep him from his son? How can he legally pursue this issue?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Well, he could do a home test on himself and the child--not court admissible but it will give him answer. He could go to court and seek a paternity test as well so yes, he can legally pursue the case--start by consulting with an attorney.


Question: I am pregnant by a guy who refuses to accept any responsibilty for the child, he says that he will refuse to take a paternity test, even though he knows the child is his. What can I do as far as trying to get him to be tested for paternity?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: When the child is born, go to child support and file for support. They will ask you the names of the people whom you suspect is the father of the child. Let them take care of this for you.


Question: The father of my child is denying first dna results until he rules out human error with a second test. I have absolutely not a doubt, but I am kind of curious now if there are any studies about paternity "human error" cases. Heard of any?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: No studies that I know of--I am curious--how is the second test going to rule out human error--what if the first test was correct all along and the second test is in error.


Question: My son and his girlfriend have a daughter. His name is on the birth certificate as the father and I believe he signed it as father. Does the mother have the right to deny him rights just because they were not married and she has a new boyfriend now? Are there any rights gained by having him listed as father on the birth certificate if a marraige was not established?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If he is the legal father, she cannot deny him his rights as a father. Take this up with a family law attorney and ask about things like joint custody and visitation. In some states, the birth certificate is considered conclusive proof of parentage.


Question: The same thing happen to me with the DNA test coming back negative, I was not with another person, so my child does not belong to another person and when I called the Attorney General's office some people were mean others really cared and said that mistakes happen. I stayed in court for 6 hours for the Judge to deny my request for a second test, now I have to get a lawyer. Yesterday I did receive a letter saying that the other parent was served and I would be informed of a court date later, what does that mean, did they approve my request anyways? And what rights do I have to ask for a second test, I am thinking the seventh amendment maybe? I am willing to pay for the second test and I do not even care how the first one can back negative, I get medicaid and half of my daycare paid from the State of Texas and they will cut me off if I do not work with the Attorney General and my son has no other father. If you could please give me some ideas or some direction I would really appreciate it.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: you should probably contact the AG's office to find out if there is another test. You are challenging the results so do not look for the court to pay for the second test--except in Florida where they will pay for a second test.


Question: A girl my big brother had a relationship claims she's pregnant by him. He wants to have the parternity test done before the baby is born so he will know what he's up for when she has the baby,is it possible to have a test done before the baby is born and if so how far alond does the pregnancy need to be in order to get the test?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: you can read more about this subject by search the entrie thread. Yes, it is possible and the process can start at about 10 weeks.


Question: Is it possible for a mother, father and child all to be type opositive?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: absolutely


Question: Message: two years ago, i had a dna test done to determine that a certain guy was my chid's father. the test came back 0%. i was shocked because i know that he is the father of my child. i tried calling the child support services and try to get a retest, but they only gave me attitude and the run around. i hav e strong reason to believe that the alleged father did not go and take the test. he told me that they use something like spoon to collect his dna and not a cotton swab. he also claimed that the process cut the inside of his mouth.but that's not the only thing that he lied about, he also stated that he was tested at different facility and it was not the child support office. am i grasping for straws or does his story sound a little to fishy? what should i do to prove to the child support services that there should be a retest?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Personally, I do think you are grasping at straws--the swab he decribed as spoon shaped is just a different sytle of swab--there are many types. The court gave you an "attitude" because they consider the issue closed. Child support offices do not always collect on site so it does not surprise me that he was tested at an off site facility. IF there is a father--a potential father that you have NOT tested against then you need to test him and any others before you go after the first guy again. You need to eliminate ALL variables in order to make your argument credible.


Question: If your blood work was done in CA would they send it to greensboro NC to test it? How can I tell if the results are forged or not
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: They used to send it to Greensboro but that lab is now defunct--they could send it to Burlingotn. If results are forged then the lab who did the testing will be able to tell you. If the lab who tested your case was in Greensboro, NC--just fax it to me at 336-883-3856. I will probably be able to tell you.


Question: My boyfrind of 2 years as just rencently recive court papers to appear in court about a child he's quite positive is not his. He's already taken a paternity test in 1999 but she never showed up for the results so the case was thrown out. Now she wants money and We we're wondering can we still use the old test or does he have to be tested again? and Do they keep records of these tests?? thank you for your time.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: See an attorney before you go to the court and YES take your paternity test with you to show to the judge. Consult with an attorney first.


Question: My fiance had been married in Kansas to a woman who said she was pregnant with his child and if they did not get married she would have an abortion. After a few years she said it is not his child and the red hair and freckles kind of make it certain since her ex was red hair and freckles. Now all these years later living in a different state (PA) back child support is due. How do you go about paternity testing when you married her, paid her support before being told the truth. Can he be stuck paying support and arrears for eight years that he has not seen the child and she has remarried and in trying to have her new husband adopt him. My finance is not responding to her request since he is not the father just the guy on the birth certificate.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If the child was born into their marriage then he will most likely be liable to pay child support and I will be surprised if he is able to get a test. He needs to contact an attorney immediately.


Question: My child is three years old and her dad wants a paternity test He is not on the birth certificate and I have sole legal custody can he have the test done without my consent. And Can he get his name on her birth certificate she was born in North Carolina
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: He could take the child and perform a home test but without the birth certificate he would be hard pressed to get one that is court admissible.


Question: My boyfriend received a letter from a girl he had slept with 9 years ago that stated "as you know you have a daughter" and that she was looking to get child support. He was never told that he was a father in all that time. He feels ripped off if he is because he missed out on all those years. In the state of NJ is she still entitled to child support... he did not evade this - he never knew about it...she could have reached him at any point in time as he had not moved or changed his phone number in all of that time. He is planning to go for DNA testing, do you have any further advice?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Unfortunately, the world is not fair and this is one of those unfair examples. If she is going for child suport and they are going to come after him, he will most likely have the opportunity to ask for the test--do NOT sign ANYTHING until you talk to the agency about the test option--you should also take any document that they send you to sign to an attorney to make sure you get the opportunity for a test. Good luck.


Question: I had a girlfriend for a year and suddenly she dumps me and I find out she's pregnant. She does not deny the child is mine, but says she wants nothing to do with me and that I have no rights. I want to be this baby's father and in this childs life. I am willing to do whatever it takes, what are my rights?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: She is alleging that you are the father. First, you will have to wait for the baby to be born, due to the uncooperative state of the mother, to get that paternity test. Since your name is most likely NOT going to be placed on the birth certificate, then get a court order for a paternity test to establish paternity. Do this under the advice of a family law attorney. They have the expertise to insure that you are afforded your paternal rights. If you ARE the father then the law protects your rights as a parent and only the law can take them away from you.


Question: I am pregnant by a guy who refuses to accept any responsibilty for the child, he says that he will refuse to take a paternity test, even though he knows the child is his. What can I do as far as trying to get him to be tested for paternity?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Wait until the baby is born and then file for child support. Let them give him the option of taking a test.


Question: A recent swab test came back showing my son's alledged father to be 99.99%+ positive. He has asked for an additional test which I agreed to. When the lab called, they said it was a blood draw and I do not feel there is any legitimate reason to draw blood instead of using swab. Everything I've read indicates that there is no difference in accuracy of blood vs. swab. Is this not correct? Have you heard of any cases where a judge manadated a blood test?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The father has convinced himself that there is a difference between a swab and a blood collecion--either way he is getting a dna TEST. A judge ignorant of the differences might order blood to be collected but is is very rare. He is grasping straws.


Question: My sister and I have reason to believe we do not share the same father. How can we find out for sure? Can we do a DNA test without our parents involvement?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You can go to patenitynet.com and get a sibling test there at an inexpensive price..This test will allow you to test wihout your parents.


Question: I was married in 90 my son born in 94 my ex signed the birth certificate knowing the child might not be his we have gone through a bitter custody battle and after years he won. I want to have a DNA test done to prove he is not the father and if it comes out that way can I take custody of the child from him. We also have another son born in 90 who he has custody of but threw out of his home 2 years ago. That child is actually his. Where do I stand on this and is it worth paying a lawyer to regain custody?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I think you have answered your own question. First,a dna test is only a piece of evidence. It will not automatically cause the child to be returned to you. The court will examine all of the evidence and then decide if it is in the interest of the child that you regain custody. The same for the second child. Get the lawyer.


Question: My boyfriend took a paternity test for a child that he was allegedly the father of. A mouth swab was taken and was dealt with through both parties lawyers. The results came back as 0.00% paternity or that he was exclusive. The girl claims that he IS the father and that the baby has down syndrome and this must have effected the test. Can the baby having down syndrome effect the results at all?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Downs Syndrome does NOT effect the outcome of a paternity test. The mother is grasping at straws.


Question: My girlfriend recently got pregnant by another person. We are still sexually active. Is there any chances of me becoming the biological father.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If you were still sexually active with her at the time of conception BEFORE she got pregnant then there is a chance that you could be the father and would be a 50/50 chance. You did not indicate how you knew he was definitely the father.


Question: A girl had a baby on Dec. 6, 2003. She is claiming that I am the father. I did sleep with her 1 time during Feb. 2003. It was early in the month of February. I flet sure this was not my baby so I agreed to pay for a swab test so she would know the same and stop telling people I am the father. The results came back 99.96% probablity that the baby is mine. I want to pay for my child if it is mine. I went to the child support office to explain this situation. They told me that she would have to come in and fill out the appropriate paperwork and they would then request a blood test. One day she tells me she is willing to do this and the next day she tells me she wants me to have nothing to do with the baby.I know of several other guys that she was with last year. Should I give these names to the Child Support Office. I think that if they are tested and I agree to be retested, the results could differ this time. What do you think?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I think there is only a 0.4 percent that one of those other men could test positive. Those are pretty slim chances. As for giving the names to the child support, will that is up to you but do not expect them to give you a retest.


Question: My girlfriend is pregnant and I have some doubts if I am the father. What are the repercussions if the baby were have my last name and then find out I was not the (biological) father? I think I am doing the right thing in being with her through the pregnancy. If I wasn't with her and I find out the child is mine I would be upset that I missed his whole pregancy. Any advice or support would be great. Thanks
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: First, the other can give the child any last name that she chooses. She could name the child. She could give the child the last name of Disney but that does not mean that Walt Disney is the father of the child. Depending on the state, the birth certificate may or may not constitute a presumed paternity according to the Federal Office of Child Support Enforcement, Health and Human Services. You indicated in an email response to me that you live in the state of virginia. In the state of Virginia, a paternity is presumed if the man's name is on the birth certificate AND he has signed a paternity aknowledgement paper. BEWARE, in Virginia there are privatized agents who will seek to get you to sign the birth certificate and the PA paper when the child is born. You wil probalby feel some pressure but ,in reality, you don't HAVE to sign anything. I strongly urge you to do a paternity test first. Since you are in Virgina, you and the mother can come into Fairfax to our lab to do the test and we can get you the results in 5-7 working days. That is more then enough time for you to decide what you will sign. Please confirm what I have said with an attorney.


Question: I was recently told by a child support agenecy that I can not get a paternity test done becaus 8yrs ago when my daughter was born I sign a weiver saying she was mine here recently I've been told she may not be so! how do i go by getting a test done!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You can't get one that the court accepts--you signed away that right and don't look for them re-open the case and potentially bastardize the child. You could do home test kit, which we can provide, but it cannot be used in a court of law.


Question: IF you pull out before ejaculation inside a woman, but then she have sex 2 days later with another man who in fact ejaculated in her what is the percentage that the one who pulled out is the father.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You've got to be kidding me. You can't break up paternity into percentages based on who pulled out and who didn't. I am sorry but the chances are still 50/50. Take a dna test.


Question: When my son was conceived 11 years ago I had reason to believe that the childs mother had a affair. I tried to do the right thing by raising the child as my own. When the child was 3 years old, the mother took him out of state without my permission and continued to file for child support of which I am now liable. She is refusing me any contact with the child even though I solely raised him up until the time she left. My question is can I still have DNA testing done now to verify that he truly is my son? And if he is not my son would I still be liable to pay child support? Also can this be done without disrupting the child's life? Or more specific can it be proven by blood type?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Blood typing is as about as unspecific as you can get--you can heighten your suspicions but you will still be paying the child support. Regarding the issue of the mother moving to another state, you will need to consult with an attorney in the state where the mother resides. Also, i believe that if you are the father of the child you are allowed parental rights by law. Ask the attorney about those rights and about the possiblity of a dna test. Depending on what state you are in, marriage may constitute a presumed paternity.


Question: im not married and i have a 11 month old boy whos mother wont let me see him Neither of us have filed any court papers what is the first step i need to do to see my son
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I think you have already answered your own question. The mother is preventing, according to you, you from seeing your own son. You need to file your papers and seek visitation. You might also want to ask the judge to order a paternity test while you are at it.


Question: i recently had dna testing done to determine prove father of my child. The lab results came back inconclusive because two mutated genes or cells were found. The labs were sent out to another state and i have not receiced the test. it has been almost a month on hte 8 of march? what does this mean
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: your results were shipped, possibly to another state, to a second laboratory for "extended testing". You can expect this to take a lot longer--figure at least four to six weeks when you consider that it has to be sent back to the original lab for release and it will still need to be evaluated by the original lab. This is a common turnaround time in these cases.


Question: Can DNA results be wrong if the person has had traditional chemotherapy and CHOP and also radiation. I had a paternity test done on my son who was conceived before his cancer treatment, and the results came back that my husband was not the father.I know in my heart he is. Is there anything that does alter paternity results?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: it is not likely.


Question: how can i get paternity for my son when the father lives in another state and is not will to due the test? can he be made to take the test and due i have to have a lawyer to help with this? can you tell me how much you think this will cost me?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I would file for child support if you believe that it wil be diffult to get him to cooperate. I you do a test then with the child support involved then it will be whatever their contract price is.


Question: My friend had a brief affair with a women who was involved with two other men at the same time. The women gave birth on the 22nd Jan. Given the variation in gestational length (she had been given two due dates 30th Dec (LMP) and 10th Jan (US) and the proportion of first births that arrive 'on time', how likely is it that sex on the 8th or 15th April could have resulted in conception in the time window indicated by your calculator.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: very likely


Question: Does a child and there parents blood type have to match? For example my Fiance has an A Blood type and his Parents Mother B- and his Father is O? Is it possible one of them isn't his parent??
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The child will receive the type from only ONE of the parents but it can be either--neither the father nor the mother will dominate the determination of the child's blood type.


Question: have a daughter who is going to be 3 years old soon. I had recently gotten a DNA test done with the man i felt was her father. The test came back 0%. The man had file a petition for parternity and custody.We have to go back to court for the paternity case and the custody case. Now that we have taken the test and gotten the results, what will happen with the case? Will they throw it out, (the custody case). Can he sue? He never really did anything for her, he gave here and there. My daughter calls him by his first name,for the simple fact he came and went never really establishing a fim relation. He would be around and she would get use to him, then he would disapper for 3 months or so since she was born. I also want to know what was the time of conception, how can i find out? she was born june11,2001. thanks
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The child would have been conceived between September 5th and September 19th. Regarding yur court case--I am assuming that the child was not born into a marriage beween you two. In other words, you and he were never married to each other when the child was born? I could not see a court giving this man custody but do check with a lawyer--can he sue you? Again, check with an attorney but I could see what he could sue you for--that you misled him? I have noticed over the years that some men (not all) will use the "make you have the paternity test and then get custody (Read--take mama from her child) as a tactic to scare the mother into backing down from going for child support. Again, check with an attorney to confirm everything that I have said.


Question: My mother is threatening to have a paternity test on my son. Does she have any legal right to request such a thing? How possible is it that she could legally get that accomplished? His father and I do not want one done. Thanks
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The grandmother does not have the right to have the test without the consent of the parent or a court order--I would be surprised to a court order such a test--well, not true entirely--she could talk the father's parents into doing a grandparentage test but she would have to have access to the child. In any case, she would have to the father's cooperation to do the test. Which brings me to the next question that comes to mind--is she in contact with someone that she THINKS is the father? If she IS talking to such a person, then I would keep an eye on her--she could do the test as a home kit which would need neither your consent nor a court order--it would not hold up in court but it would be a major irritation for you and the father. Talk to an attorney about what you can do to protect your child if you do not wish this test to be conducted.


Question: i'am type O and my wife is type o also, it is possible that my child is have a type B blood? it is only denpends in the parents blood type the blood type of the child? there is no effect the blood type of there grandparents to there grand child blood type?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Two O's will not make a B. Blood typing is passed directly form the parents--NOT the grandparents.


Question: i've been in childs life since day one and after 5 yrs she claimed im not the father and she knows who father is, but when child was 1 years old she took me to court 4 child support and in my heart i believed i was father.ive paid child support for many years and now she wont allow me in childs life or any visitation..and she hasnt made any signs of getting me my money back since the court took me for child support..they asked for money & now they wont pay it back and she constantly moving to avoid courts since she knew she was wrong since day one,please send me some input on my rights and what can i do in my situation.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If it has been determined that you are the father of the child you have rights and it is not the mother's place to determine the limit of the rights--it is up to the court. Talk to an attorney and lay out for him your situation. Since you indicate that she is constantly on the move then ask the lawyer to consider looking into custody. I do not know the entirety of your situation but you need to have the lawyers working for you so that you can excercise your paternal rights.


Question: how do i find out about a paternity test that was taken on my new husband. he had a child supposedly with a past girlfriend.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You cannot. Paternity information is secured informaiton. If the test was conducted privately then ONLY your husband can get you that information--or you could ask the mother of the child that was tested. The laboratory will not provide that information for you unless you possess a court order and I seriously doubt you would be able to obtain a court order in this situation.


Question: Who may challegen paternity? My daughter is a drug addict (10 year documented history of arrests) with additional jail time for other criminal offenses. We have had very limited contact ( several calls and one visit) in the past 8 years. She contacted us just prior to the birth. The child was born addicted. We visited her ( in another state) and put in place all the programs, (State protective services, methadone clinics..etc) The system worked as we were notified that she had left the child in a crack house but was sold back to one of her boyfriends for cash and cigarettes. This boyfriend signed paternity papers. Legally, he is the father. She indicated to us that he WAS NOT the father, and in fact she really had no idea who was. She also has a long history of prostitution. We attempted through all of those agencies to obtain voluntary custody..but the boyfriend would not agree..he believed if he kept the child she would come back to him...although one wonders why.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: As I sat here reading your note one thing came to my mind, and I certainly do NOT mean to be insensitive, is where is your evidence. If you wish to make a case you have to have something concrete that you can take to an attorney. I would speak to social services and see if they will help--otherwise, you need to take your strong gathered evidence to a CARING private attorney who practices in that state.


Question: I am an American pregnant by a British citizen that I am not married to. I am married to an American man but he is not the father and we will get divorced soon. Can I sue the father for child support even though he is in England? Will the court declare my husband the legal father? If so what will the mean for a paternity suit against the real father?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You file for child support locally like you would do normally. The local authority will petition to the state level who petitions to the national level who petitions to the regeistry in the UK at Queen Anne' Gate. They can then initiate collection procedures on your behalf.


Question: How does the free quick hit test work and how do i get one the web site was confusing to me?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Well first--the test is not free--the kit is--you download it from our website and follow the directions. The cost of the test is 210 dollars. You can call us at 800-482-3025 if you would like us to walk you through a download.


Question: What paternity test can be done while the baby is still in utero? Do you know of any places that perform this in the Kansas City area. Thanks
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You can either do paternity testing by CVS or Amnio collection. You need a doctor to perform the extraction. I do not know of anyone in Kansas City who performs this test.


Question: What types of parernity test are available and what is required for each? (that is, how long, what material, time of return for results)
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Fairfax Identity Laboratories performs dna testing--our turnaround time is 5-7 business days. We use buccal swab collection for the taking of the samples.


Question: I AM IN THE MILITARY AND I LIVE IN LOUISIANA. I HAVE A POSSIBLE CHILD WHO LIVES IN GEORGIA. I HAVE A DNA SAMPLE IN MY RESPIRATORY. WITH US BEING APART IS THERE ANY WAY A DNA TEST COULD BE DONE WITHOUT ME HAVING TO GO ALL THE WAY TO GEORGIA?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I think you mean "repository". If you are referring to the DNA that was collected for the military dog tagging program then the answer would be "NO". However, you do NOT have to go to Georgia to take a test. We typically perform interstate tests for our clients. You can contact us at 800-482-3025 to set up a test.


Question: are there any precautions taken by labs that would eliminate someone tampering with testing (adding other saliva to their mouth)? Will this method change the signif. change the results of the test?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The collector has to keep a sharp eye out for such activity but overall it is unlikely that it will happen--there are safeguards mandated by the American Association of Bloodbanks that AABB labs are supposed to follow to help insure the integrity of the test. I cannot not speak for non--aabb labs. They do not have to abide by the same quality control standards.


Question: I recently found out that my daughter is pregnant and her boyfriend may also be her half brother. This would be on her Father's side. (Same Father, Different Mother). My daughter's Father has refused to help us establish if this is true and her boyfriends Mother reacts the same way. We need to know for sure if they are related. What advice can you give for the most accurate test to determine if they are half brother and sister and what is the average cost of such a test? Thank you for your help.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: very simple. You can go to our website at fairfaxidlab.com and obtain one of our downloadable QuickHit Sibling Edition Test kits--the down load is free --the test is 400 dollars and you just send in the money with the test kit. This kit will help you to accurately discern if these two are indeed half siblings.


Question: My son's girlfriend ran away with her biological son (23 months now) last December 2003. My son signed an acknowledgement of paternity when the baby was born and subsequently received the baby's birth certificate with his name as the father. Last Oct. 25th, I swabbed the baby's mouth with a q-tip & also clipped his hair. Can you use this specimen that I took before my grandson was taken away w/ my son's (he's here with us) to establish paternity that would e admissible in court. My son would like joint custody. Also, please confirm which kit is appropriate if we purchase one.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I am sorry to hear about your current conflict. We have a test kit that you can download at our website whose address I posted on a listing this morning. The kit that you want is the QuickHit Home Identity Test. The cost is 210 dollars. We do not make you pay for test kits--it is not our style. THAT BEING SAID--we cnnot use your swab sample because there is no way to verify conclusively that it came from the child that you wish to test. You have to have the paperwork from the kit before you collect the sample so that you can insure a sufficient chain of custody under AABB guidlines. I would talk to the police and see if they can suggest anything--being a domestic issue they may not be able to help you but it would be worth a try. Also, talk to an attorney about other issues including joint custody. Regarding the clipped hair--it is of no use.


Question: My girlfriend and I are seperated by 2,000 miles and we plan to be married after she moves to my home state. We currently use "the pill" for family planning however, after feeling nautious for a few days in her company, I asked her to get a pregnacy test. The results were positive. She had an ultrasound performed on January 29th, 2004, to which she was told she was 6 weeks and 5 days pregnant. This time line is very delicate...for the simple reason of her arrival date to my home for the Christmas & New Year holidays. We had intercourse on Christmas eave. How accurate are the ultrasounds at this stage and do I have reason to suspect the worst case?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Well you are separated by 2000 miles so I can assume that she is in another country? Ultrasound as a conception tool is an approximation. Should you be suspicious--not at this time but if yo continue to doubt then you could, after the 10th week of preganancy, consider a prenatal test.


Question: Is is true you have a home kit for $210 to test DNA and find out if a child is yours.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: THERE WAS A PROBLEM WITH LINK ON THE PREVIOUS POSTING--HERE IS THE QUESTION AGAIN WITH THE CORRECTED LINK: Absolutely--you downnload it at Fairfaxidlab.com. Hope this helps.


Question: Is is true you have a home kit for $210 to test DNA and find out if a child is yours.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Absolutely--you downnload it at Fairfaxidlab.com. Hope this helps.


Question: I am 21 weeks pregnant and it feels like an emaculate conception because both of the potential father's should not be able to have children. My husband and I have had three kids, however about three and a half years ago he had a surgery for a pretty severe varicocele and was told he would never have more children. When he climaxes he hardly even poduces seamen if he produces any at all. The other possibility had a vasectamy 3 years ago. Shockingly to me he wants this child to be his so he has gotten a sperm count twice since I told him I was pregnant. Both tests came back with a zero sperm count. And I swear on my life they are the only two possibilities. So I guess my question would be what are the percentages for each to even father a child. Even with two negative sperm counts, is there still even a slight possibility that it is his? Thank you for any information you can provide.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I would suggest that you wait until the baby is born and then have a home test perform--if he is excluded then move on to the second man. you can acquire the test at the following location: Get Test Kit.


Question: The Father of my baby wants a paternity test...how long is the wait for a result? Do both the child and father need to be screened at the same time? Can this procedure be done at my local hospital? What would the average cost of such a procedure cost? Thank you for your time.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: We can do a home test for you for 210 dollars. You do the collection of the sample at home. It is that simple--you can acquire the test at the following location: Get Test Kit.


Question: my son came home for a visit, his ex-girlfriend said that they slep together, my son says that they did not. now she is about eight weeks pg, and say my son is the father. the date that she slept with my son is november 30, 2003. she had her last cycle on dec 1, 2003. and is not sure when she had a cycle before that.my son says that he did not sleep with this girl. also, how safe would it be to get an amniocentesis, and how soon can we get one, and about how much would it cost?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: expect to pay an out of pocket expense of around 2000 dollars when you figure in the cost of the paternity test and the collection of the fetal sample. You can do the test of course but only with the consent of the mother and the approval of the physician who will perform the collection.


Question: I am about to have a baby in April, and the father of my baby is now claiming that this may not be is child, which I gave him no reason to believe. He told my mother this information. Also he wants a DNA test done. But now he will not speak up on it. I was wondering if the test can be give after the birth of my child? Also would I have to pay for it since I am getting all the information for this even though he brought the testing up?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Who pays for the test is really between you two but if he is contending that he is not the father then it seems to me that the burden of proof is on him to prove his claim so she shuld pay for the test. You can do this test within DAYS after the baby is born--If he has an issue with paying for a test you might have him check out one of our QuickHit Paternity tests which only cost 210 dollars.


Question: I would like to konw how I can a free dna.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You cannot--it is sad but true--DNA laboratories are businesses and, as such, like to be paid for their services. Your best bet would be to see if someone you know would pay the cost of the test.


Question: How accurate is the swap test?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The "swab" test is no different in accuracy from the blood test. It is a good test.


Question: Is it possible to determine a baby's father while it is still in the womb? A girl I slept with says that there are two possibilities as to who the father may be. Can this be determined through testing?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: yes, you can but you will need th authorization of the mother's physician.


Question: My boyfriend and I found out a year ago that his prior girlfriend was caliming that her baby was his. She told everyone but him, we found out first from friends of ours whom she had told, then we found out from his sister and mother whom she presented the child to as their granddaught and neice. They immediately believed it and never asked my boyfriend if the child was his. They showere the mom with gifts and helped her financialy. Then when my boyfiend cut off ties to them because he would not admit the child was his, he does not believe it is. They finally stopped paying the mom and she cut them off from seeing the child and went after my boyfriend for child support. Him being a red blooded male and stubborn as all get out ignored the letters to appear in court. They sent a sheriff to the house with papers, a friend signed for them. He talked to an attorney at the court house who told him if he was not personally served he did not have anything to worry about, bad move. So he did noti
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: you said bad move and the story ended there--but I will bet you that he took the attorney's advice and ignored the service. In child support cases, a court can hold the father in "default" and declare him to be the father and liable for all child support. I would get a second opinion from a lawyer who specializes in family support.


Question: Back in September my spouse and I had a major fight and we weren't talking much. And he decided to go live with his mother for a little while to think things over. Well about 2 to 3 weeks later he had an affair with my brothers wife. And we just found out about a week ago that she is pregnant. But she has not said anything to My him about this. She said that she doesn't know if he or my brother is the father and she won't go and get checked by a doctor to find out how far along she is, so he can determine if he's the father or not. Is there anything we can do legally to make her go and get checked. He and I have 2 children together, and if this is his child she is carrying, it will be thier half sibbling/cousin. And we don't want that. It's not right and he knows this now. As he put it, it should of never happened, cause you don't have sex with your relatives, blood related or not. And the times it happened she got him drunk and seduced him while he was under the influence.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You cannot force her to have this test at this time--I would also be surprised if you are able to get a court order since the brother is going to be the legal father. I would suggest that you wait until the child is born and ask the mother to participate in a simple home test to put the problem to bed.


Question: i have a year old daughter my husband believes that she is not his because she is light skin and he is dark skin but she takes it from me im light skin. we goin though a divorce so i think he is doin it so he wont poay child support, but on the borth certificate he signed as the father. he said he had doubts since she was born. I was told that he would still have to pay child support even if she wasnt his and is there a specific age that u have to get a patenity tes? thank u.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: you can have a paternity test at any age. I hope this helps.


Question: I'm in the military recently deployed overseas. A girl I was seeing and had unprotected relations with has told me since I have been deployed that she is pregnant and that there are two possible fathers and I'm one of them. My question is are these two pre-birth paternity test(CVS and Amniotic fluid collections)are safe in general? What I'm getting at is are they painful or harmful to mother or child? Thanks for your time.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: They are invasive and must be overseen by a physician. As a non-medical lab, we are not qualified to discuss risks involved. That should be discussed directly with a physician.


Question: I need information in regards to paternity testing. I am a Virginia resident and there are two possible fathers for my 7 week old daughter. Where can we go to get a blood test to establish paternity? We are not interested in doing an at home test kit. She is A+ and I am O+. Neither male knows his blood type. One of the men is an Israeli Jew. Does this have any affect/bearing on the paternity test and/or results? Also, at the time of conception I had been separated from my husband and we had not been sexually intimate for at least one and a half to two months. According to doctors, my supposed date of conception was estimated to be between March 14th and March 24. My original due date was December 5th but because I was not dialating, I had a Caesarean on December 9th. As amazing as this sounds, my daughter looks identical to my son who I had with my husband almost three years ago. My husband and I were last together sometime between January and early February.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Dates of conception are tricky to go by and are only approximate anyway. The blood type information you give doesn't help at all because the men don't know their types, and might not be very useful even if they did know. The ethnicity of the men is irrelevant: a testing laboratory knows how to take that into account. Fairfax Identity Laboratories is located in Northern Virginia. If you are in the area, you can schedule a visit by giving the lab a call. Alternatively, if you are too far away to travel to the lab, they can send you information to have samples collected so that the test will be legally binding


Question: I have a four year old daughter, three men were tested through the D.A. and all came back 0% probability of being her father, I have a few questions, one, can a paternity test ever be wrong when done through the District attorney? Two, one more man needs to be tested he is incarcerated in another state, my case is closed at the D.A. and I have married, the alleged father who is incarcerated does not deny paternity and we all want to have a paternity test done, he allready has DNA on file at a bank in the state he is incarcerated in, is there any way we can have a paternity test done just so we know for sure without it being court ordered or through the District attorney while hes in prison. He is 100% willing to do the test, can we use his DNA from that bank to do a paternity test?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I wont't comment on the exclusions from the DA's office because you haven't eliminated the final man. You cannot use the dna taken by the prison because that is used for CODIS criminal databanking and so it is owned by the state and NOT by the father. Now, you ARE going to have to get it court ordered because the prison will require it in order for them to allow a plebotomist to come into th prison to oollect the samples.


Question: Do you need to have both parents tested in order to have an accurate test. I have a friend who was 100% shore that the father of her child was the biological father. A DNA test was done with the father and son and the results came back "inconsistent" what does that mean that the mother should also be tested? If you require more info please email me.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You do not need to have all three parties tested. Motherless calculations have be performed accurately since the old days of HLA Testing. Inconsistent means that there was no match for the father and the child for that system. In other words, the father was excluded. If your friend has doubts about the test then she should consider retesting with herself included just to ease her mind.


Question: 13 years ago I left my boyfriend because of his infidelity. I was pregnant. He does not believe he is the father yet I know he is. We were in North Carolina at the time but since then I have moved to Oklahoma and my son was born here. Which laws would the paternity suit be under. NC or Okla.? According to Texas Laws If we were married - I had 4 years to have a paternity test, however if we were not married, there is no time limit. Which law do I follow and do I have a chance to at getting my son's father to acknowledge his son.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You file for child support at the local child support enforcement office. They will attempt to collect and will most likely give him an opportunity for a test. If he does not respond then they will contact the stat in which he resides and forward the case to them for handling.


Question: I would like to know how much the testing for CVS & Amnio costs. Also, which is more accurate and/or quicker?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: We charge 780 dollars for the test. Which is better and quicker--there is no difference--they are just samples from which DNA is extracted.


Question: Can you determine the father of a child by blood types?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Not really--it is said that you can exclude a man with a blood type but the test is still inconclusive because it does not account for the possibility of mutations. ABO typing was used prior to HLA and DNA testing is extremely inconclusive when used as a stand alone test.


Question: Im 16 and my babies dad is 21. He keeps saying he cant have kids intill he is 21 but i dont blive him because hes the only one ive slept with. How long after the baby is born do i have to wait to get a test to proove hes the father?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I am being VERY polite when I say that he must be pulling your leg. The baby and you and the father can be tested AS SOON AS THE BABY IS BORN--do not listen to him on this. You will need your parents permission to do the test because you are a minor. Oh, and your parents can file for child support as soon as the baby is born. Good luck to you.


Question: My mother slept with my uncle at the time I was conceived but had also slept with other men. My uncle just now told me and I dont want my mother to know I know. Can I have a paternity test done if it is just him and me and if so how would I go about doing that if he lives in Oklahoma and I live in Texas?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Certainly--you can go to our website at fairfaxidlab and perform a paternity test with him for only 210.00 dollars . The mother does not have to know.


Question: Help, could you please, please answer my question. If a child was born on Oct 30,2000 full term when would conception occur? Second, I have a male friend who took a paternity test. The mother and child were suppose to take the test with him at the same time but did it two days later because she said she forgot. At the court hearing a month later the results stated that he was 89.9% the father but from what I heard it should be 99.9% to be sure. Now if he retest, wouldn't the results still show that he is the father since the results before were 89.9% before?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The child would have been conceived somewhere between January 24th and February 7th. Regarding the second part: I would want to see the report on paper in case it was misread--perhaps he THOUGHT he heard 89.9 when they meant 99.9. The reason that I am saying this is that it would be shocking to me that an 89.9 would be acceptable even by some state standards. IF that 89.9 is the result of the test then a restest should be insisted upon.


Question: Is it possible to perform a paternity test on an aborted fetus? I am pregnant and am going to have an abortion, but the guy is denying that he is the father and wants a paternity test. Is this possible?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Yes it is--the material is referred to as P.O.C. which short for Products of Conception. It is an expensive process and money is generally not refundable if the test is inconclusive but yes it is very possible to perform paternity testing on this type of sample. If you intend to do this make SURE that the people performing the abortion save the aborted fetus.


Question: In August of 1990, I had tests done thru the State to establish paternity for my son who was born in 1975. The first test came back with the father missing Hla A29 and B44 and a result that the father was not my sons. I cried and begged for a new test and it was ordered. The second test found the B44 but not the A29. Again , I was told that he was not the father. I had a breakdown but no one would believe that I was telling the truth. My son has spent his life thinking that I lied to him but I did not. I know that I got pregnant on Nov.12th, 1974 and my son was born August 29th, 1975 and I know I was not with anyone else. The father denies us another test all these years later. Was there a mistake? Does A29 cross react with anything else? What can I do before I die to prove to my son ,that I am telling him the truth?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: HLA tests can be tricky both to run and to interpret. The A29 and B44 are both common markers and should not have provided a problem to a competent laboratory, but the accuracy of the test does depend on the white blood cells being alive and healthy. I have seen results compromised because the blood samples weren't fresh and the cells half dead. It is a bit suspicious, by the way, that the lab did change its interpretation with regard to the B44. However, a true exclusion is not drawn on the strength of an exclusion in a single system. If the test was done according to accredited laboratory standards and the accepted legal standards of most states, there had to have been at least one other system where the man was excluded. Otherwise, the conclusion would be held invalid. A DNA test would be more reliable, but of course you need a sample from the man. If he's not cooperative, the only thing I can think of is to raise the point that I did above about needing multiple systems (HLA-A and HLA-B are NOT considered to be separate systems) for an conclusion of nonpaternity, and see if a court will order a new DNA-based test.


Question: If Iwere to come into a large sum of money could I legally hide the fact that I have the money?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Not on divorcenet you couldn't. This is a DNA paternity fosrum. You should address this issue with tax lawyers.


Question: I was born in 1974, The test show that the alleged father could or could not be my father. I was wondering if there was a way to tell with the results that I have if he is my father or not, Without having to do another blood test. I thought that maybe with the blood types and the Rh factors of my mother, alleged father, and myself that maybe he could either be ruled out or I could get a deffinate answer. He is not willing to do another paternity test, and I would like some closer to this matter..
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I have never heard of a test result that says that he " is or is not" the father. It sounds like you have just the numbers for the test. We could look at it but we charge a consulaltory fee of around 250 dollars per hour for consultation with a PhD. IF it was a paternity test that was performed then you should go back to the lab that performed the test for the interpretation. If you just had blood typing done, then you are really going to need to have a dna test.


Question: I was a victim of a sex crime. At the time I was a virgin.I did not pursue a criminal trial . I have now sued for child support, and the paternity DNA test results conclude that he is not the father. How is this possible? Is there a way to fix the test? Could he be taking some sort of medicine or drug that could alter the test results????????
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I cannot answer this question for you because we don't really have anything to go on except what you have provided here. It is always possible to throw a test but we do NOT give that information on this board. I doubt there is any medicine that he is taking that would alter his dna. You should probably get and attorney and seek to get another test with a different lab to confirm the results.


Question: I have recently been told that the man I thought was my father might not be. He is deseased. Can we compare my DNA with my two siblings' to see if we have the same father? We definitely have the same mother.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: absolutely--look for one of the links in this forum to our website and you can get a sibling relationship kit.


Question: I was married for two years but only together for about 1 year and a couple of months and had a child. 3 months into the marriage she had an affair and became pregnant. The child is now about 3 years and was told about the affair by my ex. We agreed to have a dna test done. The test came back that I am not the father. I was there for the birth and signed the birth certificate and have been paying child support. If the child is not mine can I ask the court to order me to stop paying child support???
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: you can certainly ask the court but remember that in their minds paternity has already been established and that they are going to be very hesitant to change the order. Make sure that you consult with an attorney.


Question: If the father has a drug record prior to the birth of the child, and wants to prove paternity, granting him access to parental rights,(While the mother wants him to have none) will the courts allow this? And what if the mother could prove that the father is selling drugs? What will the courts reaction be?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The courts will weigh the evidence as fairly as they can and render a decision according to the dictates of the state in which the case is being heard.


Question: when iwas pregnant my boyfriend and i broke up. i live in canada and he lives in florida. i have applied for support since he has never helped me with the child who is 13 months old. i was 3 months pregnant and he's never questioned if the child was his and now he has asked for a test. i want to know how do we do a paternity test and i live in canada and he lives in florida and how long is this going to take.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You are talking about internation reciprocity. You filed for support and Canada has to, in turn, file for asistance with the Federal Registry in Washington, DC who then will, upon acceptance of your case, transfer the case down to the Florida State Registry who then transfers it to the local support authorities. It is hard to speculate how long the entire process will take. If the father ask for the test then he will probably get it and that means that the lab who performs the test will have to be scheduled in both canada and in Florida. You will have to be patient while the two presiding governments do their thing.


Question: Hey there! My brother and i have wrote you several questions about D.N.A., but this question i have is involvong me ... a female. O.K. then. > My menstral cycles seem to be being 21 days apart. > 1.Is it possible for me to be ovulateing 10 days after the last day of my period? > I thought it was 14 days after your last day. > The docs say i can get pregenant, but i haven't so far after using no protection with my husband. > I have never noticed any signs of ovulation or what i was told was a sign of it until Jan.20th and the 21st. My cycle started on Jan.6th and ended on the 10th. On the 20th i noticed something. I thought it was supposed to be like 14 days after or something not 10.Hmmm I don't know i was hopeing one of you does. I know this is going to sound discusting and should already know since i am 30 years old, but i don't so here it is ... like on the 2oth when i went to the restroom and i wiped i knew something was weird and i looked and it was like a whole lot of this clear stuff like an eggwhite, you know without the yellow thank god. Well ... what is that stuff? Is it part of the ovulation process? If so what is it and what benefit does it serve? I know this also may sound ludicrous, but someone said that stuff makes it easier to get pregnant because it makes the sperm slide through better. Is that right? Seriously about all of this. I hope someone knows and doesn't think i am playing a gag or something, but i
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Menstrual cycles can vary all over the place with regard to length. You will be most likely to ovulate halfway through the cycle (measure the length by first day of the period to the first day of the next period). Note the term "most likely;" there is a variation in the exact time of a day or two each way. The clear mucus you noticed may be an indicator of ovulation. Thickening of the vaginal secretions around the time of ovulation is fairly typical. It serves as a medium that the sperm can swim through.


Question: My situation is really confusing. I am trying to determine if my daughter have the same father. I had paternity on my oldest daughter with her father and it returned a 99.9% result that he is definitely her father. Then in August of 2001 i had another daughter. The guy i believe to be her father was not. Me and my oldest daughters father talked about the possibility of her being his also and we discuss that the occassion in which we could have conceived was kind of impossible. We were about to engage in intercourse and before he could do the deed we stopped , we were just having a little rubbing action. So we kind of decided maybe there was not way. Now i have the result of both of my dauthers paternity testing and can get a clear idea on if he could be he father based on comparing the testing result. The test were both perform at two different testing companies and the test are named differently. Can you make a comparison based on the result if I sent you a copy of the results sent to
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I would not want to look at results piece meal like that--if you want to know if they have the same father why don't you consider tesing the two daughters together and just see if they are half or whole siblings? We do it for 400 dollars--it is cheap and efficient.


Question: I had a DNA done through Social Services. We had our mouths swabbed. The results came back and they was 99.99% but my son looks nothing like this man. I have another possibilty and I think he looks just like that man. Could I have gotten a false positive. Should I re-test?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I cannot tell you if you had a false positive because I know nothing about the circumstances of the test that you just had. ANYTIME that you are in doubt about a test you should retest for a seocnd opinion. However, social services may not rescind the test first test results so keep an attorney in your back pocket.


Question: I was with one guy during the summer off and on from june through August. We always used condoms...unfortuantly I ran into an ex one night at the end of August w/ a lot of alchol involved that we had unprotected sex. I had naturally assumed he was the dad when I discovered I was pregnant. Now I am 6 months and my conception date according to me sonogram creates doubt. The sonogram says I concieved during the begining of August which is a 14 day difference between my encounter w/ my ex.. Docs cant tellme anything except get a paternity test. I'd like more expert advise or info on paternity if not pre birth paternity issues...or at least how accurate is the sonogram and the possibilities please write back. I need to know who teh father is especially for teh health of my baby. thanks
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: songrams, dates of conceptions and the like ar estimations based on a number of different variables. Your doctor told you to get a paternity test because a molecular based test (DNA) is the only way that you will conclusively resolve your question. I would wait until the baby is born to save on expenses. Labs such as ours when performing the test after the baby is born will get your results back to you inabout 5-7 days for a price ranging from 210 (home kit) dollars to 480 dollars for court advissible testing.


Question: My husband had one in July, the individual I had an indescretion with claimed that a childhood accident sterilized him (showed me a sperm count at 99.99% negative result). My husband just sent in a paternity test that we did at home with cheek cells, it came back stating that he was not the father. Could he have mixed up the samples between himself and my daughter and if so, could this give false information or does it all come out even if there were three samples given?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Go back to the laboratory that you used and ask them to confirm the sex of each sample that was collected. Because the child is supposed to be female--if the switch did occur then when the lab checks the father will show up as female and the little girl will show up as a male.


Question: How do i go about getting the man my mother says is my father to take the dna test? he said he doesn't think he's the father, but she says he is. Is there anything legal i can do?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: you could try an attorney but I am not convinced that you would get anywhere. Alternatively, you oculd see if he has any children and then ask them to test to see if they are siblings.


Question: If the mother's blood type is A and the father's blood type is AB, is it ever possible to have a child with a blood type of O? Can it be stated that a child with blood type of O can never have a father with blood type of AB?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: A combination of A from the mother and AB from the father will yield either An A, B or AB.


Question: my husband has been paying child support for approx. 5 years. Paternity has never been established and the mother refuses to let the children visit. Should we establish paternity before we try for visitation rigths. He is paying child support now but he is behind.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You are unclear as to WHY he is payingchild support--is it voluntary--was he ordered to pay child support--is he paying because he is in default? I would consult a family law attorney and tell him EVERYTHING and let him decide what you should do before moving forward--if he is paying support then his claim for visitation may be perfectly valid depending on what the attorney can detemine from your information.


Question: My friend slept with a woman in July (it is now January). He found out last month that she is pregnant and due in April. Because of the dates, there is a good chance the child could be his, although she apparently slept with another man during that time as well. He has contacted her repeatedly and she refuses to speak to him. He would like to establish paternity and sue for custody, as he is very stable and ready for parenthood, and she is not. Will a court order a paternity test while she is pregnant, or must he wait until the baby is born? She is about 6 months along. Thank you!
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The court will not address this until the baby is born so you will have to wait until then.


Question: A brother and sister have sex and a child is born from the sister about 9 months later. Sister also had sex with other men around the same time. DNA testing is is done and the results are 99.99% certain that brother is the father. What effect does the fact that he is biologically related to mother ie. also the childs uncle, have on the results? assume that testing company did not know parties were brother and sister when test was take. >
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The testing process starts by eliminating those genetic characteristics that the child shares with the mother and then focusing on what is left. If the alleged father has those characteristics, then he is not excluded as the father of the child. The fact that the mother and the father are related to each other themselves does not affect this process and will not affect the validity of the result.


Question: A friend of mine left her boyfriend for me last June. She spent the whole month with me. She began her period on June 9th and the doctor said she ovulated on June 23rd. We had sex almost everyday that month. She then went back to try to work things out with her ex on June 30th. I can only assume that they were having sex from June 30th through the 8th. She contacted me on July 8th and said she was pregnant and said that it was mine. She is due on March 16, 2004. Her ex-boyfriend then demanded a paternity test on the fetus. He picked out a lab from the internet, *************, which is in ********. ) The lab does non-invasive paternity tests using the mother's blood and hair and mouth swabs from alleged fathers. She had been pregnant by the same ex-boyfriend a previous time, which they had terminated. The test kit specifies that it is for first pregnancies, but she went ahead and had it done. I submitted sample and the test said that I am not the father, but I am st ill
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The test is not valid--fetal cells from previous pregnancies show up in the blood for years and years and so it taints the reliability of the test. I appreciate the laboratory being upfront about who can do the test and so their client was properly informed of the consequences. The test will not hold up in ANY court in the United States and American DNA labs have stayed away from the process until they can find a way to work around the first pregnancy problem. You can insist on a more reliable test but that is your call.


Question: Approx 5 years ago, I had a brief relationship with an older woman from my workplace. It was quickly terminated. I got a call 7-8 months later from her saying she was pregnant with my child and we agreed that putting it up for adoption was the best thing to do. I met the adoption parents and everything was good to go. THEN I got a letter from the woman stating she couldn't let the child go and that she was moving to another state to raise the child with her family. She acknowledged that I was too young to have a baby and didn't expect anything from me. Now, 5 years later, she has filed a paternity/child support action against me. We agreed to an adoption, I don't believe that just because she is in a financial bind all of a sudden that she can just use me like a paycheck. It was her choice to raise the child on her own. I have not established paternity as of yet, the the court date is next month. Am I wrong to think that it's her sole responsibility since she changed her mind without consulting me or anything. We agreed on an adoption! I have no intention of being a father to this child... She just wants a paycheck. What should I do, and what are my rights?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: once again--we are not a legal board and so I cannot advise you of your rights. You had a sexual relationship with an older woman and there were consequences. Unfortunately, this is how the court will see it: you had a relationship and there were consquences. The courts are unlikely to consider the adoption agreement as valid and will only seek to establish the paternity. THAT IS WHY YOU NEED TO GET AN ATTORNEY. Get an attorney who practices in the state where the case is being heard. DO NOT ignore this issue either because if you do not respond appropriately the the state where she resides can refer it to the collection agency in the county where you reside. Ge an attorney.


Question: Can a woman file for child support and because the man never showed up to court the court grant her child support even though he never signed anything accepting paternity of the child? And if so how could you go about getting a paternity test done if 8 years has passed and and the man has only had telephone contact periodically with the woman. And the whole time he has been paying child support. If the tests finds that he is not the father can he try to get his money back?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: First-get a lawyer. Secondly, if she filed for child support--child support made attempts contact him--they would have tried to get him to sign papers admitting that he was the father and he would have had the opportunity to request a test which would have been granted--if he did not bother to respond then they would have taken the problem to the courts and the court most likely found him to be in default, which they can do, and declared him to be the legal father of the child. This is why he needs to have an attorney. Don't look to get any money back because even if he has the test and he is found NOT to be the father--the court can still hold him to his obligation to pay support by simply not reversing their decision. I am not saying "don't bother" but I am saying that he needs help to get himself out of his mess and that means a lawyer.


Question: have been paying $480.00 a month for child support(for 1 child) for almost 5 years(which I don't really know if im the father), but I just went to court and finally got reduced to $312.00. My ex was really mad because she wasn't getting all the money and she told the judge she didn't understand why it was being reduced because her son needs school supplies(her son is only 4 what school supplies costs $480.00 a month)That only leaves me with $900-1,000 a month I have 6 month old twins, my neice and my girlfreind to support my kids are suffering because I can't buy them clothes,toys, dipers alone are $250.00 a month. I did not sign the birth certificate or the recognition of paternity, I got a DNA test done twice but it was at the hospital that my ex- girlfreinds mom works(she said the test had to be taken there) the results came back both times tampered with. My questions are- legally was I supposed to pay child support for almost 5 years when theres no proof I am the father, And do you think the court should reduce child support lower than $312 a month? And is it true does the first born child get no less than 17% for child support and if true why? basically that tells my children there less important and they have to suffer
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Unfortunately, I cannot answer legal questions in this forum. However, it is highly inappropriate for a test to be performed where an interested party or that party's relatives work. I also raise an eyebrow to the fact that you never signed a paternity aknowlegement or a birth certificate. I hope that you take the time to speak to an attorney to see if anything can be done.


Question: Is it true that neither parent can give blood to their child, nor family members to be a proper match on blood donation?? > The child is A+,,dont know what the parent's are
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Whether or not a parent can donate depends on the blood type of the donor and the recipient. Whether they're related or not biologically isn't the important part. Parents who are type A or type B and who have a type O child cannot donate to that child because the A and B antigens in the donated blood would cause a potentially fatal reaction in the child. If a donor, parent or not, would be type O-, that donor could donate to anybody, including an A+ recipient. In short, there isn't enough information here to answer whether or not THESE parents could donate to THIS child. They may be able or they may not, depending on what their types are.


Question: if the baby's birthday is aug 27 when was the baby conceived?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Conception would have been somewhere between November 20th to around December 3rd


Question: I have a 2 yr old son. I have been with his father for the last 4 years. I am 1oo% sure that he is the father. I want him to get a paternity test so that he is also 100% sure he is the father. I don't want to involve the courts. I told him that I would pay for the services also. Is there a place close to braintree that I could go to. Our can you send me information on the home test.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: LETS TRY THIS AGAIN--THERE WAS PROBLEM WITH THE LINK: I can't remember if you are on the green line or on the red line. Nonetheless, you can actually go to our website and download a kit that only costs 210 dollars--it is our most popular product to date and you can get your results back in as little aa 5-7 business days. The name of the kit is called QuickHit and you want the paternity version-here is the link: GET Free Downloable Testing Kit


Question: I have a 2 yr old son. I have been with his father for the last 4 years. I am 1oo% sure that he is the father. I want him to get a paternity test so that he is also 100% sure he is the father. I don't want to involve the courts. I told him that I would pay for the services also. Is there a place close to braintree that I could go to. Our can you send me information on the home test.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I can't remember if you are on the green line or on the red line. Nonetheless, you can actually go to our website and download a kit that only costs 210 dollars--it is our most popular product to date and you can get your results back in as little aa 5-7 business days. The name of the kit is called QuickHit and you want the paternity version-here is the link: GET Free Downloable Testing Kit


Question: My daughter has a 7 yr. old son. As soon as the father of my grandson found out my daughter was pregnant, he left the state. It's taken all this time to find him. My daughter wants to establish paternity and request back support for 7 yrs. and continued support. He lives in another state. What does she have to do to establish paternity and how can she make him take a paternity test when he's 1500 miles away? Are there any legal repercussions he may face if he refuses to cooperate with paternity testing or, once paternity is established, if he refuses to pay support? This has been difficult for my daughter since she is disabled. And being disabled, she has no money to fight him in the courts. Any information you can provide will be greatly appreciated.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The thing that comes to mind when I read this is that she needs to file for child support--it then becomes the responsibility of the state to collect the money. They can track him down and actually work with any state in which he resides to get the money back. If you haven't filed for child support--do so --there is no shame in it. and it sounds like she needs the assistance. If he refuses to pay support they can do anthing from wage garnishment to imposing jail time to asking the IRS for help in garnishing his refunds--in some states they can even suspend his driver's permit.


Question: My exhusband after 17 years has decided that his two daughters are not his, cause he is 17 thousand dollars in debt to me for child support he has made out a praecipe for court to have them dna tested, Two things I would like to know could you tell me how much it would cost him for both daughters, and can I be forced into this.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I will be surprised if he is able to get a court admissible test since paternity has already been established by the children being born into the marriage. If he does get a court order then you are compelled to cooperate but, again, I would be very shocked if he was able to obtain an actual order.


Question: how can you determine paternity if 2 different men had intercourse with the same woman in a 5 day span. No birth control was used in either instance. The beginning of the woman's last cycle was dec 10th 2003. the intercourse took place on the 19th and 24th of december.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: you need to have at least one of them tested with a paternity test.


Question: Hi! I suspect I am a grandparent but the child's mother and my son are no longer living together. They live in separate states and I live in another state altogether. She says the child is my son's, he says it's not. As far as I know, a paternity test was not done. I do not see this girl, but I question my relationship to the baby. Is there a test that can be done to determine grandparent lineage?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Yes, you can do a grandparentage study and we have a home test kit for this very problem but with grandparentage testing you will need BOTH grandparents.


Question: I had a son 10 years ago.l His father passed away unexpectedly a month later and did not sign the birth certificate. How do I go about establishing paternity for him? There is no doubt among either family as to who the father is, But we really want to make it legal.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You could see if there are any deceased samples to work with--you will need th paternal grandparents permission to use them but the simplest way is to use BOTH grandparents in a grand parentage test.


Question: My husband is now questioning whether he is the father of our 5 year old daughter. I have no question but he wants DNA testing done. I have blood type A positive and so does our daughter. he doesn't know his blood type but says that he can't be the father if she has exactly the same blood type as I. Is this true? What kind of test is required of our daughter in order to get DNA? He says he is willing to pay for the test but I am curious to the cost of the testing.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I am not going to contact on the blood typing because you could not provide the father's type but let me say this if you don't do the dna test then this issue will never get settled. A court admissible test from our lab is 480 dollars while our home kit is 210 dollars.


Question: If my son enters a plea that he agrees that he is the child's father, subject to confirmation by genetic tests is he responible if the tests come back inconclusive?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The tests wont come back as inconclusive--that means the lab was unable to determine the outcome of test. The results will either be an inclusion or an exclusion.


Question: My fiancee is 27. He found the person that is supposed to be his biological father. His biological father has hung up and had his number blocked. We live in California, he lives in Texas. The birth took place in Louisiana. Since he is over 18, is it still possible for him to get a court mandated DNA test to prove paternity?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: you will need to speak to an attorney where the father resides and see if it is possible.


Question: Is it possible to have a paternity test while you are still pregnant? If so, are the home kits reliable? Also, how far along would you have to be to test.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Yes it is. Home kits are reliable for collecting the mother and the father in this case but the fetal sample still has to be collected by a doctor.


Question: How do i go about getting the man my mother says is my father to take the dna test? he said he doesn't think he's the father, but she says he is. Is there anything legal i can do?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The only thing that you can really do is just ask him--I suppose you could try to take him to court but consult an attorney if you do since you both are adults and it might be difficult to conpell him. Another option would be to test yourself against one of his children to see if you are siblings.


Question: If the male figure finds out he is not the father but has had sole custody of child since they were 2 yrs old, can the male figure relinquish his rights?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: only a court can determine the status of his rights--did he find out through some third party revelation or did he have a court admissible test that said he was not the father--you have to be able to prove your point to the court.


Question: is it possible for both parents to be white but have different race child. biologically.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: "Race" is a murky concept, and in come senses, it has no meaning. Two people whose ancestors have never been out of Northern Europe since the ancient ancestral peoples migrated there during (probably) the last Ice Age will not have a child who looks like the people who presently live in equatorial Africa. Those Northern Europeans would be classified as "white" by the writer of the question. However, in North America, we are a group of peoples who have lived together for a couple of hundred years now and whose ancestors have come from practically everywhere else on the planet. We have become a very mixed society genetically during that time, and the term "race" has become a much more subjective concept, usually based on somebody's perception of physical characteristics. A child who is called "white" by one person may not be identified the same way by another person, and physical characteristics are inherited in a very complex and often unclear way. What makes the child in the question a "different race child?" Does the child have dark hair where the parents are blonde? That can happen. But as far as any other characteristics go, I have no idea what the questioner means by "white" and "different race child."


Question: Is it possible for a mother to be a carrier of sickle cell "trait" (her father had sickle cell "disease") and the father not have any trait or disease of sickle cell, and their child to be diagnosed with Sickle Cell "Disease"? The father is 100% sure he does not carry the trait, the child 100% has the disease with over 7 blood transfusions and spleen removal. I see no possibility after all of my research. However, the father took a court administered test that proved him to be the father. Is it possible that the court system label him as the father just so the child would not be fatherless?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The court would have made its determination in the face of the genetic test results, and if the man had been excluded by the tests, the court would not have named him the father "just so the child would not be fatherless." UNLESS paternity had already been adjudicated or admitted prior to the testing. Courts are reluctant to vacate a paternity conclusion if the man has been in the child's life for some period of time, even if test results subsequently show him not to be the biological father. Remember, the court decides on the basis of what is best for THE CHILD. If, for a period of a couple of years, a man has behaved as a child's father, a court normally would consider it in the child's best interests to preserve that de facto relationship. As for the sickle cell situation: It is correct that full blown sickle cell disease requires that the person have the trait from both parents. People can develop a genetic abnormality even when a parent doesn't have it. It's called mutation, and that's a possibility here, if everything else has been ruled out.


Question: Is it possible to freeze semen in a household refrigerator and then use it a month later to get pregnant?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I wouldn't bet on it. Facilities that store sperm for artificial insemination purposes store it in liquid nitrogen, which is at a temperature of -196 degrees Celsius. Your household freezer may be at -20 degrees at best. Why does that matter? Because even when frozen, sperm cells will still use up the chemical energy they need to swim to an egg. How fast they use it up depends on how cold they are; the colder the storage temperature, the longer they'll last. Plus, and this is probably more important, the RATE at which they're frozen will be a lot faster in liquid nitrogen, and when things freeze quickly, ice crystals are less likely to form. Crystals of ice are deadly to living cells because they will puncture the cells' membranes. Stuff just takes too long to freeze in the typical household freezer (how long did it take you to make more ice for that last bottle of soda you drank?)


Question: my friends wife had an affair with his brother. she got pregnent and since had the baby. the court has ordered a paternity test (DNA). will this test be able to detrimine which brother is the biological father? how is this deterimed?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Yes, the test will--basically it is just a matter of doing enough testing until one of them produces two exclusions.


Question: I was with a woman for 8 months who was to get a divorce, but never did. She separated with her husband and was living with me for about a month and a half. She became pregnant while with me, now her husband had a vasectomy four and a half years ago. She has since went back to her husband to reconcile the marriage, I want to be in this childs life and she and her husband do not. She is doing everything to prevent me from doing so. I filed with the Department of Vital Statistics a Paternity registry. What are my options? What can I do? She has drained me financialy while we were together. I have two boys that I am raising alone after the death of my first wife, I am only 31 and I am a student as well. I know I will have to pay child support, but I really want
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Wow! I truly wish I could just solve your problem right here but honestly you need a good family law attorney. There may be nothing that you can do but you need expert advice who can give you some options. Get the attorney and I hope you do well. Good luck.


Question: I took a paternity test through court and found out that i am not the father of this child.I want to know what steps to take to changing this child's last name, why should it have mines? is this situation uncommon? Would the court understand and force the change?I need answers or direction to handling this.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Generally, it is not the child's last name that is important it is whether that last name is legally linked to a father. In your case the court has ruled that you are not the father based on the rsults of a dna test. The mother can pretty much call her child by any last name that she chooses but that does NOT make you the father. If you want the name changed you will have to take it up with the court--it really is their decision--you may want to consult with your attorney on this before you take up the issue to see if the expenditures and the tim involved is really worth the effort.


Question: I WASENT AT THE HOSPITAL DURING THE BIRTH OF MY DAUGHTER BECAUSE OF AN TEMPORARY VICTOMS PROTECTION ORDER MY EX-GIRLFRIEND HAD ON ME AT THE TIME I WAS NOT ABLE TO SIGN THE BIRTH CERTIFICATE.MY DAUGHTER IS 2 YEARS OLD I HAVE ESTABLISHED PATERNITY THAT IM THE FARTHER I HAVE VISITATION AND PAY CHILD SUPPORT FAITHFULLY WITHOUT AN COURT ORDER.THE MOTHER AFTER TWO YEARS STILL REFUSE TO LET ME ADD MY LAST NAME TO THE BIRTH CERTIFICATE OUTSIDE OF COURT.SHE HAS A 10 YEAR OLD SON FROM A PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIP WITH THE SAME LAST NAME AS HIS FATHER.DO I HAVE THE SAME RIGHTS? WHAT ARE THE LAWS IN OKLAHOMA?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: What are the laws in Oklahoma--I have no idea. You need to consult with an attorney who practices there.


Question: I have a friend who was married to a women, he is from a different country and did not come to the US until after the child was born. The women had the baby and then requested that the father take a paternity test. The test confirmed that heis the father of the child. The problem is that the mother did not put the father on the birth certificate, what does the father have to do to get his name on the birth certificate? This is in the state of Massachusetts.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Contact the Bureau of vital statistics in your state capital and ask them for instruction on how to make the change. It will have to be made in a court of law since a birth certificate is a legal document. This agency should help you get started.


Question: To be short and simple can a man tested and come out to be the father later take another test and come out to not be the father. How often would you say this occurs
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I cannot speculate on how often that would occur. You didn't give me a lot of information to work with. It is possible I suppose but that would imply the need for a third test to confirm the validity of either test.


Question: Where do i go for a paternity test in chicago.The IRS took out money on my tax return for a child that i found out that was not mine.When I do take a test and it proves he's not mine do i get my money back?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: you can go to our website, fairfaxidlab.com, and order a test there and we have a coordinator who will set up a test for you in the chicago area. As for the IRS--that is between you and them--you will have to ask them directly but I suspect that they are acting on a court order and getting your money back may be very complicated.


Question: My ex husband just found his biological mothers family. He now says he wants to run DNA test on he and our son to check for any history of illness or disease in that family. Can DNA test be used for this? I thought it was for paternity or identification.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Paternity Identification is exactly what it is for. There are molecular (DNA) tests that can be done by labs that hire genetic counselors such as the ones at Genetics & IVF Institute but he would would have to be very specific about what disease he wants to test for. This sounds more like he wants a paternity test.


Question: My brother has a son who is seven years old with a one night stand. But when he was born the mother did not want to have a test done. His name was not on the birth certificate. She applied for welfare and they told her that they needed a father so she put my brother as the father. But she had multiple partners before the one night stand. He was ordered to take a paternity test. It wasn't the swabs it was done by blood and they took four viles. The test came back that there was a possiblity that he was the father but there was no one else to test. So he had another test done at *********** here in San Diego, CA which was also done by blood. It came back and said that there was a discrepancy. When he called to ask about the discrepancy they said the person who had done the test resigned. Now my question is this Because he was in the system already and they check the social security number did they not want to go against the first test.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Your question is vague at best and doesn't provide me with a lot of detail so I could not even hazard a guess as to what the discrepancy. You are in california so that means that DA/Family Support is handling your brothers case. They contract with an outside laboraory that is accredited by the AABB. I think that the place in San Diego may also be accredited but you had a test done by someone who no longer seems to be around. Secondly, if he was tested by this other lab then he should have receive a test result. Regardless, you will have to have a lot more evidence and be able to present it to the court that adjudicated your brother in order for the DA's office to reverse their decision.


Question: I am currently with my boyfriend, but we were broken up for 2 months. My LMP was on November the 28th and went off on the 2nd of december. On the 2nd I had sex with the guy that I was with when me and my boyfriend was broken up. Then on the 3rd I had sex with my current and boyfriend of three years. I am now pregnant and want to do a paternity test, before the baby is born because if it's not my boyfriends I don't want the baby. My boyfriend is about to go over to Iraq and I want to do the paternity test, I can still use the other man? And will my doctor perform the test needed and do I have to pay for it or will my insurance pay for it? Please help me.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Your doctor will not perform a paternity test. It will have to be performed by a paternity laboratory. Insurance will not cover this type of test and the collection of the fetal sample must be done with the approval of your physician. You can use EITHER father for the test.


Question: my ex-girlfriend had a baby about a year ago and was saying that it was mine, but now that i want a paternity test done her and her new boyfriend are denying it. is there anyway that i can still get the test done? and if so who would i contact?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: without her cooperation, you will need to obtain a court order.


Question: My husband was accused of being the father of a child. He took the paternity test and the child was not his. Before the paternity test occured she named him as the father on the birth certificate and the child has his last name.The mother refuses the cooperate with the matter. She will not change it willing. Does she have the right not to change it? What rights does my husband have to correct this problem?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: not exactly. A birth certificate is a legal document--as such, it can only be altered in a court of law. You will need to take the issue and the test results to court. By the way if your results came from a home test kit, the courts will not accept your results. You will need to present a court ready test.


Question: I have a problem my girl-friend is pregnant and I don't believe it is mine, what should I do
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Generally,you are going to have to wait until the baby is born. You could have a prenatal test but ONLY if the mother and her doctor agree to cooperate.


Question: my partner slept with a girl august 2002, later the girl said she was pregnant and had a miscarage and then monthes later she said she was pregnant and in august of last year 2003 she had the baby now she is saying that the baby is my partners is this possible that the baby is his when it was born one year after they slept together
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: consider that the dates that she is giving you may be inaccurate. That being said--do not take my comments to imply that she lied to you. Many times, people can get the dates ocnfused. So it is possible that it could be the other guys--you may want to consider testing yourself against the child with one of our QuickHIT kits. There are links to it all over this board.


Question: CAN 86% COUNT AS MALE BEING THE FATHER OF CHILD OR WOULD RANGES HAVE TO BE IN THE 90'S.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: 86 percent says that he may be the father with a 14 percent chance that he is NOT the father. No court in the US will accept this result. Retest.


Question: Can two positive parents have a child with a neg blood type?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: yes


Question: I was 16 yrs old when I had my first son. His biological father has been incarcerated since I first became pregnant. My current boyfriend has raised my son since he was about 7 months. My son will be 5 this year. We plan to marry and he wants to adopt my son but we don't know how to go about doing this. My son doesn't have a father on his birth certificate and it hasn't been proven who his father is. I know we have to do a paternity test and I think the father has to give up his rights but it's difficult to know what to do since the father has been incarcerated for 5 years, and will be for an estimated 20 more. Please help.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You are right of course--for a child to be adopted the father has to be confirmed--usually with a paternity test. Your best bet would be to contact him and see if he will voluntarily consent to the test--you then will need to talk to the prison administration about HOW to get the samples collected. After that you make arrangements with a laboratory and they will help coordinate the sample collection.


Question: Want to know who is telling the truth. Mother remarried when I was a year old. I had an older brother who's fathers name was on my birth certificate but, was always told he was not my father. The day he died my mother tells me he was my father to me only but no one else. Then she never addmitted it again. My brother said he was not my real father. I tried not the think about it and took my brothers at his word; thier was a big estate too. My brother recently pasted away with a sudden heart attach just like his father, with no warning. Now I have to know. How do I do a sibling test on my deceit brother?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You probably should have done this with him when he was alive--you can exhume his body and samples can be collected OR you could see, if he was autopsied, if there are samples left over from the autopsy.


Question: Is it possible for a hospital to take a sample and send to the lab were mother has set up the dna testing.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: as long as the hospital agrees--yes.


Question: Hi, I have a three year old daughter, at first my husband didn't think she was his because we were separated for six months and then six weeks after we got back together I am pregnant. Well, after seven years of being together we are now in the final stages of our divorce, and I feel that he somewhat still thinks this child is his. How can I do a paternity test on him without him knowing it is me. Would a sibling test work the same way?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: In your case, I would say a sibling study is he best bet. If you are the common mother and you suspect that he is the common father you can test to see if the children are half or whole sibloings.


Question: I am going to a local lab for a paternity test this week. How can I be sure they are a legitimate lab? The arragements and appointments have all been made by my fathers secretary. Does it make any difference that my mother is not a part of the test? How can I be sure the test is done on my father and me? We have different appointment dates which seems odd to me. Is it possible to alter or "fix" the test? I am in California.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Several red flags pop up for me: one, the father's secretary is handling the set up to schedule an in lab test--it may be nothing but it raises an eyebrow for me. especially in light fo the fact that you have separate appointment dates. 2. Local lab in California--ok--I am absolutely amazed that almost ALL Californians that I have encountered seem to think that local is better which is simply NOT so.. --is this an aabb certified lab--if they are not get another laboratory. Lastly, motherless testing is routine so do not worry about that issue. It is absolutely possible to fix a test. We do not pass along that type of information on this board but you can rest assured that it is a possibility that you should consider. If you are uncomfortable with the current situation--talk to the secretary and insist that you attend the father's collection--make sure that not only do you witness the collection but also the packaging and the shipping of the test kit if it is being sent elsewhere. Also, it never hurts to check with with the Better Business Bureau and in California call the District Attorney's office and contact consumer affairs to see if there are any complaints. Good luck with your test.


Question: I recieved a phone call from my ex wife tonight and she told me that my daughter wasn't mine. That a patinity test had been done a year ago and that i'm nto the father. Ive been paying back child support for some time,my daughter now 34 years old and now knowing she's not my daughter, do I still have to pay back child support? If i still have to , can i go after the real father in court
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Well, I wouldn't jump the gun yet. Your going to need proof and ia phone call from your ex will not cut it. She needs to provide you with a copy of the report which you can then take to an attorney. Once you get a copy contact me through this site and we can arrange for you to fax it and I will take a look at it. What I am looking for is to see if the test was altered, if the lab is accredited (which you need for court admissibility) and if the results came from a regular test OR a home kit. The lawyer will have to advise you on the other issues but generally, and check this with an attorney, if the child was born into the marriage then you may NOT be able to contest the support.


Question: MY SON'S NEW GIRLFRIEND IS NOW PREGNANT. HE IS ALMOST CERTAIN THAT IT IS BUT WOULD LIKE TO BE TESTED TO BE SURE. HE DOES NOT WANT TO UPSET THE MOTHER AND WOULD LIKE TO BE TESTED WITHOUT HER KNOWLEDGE. SHE HAD AN AMNIO DONE 2 WEEKS AGO - CAN HE CALL THE DOCTOR AND HAVE DNA TESTING DONE WITH THE AMNIO FLUID AND HIS SWAB WITHOUT MOTHER'S KNOWLEDGE?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: No. Two things to keep in mine--ONE--you waited to long to use the sample even with the mother's consent--and secondly--doctors can be skittish about doing one that is up front and above board--No doctor is going to risk his career to do a paternity test on the sly. Simply put, you cannot these samples without the mother's permission.


Question: Hi I am a Forensic Science student in England and in one of our subjects we have touched on Paternity Testing and working out the combined paternity index as well as the conclusions taken from it. > I do not fully understand when it comes to this, so is it possible to get a combined paternity index of 8.565 x 10 to the power of 10 and 1352887658. If so what conclusion can be taken from this?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The question needs to be rephrased. I can follow the "8.565 x 10 to the power of 10" part, assuming that you can't do exponential notation on your computer. The remainder of your sentence, though, is a puzzler. Is this a different paternity index value for another situation? How does it pertain to the remainder of your question. Perhaps a bit of puncutuation with commas might be enough to clarify.


Question: hi, i have a 4 year old son and have no doubt who the father is,however there is no legal proof to say this man is the father.i have contact with him but he doesn't have too much to do with my child.he is in a relationship with someone and doesn't want her to find out.they also have a daughter.i know i can't do anything as far as filing for support unless i prove paternity but how do i get it done when he may not agree with it,and may refuse to take the test?he still lives in new jersey and i now live in south carolina,please help......
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You need to file for child support with the Child Support Ofice in your state (local office). They will contact him and give him a choice. He can take the test OR he can be named father by default. Setting up testing between states is very easy. DO NOT opt for a home kit in this case since you have indicated that he wants nothing to do with the child--instead, let the child support people handle your problem and get everything set up so that he has to go to a lab where there are witnesses and will have to present valid id.


Question: I was married to a woman that had one kid that I know is mine and then she was pregnant again delivered twins 6 months along she was in Missouri and I was in Minnesota. Since then I have very good proof that the one of the twins that made it may not be mine. He was delivered in Missouri and I wasnt present when the delivery came she had a order of protection on me throughout the labor and I feel she may have forged my name on the birth certificate, since we were married at the time still. I just saw the child the first time a month ago and he looks nothing like me and her current fiance has a canny resembelence to the child not to mention I corrispond with my ex-wifes fiances ex- wife and I through those conversations and my gut feeling make me feel it would be best for a dna/blood test to be done. I would love to explain further on this matter because i feel the child isnt mine but i am not sure how the process goes and being that the child lives in missouri and me in minnesota. I will be payin g a
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I am assuming that you will be paying in Georgia. I would suggest, especially due to the complexity of the situation, that you seek an attorney and get this sorted out with someone in person. If you have proof that an attorney can use, he will be able to help you.


Question: If a woman files a paternity claim against a man through the district attorney, how long does it take to get the appt for the test, then how long for the results, and if it is a positive test being that man is the father, what are his rights and options regarding child support and visiting rights?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Interesting questions. I have spoken to people who have waited for as long as 6 months to get an appointment for a test. Results come back to the DA in about two weeks but take on more time for their overburdened case workers to process the results and hope they get back to you if you are NOT the father. As far as rights and options, you will need to discuss that with an attorney.


Question: My husband and I will be granted temporary custody of his seven year old biological daughter soon, and a paternity test was done on him and the child a year ago which determined 99.99% acuracy of parenthood; however, he informed me last night that both of his biological brothers slept with this girl at the same time that the child was conceived. He is now questioning the absolute accuracy of his paternity test. Is there a possiblity that one of his brothers could be the biological father, and that he is not?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I do not mean to be cavalier about this but there is one way to find out since you are being granted temporary custody of the child. Have the brothers tested using a home kit solution. You can actually download one from our site--just follow one of the links that I have posted on the board. When you do these tests-MAKE SURE THE LAB KNOWS THAT ALL THREE BROTHERS WERE WITH THE WOMEN DURING THE CONCEPTION PERIOD.


Question: We had a test done on Nov.14 ,it is now Jan.1,2004,we still have'nt heard anything yet.A friend said if the baby is not my husbands that we won't get any results back at all.We just won't ever hear from them again.Is this true? We live in the state of Florida.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: That is not true. You are entitled to results if you participated in the test. It is a good idea NOT to sit and wait for the results to magically appear. There are two labs contracted in Florida to do the testing--one is primary and one is secondary (to handle confirmation testing and such). Turnaround time can be usually 2 to three weeks. HOWEVER, consider that the results of these tests are being placed into the hands of overburdened caseworkers so follow up on your situation is a must. Give them a call and call until you get the results.


Question: fisrtly, thanks for taking the time to help me > nine months ago i found out my girlfreind was pregnant. for nine months i've been getting really excited, and on christmas eve she told me that she had a one night stand. when i asked her when. she said just before she fell pregnant. now that the babys was born on the 22nd dec 2003. just as a guide to who maybe the father. if im blood group A RH+ and she is b+ what sould the babys blood group be. i still have to give a DNA test maybe, but i need to know if it an't my son from the start.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The types would be A, B, AB or O The Rh for the child would be negative. Consider using one of our speedy QuickHit downloadable paternity test kits which you can obtain at our website here


Question: Message: I need to know two possibilities: Both possibilities are about bloodtype, and possibility of fatherhood. Possibility #1: The mother is O- the child is A+ the father is A+? Possibility #2: The mother is O- the child is A+ the father is AB+? My question is, what would the probability of paternity be? Who would (percentage) be most likely to be the father of the A+ child with the O- mother; Father #1, or Father #2?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: We cannot speculate on the probability of paternity based on blood type information alone. You can go here to check on the different blood type combinations. When you get there click on "Blood Type Predictor".


Question: My son is now 21 yrs. old and he still asks me if his dad is his real dad because his father and I both have O+ blood and he has A+. Along with his questions,people look at me strangely when i tell them the problems I had with my son when he was born. He had jaundus because of the transission. They told me that he was A+O when he was born. Please send me an answer so that I may show him or anyone else who questions his paternity that I am not an adultress. That this is possible. Thank-you
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: An O+ and another O+ will yield either an O+ OR O-. I have never heard of an A+O blood type. Perhaps you misunderstood. Here is my advice and I hope that you take it: Have yourself, the child, and the father RE-TYPED to confirm the types that you quoted to me. Lastly, consider having yourself, the child and the father tested using one of our QuickHIT paternity test kits. They are very inexpensive and the turnaround time to get back the results are fast. Taking the test does not brand you an adultress and it can be done discreetly IN YOUR HOME privately so that no one but your family and a witness knows. Just recontact me through this board if you have additional questions.


Question: I have a 6 years old daughter and born November 27th 1997. I had sex with her father May 7th or 8th 0f 1997, would this make him the father. I didn't have sexually intercourse with anyone since january of 1997.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: First, we will not say whether or not someone is the father based on the calculation of the ocnception date. If the date of birth is November 27th then the child would have been conceived somewhere between February 19th and March 4th.


Question: A women is stating she is pregnant with a mans child and is going for state assistance. when applying she had to file with demestic relations. The man beleaves he is not the father. Is it possible to get a paternity test ordered before birth to prevent this action? If so how accurate are they prenatal?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I have never heard of domestic relations taking on a case until after the baby is born. You may want to call DR and confirm but I am sure that I am correct. They may contact him to sign something saying he is the father--if they do then he should immediately ask them for a paternity testing BEFORE he signs. They will most likely give him the test. Don't look for DR to even consider this case or testing until the baby is born.


Question: Message: On Feb. 13, 2003 I slept w/ partner a. (unprotected) On the 14, 2003 my menstrual cycle started and ended on the 19th On the 19th I had intercourse w/ partner b. (unprotected) we slept together w/ each other until early March and he was the only partner I had. On March 7, 2003, I had a yeast infection and blood in urine. My friend suggested I take a pregnancy test and I did w/ a positive result. (First Response) That same night I was with partner c. and had sex (unprotected) I slept w/ him for the next few months (unprotected) On March 17, 2003, I went to Dr. and did not remember LMP date. An transvaginal ultrasound was done. GEST SAC SEEN YOLK SAC SEEN. . .NO FETAL POLE. . APPROX. 4-5 WKS On May 15, 2003 a second ultrasound was done- (MY MEDICAL RECORDS SHOW THE FOLLOWING, BUT I DON'T KNOW WHAT THIS MEANS) OB AUA:14w2d EDD (AUA) :NOV 11, 2003 FL/BPD: 60% (-) FETAL BIOMETRY #1 #2 #3 Mean UA Range BPD(Had) 2.61 2.61 cm 14w4d 13w2d16w FL(Hoh) 1.57 57cm 13w6d Comments: HEART AND MOTION SEEN My doctor said the EDD was Nov. 23,2003 based on LMP and we would keep that Then at 18 wks or 20 wks. Ultrasound showed Nov. 9, 2003 as my due date and Dr. stated Nov. 11, 2003 was the due date to go w/ because the 2 were similar ultrasound results and it was accurate At what would have been 32 wks I read that 1st trimester ultrasound readings were the most accurate w/ a 4/5 window of error. I said to Dr. and he looked at the ultrasounds and changed due date back to Nov. 23, 2003 I gave birth. Man B. was tested and no match to DNA results. It is hard to understand because he was my only partner when I thought conception was possible. A buccal swab test was done at ***************. They said there is a 1 in 10,000 error rate. Is that true? I spoke to another Dr. re. the experience and he suggested 1st preg. test was false pos. and man c. be tested because he would be most likely w/ ultrasound results and man a. was least possible based on events. What is true about ultrasounds and the accuracy of their dates? I want to know if a, b or c is the father. Does this seem like the results of DNA could have been messed up? Man B is very successful and I fear he could have done something to ensure his DNA did not prove his relationship to the child. He took off to another country before test. Test was done and then the results. Please help.... Can DNA by buccal swab be made to look like the individual was having it tested, but placed some foreign aid to give off DNA of another to give them innocence.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: One thing glares out at me like a sore thumb when I see what you have written. You had Man B test and he was excluded so you have immediately concluded, based on the doctor's evidence, which keeps changing and as you have documented, that the lab that performed your test is wrong and that someone must have tampered with the sample. That is always a possiblity but it is not a credible supposition unless you have Man C tested. By the way is there a Man A? If there is you should have him tested as well. You have to realize that ALL of the the information that the doctors are giving you is NOT gospel. It is only a guess based on periodic monitorings of your pregnancy. That is why things kept changing on you. If I were a doctor and I told you that you had cancer and had only a month to live, I can guarantee you that the first thing that you would do would be to get a second opinion. In a sense that is what you are doing when you are posting here but you need to eliminate the other variables from your testing scenario--The other two men. Have those men tested.


Question: What Paternity tests are performed befor the birth of a child and what are the procedures for the tests?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: CVS and Amniotic fluid collections. You may discuss the procedures in detail with the mother's physician who will have to collect those samples.


Question: My question is this: If a mother refuses to do paternity test when said father asks for proof, can he refuse to sign his name to the birth certificate? Also is it possible for the mother to give the said fathers name to the hospital to be put on the bc without his consent or his actual presence at the birth? If this occurs what legal ramifications could occur for both parties?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: we will not discuss legal ramifications--that is for attorneys. The hospital cannot force you to sign a birth certificate. The father has to sign in order for his name to be placed on the certificate. Again, discuss this with a qualified attorney.


Question: Is it possible to do a paternity test after 22 weeks? Or do you then have to wait until the child is born?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The problem is not the test--it can be done at anytime--the problem is going to be finding someone who will be willing to collect a sample after 22 weeks. The Institute (GIVF) does not collect after the 22nd week.


Question: my boyfriend has a mabey baby that has recently come into our lives. He is 4 years old. It has brought alot of drama to our lives because i don't feel he looks anything like him and he dosen't know. what my question is is how accurate are these test you recieve on the internet? and are non admissable dna test any cheaper then admissable dna tess?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: This is a very good question. First, make sure the company is an actual laboratory and NOT an internet front. You just do not know what you are going to get. We have encounterede a laboratory that operates out of a PO BOX in Canada--they do a lot of internet promotion and apparently pick up a lot of business. As a result, this lab picks up a lot of complaints and re-tests because their client just aren't comfortable with the results. Legitimate labs will NEVER give you results over the telephone--if they do then your confidentiality will be violated. ALWAYS GET A WRITTEN REPORT FROM THE LAB YOU ARE USING--ACCEPT NOTHING ELSE. The other thing that I am noticing is that some of these fronts claim AABB certification when in FACT they may be referencing their testing to an AABB Lab. Is this OK--yes and NO. IF you see the internet front's name on the report and NOT the actual lab who tested then the test is nothing more then a home test and cannot be used in court. Prices--well, home kits are genrally cheaper--our home kits are only 210 dollars and you download them so that you can do you collection the same day that you inquire with the lab--the advantage is that you get a faster turnaround time. Compare to our full service court admissible testing which is 480 dollars-the QuickHIT is 270 dollars cheaper. Lastly, DO NOT BUY KITS FROM COMPANIES THAT ONLY DO HOME TESTS--BUY THE TESTS FROM AABB LABS THAT ACTUALLY EXIST IN THE REAL WORLD. Don't leave your life decisions to internet fronts.


Question: Can paternity be established before the birth of a child. If so, how soon in to the pregnancy?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: yes. 10 weeks.


Question: My son was ordered to pay child support for an 8 year old girl born to an unknown woman in another state. He was contacted regarding this case, but was not represented in court - he thought they just had the wrong person and he didn't need to do anything about it. Since his only contact is with a Support Enforcement Agency and they will not give out any information (such as the mother's or child's name, etc.), is there a way to find out if he really is the biological father? We have already tried to contact the court where the case was heard and they refuse to answer ANY questions.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It sounds like he did not respond in time and he was found to be in default--odd that he is not being afforded any information. Have him get an attorney in the state where the case is being heard and tell the Attorney EVERYTHING. Bottom line and I am sure the attorney will tell you this too--if he is the father of that child and has been named as such and is paying support then he has parental rights just like you would as a grandparent so get the attorney and find out what they are.


Question: If only the supposed father's dna and the child's was tested, can you tell if the sample is male or female(the father's). I'm worried the mother is trying to pull something over on us.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: This is a good question and the answer is yes. Just contact the laboratory who did the test and ask them to confirm the sex of the child.


Question: My wife has had a one night stand and a little girl was brought into this world....my wife informed me that she took a hair from my brush and had a paternity test done and I was excluded...I have been reading your sight and I see that a folicle /root is needed....and 60-80 samples are needed...since the lab where the test was run gave a exclusion verdict (99%) is there a possibility that they may be wrong?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Paul, I would do another test--you can get one of our quickHit tests from our website at Get Test Kit The kit is free to download-is only 210 dollars and you will get the results back in 5-7 business days. Did you actually see a report or are you taking her word? The reason that I am asking is that there is no such thing as a 99 percent exclusion--if you were excluded the percent would be 0. 99 percent usually indicates the possiblity that you ARE the father. ONE MORE THING: if this is the case, do not fault your wife--it may be that she misunderstood the results--we get a lot of calls from people who misread the results. That is why you should do another test to confirm.


Question: how would you determain paternity when my father is dead. i was put up for adoption when i was a baby. i foud who he is and my grandparents would like a paternity test done.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If you have BOTH parents of the man you suspect is the father, then you can just go over to our website and down load one of our grandparentage test kits--they are only 210 dollars. If this is not the case then contact me again and give me more detail and I will try to help you out.


Question: I live in the state if Massachusetts and I am in the process of trying to obtain child support for my child I had out of wed-lock. I had blood tests done in 1995 from one of two possible fathers. He was proven not to be the biological father. I am aware that blood tests have been replace by the more favorable swab-tests. My question is this, does my child need to have a swab test done again even though I have his results from the blood test. Can these results be compared to a test if the alleged father took a swab test now?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: These are very good questions. 1995 was about when the states were just starting to get comfortable with DNA and HLA was slowly fading away as the preferred testing method. You did not specify which test that you had in 1995--did you have an HLA test? Did you have a DNA test OR did you have a test panel consisting of both HLA AND DNA? A blood test can be either and HLA or a DNA test. A Swab is only for DNA testing. To answer your question let me say this: IF you had the HLA test then YES you can take the results from the 1995 test and compare them to the new test PROVIDED that the second man also has the HLA test done. DNA is another matter--you need to run the test each time so labs generally keep samples left over from the first test in storage in case a second test has to be performed. That is the good news--the BAD news is that most labs only hold the extra dna for a limited amount of time--we hold specimens for three years for examples so it is liely that IF it is a DNA test then you should just start from scratch and have all of the samples recollected. IF YOU HAD THE HLA TEST then you will hae to locate a lab who will do HLA testing and they are getting rarer and rarer as time goes by.


Question: As a result of a brief affair, I became a father. The woman lives in another state and is raising the child with another man. I have never seen the child and she wants me to file a termination of paternity. Can I have an attorney draw up the papers here in my state and then send the papers for her to file with the court in her state?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You definitely need an attorney for this. You did not say whether or not this child was CONFIRMED to be yours. It might be a good idea to have a paternity test to make sure that this child is really yours. I don't say this to imply anything but you may or may not remember the case of baby jessica--the child was put up for adoptiona and the biological father appeared out of nowhere and regained custody of the child. It might be a good idea for you to have a simple test to make sure that you are the father so talk to your attorney about this aspect and good luck.


Question: If any man has two genetic locis or locus at each marker than he can transmit to a child that could be his then shouldn't there be two matching in echa test insiead of one of in each?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Each person has two markers at each locus. Each person also has two parents. The markers come from each individual's parents; one comes from the mother, and the other one comes from the father. Consequently, one marker at each locus will match with the mother, and other one will match with the biological father. There must be a match with both parents.


Question: I have two boys, one definitely look very similar to my family. I have doubts about the second. Can o sent a sample of hair collected from the second boy and one from me for the paternity test.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You need a lot of hair--with roots--at LEAST 60-80 follicles to start. It is also expensive--it would be simpler for you to obtain one of our downloadable QuickHIT test kits and just do a discrete swab.


Question: MY HUSBAND HAS O POSTIVE BLOOD TYPE, HE HAS 11 BROTHERS AND SISTERS, I KNOW ONE OF THE SISTERS IS RH NEGATIVE, I DO NOT KNOW THE BLOOD TYPES OF THE PARENTS. IS THIS POSSIBLE TO HAVE O AND RH BLOOD IF THEY HAVE THE SAME FATHER.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I could not answer that question because I do not know th e types of the parents. You could go to Fairfaxcryobank.com and use the blood type predictor there. That way you could sit down at your leisure and experiment with the different combinations of types.


Question: my divorce was finalized 1 month ago, and 2 weeks ago I found out im 4 months pregnant. What is the process for the fathers name to be on the birth certificate and have all legal rights to the baby and not my ex husband? There is no chance that my ex husband is the father being we'v been in seperate countrys for 8 months. I live in washington state and my divorce was done in nevada. any help would be greatly appriciated.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I guess the baby is being born outside the marriage then so you should clarify paternity with an attorney. As to the birth certificate, get the man tested that you think is the father first--don't let the hospital pressure you into signing the certificate until you have taken care of this piece of business. Check with your attorney for the process and also clarify the process with your local clerk of court's office as well as the bureau of vital statistics located in your state capital. They maintain the birth records.


Question: My daughter is 2.5 years old. I was married at the time of conception and birth of my daughter, however I had been having an affair. I put my (then) husband's name on the bc. Later we divorced and we did a non-court admissable dna test that came back negative for my ex and 99.9% for the man I had the affair with. My attorney at the time told me that there was nothing I could do to have the name changed on the bc because she was conceived and born into a marriage. So, the divorce became final and I have joint custody with my ex-husband. I now want the birth certificate to be corrected. Can I force the bio. father to take a court admissable dna test? Will he have to pay child support? This is a matter of setting the records straight and doing the right thing, not necessarily a way to rid my daughter of my ex-husband. Please let me know. I have been told by two attorneys that there isn't anything I can do, I find that hard to believe. It would seem that the law would want accurate inform ati
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: This is what is entirely wrong with our court system. If you made the baby you should pay the baby. You are absolutely correct--the bio father should have his name on the BC. Unfortunately, in your state that may not be possible. I would try a couple of more lawyers and see if you can locate any support groups who can offer assistance. Talk to your congressman. Right now, I doubt if you could force the bio to take a court admissible test simply because the court will not allow or accept one even it it is court ready. This is not fair but in your state it may be the law. I will you the very best with your journey and let us know if you find anything so that we can pass it on.


Question: my girlfriend is 16 weeks now but latly i have been haveing some doubts about me being the father. can we get a test done at this time or will it harm the baby.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You could get a test done but only with a doctor's consent. It requires an amniotic fluid extraction which is invasive and can only be performed by a physician. You will need samples from yourself AND from the suspected father. You can save yourself some money by using our QuickHIT home test kit to do you and the mother and give a copy of the test kit to the doctor to do the etraction fo the child. The doctor can send everything in to the lab. Generally, not including the doctor's fee a prenatal paternity test can cost as much as 780 dollars but by using the QuickHit system the test would cost around 490 dollars.


Question: Last year august i spend 3 weeks with my lover at his home i got there on August 5, 2002 and we had sex from august 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, i would have ovulated on augus 9, 2002....but on that same august 9 i had sex with another guy later that night.....and on august 10, 2002 i also had sex with another guy that night in all i had sex with 2 different guys including the guy i spend the 3 weeks with.....what i need ti know who do you think would be the father of my baby...i gave gave to a son on april 23, 2003...but my orginal due datw was may 1, 2003 but because i had to do a c-sextion the baby was taken via surgery 8 days earlier....my baby looks like the guy that i spend the 3 weeks with...my i need to know for certain who the right father of my baby is...you know how they say that perms lives inside the body for a few days....i am desperately inneed of your answer
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Honestly, I had a very hard time making sense of this question. You have an e.e. cummings thread going on here with the total lack of punctuation, reversed letters (I do that sometimes when I type too fast) and a lot of mis-spellings. I am saying this because I have to sort though a lot of these and this slows down the posting. NOW to your question. IF I am reading you correctly you had sex with three different men within a close time proximity of each other. I am assuming that perms does not refer to your hair so you mean sperm. I have a feeling that you do NOT want any of these fathers to know. We cannot tell you who the father of your child is based on this information. You could calculate backwards 40 weeks from the child's birth date and then account for the premature nature of the birth. THAT is where your problem, as you see it, lies. Here is what I do in situations like this: Let's start with your original due date which is May 1st--that would put the date of conception somewhere between July 26th and August 9th. NOW let's go back a week to the 23rd and using that date let's calculate again and that would put the date of conception somewhere between July 20th and August 3rd. My money is on the first calculation but you can take your pick. Unfortunately, that still leaves all three men in the running. I would go to the first guy and ask him for a paternity test. That is the only way you are going to put this to rest. Good luck.


Question: Is it possible to alter your dna so as to get a negative test result? I was wondering because my daughter was born in 1990 and the 'father' named on the birth certificate is not her biological father according to the dna test. How did he get the result to be negative?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Well the first thing I would do is haul out any other potential fathers and test them. He could have switched samples during the test OR it could be that he is NOT the father. Don't go after him until you have beyond any degree of certainty excluded any other potential fathers.


Question: If Father's blood is type A+ ..... Mother's blood is type A+ ..... can their child be born with blood type B+ ?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The type will be A or O positive OR negative


Question: Before I post my question. Let me give some background. I never had reason to question paternity until recently. It was just something that was said & call it a fathers intuition maybe sparked by the comment. But somehow I donnot feel the same attachment to this child as I do with my other 2 girls When I met my wife she was living in Germany. We got engaged , but she continued to live there for a few months before she could come here because of her job. She visited me here in the states over Xmas betwween Dec. 29th 2002 & Jan.5th 2003 She got pregnant on that trip. The baby was born on 9/19/2003 and the baby was 2 weeks early approx. the baby weighed in at 6.5lbs. I wanted to know if the bith of the baby falls into that window of her visit? And would it be a good idea to get a paternity test done? Thanks for your help
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I looked at two possible dates of conception using the child's birthdate as the first reference and then going backwards two weeks. If you look at the first date then you fall into the date of conception. If you look at the second dates then you would not. Bear in mind that ALL calculations are estimates. This is NOT a responsible way to determine paternity. I will say this to you: you need to have a paternity test in order to exclude yourself. You and her can use, for example, an inexpensive test to do this--a home version like our popular QuickHITTesting Solution. Hope this helps.


Question: I SLEPT WITH THIS GUY OVER THE SUMMER , AND I JUST FOUND OUT YESTERDAY THAT I'M FIVE MONTHS INTO MY PREGNACY I TOLD THE GUY ,AND HE TOLD ME HE WANTS A PATERNITY TEST DONE IS THERE ANY WAY TO HAVE THIS DONE BEFORE THE BABY IS BORN AND HOW , AND HOW CAN I BE PREGNATE IN MY FIVE MONTH IF I HAD MY PERIOD ALL THIS TIME????? PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ANSWERS .
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I cannot answer this question. We are not a medical facility. It would be more appropriate for you to direct the question to your OB/GYN.


Question: A friend of mines ex-girlfriend had a baby nine years ago. She listed someone-else on the Birth Certificate and after having a DNA test done a year ago the results stated that my friend was the father. After learning of this he went to The Friend Of The Court in Michigan to find out about (doing the right thing) paying child support. He was told that there was nothing that they could do and refused to set up a child support case for him. What should he do now in order to have the man who is not his childs father removed from the Birth Certificate and have his name put on the Birth Certificate as it should be. Hopefully someone can help Signed, Just Asking A Question
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The Friend of the Court in Michigan is just following their procedures. Generally, they do not accept test results from labs other then those that they have approved or have contracted. That is one issue. Your friend may not be able to obtain a test through the FOC because they may consider the case to be closed because of the birth certificate issue. Your best bet is to consult an attorney but do not expect anything to change. By the way, Michigan is reputed to be one of the toughest enforcers of child support collection laws.


Question: I know of someone who sent his brother to take his paternity test for him so that he would not be known as the father. What could happen if this comes out?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: What could happen? It is fraud. If you are the mother and have proof, then report it. Check with your local child support agency on how this issue is handled.


Question: My husbend and I are about to have our frist child,And for some reason he wants a test, If I find out the babys blood type shouldent that tell him weather he is or isent the father. I'm type A and He is O pos, so shouldent the baby be either one of those to?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You are correct--the child will be either A or O. However, as he probably knows you cannot INCLUDE someone with a blood typing. You can EXCLUDE BUT NOT INCLUDE and even with an exclusion you still need to do additional testing simply because typing is not reliable as a means for deciding paternity. I would suggest that you and him conduct one of our QuickHIT downloadable paternity tests which you can obtain at Fairfax Identity Laboratories. As I said before, it is downloadable and is extremely expensive.


Question: My brother was notified that he may be the father of a 5 year old child whom he has never seen or heard of. The woman, married at the time, contacted him for the first time weeks ago. Her husband is on the child's birth certificate as the child's father. The couple is now divorcing and she has since then told him that she believes my brother is the real father. She wants my brother to take a paternity test. Is he (under Texas law) obligated to pay child support so late in the game? He has a family now and this could ruin his life. She had over 5 years to confront him on this - isn't it too late?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I cannot answer questions regarding Texas Law. However I can direct you to someone who can. In the city where she resides, contact the Attorney General's Office, Office of Child Support Enforcement. Since the child was born into the marriage it may be that the to be-ex husband is the "legal father" and is responsible for the child. Again, check with the Attorney General's office. Also, contact a private attorney who can practice in Texas who can give you proper counseling. You are being drawn into a divorce settlement issue so make sure that your interest are clearly covered.


Question: is there a way to make someone(my father)take a paternity test who refuses to take responsibility for their son(me). i don't want anything from him (i don't even know what he looks like except for a rough description)but i would like the proof so i can possibly contact other family members who wouldn't mind being my family. i don't have anybody and it would make me sleep better. i have a birth cert. but his name is not on it. i know his name and a few other things about him but maybe a test would prove it. thank you for listening to me .
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: This is sad. We hear this all the time. If he is your father you definitely need to find out just so that you can have a complete medical history. I would suggest that you find out who is children are and approach them for a possible sibling test. Maybe they would be willing to test. Assuming that you are an adult, I would say that it may be impposible for you to obtain an order compelling him to be tested but I would double check what I have told you with an attorney. We have a sibling test that has just been posted at Fairfax. It is one of our new downloadable test kits. With it you could do a home sibling collection to send to our laboratory. I wish you the best of luck.


Question: I would like to have a paternity test done. The main issue is that one my mother will not cooperate, and two the "father" who will participate is my blood uncle. I know it sounds like something out of tobacco road but it is nevertheless true. So you can see how important itis to me to find out. Is this a problem, and if so how can I prove or disprove paternity when the dna willl be so close together?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I am assuming that you, the nephew, are the child in this case. You can go through with the paternity test as planned. It would be very nice to have the mother but it is not essential. However, you HAVE TO ALERT THE LAB about your situation. Do not hold back. You need to impress upon them the severity of your situation. The testing lab will then be able to determine if additional testing is necessary. Excuse the shameless plug but you might want to consider using our lab for this test. We DO reference testing for other labs in cases like this.


Question: My fiancee's ex girlfriend got pregnant, but she doesn't know for sure if it is his. She got an order for child support, but he isn't listed as the father on the birth certificate. We know we have to get a paternity test, but do we have to pay for it? Is there any way that she would have to foot the bill?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: There is something that is not being said in your message. A court would not place an order for support into motion unless they had a reason. Generally, the alleged father has the right to respond. If he fails to respond then they can order him to pay for child support by default. In other words, he is named to be the legal father as opposed to being the biological father. Coincidently, in order for him to do a court admissible test without the mother, his name has to be on the birth certificate in order to comply with ASBB guidelines. If he manages to get a test ordered, it is highly probable that he will have to foot the bill.


Question: I live in the US and she lives in Jerusalem. I had unprotected intercourse with her on August 2nd of 2003. She says that she is pregnant by me and the orginazation that she is a part of is pretty much threatening me with physical harm if I don't give her or them money when asked. I want to know what are my rights in this situation. What can I do about them making threats? And what can I do about the validity of the pregnancy, because I am scared to ask them for a test right now?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: First, this is the rsponse from our director--I will follow with my response: If you have evidence of the threats, go to the police. What you are describing is nothing less than blackmail. And without a paternity test, you have no way of knowing if the child is yours, if there even is a child (if she's in Jerusalem, how do you KNOW she's even pregnant?) MY RESPONSE IS THIS: To add to what our director is saying--You mentioned an organization--what is this organization--is it a child support collection agency? There are specific guidelines for handling child support overseas. I do not remember offhand if there is reciprocity between Israel and the United States. If there is, certain things have to happen (refer to my comments on Germany for information on international child support process). If this organization that she is a part of is NOT a part of the child support collection process, I suggest that you contact, at a local level, your police department as well as the Office of Homeland Security. Contact your congressman and retain the services of an attorney who can act in your interest. Lastly, if you feel that this government is NOT doing its part protect your life, seek the help of the US press. Good luck and we wish you well.


Question: if a baby is breast feed immediately prior to dna mouth swabbing and only the father and baby's dna specimen is taken can this affect the test due to mom's dna from breast milk is swabbed instead of baby's actual dna cells? can this bring inaccurate results?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Lab's sometimes request that the mouths of babies be washed out to help reduce the chance of samples being contaminated by bacteria. Will breast feeding the baby alter the test results? It is doubtful


Question: When I was in my early twenties my then wife got pregnant during a seperation. When she came back to me she said she was pregnant. I knew then there was no way the baby was mine due to how far along she was. To keep the peice in the family as we had another child as well I never said a word. She was also collecting WELFARE benefits at that time they made me sign a paper claiming I was the father. I did it, stupidly without testing first! So for years I've been stuck paying for a child that I've not raised, nor seen for over 12 years now! When I've brought this up to the Child Support Courts they simply tell me that I should have never signed the paper and that now in the eyes of the law Missouri I am the childs parent. After all these years I still can't believe this! Is there any help for men in my situation?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I think that you have clearly stated the problem. You signed papers without the opportunity for a test. Laws are changing constantly. While I cannot reccomend anyone to you directly, I do think that you should look for Men's groups that cover this particular problem. They are out there and are constantly watching the laws. Good luck.


Question: a german student that i slept with recently contacted me and told me that she was pregnant and suggested that i might be the father. most likely we will abort the pregnancy but she mentioned something that was a bit unsettling. She had considered returning to east germany to raise the child with the help of her parents. In the event the child is born in germany would i be obligated to concede to a paternity test and or child support? further, what would be my custodial rights? i am a claifornia (U.S.) citizen and she is a german national in the U.S. on a student visa.-regards chris
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If she decides to keep the child you should be aware that there is a reciprocity agreement between the United States and Germany. Chances are good that you will be asked, if she decides to file for support, to voluntarily pay child support for the child. If you do not cooperate then the German government could opt to file for help fromt he US government. They have to provide documents to our government in both English and in German. They have to file for help to a central registry in Washington DC. The central registry in Germany is the German Institue for Guardianship (Deutches Institut Fur Vormundshaftswesen). DC will process the paperwork on a federal level and then transfer the paperwork to the state level (California) who will then process the paperwork to conform to state requirements. The case is then transferred to you local DA/Family Support Divison who, under Federal and State law can enforce the German order. If they ask you for a paternity test they will request a blood sample. German courts do not yet recognize buccal swab technology. As for Custodial rights, you will need to discuss this with an attorney who is familiar with German law.


Question: The father's name isnt on the birth certificate and he has to pay child support. But first he has to take a paternity test. He doesnt want to take it, just wants his name placed on the birth certificate. Is this possible or does he have to get a paternity test?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: What you haven't told me is the age of the child, WHY he has to pay child support, and if someone ELSE"S name is on that certificate. Generally, changes to birth certificates must be made in a court of law. It is likely that he will be asked to prove paternity.


Question: here is the scenerio, 8 of 1999 mother is charged with conspiacy to committ murder on father. 9 of 2000 their divorce is final. 9 of 2001 mother is found guilty of charge sentaced to 8-15 yrs in prison, up for parole in 8 of 2005. visitation taken away, father has full custody. no contact of any kind from mother to child since in jail. ??? how does the father terminate partental rights of the mother so new wife, and acting mother of 5 year old can adopt..... help
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Interesting story. Termination of parental rights have to be decided in a court of law. There is no quick formula. You will need to have an attorney assist you who specializes in family law. It may be that the mother must voluntarily give up her rights.


Question: I had a paternity test thru attorney general in which I feel the results are incorrect. It came back 99.99..%(prior probability 0.5) for twins, in which the mother had slept with many men. She also slept with my 1st cousin, is there a possiblity that it could be his since we are blood relatives our fathers are brothers. I only slept with her once and also used a condom... Help!!
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I think you are grasping as straws. She slept with your 1st cousin-did she sleep with him at the time of the conception of the child? You could, for your own piece of mind, ask the first cousin to be tested at your expense. Unless you eliminate him as the father you will never be satisfied with your own test. As for the condom, condoms are not 100 percent so don't figure that into your argument. Eliminate that cousin.


Question: In 1998, I had a full-term baby, born on the actual due date of November 2nd. Conception date calculations figured to be February 9th, 1998. I slept with 2 half-brothers, one I was with all of January until Feb. 12th, and the other, February 25th., 1998 until today, we have since married. My son has the same blood type as the latter brother, but according to the conception calculator, this is quite sketchy to me that he would have the same blood type. I am not sure what the first brother's blood type is. My question is this, what are the chances that I could have been already pregnant when I slept with the second brother? Are the conception claculators correct? If they are, would this mean I more than likely conceived the first week of February and not the last week? I have a private paternity test, but haven't been able to find the strength to tell the other brother, as we have gone through great lengths to overcome the problems I incurred when I slept with his brother. I know we have to do thi s t If you could help with the probable date of conceptions and which brother looks to be the potential father, it will help me a great deal with telling him about this, as I will need some sort of probable cause for this notion! Thank you!
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The date of conception would have been somewhere between January 25th and February 8th. The blood types and the dates of conception really have nothing to do with each other. Blood typing to determine paternity is extremely weak as a test panel. Conception calculators can give only estimates--that is why I gave you a range as opposed to a date. You indicate that you had a paternity test. I am assuming that it was with the former brother--not the latter. I can only speculate that you were pregnant when you slept with the second fellow since conception dates are only estimates.


Question: can't find your answer to my question. "Is a partenity test possible between myself and a son without the presence of the mother [she passed away 5 years ago]?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Thank you for alerting me--you can go to our website which is here and look for a product called QuickHIT. This is a downloadable paternity test kit which you can collect on yourself and the child today if you want. It is an extremely inexpensive kit and is easy to use. In answer to your question, yes--you CAN test without the mother--just write the words "not tested" on the mother's section and you are good to go. I hope this helps.


Question: Message: Hi my name is ****. In febuary of 2003 a girl > my son had been seeing called to tell us that my > son may be the father of her baby also another man. When she was about 1 month > pregnant, she met another man who in no way > could be the father. Well, everything was going > fine until the baby was born. Her boyfriend > signed the birth records and claimed the baby > as his. My son was so upset that he filed for a paternity test. He was given a date and showed up. Well the court medaitor told him that he could not request a paternity test because her boyfriend > signed for the baby at birth. He is not the father > It is between my son and another man. please help.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Well, I think the mediator has pretty much said it all. Your state views the legitimacy of "legal paternity" based on the signing of the birth certificate. Even if you manage to get the paternity test that DOES NOT mean that he will be declared the father and be afforded any rights. The birth certificate locks the boyfriend in as the father of the child with full legal rights. I would strongly advise that you you seek the help of an attorney (family law) who is more qualified to help you sort this out. Ironically, if the boyfriend breaks up with the mother she can go after him and receive child support. I do NOT think that signing a birth certificate without a paternity test (if there is an issue of paternity involving multiple men) is a bright idea.


Question: have a friend from Central America who wants to adopt a child. He has known the child since birth and since the father of the child never claimed him, my friend claimed him as his own - meaning he is legally signed as the birth father. Bringing the child to the US requires proof of paternity and here's where it get's real messy. > First - The real father of the child is also my friend's father, different mothers - which makes the baby and my friend half siblings. The real kicker is - the mother of the baby is also from the same father as my friend but different mothers. Which makes that family a bunch of real sickos but that's probably another issue for the court to contend. His (my friend's) question is, since he is required to provide DNA proof of paternity for the child, what are his percentage chances of showing up as a father or as a brother based on the childs compiled DNA makeup? He is sincere about wanting to adopt the baby but he certainly didn't want to get tested for DNA and spend a lot of money if the possibility of him being absolutely excluded from being a parent is high. > I will also suggest to him to keep his father away from his family.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The chances are good that the child's half brother (since that's what he is) will be excluded as the child's biological father. Perhaps the best thing to do would be for the biological father to be determined, and then go through legal channels to give up his parental rights. You could then apply for adoption status. However, DON'T DO ANYTHING WITHOUT CHECKING WITH AN ADOPTION ATTORNEY FIRST, IN THE COUNTRY WHERE THE KID IS LIVING.


Question: my brother recently died. We are now being told that the daughter we thought was his is not. There was an autopsy performed & tissue samples were stored. Can DNA testing be done at this point on the "daughter" and his tissue samples to prove whether or not he was her father??
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Absolutely! This is the best way to test when someone is deceased. you will need a release from the next of kin and in some cases a medical examiner may insist upon a court order. The other ways to test are, of course, testing both paternal grandparents or testing any OTHER children that he might have for siblingship with the child in question.


Question: My boyfreind has a child by another women But I do not beleive that is his child. There rumers out about her and this child that is alegidly his kid. He does not have my boyfriends features expessially this one feature that stands out on the baby which is his nose that is not like my boyfriends or his mother. He will not take a paternity test although the chances that this is his child is slim because of the fact that it was a one night stand type a thing, he used protection and she took a very long time in telling him. Is There a nother way of telling whether this child is his or not that can be used in a desiding factor to take a paternity test?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The answer to your question is no. The deciding factor is whether he and the mother mutually agree to take a test OR he goes and seeks a court order for testing and the court rules that he can have one. If your boyfriend does NOT want the test then do NOT expect it to happen.


Question: Sorry for posting so much but... Your answer to my question below (regarding an incestuous conception) is interesting from the standpoint of its legal implications. It implies that if a sister pursues child support from her brother via DNA testing (which just might someday happen in this crazy world) then the brother could get out of it by claiming that his own father is the true father. Or inversely, a father who took advantage of his own daughter (double-yuck) could weasel out by pointing to his own son. (Of course in the end a court might find the whole family unfit.) This is just a comment but I welcome your response... I understand if you don't want to post it, and I'm not asking you to play lawyer here. Just curious if you see any scientific holes in that theory.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If there is really a situation like this and a sister goes after a brother for child suport--they will have a lot more to worry about then child supoort--incest is against the law and that means potential jail time--and I am convinced that the child would be taken away from the parents by the court. From a dna standpoint--yes we could tell the difference between the father and the son. As long as the lab knows the potential problem--the testing can concluded accurately by pursuing additional testing at the onset of the process.


Question: i have just found out that five years after i was born a test showed that my father could not have children?!both my parents have blue eyes, i have very dark brown ones. myself and three of my four children have squints which i have been told is hereditary but there is no sign of this problem on my mothers or fathers side of the family am i right to question whether my father is my biological father???
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You could just ask the father for a paternity test or you could ask sa brother or a sister for a sibling relationship study. This is what I suggest. I would not suggest relying on things like facial features since this means of identification is unreliable and will more then likely just elevate your current level of anxiety. I would also not accept the "two cents worth" of relatives. See if you can get a test.


Question: I swear this question has nothing to do with my life, but just for the sake of scientific curiosity... And it's not my intent to distract from the useful purpose of your site so post it only if you choose to do so. Here it is: If two full siblings conceive a child together (yuck), and then the true grandfather, who with grandma begat both new parents, was the subject of a paternity test for the child, wouldn't he appear falsely to be the father of his grandchild, since he is still only one of two people whose DNA contributed?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Actually, this is an interesting question. In a situation like this, it is imperative that the lab be notfied of every detail prior to testing.


Question: I understand it is desirable but not critical in paternity tests to have the mother's DNA. My question is... How would the absence of a woman's DNA affect the end result? (For example, if the mother's DNA isn't available, would a 99.9% result be lowered to, say, 80%?)
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: With today's advanced technology, it is no longer necessary to have the mother tested. Nowadays, an 80 percent would be absurd. That would leave a margin of error of 20 percent. A lab would just continue to test until an AABB acceptable result is rendered.


Question: I am 34 years old. I lost my father last year. Just two days prior to his death I found out he is not my biological father. Since his death I've located who I believe is my biological father but he won't consent to a paternity test. Is there any way I can force him at my age?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You COULD try consultng an atorney and see if a court order is possible but I suspect that might not be an option for you. Might I suggest that you do some research and find out if he has any children. If he does, then you should consider contacting them and seeing if they or ONE of them would be willing to do a sibling relatonship study. That would establish or dis-establish a biological relatinship between you and the suspected father. Good luck with your search.


Question: I am unmarried and my son is 15 months old. There is a paternity agreement signed in Pennsylvania which put the father on the birth certificate. If I request to have that reversed, will he have to show up in court? Will they require a DNA test? He was abusive mentally and emotionally to both my child and myself. I was on morphine at the hospital when i signed it and now realize that I have made a grave mistake. I was not aware of the consequences. Is it easily reversible since we were unmarried?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You need to seek the advice of an attorney who can sort this out for you. You are saying that you were not responsible when you signed the b/c and that may be something that he can argue. It is generally not a simple matter for a layman (like myself) to effect a change to a birth certificate but you CAN do it yoursself (see other postings) but in your situation, I would advise the use of a qualified attorney.


Question: My brothers whereabouts are unknown. He has a massive drug abuse problem. A woman phoned me and said she has a 7 yr. old daughter with my brother. Is there a test that can be done on ME to prove whether or not my brother is the father? The mother has O+, the child has RH Negative, as well as myself and my brother. Please advise!!
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I guess my first question is whether or not the brother had any OTHER children. If he did, then test that child or those children against the child in question. Blood types, in your case, are of no use because you are trying to discern an aunt/niece relationship. I would also like to ask if your parents (both grand parents) are alive.. If they are then they can be tested for grandparentage. It is possible to do an aunt/niece study but you need at least one grand parent AND the mother tested and there is no guarantee of the outcome.


Question: I asked a very recent question about using pacifiers, diapers, and hair and fingernails for paternity tests. Thank you for the answer. But as a follow-up: You said that a sample from a pacifier would be "hit or miss". By that, do you mean that it would be difficult to extract DNA, or do you mean that you would not be able to assure whose DNA was found on the sample?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: FOLLOW UP TO A PREVIOUSLY POSTED QUESTION: You make a good point with this follow up question and the answer is BOTH. When you do a privately submitted sample there is no way to really validate a chain of custody so you are right it would be difficult to establish to whom the samples belong. Getting DNA from a pacifier is not impossible but it is not easy and is very expensive. Again, it is "hit or miss" as the lab CANNOT guarantee an extraction of the dna and here is another point: there is no guarantee that, once the DNA sample has been found and extracted, that it would be a good enough sample of dna to allow to lab to reach a conclusive result.


Question: I am a 23 yr old student. My family and myself had a bood type check recenlty. Both my parents tested O group, but I tested B group. As per my childhood memories and some photographs, I believe my parents are my true biological parents. But the tested blood types perhaps dont support this, as indicated in the blood type chart. Could you give some information if this situation is possible in a non general case?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If both parents are O then you should type O as well. You may want to consider that the typing is incorrect. It has happened before. There is also the possibility that you were switched at birth--not so common here in the US but it happens--very common in other countries. If that is the case you, your mother AND your father would be innocent victims. You should periodically verify the blood types. Consider asking your parents to do one of our QuickHIT paternity tests. It is a downloadable "home test" and is VERY inexpensive. You can get it by clicking here


Question: FOLLOW UP TO A PREVIOUS QUESTION:I am considering a second dna paternity test. This info is from a previous question. My new question is to PI. On my first test the mother was not tested and will not be for the second. The first had only four tests which raises my suspicions.D2S44 PI 17.42, D4S163 PI 4.6, D6S132 PI 3.12, D7S467 PI 3.16.First are these tests common to the industry. Second what if the allele sizes on the test with PI of 17.42 was shared with the mother and not myself? Would the CPI would be very low. Also are the PI for the other tests 3.12, 3.16, 4.6 are these lower than normal. Finally I want to do a home test with only af and child WHAT SHOULD I LOOK FOR TO ELIMANITE CONCERNS OF THE MOTHER SHARING SOME OF MY ALLELE SIZES
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Whenever you do a motherless test, you cannot be sure the alleles that the child and the man share did not come from the mother. That uncertainty is allowed for by the fact that the paternity index values are lowered in the motherless test. The fact that the PI that was found with the locus D2S44 was relatively high indicates that the allele is rather rare and therefore less likely to be present in both the mother and the alleged father. The other paternity index values are reasonable for motherless results. The fact that "only" four tests were done is of relatively little concern here because the tested loci you indicated are RFLP loci, and therefore more variable in the population than the newer STR loci. There is nothing you can do to "eliminate" the likelihood of you and the mother sharing alleles. The best alternative is to have the lab do at least six, and preferably more (although six should be sufficient), loci in any repeat test you have done.


Question: would like to get a paternity test done, but i'm scared that the result is going to come back the baby is not his,could we just go to the doctor's and take a blood sample then take the test from there? could i get the results without him knowning?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: For the baby's sake you should plunge forward and do the test. You could have the doctor do a typing, I suppose but what would be the point? You are still going to get either bad news (he is not the father) or there is a slim chance that he is the father. You stil would end up doing a paternity test. Can you get the results without him knowing? He is entitled as a donor of the test specimen to his own copy of the report. Do not expect a doctor or a laboratory to risk a law suit by withholding a report from one of the testing parties. The answer is no.


Question: Which of the following can be used for a paternity test? (Even if not admissible in court.) The man's DNA via buccal swab is readily available. - A used "binkie" (pacifier) - Hair with follicles intact? - Hair clippings (no follicles.) - Used diapers (If this would work, would #1 or #2 be more useful?) - Fingernail clippings
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Well, at least you can get a good sample from the father--here are my comments; pacifier--you could try it but a lab could not guarantee the results for you--it would be hit or miss. Hair with follicles--yes, you will need 60-80 follicles. Hair clippings--NO follicles--useless. Used Diapers--I suppose you could check the urine but it, too, would be hit or miss--feel free NOT to send that sample to us. Stay away from feces. A word about urine and feces--remember that these items are human byproducts and are hazardous wastes. Avoid these whenever possible. Fingernail clippings are pointless.


Question: i was wondering is it possible to get a paternity test done without the father knowing? could i just bring a sample of his dna somehow along with my daughter to the paternity test site.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I suppose that you could and I have heard of a case where this happened-but not through us. We, as a rule, would not take this type of sample because the it has been collected and submitted on the sly.


Question: I was separated from my soon-to-be ex-husband for a year when I discovered I was pregnant. The main problem is that the pregnancy occurred when I was in the process of breaking up with one man and dating another. How can I determine the paternity of the child before the due date in June?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You have to have the cooperation of your OB/GYN if you wish to determine paternity before the baby is born. The doctor has to extract a fetal sample from you in the form of either CVS OR Amniotic fluid. This is an invasive procedure and must be overseen by the physician. Do not be surprised if your physician does not want to do this. Paternity tests are not unlike drug tests: they are legal or legal-like by nature and physicians sometimes shy away from becoming involved in such tests. If that does happen in your case then consider asking him for a referral to a doctor who might consider taking the sample for you. Samples will also be taken from YOU(a mouth swab) and the alleged father (also a mouth swab). The lab that does the testing will have to supply a kit and assist you with collection arrangements as well.


Question: I was having an extramarital affair with a woman for approx. 6 mos. The last day that I had sex with her was Aug. 21. Early in October she told me that she was pregnant, and the doctor told her that the date of conception was Aug.31-Sept.1 I understand that there is a better chance that I'm not the father, but my question deals with my rights as a possible father. We've agreed to have a DNA test done secretely, but I'm not sure that she will go through with it. If she doesn't can I make a paternity claim? What kind of evidence or facts might I need to get a court-ordered paternity test if it came down to that? I wouldn't feel right not knowing whether the kid was mine, so maybe you could help me with this. I live in Ohio.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: First, this is a paternity testing forum and so I am not offering you legal advice. To me the extramarital affair aspect implies that this child will be born into the marrigage which means that there will, most likely, be a legal father(her husband) as opposed to a biological father. Talk to her about taking one of our discreet QuickHIT downloadable testing solution. You and her can do this privately and no one needs toknow but you and her. You can get the test kit by going to Fairfaxidlab.com. You just download the kit and you are ready to go. As far as challenging the paternity in court I strongly advise you to do this with an attorney in hand. I will be very surprised if the court allows you to take a court ordered paternity test. The QuickHIT solution is a home kit and so is not generally court admissible.


Question: A friend told me he was going to waive his paternal rights to a new found child. he claims this will relieve him of all financial responibilties. Can he do this?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I have actually, but indiretly, experienced a similar situation with an ex-brother-in-law. He wanted to distance himself from financial responsibilities to his child and so he and his ex-wife agreed to him signing one of these waivers. They contacted an attorney and had it drawn up like a contract and did as much as possible to make it a legal document. He should involve an attorney at all stages of giving up his rights. He needs to also have a paternity test and establish himself as the actual biological father and really has rights to give up--again, involve an attorney. My understanding, again based on my sister-in-law's experience, is that these things are not always ironclad SO three things to do: 1--get a lawyer--2--get a paternity test--3--make sure that you are familiar thoroughly with how this process applies to your state laws.


Question: My wife and I currently have custody of our grandson. The father of the child was told on two occasions to have genetic testing performed, he did not. Now the child is six years old, and my wife and I are applying for child support, and the father denied responsibility. We were told that in the State of New Jersey, if the father had the chance to apply for testing and did not, that the legal limit would be the sixth birthday of the child that the father would be declared so without testing being required. This has held up child support for three months and we believe that the court officer was in error. Would you please shine some light on this dilema.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Here is a website for you to go to: State Profiles. This is the federal site for child support and this portion is a comprehensive listing of each state's profiles. A map will come up--click on New Jersey.


Question: my husbands ex wife slept with 4 different guys while married to him she had a child told him it was his .twelve years later told him it wasnt his and she thinks its funny that he has to pay child support. we have been to court requesting paternity testing we were denied,WHAT CAN WE DO
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I don't think this is funny at all. It is a sin and an injustice that the court system is denying you the right to investigate her claims. Take your questions to your congressman and see if they can help you. Elections are coming up and they might be verfy accomodating. If you went through an attorney the first time--get a second opinion. Someone is going to want proof that she is taunting him and so you had better have that element ready to present.


Question: I have a 2yr old daughter my ex and me had a paternity test done and he is the father how do I get his name on the birth certificate? At the time I filled it out he was not sure she was his ,but I knew she was and she has his last name but I don't know how to get his name on it...and is there anyway for me to get him to give up his rights my bf wants to adopt her after we get married.....
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I know I am going to surprise everyone when I say you don't necessarily need an attorney for this one. It does have to be done in court so there are two places to check for procedure: Your state's Bureau of Vital Statistics and also try the clerk of the court's office where you will file. The clerks office will be able to tell you what forms you will need to file and how much the fees for filing will be.


Question: Alright my mother is A+ and my father is A+, I just found out that I'm O+. I'm wondering if that all works out? Is it possible for A+ and A+ to make O+?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Yes. An A+ and another A+ will yield either an A or an O. The Rh can be either positive or negative.


Question: I am 18 years old. The father of my child is denying that he is the father. Can i still list him as the father even if he doesn't sign the birth certiicate. We are going to have a paternity test done,can i wait tell we get the test results back to do the birth certificate.Also, If I have sex with someone while I'm pregnant, Can that change the baby's DNA results. Remember I'm already pregnant.And My last question, Will the father of my child still have to pay child support if he's in college and doesn't have a job?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I don't think you can alter dna by having sex. You can always list him BUT he has to sign the birth certificate for it to be legal. You CAN wait until after the test has been done to sign the birth certificate--don't let he hospital pressure you into finishing paperwork until you have had the test. In order for you to receive child support you will have to file a claim with the state. Will they go after him if he is in college. Very likely.


Question: My father was married to my step mom in california. A child was born and my dad thought it was his. Then we find out she had lied and cheated on him, which caused the divorce. She doesn't knwo who the father is. My dad wants to take a paternity test. When it shows negative, that he's not the father, is this enough proof in my state to make my dad legally not the father and to cancel all back child support? Thank you for your time in this matter.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Doubtful. Child is born into the marriage. Before you move forward with the test I would contact DA/FSD (District Attorney/Family Support Division) and just ask them. Paternity may be established legally through the marriage.


Question: My husband did a home test swab paternity test, according to the results, he was excluded as the father of the child that he is currently paying child support on...my question...after reading the letters on your website, is it possible the test results were incorrect? Before the father contacts the court, he wants to be reasonably sure this test is accurate before he asks them to order a legal test. By the way, both parents have blue eyes and the child has dark brown/black eyes.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Home test kits are not court admissible so if he took it to a court of law it would not change things. Your husband did the test according to what I am reading--was it whinessed? Our home kits, for example, are treated as if they ARE court admissible so that you can be sure that the quality is the same. Even THEY are unlikely to be admissible in a court of law. One other thing, it sounds like there may be a court order for support in place. Even if he is NOT the father the court may NOT let him have the test. Consult with an attorney in your area for clarification on this point.


Question: if a woman is in her 2week conception process and has sex with another man and his semen is released can the child have features of this man who is not the father(man 2). if so does this change the results of a dna test
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Huh? You indicate that you you had sex with two people, you had a paternity test but you give absolutely NO information about the test. I am left with the impression that you are unhappy with the results. Instead of conceptualizing about features, test the second man. If you HAVE tested both men the either accept the rsults OR re-test.


Question: If a man puts his name on the birth certificate as the biological father, even though he is not, is he considered the legal father? Does the biological father loose his rights? If marriage ends in divorce, is the non biological father obligated to take care of the child?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: On all of your questions, it will depend on the laws in your state. Check with an attorney.


Question: if the mother is an A.negative blood group and the supposed father is A.positive and the baby turns out to have a b blood group . can he really be the father
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The blood types produced from this combination would be either an A or an O. The rh produced can be either posible OR negative.


Question: MY MOTHER IS OF BLOOD GROUP A(+)POSITIVE AND MY FATHER IS O(+)POSITIVE.BUT ME AND MY SISTER ARE HAVING A BLOOD GROUP OF B(+)POSITIVE.IS IT POSSIBLE? PLZ ANSWER
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The types produced by this combination would be A or O positive


Question: I live in Canada, Do you know of any reputable DNA testing labs that you would recommend to perform a half sibling test to prove paternity? My father died in '87 He did not sign any paternity papers, nor is he on my birth certificate. Only my grandmother is alive on my father's side..Do I need to have my Grandmother's DNA aswell, my grandfather has died on my fathers side, would my half sister's DNA be enough to prove paternity? What is the accuracy rate on a half sister paternity test and what is the time frame to get the results, cost for both of us?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The ONLY lab that I would care to reccomend in Canada is a company called Medigene in Calgary. I takes about 4-6 weeks to get results back on a sibling report. I will check your post again for an email address and I will send you a sibling test kit that you can do for about 400 dollars called QuickHit (Sibling Edition). It is a homestyle kit. Test yourself against the half sibling. The genetic question will be: It this sibling half or not related at all?


Question: If a paternity test states that the child shares some genetic markers with the father, yet the results claim 99.9% accuracy, is he the father. Also, Can he request a re-test?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: He can always request a test but I doubt if the court will grant it and if they do I am sure they will not cover the cost. 99.9 is extremely high. Instead of re-testing it would be better to eliminate any other potential fathers. That is a more common sense approach.


Question: My ex-girlfriend recently told me she was pregnant and in her first tri-mester. Given her history, I asked to have further proof. She denied to take an at-home pregnancy test and won't go to a doctor with me. The only proof I have is her word and ann alleged blood work document which does not seem to be an official hospital form. What options, legal and otherwise, do I have to get further proof and ease of mind that she is indeed pregnant?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I can't really give you much advice on this--I would speak with your physician and see what his viewpoint is regarding this issue but, it seems to me, to be an more of a trust issue. Based on your former relationship with her is she someone who you would consider to be truthful?


Question: My life partner and I have actually set a wedding date for August 28th. (male/female couple). We are trying to get all of our loose ends from our past taken care of before we do this marriage thing. He is 39 and about 16 yrs ago he was notified that he may have a son. The mother named the little boy after him and everything. They had already split up before he even knew she was pregnant. He went off to the military and doesnt recall hearing about the situation again until about 3 1/2 yrs ago. Welfare is saying he has to pay back child support for all those years she recieved assistance for the child. Once he got the letter, he made contact with the mother through an old friend. The mother was very polite and acted as if nothing mattered to her. She said she is not going to benefit from him paying back child support so she didnt see the point in pushing the issue. She said it was a slight possibility that the boy may not be his but she believes he is. He spoke with the child 2 or 3 times to sta
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: First talk with the mother and see if she would be willing to submit to a paternity test. In this case, do not try to save a few bucks by doing a home test. You will need a court admissible test. If your fiance is NOT the father then you will need to see an attorney about the welfare issue. About that, the mother is probably not involved in this move by the state to collect money. Welfare benefits are kind of like a loan--SOMEONE has to pay the taxpayers back for its investment in the mother and father. You will need the attorney to take up this issue with the state.


Question: what is the earliest that a newborn can be tested. also what if the mother does not want the child tested, and the father does not what the child tested, but another man is trying to get a test ordered. the mother and father are married and have been for 12yrs with two other children. please any information.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: A child can be tested as soon as the child is born. You need the consent of a guardian, parent or conservator to have a test--be it home kit or otherwise. Otherwise, you will need a court order.


Question: My husband recently participated in a paternity test with his ex and alleged child. His blood was taken 8 days prior to the child and mother's. > The mother is African-Canadian and Aboriginal heritage, my husband is caucasion. The mother is however indicated as caucasion in the 'Race' category of the summary. Question 1: Does this make any difference? > The final probability of paternal parentage is 98.86% but he is the only 'father' tested for paternity of this child. Question 2: Does this guarentee he is the biological father of this child? > Here is some of the info from the results: > My husband's ABO is type B, mother: O, child: O > My husband's Rh is dce, mother: DCce, child: DCce > My husband's MNSs is Ns, mother: Ms, child: MNs > My husband's Kidd is a, mother: b, child: a,b > My husband's P is P1+, mother: P1+, child: P1+ > My husband's HLA is A 3 B 7, mother: A 1,74 B 8, 49, child: A 1, 3 B7, 8 > Calculations: AF WHITE, RM WHITE > HLA TABLE: TERASAKI, UPDATED 10/91, N = 5528 > > PHENOTYPE > System X Y X/Y FREQ, AF > ABO 0.472818 0.661000 0.72 10.62% > Rh 0.498836 0.416147 1.20 14.61% > MNSs 0.998829 0.380254 2.63 14.49% > Kidd 0.999600 0.514894 1.94 26.53% > P 0.894815 0.844319 1.06 76.96% > HLA 0.452835 0.024164 18.74 0.2857% > > Combined values: > X 0.095421 > Y 0.001099 > PI=X/Y 86.84 > > Don't know what all this means but maybe someone can explain this and the accuracy.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: This is all outdated technology, so I suspect that the test report is about 10 years old, perhaps 15. In addition, the probability of paternity is lower than what would normally be accepted today, which lends further credence to the idea that it's an old report. Mis-identifying the mother's race is careless on the lab's part, but from the standpoint of the conclusion, it doesn't matter. "Accuracy" is something that pertains to whether or not the genetic markers in the report are really the ones that the tested parties have. Without retesting, there's no way to answer that question. However, assuming that the individual test results that are shown on the report are in fact accurate reflections of the various phenotypes of the people tested, then the tested man cannot be excluded from paternity of the tested child.


Question: My son was dating a girl who already had three children by the same man. She got pregnant by my son. She broke up with my son and eloped with the father of her other children. This man sign the birth certificate even though he knew the baby wasn't his. About 6 months after the baby was born she left her husband and lived with my son again. She said it was a mistake to marry and wanted out of it. My son and her were together most of the time since then. Well, now she is due the 1st week of January with her fifth child, and about the 3rd or 4th month of her pregnancy she broke up with my son again and is currently with her husband. She says she slept with her husband and the baby is his. We tend to believe its not her husbands. My son's first baby is 2 years old now. We love her dearly and do not want to give her up. Her mother wants my son to pay child support, which he is willing to do, but she won't let him see his child. The child is crazy about my son and always cried when he left (when he us e t
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: He should not put up with this foolishness on her part. First, paternity needs to be established and in light of what you have told me at this forum, I would strongly suggest that you seek help with a family law attorney. He has rights but he must assert them AND he must prove this is his child. In light of her erratic history with your son and this other man, you both need a strong helmsman to steer you on a proper course of action. That helmsman will be a qualified attorney.


Question: my baby is almost 2 months old on december 24th and she has to have a paternity test, how old do hey have to be to get one? how do they do it and how long does it take to get the resutls?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You could have had the baby tested at the 10th week of your pregnancy and you could have had the child tested on its first day in this world. It is ok to move forward with testing. The method is though a mouth collection commonly called a buccal swab. You can get the results in as little as 5-7 days. Go to paternitynet.com and check out our QuickHit test solution. It is very inexpensive.


Question: I find out tomorrow how far along I am. I believe to be about 2 months pregnant. I had a one night stand with someone and we did use a condom. But there still is a VERY small chance he could be the father. Do I have to wait til the child is born to do a paternity test, or am I able to perform one while I am still pregnant? IF so, when should I have it done while I am still pregnant?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: That is an interesting question. My first reaction is say "yes, wait until the baby is born" but, understanding your dilemma, I can sympathize with your desire to put this to rest as quickly as possible. First, about prenatal testing: you have it between the 10th and the 22nd week of pregnancy. You have to do it with a doctor's approval AND the samples have to be extracted by a physician. Only the doctor should advise you of any potential risks. The samples extracted are CVS and Amniotic fluid. The procedure is invasive. And additional swab sample must be taken from you, as the mother, and the suspected father. You can expect a turnaround time of 21 days or greater. The other thing is the cost. Expect to pay between 1000 to 2000 dollars in out of pocket expenses. Now, with a test performed after the birth, expect to pay as low as 210 dollars for a home test or as much as 475 dollars for a court admissible version. Turnaround time: 5-7 business days. Bottom line: The decision is yours. Lastly, do not let the father pressure you into taking the prenatal test. It is your body and it is your choice. Good luck.


Question: Message 1: My question for you guys is about the results that I have gotten back. Me and my daughter of nine months have had a total of three test done since she has been born(Feb. 9,03); along with the two alledged fathers. My question is on the first test with myself and baby and father A the test results came back 94.7% and in order to use them in court in MN they have to be 99.9%, so we had another test done. This time my daughters DNA didn't show up or something to that effect. Well then myself and baby got our third test done and father B got tested well father B was ruled out. Then now father A went and got tested and it came back that he can not be the father. So what I want to know is how does this happen if the first test said he was 94.7% the father??Please help me some how understand this situation. Thanks for your time. Message 2: Well I got the two places that did the testing the first place that did the first test was ***************** out of ***** and the second place was ******* out of *********. The second test was done at the first and second testing place.(the child supprt agency switched companies) The third was done only at the second testing place. I hope this is enough info.to help you answer my question. Thanks.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: A 94 percent leaves a 6 percent margin of error. Reading the comments that you made, I would say that either one of the labs was wrong in there test, there is a third father that needs to be tested OR the chain of custody papers and the photographs and identification that was collected at the time of each test is incorrect. Someone is the father of that child and if these are the only tow then I would say some retesting needs to be done. I would retest the 94 percent guy and make sure you don't use the same labs. Use someone different.


Question: can two people that weren't married but had a baby together both filled out the papers together his last name was the baby's last name, can the mother change it with out letting him know,and if so what rights does the father or grandparent have about it concerned
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: There birth Certificate cannot be altered without the approval of a judge. Regarding rights, you need consult with a qualified attorney.


Question: Me and my boyfriend just got our results back as 0% probrobility. More of his markers matched the babys than mine. Also my baby was born on his due date March 20. There is a whole month differnce in the time I was with the only other possible father, it just doesnt seem possible. Could a dna lab test be wrong?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The key thing that you said her and I quote "More of his markers matched the babys than mine." That is a very telling comment--more of his markers matched but not all--that is why he was excluded. He has to match ALL of the markers to be the father of the child. Regarding the other possible father, you need to have him tested. You cannot assume that the lab has made a mistake until you test the second father. If the second father ocmes back as NOT the father as well, then you are left with two possiblities: There was a third man OR the lab was in error. IF there was not a third man and the lab could have been in error--you do not go back to the lab for a retest. You go to a different lab and confirm the test result. IF your boyfriend is excluded again, the the results are probably correct. IF the boyfriend is INCLUDED you will need to test with yet a third lab to see which of the first two is correct.


Question: My question is my son who is 20 had his first daughter. His girl friend who is 17 will be 18 in may.Everything was going great they spent wkends together they were going to get married when she turned 18.Than all of a sudden it went sour. Her parents don't want her to marry my son they are trying to get her to go with this other guy she won't let my son see his daughter,she won't even let us see her. When she was born my son was there with her and they filled papers out giving her his last name. Now we found out that she had scrached his name and put her last name.She uses her against him and if she gets mad she uses her against us. We're worried that she is going to leave and we won't see our granddaughter again.What can we do to get custody of our grandaughter. We fear emotionally or mentally she can not take care of her. She is only 7 wks old.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Again, we are a paternity laboratory and we cannot give you legal advice regarding this issue. You need to consult with an attorney who specializes in both family law and custody. I would suggest strongly that you discuss with the attorney about getting a order for paternity testing. IF he is the father of that child then he does have parental rights and the attorney can help assert them.


Question: I have been served with papers to take a paternity test. the female said that I am the only one she slept with which I know is incorrect but this was six 6 ago she had a baby. If the child is mine then I will handle financial responsibility. My question is by me being the only one taking the test does that raise the chance of me being identified of the father since there is no other male to compare the test to or does it not matter and the results will be the same no matter how many males got tested.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: There is a 50 percent chance that you are the father and a 50 percent chance that you are not. Assuming that you are THE ONLY one who slept with her when the baby was conceived you would most certainly be included as the father--HOWEVER, the mother is saying that you were the ONLY one that she slept with. The results will either bear out her assertion OR it will raise the question that possibly there could be another potential father out there somewhere.


Question: I am researching this question for a novel I'm writing. Would it have been possible to do a paternity test in 1959? If so, what would have been required? Blood? Urine?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: DNA molecular testing did not come about as a routine procedure until the very late 80's early 90'. At first,it was incorporated as an additonal panel in HLA testing so you would have a panel consisting typically of ABO, Rh, MnSs, Kell, Duffy, Kidd, HLA A, HLA B and then DNA. This "paneling" of the DNA helped integrate DNA as a molecular test into the paternity testing mainstream. Eventually, DNA became so powerful as a stand alone test that it was no longer necessary to incorporate the HLA test panels. HLA as a test was used primarily in the late 70's and 80's and was a serological procedure using blood only. Venapuncture was used a the collection method with heelsticks being used for infants under the age of 6 months. Difficult sticks (veins too difficult to puncture with a needle) would sometime reequire a handstick which was done on the back of the hand. It is quite painful as I had to have the handstick done once myself for some routine medical tests. Fingersticks (like those performed by diabetics) was also commonly used. Before the 70's the means of determining paternity was through ABO testing--the comparing of the various blood types common to the mother, child and the father. A famous case where paternity testing was performed using ONLY an ABO test was Charlie Chaplain which was performed back in the 1930's. You mentioned blood or urine. Blood would have been the sample of choice--urine can be used in dna testing but it is not preferred and is expensive to do. It would never have been used in 1959 do establish paternity.


Question: I dated a woman for two months. we started dating on mid july, and she told me that she is sleeping with other men; however, two months later she told me that she is pregnant with my child. I did not believe her, and on april 26,2003. I have a court date on Jan 6,2004 for child support. I really need a dna test to prove that this is my child, so what should I tell the court on my court date.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Well first, if you think that you are going to be paying child support and you have a court, date then it would be wise for you to obtain the advice of an attorney. Another point: make absolutely SURE that you attend the hearing on the court date. DO NOT MISS IT! If you do not attend the judge could find youto be in contempt for not attending and you could be declared the legal father by default and any chance for a paternity test will be gone. You do NOT indicate whether or not you signed any papers such as paternity acknowledgement or the birth certificate. Make sure that you consult an attorny, you need one that practices family law. Another thing that you will want to cover with attorneys will be the issue of your rights as a father if you are names as such and must begin to pay child support.


Question: My wifes mother is AB postive & father is A postive. Can my wife be A negative?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Yes, the types produced from this union will be AB, B or B. The Rh can be EITHER a positive OR a negative.


Question: I have been lead to believe that i had fathered my first child, so i signed the paper; i was happy, but now that i asked the mother for a blood test and now she's taking me to childsupport. my question is even though i signed the paper will the courts give me a right to a test or will they just order me to pay for a child that i have douts about. I belive this girl is lieing and she was seeing other guys too; i belive she was already about 3wks when i met her. I live in New York and the child is now a year old and i was giving her money for a child that i never see, so now because i signed papers she believe that they will just make me pay without giving me a test and will i need a lawyer to order a test or will they order a test anyway.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: This is a very good questions. You live in the state of New York which is has very strict Child Support policies. Before things get out of hand contact Family Court and ask to speak to the person who handles paternity testing and just ask them. If they say that "no" you cannot have the test, then conntact an attorney immediately and see if you can obtain an order for testing.


Question: Two years ago I had a paternity test without a sample from the mother of the child. When choosing the company to perform the test I went with the cheapest available center which was located in a strip mall. The test showed that probability of paternity is 99.8%. However I have doubts that I am the real father. At the time of conception the mother of the child was sleeping with three other men. I have black hair,olive skin,brown eyes and I am of italian decent and the child shares none of my physical characteristics and looks nothing like me. The mother has dark blond hair,blue eyes,fair skin. The child has brown hair,green eyes,fair skin. These are not the only things I am using as a comparison. Just a few. On the results of the test there are four rows for results labeled D2S44 pl1742,etc. In each of the four rows there are two allele sizes for myself and the child and there is one number out of the two that matches in all four rows. All this is confusing to me. I have read in other questions posted on your site that tests are compared 1-100, 1-1500 etc. However my test says that I am compared to an individual with prior probability of 50%. Is there a difference between the two? This is troubling me. Am I being paranoid? Should I get a new test based on these facts? How accurate is 99.8%? Does it make a difference that I did not let them know I am of italian decent?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: First, let me get prior probability out of the way. Prior probability simply means that PRIOR to the test there is a 50 percent chance that you are the father and there is a 50 percent chance that you are not. It is the starting point of the test. During the test, you results will gravitate toward the 99 percentile which means that you are the father or the test will gravitate to 0 which means that you are not. I do not think that strip malls will effect the outcome of your test nor will the cost. This is an extremely competitive industry and there are quality tests out there at very low rates. It is very rare to encounter a true false positive. To have a positive your dna must match. You indicated that you did the test without the mother which means that you were initially in total control of the test scenario. You had to have given the lab something that would have caused a match--in this case your dna sample. There is only a 0.2 percent chance that your results are incorrect. HOWEVER, I do not think that what I am saying here will convince you that you are the father of the child. I would suggest that you retest EVERYONE. That means getting the mother, you, the child, AND the two other suspect fathers tested. It may very well be the only way that you will be able to convince yourself as to the quality of the tests that you took. READERS: A RULE OF THUMB--IF YOU DO NOT LIKE OR AGREE WITH YOUR RESULTS--RETEST, RETEST, RETEST. In your case, variables need to be eliminated--those people who were not tested.


Question: Hello, I dated this girl about 14 years ago, we broke up, a year later she got pregnant by some other man.She then started telling everyone we were engaged and its was mine still,so everyone thinks im a deadbeat,yet she has taken no legal action against me, but goes crazy the times ive ran into her, so i was wondering if there is a descreet way i can find out if she put my name on birth certificate or any other legal document connected to her. i do not know the childs name just the mother and approximent time of birth, she did tell me i had a son years after the birth and i played it off,we both live in the same area,and should i have anything to worry about, i know its not mine, hope you can help
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You're going to need the nameof the child. The simplest way to get it is to simply ask her. You could use a private detective I suppose but that seems to me like a lot of overkill. Once you have the name of the child you can do one of two things. Contact medical records in the hospital where the child was born and see if they will give it to you OR contact the Bureau of Vital Statistics who are charged with keeping record of all births in this country. At some point you will have to decide if a paternity test will be appropriate.


Question: Message: I am a father of a great 3yr old boy and I am currently single but have a great civil relationship with his mother. I've been down the relationship road with intentions of making a family, granted, I started early and maybe I should have waited, and it hasn't worked out yet but its ok. The decisions I made in the past, I do not regret and I love my son. And like I said, still am very civil with his mother. I am a very loving person and I work hard and go to school to support my child. I rarely have time for myself, which it's ok, I chose to risk a non-marital approach. We did have intentions of getting married when we split. Since we were high school sweethearts and since we were never with anyone besides each other we decided to see other people for the time being and get back together when we were older (25). We figured it would be better to see other people now and not after we've been married for 20 years. Now about 1yr ago a girl who I used to work with and I started to meet up on weekends to have sex, usually after the bars or basically under the influence. We were never dating, nor did I show her that I wanted a relationship. She was free to whomever she wanted and I was the same. Well 8 months ago she found out that she was pregnant. She told me that, and me, being a father already, tried to inform her on what I thought would be the best way for her to deal with it. Not only that but I tried to tell her how big the decision she had to make was, and how drastically her life would change. While we were talking, she told me that I wasn't the only possible father, and that there were 2 other guys who it could possibly be. I suggested to her that she have an abortion and wait till the situation was different (IE. starting a family through planning, not through drunken sex with different partners). As u probably would have guessed she passed on the abortion, which is fine, its part her decision. After that I f Well the child has been born and she wants me to take a paternity test. I was all for this paternity test until I got a message from this "Alan" guy, not from any specific company, saying that it was gonna be a "in-home paternity test". When I called him, the only information he was basically after was my social insurance number . which kind of sounds a little fishy. I feel like I'm about to be taken advantage of. I am scared and I don't want this girl to ruin my life. I've worked hard to get to the point I'm at now and I feel that she is about to jepradize my life financially, mentally and in my relationship with my 1st sons mother. The only ties I had to her before this was the fact that we worked together and the fact that we were having sex. I'm not afraid to tell this child exactly how he was conceived and what his mother did. I don't feel like It's justified for me to even have to pay for this child when she knew right from the start that I wasn't gonna be involved after conception. She had the t ime
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I am convinced that there must be a question in here somewhere so I am going to take a stab at this from a paternity standpoint. First, you and her are victims of circumstance and that is all there is to it. You both chose a "free" lifestyle and so must now deal with the consequences. Things happen. I am very disturbed about this "Alan" fellow. I have no idea who he is. NEVER GIVE OUT YOUR SOCIAL SECURITY NUMBER OVER THE PHONE in a pretest situation. It also sounds as if, from the very beginning of this episode, that you have had absolutely NO oontrol or say in how the paternity test will be handled. Your social security number is probably being used as a means to identify you but it makes no sense to me for you to give it to anyone until the day of the actual test when the identification process begins. Additionally, the choosing of the lab should be by mutual agreement. I suggest that you insist on picking the laboratory or, at the very least, insist that two lab be used to perform two test as a quality control measure. One other thing: ethical laboratories generally NEVER pass that kind of information back to your client so you need to have some written assurances that this kind of thing will not happen. Check to see if the lab is AABB certified and where the lab is actually based. Check with the Better Business Bureau and with your local DA/Family Affairs Division. Once you have learned WHERE the lab is located also check with Consumer Affairs for that region as well.


Question: im married, and my husband i am had tried for about 4 1/2 yrs after my son was born to get pregnant with no luck. i slept with somebody else once and then slept with my husband many times after that. and now i just found out im pregnant and hubby is happy. im afraid it might not be his, after all we didnt have any luck for over 4 yrs. my last period was on oct 25th and i had sex with the other man on oct 31. my due date is supposably august 1st 2004. is there a possiblity its my husbands? or the other mans. and is there a way i can do a paternity test without my husband finding out?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You can, starting at the 10th week and up to around the 24th week do a prenatal test but it is very expensive. Expect to spend around 2000 dollars. You also have to secure a physician to over see the extraction of the fetal and of course locate a dna laboratory to perform the test. You COULD wait until the child is born and test then with one of our home kits which is cheaper but still as accurate. You, of course, will need to test yourself and the other man.


Question: Hi, i posted a question previously but I think i didn't specify the dates because the dates of conception you had replied with didn't match up. My first day of my last mense was on February 8 of this year. I was given a due date of November 16 2003 from my ultrasound in the first trimester and i had unprotected sex with my ex on February 22. On the days few and far between I used protection. Should I choose my ex to take paternity test first. We have to go through the whole court process and filing petition for paternity I just want to be realistic. I'm pretty positive my ex is in fact the father because of our birth control method and timing of intercourse. But of course have my doubts. I just really don't think it was my other partner because we used protection. Please guide me in the right direction..
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: THIS IS A CORRECTION AND FOLLOW UP TO A PREVIOUS QUESTION POSTED TODAY: february 7th through february 21st would be the correct period of conception. That makes more sense to me since you indicated that your last mense was on February 8. I read on your previous post November 6th and not November 16th. I hope this helps correct the confustion--Regarding the issue of whom to test first, I would, assuming that you are still with the current boyfriend, test the ex first just to quietly attempt to eliminate him from your card of possible fathers--kindest regards.


Question: November of 2002 mu husbands father told him that he was not his real, biological father. My husband asked his mother and she denied it. We then had a dna test done and sent to a lab in ****. The test came back stating that my husband and his father were not biologically related. We confronted his mother just recently and she told us that the only reputable lab is in Las Angelas, California, which I highly doubt. We researched this pretty thouroughly before purchasing the test. I know that I am probably right on this issue and that the mother is just in total denial, but I just need to ask the stupid question for my own conscience. Also, can you tell me if my husband and his brother were to have a dna test done could it tell if they have the same mother but different fathers?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I had to chuckle when I read this because, as much as we all love the great state of California, they are definitely NOT the end all in quality dna testing. There are on two quality labs in California that I would even care to deal with and there is one, I believe in Washington state which is not bad--BUT for the record, the majority of paternity testing in this country is based on the East coast. If the lab that you used is the one that I think that it is then I am sure the results are fine. Now to your question: " Also, can you tell me if my husband and his brother were to have a dna test done could it tell if they have the same mother but different fathers?" The answer is yes--you can do a sibling relationship test to determine if they are whole or half siblings.


Question: Ok this is going to sound very complicated..But I am beating myself up over this..need to get a grip. In February of this year I had sex while using condom w/ my b/f. On February 22 I had unprotected sex, and basically went all the way with my ex b/f. On March 13 I found that I was pregnant. At my 16 week ultrasound it said that my due date was November 16 2003.. My last mense was on February 8. Now in all due reality I am about 98% positive that my ex is the father because of the birth control method we used, and the timing of intercourse. I mean is it possible that my b/f would be the father seeings we did use protection? We used that method for the 5 months we were together and never did I become pregnant until the month that I cheated(as horrible as this sounds) I need a piece of mind. I plan to get paternity test done anyways. But am playing eeny meeny miny moe on who I should select to take it first. Isn't that just lovely. Please give me advice because I truly need it.. Oh and also how ac cur
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The only answer that I can give you at this time would be based on the projected due date. It sounds to me like the baby has been born and you are correct in deciding to move forward with a paternity test. The accuracy of my information is going to be totally dependent on the accuracy of the due date. Based on the information that you have provided, the conception range would fall between January 29th and February 12th. Again this is an approximation based on information that you have provided to Divorcenet. I hope this helps you to make your decision.


Question: I have a eight month old daughter. Her father and i are no longer together her left three weeks after she was born. he signed her birth certificate but is now doubting he is the father. what i want to know is if he has a paternity test done will they test all three of us or just him and my daughter?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: They could test either way actually. There are obvious advantages to having the mother tested but it is not absolutely necessary. Motherless calculations have become routine in this industry and dna technology makes the test powerful and highly conclusive. Having the mother tested is easier on the lab because the lab gets a complete picture of the dna received by the child from each parent. If you are available for testing then you should consider submitting your sample.


Question: I saw that one of your answers about testing first cousins that labs would not do this test. I have sent bucchal swabs along with my alleged first cousin to ******* for testing. It cost $645. They said they look at 36 markers. So far they told me that the results were not inconclusive, and they would have to look at it again. They said that 15 markers did not match, and the number was .0953. I had sent them a bucchal swab of my mother, and asked them to use this in their analysis. They had not checked my mother's swab yet. I am testing for paternity. The alleged father is dead, and the alleged cousin's father would have been brother's with my alleged father. Her father is deceased too. I have no siblings, but alleged cousin has a sister. Both alleged cousins are females, but I don't believe I can obtain samples from one of the sisters. Any suggestions? Is this company a phony? Please withhold my name.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The compnay is NOT a phony but I do not know anything about them or their reputation. I knew a director (from another lab) who once said that "if you pay me, I will test anything" and that is something that you have to remember about paternity labs--this is a business. Most labs would not do this kind of test because it is expensive for the lab to perform and because the results can come out inconclusive. I guess that my questions is: "if the test was NOT inconclusive then why haven't they given you a result yet and why do they have to look at it again". I suspect that they may be having trouble coming up with a high enough calculation for a report OR if they believe that there is NOT relationship, they may be running the test a second time as a quality control check. You should have submitted your mother on the first round but it would have cost you some additional money. How did this man pass away--was there an autopsy performed? If he had any medical tests then are there samples still around? Look for parrafin blook specimens, blood, tissue, stain and fta cards, swabs and slides. Slides are not the best sample but that usually is an indication that there may be a block sample around somewhere. His next of kin will have to release the sample for use by a lab. You mentioned a mother of the deceased. Is the father of the deceased alive--if he is then make a solid effort to do a Grandparentage test. That would solve the problem right away. DID he have any other children by either yourself or another woman--check into this because you could do a sibling relationship study. Lastly, have his mother check his person items for either blood or hair (with roots--not clipped). You would be surprised what is lying around the house. Sometimes dna can be pulled from these items. Did you two correspond by mail or are there letters available to anyone that he might have sent. These items can be checked for dna from the saliva. Mind you, some of these examples are expensive to test so you might want to look around for competitive pricing but make sure that you use a laboratory, like Fairfax, who is certified for this type of testing--otherwise you may just end up spinning your wheels.


Question: My ex husband is deceased and I need to find out his blood type for my daughters health reasons. I am O+ and my daughter is A-. Can you tell me what his blood type is
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: No I cannot. If this is really for your child's health, this is a dangerous way to go about determining someone's type. The simplest way to do this is to contact his next of kin and ask them to provide the blood type--as next of kin, they should be able to obtain the information from his physician.


Question: I foound out that I am 17 weeks and 5 days pregnant. The nurse who did my ultrasound told me that it can be off up to 1 week and 2 days. It it to my demise that in that time, it could be one of two people's child. If it goes one way it is one father's, if it goes another way it can be another father's child. I need to know how and where to go to get an amniocentisis test to find out who the father is. It is very important that I find who the father is before the child is born on May 6th of 2004. This is the only way we know how to do it. Please help!
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: There is only one way to do this: you need to have a physician's referral to perform this test. Go see your doctor and see if he will perform the procedure. If he wil not, then you will have to check with other doctors on your own.


Question: My ex-girlfriend and I were dating off and on, then she became pregnant. The baby is now 10 weeks old, we were never married. She had other guys involved in between seperation. I want to established paternity so I can take care of the child if he is mine. She does not want a paternity test. Can I establish paternity even though she doesn't and we were and not married?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The only test tht you can perform is a home collection kit which is NOT court admissible. For one that could establish your rights the test would need to be court admissible. You may want to consider consulting with an attorney to see if you can obtain a court order to compell her to take the test.


Question: strongly believe my husband's daughter is not his child. he had a dna test done because her mother was cheating on him. > also i read somewhere that parents with blue eyes cannot have a blue eye child. > is this true? The results said he was 97percent included
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The result (97 percent) is an indication that a second test should be performed. There is a three percent chance that the test is wrong. That is not an acceptable number.


Question: Can paternity be determined during the second trimester of a pregnancy?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: yes


Question: Hi My question is: Can you establish paternity when one parent is deseased(father)? Is it worth doing a paternity test with other siblings? How much is it and how long do it take to get results.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Yes it is (see my previous answer). A biological relationship MAY give you the answer that you need. Look to pay 600 dollars or more for the test. It usually takes four to six weeks to complete such a test.


Question: my alleged father died 21 years ago, i need proof that he was really my biological father.I read that we can use deceased samples but from someone that has been dead for so many years is that possible. i never met this man. can a court order one of his children for dna testing?? i live in Canada.. i need proof he was my father.. how do i go about it??
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I cannot tell you how Queen's counsel would handle this. Here in the United States, you would most likely contact an estate attorney if this were an estate settlement issue and in some cases the attorney could get a court order for testing. Generally, the family members are contacted and a volumtarily agreement can take place and a test can be performed. So in answer to your question--yes--deceased samples can be used--you are going to need the permission of the next of kin--you will need to consult an attorney if you feel that a court order will be necessary.


Question: MY BOYFRIEND HAD A PATERNITY TEST DONE.. THERE WERE 19 LOCI TESTED. HE HAD 2 ALLELES FOR EACH LOCI THAT WAS TESTED EXCEPT 2 LOCI WITH ONLY ONE ALLELE. BUT FOR THE MOTHER, SHE ONLY HAD ONE ALLELE IN 8 LOCI.. WE HAVE HAD 2 TEST DONE.. ON THE FIRST TEST SHE HAD 1 ALLELE AT VWA LOCI BUT ON THE SECOND TEST SHE HAD 2 ALLELE. I AM WANDERING WHY SHE HAD SO MANY LOCI WITH ONLY 1 ALLELE? THAT SEEMS LIKE ALOT OF SILENT ALLELES TO ME..
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: They're not silent alleles but probably instances of her having two alleles of the same type. The industry standard is that, when only one allele is seen, to report that allele once, knowing that each person has two alleles at a locus but only reporting one in such cases, because that's all you can see. To put it more simply, if she had two alleles that were 18, rather than reporting as "18, 18," the report would just list "18."


Question: When i was 6 mo. Pregnant. My boyfriends mom who is a R.N ordered a test off the internet I think at ******** and said all she had to do was take blood from my arm and swab my boyfriends mouth and send it back. They told me the test said it was his but some of the Dna was messed upi never saw any papers or proff. Is this possible just by taking my blood and his saliva? The test cost 1,000 dollars and they told me it was a new test that came out. just curious.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It sounds like to me that you had a fetal cell separation testi performed. 1000 dollars is too much to pay for a test that has NOT yet been validated here in the United States. When the child is born, you should probably do a more reliable test that is valid in this country. By the way, the company that handled your test did NOT perform the procedure--the took the samples and sent them to Canada which means that I am doubtful that you will get your own copy of the test from the lab that actually did the testing. In the United States, ANYONE who is tested is entitled to a copy f the test results.


Question: My wife is B+ and I am o-. our son is ab+ is this possible that i am the father. He has been for three years. kind of worried me when i noticed the blood types.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Go to fairfaxcryobank.com and click on the blood type predictor. It will calculate all of the combinations that are possible with you, the mother and the child.


Question: I have a boy of 14 years of age who lives with me. His mother passed away 5 years ago. We are not in good terms with any of the mother's family. I've always had this feeling that I may not be the father of this boy. 1. Can the partenity test [or DNA test] be done with myself and the boy only?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Yes, you can go to Paternitynet.com and download our QuickHit downloadable test kit for paternity. The cost of the test is only 210 dollars. When you do the test, mark everywhere the mother's name appears as "NOT TESTED". This will indicate to the laboratory that you wish to have us perform a motherless calculation.


Question: How long does a Lab have to keep samples used in a previous HLA Test. The test was taken in 1990 by Genetic Design but Lab went out of busines or taken over by another company, would they still have those samples to retest using DNA? Don't have access to child.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Genetic Design did not go out of business it was acquired from Genzyme Genetics by Laboratroy Corporation of America. Records would be held by Labcorp--you will not be able to do a DNA off of those samples however as samples are typically eliminated after 3-5 years of holding. The actual written HLA report will be absolutely useless in a DNA test. You will need to recollect all of the samples and retest.


Question: I have been named as the father of a child in a state in which i do not reside. The courts in that state have said that there is paternity established, and have been taking child support although i do not appear on a birth cert. NOR have i EVER had a test performed. is there any avenue ( i realize you are only a testing lab) you can direct me to for answers as to whether this is legal?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Thank you for recognizing that we are only a lab. I do not know the total situation but I can tell you that you do need an attorney who practices in the state where the order for support has been established. I suspect that they may have made an attempt to contact you but failing to do so may have declare your parenthood by default OR the child was born into a marriage. Seek an attorney in the other state and they should be able to advise you as to how to proceed.


Question: I am married and had an affair with a girl, she became pregnant and had a girl child. I have never seen the child and it is known that I am not the only one who can be the father. I wish to give up my rights if I am the father. How do I do that? I live in the state of NY and she lives in VA? She told me that I am not the father and public assistance sent me a child support order with my name and 3 other men. The child has my last name and I do not want to be a part of the Childs life I told the mother before she had the baby, I did not want to be a father again, especially outside of my marriage.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Giving up your rights is probably not something that you should discuss with a paternity laboratory. You have to consider that you and mother are in two separate states so the signing away of rights in one state may not be valid in the state of New York. You need an attorney to help you sort this out.


Question: CAN WE DO A PATERNITY TEST RIGHT AFTER THE BABY IS BORN? BECAUSE AS FAR AS I KNOW YOU HAVE TO HAVE THE DADS NAME ON THE BIRTH CERTIFICATE BEFORE YOU LEAVE THE HOSPITAL(FOR SUPPORT)? IT IS BETWEEN TWO GUYS AND IF I COULD DO THE TEST RIGHT AFTER THE BABY WAS BORN IT WOULD REALLY COMPLICATE THINGS A LOT LESS. I LIVE IN VA IF THAT MATTERS.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The hospital cannot pressure anyone into signing the birth certificate--check into this. The hospital needs to process its paperwork. you can have the test as soon as the baby is born--with Fairfax, who is also in Virginia, you can get the results back in 5-7 business days.


Question: It is possible my brother has fathered 2 of my children (boys) do we both need to have a blood test or just can I have a blood test with the children and mother? Is it possible the DNA would come back "yes my children" and yet could they still could be my brother's??
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It is always a good idea to have all posssible fathers tested. However, this is not always possible. You can do the test without the brother but make sure you let the lab know beforehand about the situation. If you do then the lab will render for you a quality result. If the lab says yes, knowing what you have told them, then it should be ok. If you feel even the slightest doubt that the results may be incorrect then move forward and have your brother tested.


Question: I recently found out that I am 7 weeks pregnant. I told the father and he is requesting a DNA test. He wants to know right away because he is married and doesn't want to tell his wife about the baby if it is not his. How long does it take to get paternity results back through an amnio? Can I have it done at my OB/GYN? How expensive is it and do insurances usually cover such a test? Thanks for any help you can provide.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Do not look for insurance to cover a paternity test--especially one that is prenatal. You can look to spend around 2000 dollars in out of pocket expenses when you consider that not only do you pay for the test but you also pay for collection of the amnio sample--a collection which hss to be performed by a physician. You can do a test utilizing CVS samples at about the 10th week--same prices apply for this procedure as well and since it is also invasive the procedure requires a physician. Do not look for your OB/GYN to want to do this. You may have to look around to find a doctor who will perform the procedure and take up the additional responsibility of doing the chain of custody which are so important for these tests.


Question: If 2 brothers are not sure which one of them fathered a baby, would the paternity test show which was the father or would their dna be too much alike?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Unless they are true identical twins, a paternity test WILL be able to determine the paternity of the father.


Question: My question is my son who is 17 will be 18 in july is going to be a father and the girl who is his girlfriend and they get along great she is 17 will be 18 in january and the baby is due in june well her parents don'nt want her to get married but she wants to and my son he wants the baby and takes for responsability of it but if they don'nt get married he is afraid he will have to adopt his own child and he dose not want that. can she put his last name on the birth certificate or not let me know what to do. Dad Grandpa lol
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You need legal counsel on this I am afraid. I will suggest that you check out the grandparent board here at divorcenet and the adoption board as well.


Question: My wife just had a baby. The baby looks like a close colleague and friend of my wife's, and I am starting to feel paranoid. I have told noone but would like to know what options are available to me. How can I find out if this baby is mine?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: in your situation I would just do a homekit. You can obtain one over at paternitynet.com.


Question: Let's say a man didn't want to have a child, maybe he told the woman over and over again that he didn't want a baby, and the woman decided on her own to have the child. The man only pays child support and has never seen the child (the child is 2 years old). Again the father has never seen the child,and been around the child. And the mother has a new boyfriend and the child considers that man to be the father. The child even calles the man "Daddy". If the biological father wants to sign over his paternity rights, can he do so. And if he decides to do so, will he still have financial obligations towards that child (child support payments). Considering the simple fact that he gives up his rights.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: you have to have a lawyer draw up documents to sign away your rights. Child support obligations are up to the court.


Question: I also wanted to ask another question, if I signed the birth certificate when the child was born, but now I have doubts about being the father, can I take a paternity test and if it shows that I am not the father, can I remove my name from the birth certificate? Also, will I still be subject to pay child support if tests confirm that she's not mine, but I'm still on the birth certificate?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: No, if you are found to NOT be the father of the child you will have to go to court and ask for the change on the birth certificate. Decisions on child support payment will remain at the discretion of the courts.


Question: I want to find out if the child is mine. The problem is that I live in Los Angeles, CA and the mother lives in Las Vegas, NV. Is there a way to conduct the testing without us being in the same place? If so, where can I get it done and how much does it cost? Please contact me by e-mail as soon as possible.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It is not uncommon for testing to be conducted with parties in different locations. You can do such a test through fairfax by contacting us at 800-482-3025.


Question: Is there anyway that a paternity blood test could say that someone is the father when they are not? My boyfriend had a patenity test done back in 1994 regarding his youngest son from a previous relationship. Came back he was the father by 96%. After the test his ex admitted that there could have been 3 other possible fathers. Out of 5 children, 3 are ours and 2 other boys are from his ex, all of the children look exactly alike and exactly like their father, except for this one. This child doesn't even look like his mother! I mean there's a huge difference. Is there any possible way that maybe there was a huge mistake. That maybe the people doing the testing felt bad for her because she was extremely upset and caused a huge dramatic scene there because he denied the child, and/or also because he was the only one to show up for the test. Or maybe that it was mixed up? Any chance at all? I know it sounds terrible to still doubt that a child is yours even after that test and all this time..but when you
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I cannot comment on the circumstances of the actual collection of the sample nor on the testing itself. I doubt if there were any conspiracies. I will say that if the test really was 96 percent then there is only a 4 percent chance that he is not the father. Nowadays, you can expect a 99 percent or better with a dna test. You may want to consider retesting if you are uncomfortable with the test.


Question: Hi, I have taken a paternity test for a child that I am still not convinced is mine.I live in a town where the political corruption is really bad. There have many rumors about the ability to pay off a caseworker in the DA's office. That caseworker is handling my case.I went to take the test on 4/28/2003. The mother said that she recieved the results via mail. I had to call the district attorneys office many times, because I never recieved my results. My caseworker told me over the phone that the child was mine, I didn't get the actual paper until I went to court to settle the child support. Shouldn't I have recieved the results sooner, and by mail as well? I was also checking the information on the ******* case invoice. The person collecting the childs sample put an incorrect dob for him. The child was born 02/06/02 and the paper reads 02/06/00. Shouldn't this information be matched up by the birth certificate? I know that you can't give me legal advice, but do these procedures sound accurate to yo
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Actually, I can answer this kind of question for you. The information is not matched up by using the birth certificate--the lab will go by whatever the paperwork says that comes in. Labs are extremely dependent on those who collect the samples. The caseworker can either give you the results on the phone OR they can mail you the results. If you are not satisfied with how you received the results the best thing for you to do is to contact the lab and ask them to send you your copy of the report. You are entitled to a copy of the report if you are tested. If the lab refused then serve them with a court order that says they are compelled to turn over that information to you. MAKE SURE THAT THE ORDER SAYS THAT THEY ARE TO TURN OVER ALL INFORMATION REGARDING THE TEST--NOT JUST THE REPORT ITSELF.--this way you can seek the help of a consultant. It is your right. I am not sure that you actually have a case to fight but you will never know until you get the data in your hand to examine. Good luck.


Question: is there a pre birth paternity test . and if so what is the cost.how far along must the pregnancy be before being tested
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: yes. 10 weeks with a doctor's approval. Look to spend close to 2000 dollars on the test.


Question: My father has type O- and my mother has type A+. My sister has type AB+. My mother claims that this is possible due to some 0 subtype Thing??? Is there any possible way this sister also belongs to my father?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I cannot answer that question with a blood type- it would be reckless to suggest the possibly of your siblingship based on blood types alone. Regarding the blood type, the sister should be either an A or an O. I have no idea what a "0 subtype thing" is. You may want to consider getting with the sister and having a sibling test performed. You can get one of our QuickHit Sibling Edition tests over at paternitynet.com. The cost is only 400 dollars. Good luck.


Question: Me and my girl friend have been together for about 1yr.4mo.we have a child together(she has a child with her xboy friend and he has custody of her we are in court fighting for custody)our son is 8 mo.old her x said he didnt want anything to do with the baby when she was 3 weeks pregnant,This baby could be mine or his but i have taken it upon my self to raise this boy he has my last name im on the birth certificate as the father and he is on my insurance i pay for everything for my son and am very emotionaly atached.Her ex has recently decided he wants a paternity test and keeps saying hes going to take the baby.I dont want this to happen do i have to give him a paternity test? do i have any rights?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The ex-boyfriend sounds like he is trying to intimidate the mother in order to get her to back off the fight for custody of the first child. If you do not have an attorney you need to get one so that he can advise you on things like these. He cannot take the child unless the mother allows him to take the child for the test or if he steals the child--perish the thought. Regarding rights, again check with an attorney and how rights apply to your state. If you believe that this child may be yours, then you should move forward and have the test performed yourself just to get that issue out of the way. You could have a home kit which we sell at paternitynet.com but in this case I would urge you to consider a more court ready solution which you can obtain at fairfaxidlab.com. Best wishes.


Question: My son's father and i would like to get a paternity test done, but how would i go about it? Would it be really expensive, as i am on benefits, and he works, but won't pay for it. Also, would this mean his name would automatically go on the birth cirtificate as the dad?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If you ae not interested in court admissibility but in just finding out if or if not this man is your son's father, you could obtain one of our home kits from paternitynet.com--the kit is free and downloadable-it is also only 210 dollars. As for the birth certificate--there is no "automatic"--birth certificates must be changed in a court of law.


Question: I recently split with my boyfriend. His parents did a swab paternity test without my knowledge. Is that legal??
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: His parents did the test. If they did a home kit then it is a curiousity test and will not hold up in a court of law. If they presented some sort of documentation that indicated the parenthood of the father (a birth certificate bearing the tester's name as the father)then the laboratory will generally allow the test and it could be accepted in a court of law. Laboratories cannot assume that every client is lying in order to get a test so they will try to collect documentation before allowing the test to take place. This, as said before, may be something as simple as a birth certificate bearing the requester's name as the father of the child OR it may be a more complicated document know as a consent and indemnity agreement. Keep in mind that, as a guardian, of the child you are entitled to a copy of the results DIRECTLY from the lab. Do not bank on the validity of the test until you have your own official copy from the laboratory. If the laboratory refuses to give you a copy then you can obtain a court order demanding the release of the report. They will be forced to comply. Good luck.


Question: My husband had an affair with a married women. She got pregnant and had a girl. Her husband found out about the affair and beat her up and threw her out keeping the child. Since then there was paternity testing done and it was established that my husband is 99.18% the father of this child. They have fought for this child for a couple years and he still has custody. This womens ex-husband since married someone else and has gotten divorced already for abuse. Can we change the birth certificate, with the paternity test results. The child is now 12 years old.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: No, you cannot change the birth certificate--only a judge in a court of law can alter this document. I would suggest, considering your circumstance, that you both contact an attorney, get sound legal advice and take this matter to court.


Question: Does masshealth pay for dna testing, and where can it be done?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Insurance does not cover paternity testing. Paternity testing is not a medical test--it is a legal test not unlike a drug test. Also, there is no CPT code to cover paternity testing. Where can it be done. Contact Hope Wehr at 800-269-4822 and she will help you set up your test.


Question: My father passed away 16 years ago and I was told that his uncle is really my father. I would like to know what type of testing is needed due to the alledged fathers being related? I live in florida. How do I get this taken care of? Thank You
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Actually, just a regular paternity test will do--but you will need to make sure that the lab knows that this man is your uncle. You can use our extremely inexpensive home kit called QuickHit which you can download over at paternitynet.com Good luck.


Question: I'm a married woman and my husband and I have been trying for a baby for over a year now. The date of my last period was 15th Oct. On 24 Oct I had a one-night stand with a black guy, who used a condom but it burst during sex, although he did not ejaculate. The following week, from 26 Oct - 1 November, during my fertile period, my husband and I had unprotected sex every day. I'm now pregnant, and the due date is 24 July. I'm terrified that there may be a remote possibility that the baby is not my husband's. What do you think the chances of this are, and which type of pre-natal test would you recommend - amniocentesis or CVS? We live in the UK. Thank you for your time.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Based on the due date that you gave me, conception would have happened somewhere between October 17th and October 31st. Again, based on the information that you have provided the odds of the child being your husband's is 50/50. As far as paternity testing, I do not recommend fetal cell replacement as it has not yet been validated in this country. You can have a paternity test at 10 weeks by doing a prenatal test involving the collection of a CVS sample. You will need ONE of the fathers so you will have to confide in one of them.


Question: 12 years ago, we had a paternity test done (the alleged father tested on different time and date) and the alleged father was excluded. A few weeks ago I received a letter from the prosecuting attorneys office saying that the ended up comparing genetic samples of someone with the same name but a totally different person. How does this happen? In the mean time, there was another paternity test done for the same child with a different alleged father and the results were 99.87%. Is this common? Finally, there was a retest ordered for the original alleged father and the results came back 99.99%. Please help me to understand how this happened.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You have posted this question once before only I seem to recall that it was eleven years instead of 12. Once a sample is collected at the draw site (this is where most switches occur by the way) the samples are overnited to the testing laboratory. The laboratory accessions in the samples and assigns it a specimen number. All of the information is stored in a computer. The sample is then placed in storage or is immediately tested--depending on whether or not ALL of the samples being used in the test have been received. Honestly, I am surprised that there would be a mix up since most since almost ALL labs have safeguards in place to prevent such things from happening. You want me to explain how this could have happened. In your case, I have no real answer since I do not know every single detail of how this particular case was performed. Your best bet is to backtrack every single detail from the lab back to the collection point and see if you can find the defining moment where you believe the mix up happened.


Question: hi my name is *****-- im 19 years old and my wife and i have been married for about 2 months. the doctors say her due date is apri 20th, and the conception date is cutting to close to a guy she had slept with before we met basically we fell in love the first time we had met.so anyway my question is can a paternity test be done while my wifes preagnant?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Yes, but the collection of the fetal sample must be performed by a physician. The procedure is expensive but can be performed btween the 10th and the 22nd week of her pregnancy. Step one would be to first arrange for the ocllection with the doctor. Call us at 1-800--482-3025 and let us know the appointment date. Once we have made account arrangements with you we will send a test kit to the doctor--make sure he understands that he has to use the test kit and that the samples are being collected for paternity. See if he will collect swab samples for us from the mother and the father--if not we will arrange for those samples to be collected elsewhere. He then sends the test to us and we perform the test.


Question: does a perons dna change if they've had a blood transfusion?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Blood that is is transfused into the bloodstream usually takes around 90 days to circulate throught the body. No. It does not change the DNA.


Question: I married my wife in Dec. while home on leave. Baby was born the in October of same year. She told me it was mine. I would now like to get a DNA test done, because I'm not sure it is. Can I disqualifying the parental acknowedgement it the test comes back that I am not the father. (State of Virginia)
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Again, folks--this is a laboratory--we are not attorneys but if you read the Federal OCSE state profiles you will see that in order for paternity to be legally established a paternity aknowledgement has to be be signed. This usually locks in paternity. Consult with a qualified Virginia attorney regarding whether or not a dna test can, in fact, overturn that document.


Question: My husband is about to go to court due to a default judgement against him for a paternity hearing tht he never recieved notice of. We have the attorney asking for the DNA test to be done as well as the judgement to be put aside till the results come in. NOW do we have to go with the place for DNA testing the friend of the court or judge uses for the test or can we use our own that we hire? Reason i ask is we will have to pay if it comes back positive, and she will have to if it's not but I just dont trust people and this system that never notified us correctly.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: That is actually a very interesting question. It will depend on the Judge. First consider that your husband is in default and that there is a chance that the paternity request will be denied. If the Judge grants your test he will do one of several things: 1. order that the state pay for the test (taxpayers) 2. Order your husband to pay for the test 3. Order the mother to pay for the test 4. Order that the husband and the mother split the cost of the test. NOW this is important--it is entirely up to the judge so here, in this forum, it would be cavalier to second guess a judge. You are smart to engage the services of an attorney in light of the fact that paternity has already been established by the default judgement.


Question: My babys father did not sign the birth certificate because I gave the baby my last name. I am living in West Virginia. I was wondering was rights does that father have when it comes to this baby. What are the laws in West Virginia?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: We answer questions regarding paternity testing. I cannot advise you regarding all of the laws in West Virginia. I suggest you seek the advise of an attorney. Thanks.


Question: We got a child support order a 1 1/2yrs after the child was born. We didn't even know the child exsisted. My husband took a paternity test and it came back 99.99%. The ratio was 1/100. There was only 9 markers listed and he shared 3 out of those with the mother. It was a PCR or something test. Is this accurate? The mother and child were also tested 1 year prior to my husband in another state does this make a difference? It's through the state are there cases of fraud? The mother also slept with someone else and he hasn't been tested does that make a difference? My husband was a one night stand so it concerns me. Is it worth paying to get another test? Please answer ASAP
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: What you are describing sounds fine as far as the test is concern. DO NOT re-test the father until you have tested any other potential fathers have had their test. It is pointless for your husband to be re-tested until the other man has been eliminated.


Question: Can one voluntarily relinquish parental rights? And, if one may, Is that person responsible for child support thereafter? Or, Is one absolved from that respossibilty (assuming no child support arrearages exist for the time proceeding the relinquishment)? What is the criteria for voluntary relinquishment?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: This question cannot be answered in this forum. You need to consult with an attorney.


Question: i am legally married but am seperated from my husband. i recently found out that i am pregante by someone else. i am a 100% sure as that my husband is not the father, what will my childs last name be and who will have rights. i was told that my babys father could not even sign the birth cert until my husband either signs over his rights or takes a dna test! i dont understand this, my husband knows this aint his baby and i dont wanna get him involved anymore then he already his.....and if the babys father doesnt sign the birth cert can my baby have my maiden name!
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The child was born into the marriage and so the LEGAL father is the husband. You may be 100 percent sure that he is not the father but you are going to have to prove that what you claim is true. You need to test either the husband OR the lover. One or the other. You should consult with a family law attorney regarding your husbands rights.


Question: My question is regarding testing for Native American heritage. My husband is adopted and it's been confirmed by his adoption agency that his biological grandfather was/is 100% Native American Indian. She said that she couldn't find any mention of which tribe he was from but my husband's adopted parents have mentioned that they were told the name of the tribe but have forgotten it. They were also supposedly told that either the grandfather or the great-grandfather was an Indian chief. Is possible for my husband to have a blood test done that would be able to give us any clues into what Indian he is? If so, could you tell us what type of blood test it is and how we could go about getting it done? BTW, we have also been told the rest of his racial background (Irish and German.) Thanks for your help!
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: There are some laboratories that allege to be able to judge an individual's "racial" background. I'm not sure how accurate any of the testing is that supposedly can do that, because I don't know of any genetic markers that are specific to any particular racial or ethnic group. Some characteristics may be more common in one than in another, but I am not aware of any particular marker that is present solely in one racial or ethnic group and not in any other one. Human populations move around, always have, always will, and they carry their genes with them when they do. Historically, when a population moves into a new geographic area, they don't usually (there are exceptions) completely exterminate the groups already there. They usually interbreed, and the genetic makeup of the descendants is a mixture of the two original groups.


Question: Brief history..Slpet with lady 1 time with condom. We took paternity test thru attorney general in Houston and it came back 0 % excluded from being father. Now she's turned around and filed it again thru Woodville Tx. Do I have to keep taking these test for the same child? When is it over?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: That is very interesting--she refiled the case through a different jurisdiction. I would do two things--contact the attorney general's office where the test excluding you was handled and find out EXACTLY what the policy is on this and why she was allowed to refile. I would also contact a private attorney and find out what your civil rights are regarding this issue--if the court accepted the first test then it should be ok. Keep in mind that the attorney may insist on a second confirmatory test in order to validate the outcome of the first test. Do not be alarmed if he does want you to have a second test--this is a routine procedure.


Question: Is it Normal for non related people to have the same alleles.My husband and I just had a paternity test done and 8 of our alleles match.Could you please explain this to me.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: you don't say "8 out of how many" so this is hard to answer. But if you had a standard STR test done by a credible lab, there should have been at least 6 loci tested, probably more. That means that you and the guy had 12 alleles at those 6 loci. The STR loci are less variable from person to person than the alleles in RFLP are, and some of those are very common in the population, so finding two unrelated people that share a number of alleles is not unusual. It's when they share at ALL loci that there is evidence of a relationship, and if they share but know that they're unrelated, something unusual is going on.


Question: my boyfriend just went to court to establish paternity which he has his results of the DNA test, and for child support. the mother came clean and told the judge that she got married a month after the baby was born. We did not know she was married. With this information the judge ajourned the case for another to months but we don't know why can you please help?? This happened in NYC
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Very interesting but I have no clue--I would suggest that you seek counsel from an attorney to discover what this all means.


Question: I am AB+ and my wife is O+. It it at all possible that we can have a daughter that is type O. I am certain my daughter is mine but I am confused over the blood types. Do you think it is possible/probable that the Hospital miss typed her blood at birth 22 years ago
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The child wiuld be an A or B. It is always possible for a mistype to occur. If you thing that this is the case then you should have your daughter re-typed at least twice by two different services so that you can get a reliable confirmation. Any hospital blood bank as well as the American Red Cross can perform a type for you.


Question: Is it at all possible for DNA to be altered or changed after undergoing chemo & radiation. One child was conceived before the cancer and the other child conceived during the time of treatment. DNA swab testing came back with 0 possibilities of the fater being the father?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Good question but radiation altering dna is the stuff of Science Fiction of the 1950s American and Japan when the fear of nuclear attach ranked right up there with being infiltrated by the communists. You probably have nothing to worry about if a swab test was performed. Have you tested all of the potential fathers. That would be your first test. Otherwise you need to test again using a different lab and test using court admissible procedures so that the collection of the samples can be properly monitored.


Question: My fiance and i have a child. he was born 9 months ago and shortly after his birth i was informed about and fling she had that was within two weeks of the conception date. my question as the supposed father in washington is, What would be the best method for establishing paternity without getting dshs involved with the matter?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I am assuming that you thought you were the father of the child and that you also had slept with her at the time of conception. Quit chasing after him and have yourself and her and the child tested. If the child is not your's then the mother should file for child support with the state and let the state handle the details of things like collection and child support. I have no idea what a "dshs" is but I am assuming that is an agency.


Question: If we can get a hair sample(from the child) lets say. Can a dna test be done? The mother is in WA and we are in MI she wont produce the child for the test we know the man she is living with relative and she can prob get some of the childs hair / finger nail clippings when she visits
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Hair--with roots--ok, hair clippings--NOT good--finger nails--forget it.


Question: How would one file a paternity test if the man believed to be the father is deceased? How can one file a claim against his estate for support. Though the father is deceased, if he left behind any money would the child be entitled to it even though the father didn't know about the child before his death?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: To claim rights to an estate you will need to contact an estate attorney who can properly advise you of what you can and cannot do. Paternity testing can be performed using deceased samples, BOTH parents of the father (paternal grandparents) or a child can be tested against potential siblings.


Question: Can the father terminate his parental rights if the mother does not agree to it? We are not married and he deceived me by dating me for 18 months and never telling me that he had a girlfriend of 4 years. Now that I am pregnant, he wants nothing to do with the child. Can he terminate his rights even though I don't want him to? I want nothing to do with him, but I don't want to deny my child the right to know his or her father.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Termination of rights is not a DIY issue. IF he is the father of the child then he has rights--in order for him to dis-establish paternity he will have to have a paternity test and then you take the results to an attorney who can then properly advise you on parental rights. If he "wants nothing to do with the child" and he is just walking away saying that he is terminating his rights--it is NOT,in fact termination--it is desertion. Get a paternity test performed. If he refuses to cooperate, then file for child support with the state and let him deal with them.


Question: I don't know what to do i broke up with a long time ex and met another guy soon after for 3 month i have been sleeping with both of them, the thing is ive been with my ex for 2 years and we have had unprotected sex for that long where he doesnt(excuss my language, i don't know how to put it, feel free to change the wording of this) "pull out" so to speak, this new guy i have sleep with about 4 times and well we didnt use protection and he did "pull out" my problem now is that, im pregnant and if it is my ex's i want to keep it, if not then i see myself having no future with this other guy. I have doubts it is my ex's because of the period of time we have been having sex unprotected and i have been pregnant before and i have doubts it was this new guys as he pulled out and we only had sex 4 times or so. The problem is i cant tell when i last had my period its really irregular and i dont keep track and i cant rememeber the 4 times i had sex with this other guy i have took 3 home tests and they hav e a
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I see the paragraph got cut off in mid sentence. I think that you have very efficiently argued FOR paternity testing. You did not indicate whether or NOT you tested BOTH men. You need to test both-- otherwise, if you have performed three home kits on the same father, then you are beating a dead horse.


Question: My son would like to meet his biological father. I have contacted him and he seems a bit nervous. He is married and has a child of his own. His wife has now taken over the arrangements for the dna tests and he has turned it over to her to handle it until the dna tests results. I have already sent him photographs and he believes this child is his as so his wife does also. I sent her the information about a legal paternity test and she prefers only for her husband to do the non legal test home test. I am not asking for anything, the reason I wanted the legal test is because he is out of state. I know the legal test has him show a photograph and fingerprints. What should I do? Let her make the plans? Somehow I feel out of control of this situation. Should I just let her be part of the situation? She said the reason she is involved and not him is because he doesn't know what to say to me. His emotions are hard to deal with. What should I do? I really think it would be great for my son as for the father I would hope. thanks for your help.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I am curious as to why she only wants the home test and, in this instance, I would probably want to be there for the test if I were you. About home kits, I cannot speak for other labs but we require a witness and photographs so that the integrity of the test is not sacrificed. The home test cannot be used in court if he is found to be the father. I would insist on a legal test in this case IF the child is a minor. Give the dad a choice of either a private legal test or a court ordered public one. Take control.


Question: My friend just recently had a buccal swab paternity test and received the results and they read that he couldn't be excluded from being the father. Does that mean that he is the father? It didn't give a percentage.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If the result said "NOT Excluded" that means that he IS the father of the child. However, I am disturbed that the results do not give a percentage. Did you get your copy of the results from the lab or from someone else--please contact me on this.


Question: I am legally married to someone in the military. I have been trying to get divorced for a year now, but he is on deployment. I have had a serious boyfriend for 10 months now, and I am 4 months pregnant with my boyfriends child. My boyfriend will sign the birth certificate when the baby is born. My question is; because I am legally still married, will my boyfriend be the baby's legal father? Or will my husband? Also, would getting a paternity test help?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Generally, and I cannot emphasize how much you need to consult with an attorney to see how this applies with your state, if the child is born into the marriage then the legal father would be your husband. Regarding the signing of the birth certificate, I would hold off having your boyfriend placing his mark on that birth certificate until you have had a paternity test AND you have taken the results to a family law attorny.


Question: Message: when you have a swab test done to see if a child is yours, can results of the father be different? I had done all 3 children at one time, same place. D1S7/MS1 4.84 on test one D1S7/MS1 6.22 on test 2 D1S7/MS1 6.22 on test 3. > the HAEIII tests on test 1 is 6.22 test 2 6.22 test 3 is 4.84 the tests are done threw MDx back in 98. the mother was not tested. all 3 children were done before i got there. is there a chart i can look up? thank you
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You are reading the report incorrectly. There should be TWO numbers > for each person tested. I will bet that you are reading the first > line off of the reports, and on one the numbers are in a different order > than on the others. OK, I just re-read the question, and what I said earlier is exactly what you are doing. what confused me is your saying that there was a number for "test 1" and another for "test 2". In fact, the report needs to be read as D1S7/ 6.22 HaeIII 4.84 for the father tested with each child. Whether the 6.22 is listed on top, or the 4.84, doesn't matter.


Question: I met my first love again after 33 years. We did not know that my first child was his. We have both since remarried and have families of our own. His only daughter is adopted he has no biological child of his own. After a year and a half of seeing each other again we have become good friends and through our talks he began to think that maybe Sis was his and mine. We did a home test and sent it back to a reputible company and the results came back 99.986%. He is thrilled of course but his wife is not. She thinks the company was a fraud and this is all just a big joke. She wants another test done, one that she has more control over but my daughter has refused. The first time was hard enough and she says "I wont do it again." The 3 of us were all present at the time the swabs were taken, sealed and mailed off. There is no way anything could of been changed. Do you think these home test kits are accurate?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Let me start off by saying that Fairfax Identity Laboratories sells home kits. Ours are different in that we demand the same chain of evidence that you would certainly expect from a court admissible DNA test. NOT ALL LABS live up to that standard--regardless of whether or not they are AABB certified. Home kits are only as legitimate as the lab's reputation. You indicated a very strong inclusion--I would tend to think that if the test were sloppily or fraudulenly performed that the father would have been EXCLUDED not INCLUDED. I would talk to your daughter and see how she would feel about performing a second test in a more formal atmosphere. Regarding the man's wife--The child is 33 years old--she is an adult. The issue is between the adult child and the father. This is none of his wife's business so I will tell you to have the confirmation test but NOT one that the wife has say over--it should be ONLY a lab that the father and the child mutually agree to use.


Question: If my due date is May 8th and I had sex with someone August 12th and then someone else August 17th which one is more likely to be the father???
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I don't think I am going to give you a satisfactory answer here--keep in mind that the calculation I performed was based on your due date and that, in itself, is only an approximation. If your due date is May 8th then conception would have happened somewhere between July 31st and August 16th. I strongly suggest that when that child is born that you have a paternity test performed.


Question: Message: My brother married a girl. He had manic depression which was under control. There was delay of more than a year for my brother's wife to become pregnant. While she was pregnant, my brother passed away suddenly. Post mortem was done and the body was later cremated (by burning). After two months she delivered a female child. But we came to know that she had affair with some person while my brother was alive. But we are not aware who the person was. My both parents and her both parents are alive. My question is : 1. Can a manic depression person can have normal intercourse so that wife conceives. 2. Is it possible to do the DNA testing to establish that my deceased brother was the real father or not since he is dead and no sample of his body is available.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Manic Depression does not necessarily impede the ability of a man to help conceive. As to your second question, You can do a grand parentage test to establish the identity of the grand parents--you can work from autopsy samples (I know you said no samples are available but double check)--and if he had any other children they could be tested against the child in question for a sibling relationship.


Question: A father dies leaving behind wife and a female child (only child). In the absence of the father, I came to know from your website that grand parentage test can be done on his BOTH parents to establish the parentage of the female child. In such case does it establish parentage or grand parentage of the child. Does this give the same implication ,that is, parentage of the child and also will it give the same accuracy as that of parentage test which could have been done on the parents of the female child.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Grand parentage only identifies the grand parents. It does not establish the identity of the father--ONLY that one of the grand parents children is the father of the child.


Question: I slept with my boyfriend and his father, my baby is now 2 months old, and my ex boyfriends mother is trying to fight for full custody of my child.We did the paternity test but didn't get the results back yet. She says she's the grandmother and she can get rights. Can she? She is also saying that i'm unfit. How can she prove that. I'm really scared can she really take my baby?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If you go to divorcenet.com you will both a board for grandparents and a board for custody. This is a laboratory board and we cannot answer this type of question here. Try there--I feel confident that someone will be able to assist you. Good Luck.


Question: I AM RH- MY MOTHER IS B+ MY SUPPOSED FATHER IS B- HOW IS THAT!! I READ THAT THE ONLY WAY A CHILD CAN GET RH- IS BY A MAN WITH RH+ IS THAT TRUE PLEASE HELP.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: you have neglected to provide your type but you have provided both types of the parents. The man does not necessarily determine what type you will get as the child--your type can come from either the father OR the mother. Regarding Rh, a positive and a negative will yield EITHER a positive OR a negative Rh.


Question: How accurate are the racial breakdowns indicated by DNA tests? It seems to me that the breakdown would be at least partially deteremined by the critiera used to determine race, kind of like splitting hairs but my friend swears it's quite accurate
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: there are race databases that are compiled over time by each lab. In order for a database to be useful to a laboratory, it has to be statistically verified by a certified statistician. Race is only taken into consideration when a man has been included as the father of the child. It is not necessary to use the database when he is excluded. Here is an interesting note: the man has to be determined to be the father for the race calculation to be performed. If a man is white, for example, but is calculated as a black man the variance in the calculation would only differ slightly--he would still be the father. The racial databases serve to enhance the accuracy of the test.


Question: Husband and wife were living together. Wife became pregnant. During her 7th month of pregnanacy, her husband died under mysterious circumstances. Though the evidences point to wife's involvement, no legal action was taken against her. Child was born. But no contact with in-laws. How to find out whether the husband was the father of the child or someone else. Any test is available in this regard.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I am not going to comment on your speculations. Next of kin can authorize a test. That would be the wife. Testing can come from sibling comparisons of any other children he may have fathered, BOTH grandparents in a grandparentage study or from deceased samples as a result of an autopsy or exhumation. Again, with the mother's consent as guardian of the child and as next of kin.


Question: Please help me. I live in Ironton Ohio, my son was dating a girl and she told him he was the father of her unborn child. He signed the birth certificate and then he finds out he may not be the father. He is having a hard time getting a DNA done so he can find out if he is the father or not. He wants to see his child if it is his.Please help he needs to find out. We cant seem to get the child support to help us..
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I am assuming that if he is having a hard time getting a DNA test it is because he signed the birth certificate. First, get yourself a family support attorney who can properly advise you on his legal rights. He signed the birth certificate and if that means he is the legal father in your state then he will be entitled to paternal rights. In the meantime, trying to establish paternity should be a priority. For the time being, consider a home test kit. They are inexpensive, accurate and yield quick results. You can download our test kit at paternitynet.com. It will answer that nagging paternity question for you and may give the attorney something tangible with which to work.


Question: i am pregnant, and i am sure of the father. he is requesting a paternity test, which i have agreed to after the baby is born. he is insisting on having one done during the pregnancy through cvs or amnio, i am 12 weeks pregnant and my physician does not require me to have an amnio, i myself am uncomfortable with risks involved with the cvs and amnio. can you send me more info on both tests?? can the father force me to have a paternity test while i am pregnant???
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Stick you your guns on this one. Although I am sure that somerwhere out there a court ordered a prenatal test I have yet to hear of one myself. I would not worry about him forcing you to take the test at this time. A prenatal test has to be formed with the consent and assistance of a physician. The procedure is invasive and it is extremely expensive as well.


Question: how can a man fight back on child support issues, regarding him as the father but paternity was never established. he met this women in late november 96. The child was born aug 7 1997. He states the woman claimed she was 2 months pregnant after having intercourse with him barely even a month prior to that, and somehow the child has his last name but he wasn't there to sign the birth certificate and never seen this baby! What casn he do to get paternity established ASAP!
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Your question is vague at best but I will attempt to give you, at least, some comments. First, paternity can be established two ways: by the use of non scientific evidence or by scientific evidence (the dna test for example). You say that paternity was never established--do you mean he never had a paternity test? Did he SIGN anything that could be considered an establishment of paternity? The child having the last name of this man does NOT establish paternity. She could have given him the last name of Presley but that would NOT have established Elvis as the father of the child. Obvviously, as you have said, he needs to either establish or disestablish his parentage in this situation. I would suggest a first step which is a consultation with an acomplished lawyer. He will have to sit down and make sure that attorney has EVERY piece of information regarding the man's problem. The attorney may suggest a paternity test in which case either the test is performed voluntarily or with a court order. I hope this helps.


Question: how soon can paternity be determined? do you have to wait until the baby is born to know for sure who the father is?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: paternity can be determined at the 10th week of pregnancy with your doctor's approval.


Question: Question is.....I raised a child for 15 years thinking he was mine and I got custody through our divorce and she never fought me for it,now he is a ward of the state and they want me to pay support after they haven't contacted me about any decisions made on his behalf in the past 2 years,and it has been told to the child that I am not his biological father that his "real father" is in Texas,mind you I was not married to his mother at the time he was born and I am not on the birth certificate,but he does have my name. In the state of oregon do I have the right legally to request a paternity test?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I cannot advise you on paternity issues and the law--only on laboratory testing and its issues. You need to consult with a qualified attorney in Oregon who can properly advise you. I am surprised that you did not ask the state about the possibility of a paternity test at the time of the child's birth. DO contact an Oregon attorney and determine exactly what steps you can take.


Question: My girlfriend is pregnant with a baby I do not think is mine. I've added all the facts: Her last menstrual cycle was on April 17 or 22; She is on a regular 28 day cycle; We had sex on May 16 (when she allegedly got pregnant); The due date is January 17,2004. I believe she was already pregnant before May 16. With the facts provided, can you please give me insight on the probability of this being my child. I don't want to sign the birth certificate if it is probably not my child, and I don't want to not sign it if I'm just parnoid. Please Help.....
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Based on the due date that you have provided, conception would have occured between April 9th and April 23rd. Let me caution you that these types of calculations are aproximations based on information that you have provided. You really should do paternity testing to settle this once and for all--you can get a really inexpensive paternty test over at paternitynet.com that should suit this purpose.


Question: My son's father passed a few weeks ago. the father never signed my son birth certificate. At the time of his death the mortician gave me a piece of his tissue. I need to know where would i have the paternity test taken and how long would it take to get the results. I am located in the south florida area.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: To get your test started call 800-234-2528. The Florida agent there will help you get everything set up and can advise you on the handling of the tissue sample that you have collected. MAKE SURE YOU TELL HER WHY YOU NEED THE TEST. Secondly, contact the State Bureau of Vital Statistics and make sure that you are clear on what it is EXACTLY that you need to get that name placed on the birth cerficiate. You do not want to pay for a test and then find out the Bureau will not take the result on some technicality. Get your ducks in a row before proceeding.


Question: Can you take a DNA test to prove you are cousins? And if you can, will they prove if you are 1st, 2nd, 3rd etc.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It is not likely that any lab would get a meaningful result if trying to do this kind of test. If that is true for first cousin testing, it is even truer for second and third cousin relationships: difficult to impossible.


Question: Im scared that i may be the father of a child and want to know if there is any way at all to falsify the results of a paternity test?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: There are many ways to falsify a test but understand that I am not going to post information of that nature. If you have not had a test, then have one. If you have taken the test already, then take a second one to confirm the results if you suspect foul play.


Question: I had a holiday romance and slept with a girl between 4th and 13th of February. A daughter was born on 27th September weighing 2.5 kilos or 5 pounds. This is the only information that I have received from the mother as she lives in a poor part of Central America and I am working in Asia so have had no contact with her since the conception other than email. Is the weight about right for the time period? Also, I must have a paternity test but is it possible to take the samples when we are so far apart or would I need to be present at the same time as the mother and daughter.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I cannot tell you much by weight but I can calculate the date of conception for you based on the child's birth date. The child would have been conceived between December 21st and January 5th. It is relatively simple to coordinate a test. She can have a doctor collect her samples on a test kit and you can have your's tested over in asia by the same method.


Question: Are paternity test results public record? If so, how can I obtain that information?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: ONLY Contract Paternity tests are a matter of public record or cases that have been ordered by the court--Private paternity and home test kits are not so depending upon what type of test was performed it may or may not be a matter of public record. You have to check with the Clerk of Courts office for their policies on obtaining those records. NOW, one other thing, if a test was performed by a state and is in the public record, do NOT expect a laboratory to release that information to you. You can only get it from the state--NO ONE else.


Question: My husband is planning on leaving me and has had a concern that he is not the father to our 18 yr. old daughter. How do you do a paternal test, what do you need? Can this be done from your home (or around the Des Moines,Ia. area), how much does it cost, how long does it take and how accurate will it be? Is there anyway to do this without my daughter knowing what's its for, I know this is going to really upset her.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I am sorry to hear about your husband. Your 18 year old is no longer a minor and so you cannot collect and use samples without her ocnsent. As for a paternity test--we have a home test kit over at paternitynet.com that you can download and use. Just follow the directions. The cost of the test is 210 dollars. It is every bit as accurate as a test that would be used in a court of law. It only takes 5-7 business days to get the results back from our laboratory.


Question: Apon receiving paternity results from ************,they state in their report that the biological father is; 'compared to a random man, I am 15000 times more likely to be the father than he is' Does this mean that for every group of 15000 men there are going to be possible matching men to the child's paternal fragments? Or does it mean that comparing your matching fragments to the general population, you are 15000 times more likely to be the father than any man, because of the commoness of the matching fragments within the general population? It also states it is very unlikely that a random man would be of the same match, and that the result is 99.99% accurate and not 100% accurate because it doesnt have every man's profile to compare with. My problem is..that if its the former, then how do know who the father really is if there are matches for every 15000 men? and that cannot mean 99.99% accuracy. I look forward to hearing from you A.S.A.P....a confused and unhappy man.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If you go through the posts on this site, you will find most of the answers that you seek regarding scientific evidence--which brings me to something that you seem to have not considered: out of all of those other men who could, if tested, be the father, how many of them slept with the mother? With paternity testing, there are two types of evidence to consider: Social and Scientific. Scientific evidence would be the paternity test--the conclusion that you are the father has been determined by scientific means. As you correctly point out, this is certainly NOT enough. The paternity test must be compounded with sccial evidence--simply put: who slept with this woman at the time of conception? Anyone was NOT with her at the time of conception BUT fall into an included category via dna testing cannot reasonably be considered to be the father of the child because there WAS NO SOCIAL (physical or otherwise) CONTACT WITH THE MOTHER. So we know that you were with her--who else? Test that person or those people and you wil find that the scientific test as performed by the lab you mentioned (a lab that is very reliable and is one of the oldest labs out there) is sound. If you still have doubts about the results of your test then you should re-test and confirm these results. Don't tear yourself up obsessing over statistic and probabilites when there is a simpler solution.


Question: can a possible child ask for a dna test to be done on her possible father, and then get money from his will... if the child is now 30 years old?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: it is best that you take this question up with an estate attorney but a 30 year could lay claim to an estate and if proof is needed a paternity test could be performed. Again, it is a legal matter which should be discussed in detail with an estate attorney.


Question: My fiance just received notice to go in to get a paternity test done for a child that is 5 yrs old. He told me that the mother of the child also slept with 3 of his brothers and with cousins of his around the same time she got pregnant. She has only implicated him in the paternity testing. Of course he wants to have extended testing done because he does not want to be falsley implicated because the child could very well be one of his brothers and his test will probably come out with positive factors. The mother is going through welfare to get the testing done and he is worried that they will not let him request extensive testing be done due to the fact of her relations with his siblings. What can he do to make sure they do the right testing because of the situation?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The courts have no way to validate your fiance's claims. Extended testing is usually performed at the request of the laboratory if they feel that it is warranted. The welfare department can notify the lab but it does not guarantee he will get the extra testing. The alternative is to request that your fiance' be allowed to conduct a private confirmatory test which he can pay for himself. The lab will probably charge exta for the additional testing so he should be prepared to pay for that as well Once more thing--contract testing by the state is cheaper because the lab is giving the state a volume discount. Do NOT expect to get the same rates as the state.


Question: I have questions reguarding a Non Invasive Prenatal DNA Test reguarding paternity. This is a brand new test conducted by a genetics lab in Canada but they also have labs in the USA. This test was done by a blood sample on the mother and can extract the fetus' cells through the mothers blood to determine DNA paternity results. The father had to send in a mouth swab. How accurate is this new test ? The mother received a phone call reguarding the results from canada & is expecting a letter also. Can you enlighten me or suggest a more reliable test?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I believe that I posted an answer for this question earlier but I will elaborate. First, they do not have labs that conduct the testing in the United States--the samples are collected by resellers here in the US and then shipped to Canada for analysis. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. I will not comment on the accuracy of this test because, as I said before, it has not been validated by the AABB for use in this country and it is not currently a court admissible procedure in this country. Getting the results over the telephone is not the way we do business either. The only other way you can do a test and it IS accurate is to have either a CVS or Amnio sample taken with the approval of a physician. Those samples are then forwarded to an AABB lab for processing. Finally, the best and most non-invasive way to go about this is to simple wait for the child to be born.


Question: If two dna samples were taken,from two different people,and the results showed that there was a 1 in 3500 chance that they were related. How closely related would they be? Are they parent and child or siblings or cousins?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You cannot seriously expect me to tell you anything about a test by just showing me the ratio? You need to be more detailed--name of the lab and the report (in its entirety).


Question: A 35 yr old woman has a 6 mo affair with a 22 yr old man.. Her husband has a low sperm count and and recently she became pregnant.. A paternity test was taken via blood ( mother ) & swab (from 22 yr old ) and the mother was phoned from a lab in canada saying the 22 yr old isn't the father.. Considering the circumstances should another test be taken ? How accurate is a blood test where the babys cells can be extracted?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I take it he had a prenatal test judging from your comments. The fetal cell test that you are describing is not one that has been validated here in the United States so do not look to use it in court. I have never been clear as to whether or not it is validated in Canada or it is just the company that sells the product who has done the validation. I DO NOT like the fact that you received your results over the telephone. Does this mean that you should have another test? It is your call. The husband has a low sperm count but that doesn't mean that he could not get someone pregnant. I will say this to you--do not re-test--have the husband tested and get him out of the way before you jump to conclusions about the first test.


Question: Message: What is the: > D8S1179 > D21S11 > D7S820 > CSF1PO > D3S1358 > THO1 > What do these identify and what do the numbers mean? >
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: They are the designations of genetic loci at which are present short repeat regions of nucleotide sequences. The numbers of repeats at each of the loci differs from person to person, which is how individuals can be distinguished from one another. The loci which begin with the letter D (for example, D21S11) are simply scientific abbreviations for the chromosome on which the repeats have been identified (D21 is chromosome number 21). The other two are characterized genes close to where the repeats can be found (example: TH01 is a gene for an enzyme called tyrosine hydroxylase).


Question: I had sex with my ex on april 16,2002 and had sex with my boyfriend on the 24 of april and found out i was pregnant 3 months later. I had my baby feb 19 2003 could it be my ex?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: the child would have been conceived between May 12th and May 26th.


Question: I am 14 wks pregnant and concerned about who the father of my child is. I read that paternity testing is possible at 10 wks. How exactly does a paternity test work before the baby is born?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The collection procedure for a prenatal paternity test must be first approved by a physician. The sample will either be CVS (10-13 weeks) or Amniotic(14-20 weeks). Once the doctor has agreed to take the sample you call 1-800-482-3025 to pay for the test and to have our lab send a test kit to the doctor. If the doctor will collect your fetal sample but NOT your and the father's mouth sample then we arrange for you and the father to be collected at another facility OR you can opt to have your and the father's sample collected in a non-court admissible home test kit(HIT).


Question: I had sex with a female without protection on the 14th of february and she had her child on the 12 of november does that means i'm the father or could it be someone else?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: conception of the child would have happened between February 5th to February 17th. You should move forward and have a paternity test.


Question: I read your Q / A on when a paternity tests can be done and your answer was 10 weeks. Where can I have this done around Austin, Texas, my OB/GYN said it has to be done after the baby is born.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: This is actually an interesting problem. We cannot refer you to a particular doctor. You may want to show my comments from this board and our information on our website to your doctor and ask him to give you a referral to someone who will do the collection. Otherwise, you wil hve to pull out the phone book and make some calls--oh, you can also contact the local university medical centers, ask for the genetics department and talk to the genetic couselors that work there--they may be able to help you. Now, you are NOT looking for them to perform the test--you want them to perform the collection of the sample ONLY. Once you have found the doctor who will do the collection call me at 800-482-3025 and I will set up the paternity test for you. We will have to send the collector one of our test kits.


Question: Eleven years ago, there was a paternity test done for my son. The alleged father was excluded as my sons father. Just a couple of weeks ago, I received a letter from the prosecuting attorneys office saying that had discoved that the genetic samples used in the testing were samples from another person with the same name. What is the standard process once blood is drawn and how could this have happened? With pictures, ss#'s, date of births and case #'s I don't understand. I hope you can help. Thank you for your time and attention.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Once a sample is collected at the draw site (this is where most switches occur by the way) the samples are overnited to the testing laboratory. The laboratory accessions in the samples and assigns it a specimen number. All of the information is stored in a computer. The sample is then placed in storage or is immediately tested--depending on whether or not ALL of the samples being used in the test have been received. Honestly, I am surprised that there would be a mix up since most since almost ALL labs have safeguards in place to prevent such things from happening.


Question: My girlfriend and I had sex for the first on Oct. 1st. On Oct. 28th not only did she say she was pregnant, but was pregnant with twins. She found out after a blood test and said that their were heartbeats. I've talked to other friends who have had pregnant experiences before, and they mentioned that was way too short of time to know if there are twins, unless she was pregnant by someone else. What are your thoughts?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I would say NOT to listen to your friends because every "pregnant experience" is different. See if your girlfriend will let you speak to the doctor so that you can voice your concerns and get any nagging suspicions out of your head.


Question: Important Announcement!
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Did you order one of those "free" test kits but didn't like the price of the actual test? Collect your samples anyway, and send them to Fairfax Identity Laboratories. Fairfax Identity Laboratories (we are now accepting home kits from other labs) will perform your test on samples collected with another lab's kit. For details and to get started call 800-482-3025


Question: If both parents are dead, can the possible siblings get tested through your kit to find out if they are related? If not through your kit, any recommendations?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: yo can obtain a free downloadable sibling kit for testing from paternitynet.com. The price for the test is listed when you obtain the kit.


Question: This HLA Test was taken in 1990. Would the 99.19 paternity be considered high? Father wants to request a new test through the courts. Mother's (ABO=A),(Rh=Dce),(MNSs=MNS),(Kell=K-),(Duffy=a-),(Kidd=a+),(PGM1=1+,2-),(ACP =B),HLA-A =A28,A23,HLA-B =B35,B17 Child's (ABO=A), (RH=Dce),(MNSs=MS),(Kell=K-), (Duffy=a-),(Kidd=a+),(PGM1=1-,2-),(ACP=A,B),HLA-A =A28,A2,HLA-B =B35,BY Alleged Father's (ABO=O),(Rh=Dce),(MNSs=MNs),(Kell=K-),(Duffy=a-),(Kidd=a+),(PGM1=1+,1-,(ACP= A,B),HLA- A= A24,A2,HLA-B =B35,B16 paternity is 99.19% with an index of 122 to 1.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: For its time, this was considered to be state of the art. Now the test is all but obsolete. DNA is a more precise way of determining paternity and in some instances I have seen it overturn previous HLA results.


Question: Can a paternity test be done at the begining of the pregnancy, 3-4 weeks?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: no--10 weeks.


Question: A woman was married to a man, and also had an affair with her husband's half brother (both have the same father). The husband, (along with the mother and child), took a DNA test using a swab at the courthouse to prove or disprove paternity because they were getting a divorce. The test came back 0% chance that it was his. What is the probability the the child is his half brother's considering she also had affairs with other men? If it were the half brother's child wouldn't there have been similarities of DNA causing the husband's percentage to be higher than zero?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I cannot comment on the chance of the half brother. In order for the husband to have any chance of percentage he would have to match ALL of he alleles. In his case, I can speculate that he had a o match on at least two or three alleles.


Question: I was wondering if the mother and father have different blood types do the baby have to be the same as one of them or can it be a combination of both.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The blood type will come from EITHER the mother or the faher.


Question: I have an identical twin sister and we had sex with these identical brothers. well we are both pregnant and they are both boys. What is the probability that our kids will look identical to each other? this has bothered me for a while. Please help.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The children may well NOT look as much alike as you might think. While you and your sister carry the same genetic information, and each of the guys has the same genetic information as the other one, each of you is diploid, that is, you each carry two, most likely different, copies, or alleles, for each genetic trait. For example, let's say that you carry the alleles "A" and "a" for a certain trait (whatever it might be). When you make eggs in your ovaries, the two alleles separate from each other. One of your eggs that gets fertilized may get the "A" allele, while your sister's egg may get the "a." So the two of you could produce eggs that are different for this single trait. Multiply this situation for each of the thousands of genes that each of you has, and it is rather unlikely that each of you would produce two eggs that are very similar. The same thing applies for the sperm cells produced by the guys; it's unlikely that any two sperm from the two of them will be identical or even very similar. When two eggs, one from each of you, is fertilized by sperm from the guys, the two resulting babies are likely to very different indeed.


Question: My boyfriend and I were trying to conceive all month by having >unprotected sex between 1 and 3 times every single day. He is extremely >fertile. My ovulation time was about May 25th. On June 4th, I had an >unfortunate sex experience with an old benefactor friend...long awful >story..but he used a condom and also pulled out, not ejaculating. On June >12th I took an EPT pregnancy test at home and it was positive with two >strong red lines. On June 28th a doctor told me that I was approx. 5 to 6 >1/2 weeks pregnant and the fetal heartbeat was visible on the ultrasound. I >am now 16 weeks and my boyfriend and I want to know what the chances are, >percentage-wise, that it is his child. We know a prenatal test should be >done, but we temporarily have no money, and are very stressed out not being >able to afford the average testing fees. Until we find help,can you give us >feedback or any reassurance? Additional Information:My due date is Feb. 19th. I slept with the benefactor on June 4th using pull-out AND a condom. I've slept with my boyfriend every single day from the beginning of May until this very date without a condom or any sort of protection.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: conception would have happened somewhere between the 13th and 27th of May.


Question: I slept with two men about 3 or 4 weeks apart and now am pregnant with twins. Is there any possibility that both men could be the father?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If the children are NOT identical there is always an astromically thin chance--it is very rare to happen.


Question: My daughter was born August 27, 1997. My pregnancy went past it's due date and my labor was induced. The original due date was the first week of august. Since I didn't know exactly when I first became pregnant, my doctor based the due date on the size and weight of the baby throughout the duration of my pregnancy. Based on this info, when would I have conceived?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: you haven't really given me any information to work with except an overdue birth day--SO--if I calculate from the date YOU gave me the conception would have happened somewhere between November 19th and December 3rd. If I calculate from August 1st conception could have happened somewhere between October 25th and November 8th.


Question: Can two Parents with type a blood have a child with o type blood.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: yes


Question: Is there a test kit you can buy to self test to see if a baby is yours? Do you all sell such a test? Thanks
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: if you are referring to home kits we do not sell them--the kits are free and downloadable immediately at Paternitynet.com. You do have to pay for the test of course but you send in the money when you send in your test kit.


Question: Can an A+ mother and an A+ father produce an AB+ child. How accurate is ABO blood typing with DNA
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: No. They would produce either an A or an o but not an AB. ABO is not a sound way to determine paternity--because dna tests at a molecular level testing is more reliable.


Question: have piece of clothing that my wife was wearing and it looks like semen. I had not intercourse with my wife in the last 72 hours. If it is someones elses can it be identified? Also if it can where can I take it to get tested?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If you have a sample to be tested go to the new Paternity net.com and download our new infidelity test kit called PPS. If you have any questions call me at 800-482-3025.


Question: My brother died almost ten years ago. My family was recently contacted by a woman whose daughter she maintains is his. He never said anything to us about this before he died, but it could very well be the case that she is. My mother has hair clippings from when my brother was a child, but there are no hair follicles. Is there anyway to test his hair and the child's to establish paternity?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: the hair clippings are useless. If his parents are alive you could test them OR if he had children you could do a sibling relationship study.


Question: is this test stated that this man is the natural father? the mother didn't tell my husband about the baby until we got married. the child is eight yrs old.rflp probes kbase mother d2s44/pynh241.66 hae iii1.76 d4s139/ph302.25 haeiii3.77 d7s467/pac415 3.73 haeii 5.00 d6s132/sli10901.17 hae ii 2.98 child 1.50 1.76 3.04 3.77 4.54 5.00 2.84 2.98 man 1.50 2.26 3.04 2.31 4.54 2.40 2.84 7.09 paternity index 8.54 38.3 4.11 7.74 Does this make name witheld the biological father.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Assuming that you have provided ALL the information, then the answer would be yes


Question: Can Marijuana cause a paternity test to be wrong. My ex-boyfriend smokes marijuana more than he sleeps, eats and goes to the bathroom together. I had been reading about marijauna and mutations but I don't know what any of that means. I am black, I slept with two men. One hispanic and the other black. My daughter looks black and just like the black man. Looks aren't everything, but they count for something. I spent $600.00 on a paternity test at a Drs. office 2 years ago. The test showed that the black man was not the father, but as time has went on, my daughter looks more and more like him. Her hair color is the same color as his, her eyes are hazel just like his and she has a wondering eye, just like him. I feel stupid suggesting that the DNA test is wrong, but could it be.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: no


Question: I need to take a paternity test to find out if I am the father of a 14 year old girl who lives several states away. Both her mother & myself don't want the 14 year old girl to know she is taking a paternity test. Please advise how to proceed?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: you can't--not really--you would be hard pressed to explain fingerprints and photographs not to mention the rest of the ID process.


Question: I am almost 20 weeks pregnant and I was wondering if you can get a paternity test when you are still pregnant because the guy who i slept with wants one done when the baby is born, but I don't want to wait until April 10, 2004 to get a paternity test done. Also, he said that after the paternity test is done and it shows that he is the father then he will do anything the state of Iowa wants him to. What can I do because I don't want to wait until the baby is born to get a paternity test done?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: not much I am afraid. We typically will not touch a prenatal sample collection after 20 weeks. At this point you should probably just wait until the baby is born.


Question: If a man was exluded in 91 by HLA testing (he lacked HLA & MNSs >gene types)would a DNA test have a different outcome?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: there are already two exclusions--a dna test will likely find more and >re-enforce the first test.


Question: I am an 18 year old girl who has never received child support because my biological father left before i was even born. i am wondering if there is anyway that I can do something and get him for child support. I am attending college and have things that my mom and stepdad cannot always pay for. Only problem is his name is not on the birth certificate, but i have talked to him 3 times and he admitted to being my biological father I seriously feel he owes me for 18 years. Is there anything i can do?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: we cannot advise you on the legal aspects of your situation but you should move forward with having a paternity test. At the least, you might be able to get benefits through social security (check this with an attorney) and if he passes away, a paternity test will establish you as a legitimate heir. By the way, if no child support was paid because he left before you were born then someone did not do their job. He did NOT have to be around to support you.


Question: Okay, this story is somewhat complicated. When I turned five months pregnant, my ex boyfriend (the alleged father) told me that he didnt think the child was his. So, to prove him wrong, I took a prenatal DNA test through an amniocentesis. We recieved the results back in one week that stated 0% probability that he was the father. I didnt understand how that was possible, so I figured I must have gotten pregnant before my period which would have put me a month farther along. So, when I called the DNA center back to see about getting another guy tested, I recieved a call back from the labratory director telling me they had messed up on the test, and we were not supposed to recieve the letter stating he was excluded as the father. My choices were to get another amniocentesis, or wait to do the test once the baby was born. I decided not to risk another amnio, and just wait. They still had plenty of my sample and the alleged father's sample left, they just need the child's. So, my question to yo
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I have no idea what your question is because you stopped in mid sentence but I will make a comment anyway. Wait until the baby is born--do not risk a second prenatal test. You can do that test cheaply as soon as the child is born. You can contact me at 800-482-3025 if you have any further questions.


Question: i was married to a man for 10 yrs while we were married we had an open relationship... i became pregnant in 96.. he was aware of the chance that the child might not be his... when we divorced he agreed to pay child support and has claimed the child as his for 7 yrs... now that he has stopped child support.. he says the child is not his...if the child is not his.. does he still have to pay... he signed all papers stateing the child is?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: He proably will have to continue to pay for the child since he signed all those papers. I will say this to you: for the sake of that child's medical history you should move forward and have this child tested against the man you thank may be the child or at least test him against your ex husband.


Question: I recently found my Biological 1/2 Brother and the father is deceased. I was a closed adoption in Iowa. If I get genetic DNA testing with him using his mother to rule out other DNA since we had different mothers and the same father, what kind of a result do you feel this will get? We were born the same day, 4 years apart and favor a whole lot but I want to prove myself. I live in Tennessee. How much will this cost and will it prove that he is my true biological half brother? What is the percentage ratio? I still have doubts he believes who I am...Thanks.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If you go to paternitynet.com you will find that we actually have a downloadable test kit that you can use for sibling relationship studies. This would be perfect for you. The cost of the test is 400 dollars. We try to keep our tests in the 90 percentile and it will determine whether you ARE or ARE NOT related.


Question: IF THE MOTHER HAS A POSTIVE BLOOD & THE FATHER HAS O POSTIVE BLOOD CAN THE CHILD HAVE AB RHNEGATIVE BLOOD/
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: that is a good question--If you go to paternitynet.com the new spin-off of divorcenet.com we have place a "blood type calculator that you can use and see for yourself.


Question: Here's the situation: A married man had an affair with a single woman (he stayed married to his wife). The woman got pregnant and gave birth but did not list the man on the child's birth certificate. The man died last year, having never completed any kind of paperwork acknowledging paternity. Other than exhuming the body for a DNA sample, is there another way paternity of the child be proved? The man and his wife did have a child together.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Actually, there are several ways: If he had other children, then test the child in question to see if a sibling relationship exists. We have a test kit for this that you can download over at Paternitynet.com. You can also test BOTH grandparents for grand parentage. Again, we have a downloadable test kit available at Paternitynet.com for you to use for just this purpose. Lastly, how did he die?--was he autopsied? If he was, then contact the medical examiner to see if there are samples available that can be used for testing. Look for swabs, blood, tissue, or cards. I hope this helps.


Question: my husband and his exwife have a chid and he dosn`t have the match dna to my husband or his mother should he match 1 of them I always heard that you match mom or dad is this true
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: To be the mother of the child the DNA of the child HAS to match the DNA of the mother. To be the father of the child, the DNA of the child has to match the DNA of the father.


Question: When my daughter took her part of the paternity test, which was a swab test, she drank a soda prior to the test. I want to know if this could affect the results of the test, please e-mail me with the answer, thanks.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: No. This should not affect the test.


Question: When my daughter took her part of the paternity test, which was a swab test, she drank a soda prior to the test. I want to know if this could affect the results of the test, please e-mail me with the answer, thanks.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: No. This should not affect the test.


Question: My question is I slept with 2 guys 2 days apart one was white and one was black. My daughter was 1lb when she was born and it was very hard to tell if she had coloring or not. She is almost 8 now and she is very white looking in color but has the eys,manarisims and ears of the black man. She also has a mongloid mark on her lower back above her tailbone(it is very light...but looks like a bruise). Is it even a remote possability she could be bi-racial but have absolutly no color?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You would need a paternity test from one of the fathers to tell. Commenting on things like mannerism and skiin color would be highly speculative.


Question: Prenatal testing indicated that my girlfriend's baby boy had "mosaic" Klinfelter Syndrome. Would a DNA paternity test performed now be accurate given the results of the earlier testing?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: One has nothing to do with the other--a patenity test would still be conclusive.


Question: if you had sex with someone.. and they didnt have protection.. yet your "cherry" didNOT pop.. will i get pregent?? no right?!??????
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If you had sex with someone and did NOT use protection you can still get pregnant--your "cherry" has nothing to do with it.


Question: My wife, soon to be my ex, is six weeks pregnant with a child I know is not mine. I had a vasectomy two years ago and have not had sex with her since last September. Is this information enough for the courts to establish paternity? I am in the military and since I am still married she is entitled to use the military to have the child which I think is outrageous. What else can I do to expedite the fact that this is not my child and disengage her from military benefits?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: No. You willneed a paternity test to establish paternity--you need to see an attorney immediately since there is a good chance this child willl be born into the marriage (depending on how long the divorce process will take). Don't put this off. I doubt you could get a court ordered paternity test at this point in time. Two points of contact: consult with JAG for the benefits issue and a civil attorney for the divorce issue. Good luck.


Question: im 14 yrs old and i havent had my period this month..i havent had sex but i have used my moms vibrator bc i wanted to know what an orgasm felt like..do guys use them..i mean can they? and y is my period taking to long..i should of had it a week ago.. thank u
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Do guys use vibrators? Well it depends on the guy I guess--as inventive as the human mind tends to be I am sure they could find a way. As for your period, if you have never had sex then you could rule out pregnancy and just chalk it up to 14 year old hormonal activity.


Question: I have a son and I do not know where the father is. He does not know he has a son and I have tried to locate him, but he has giving me false info. about himself, (name, whereabouts, ect.)I would like know if there is anyway possible that I could have some type of testing done to find out his real identity, because I want my son to know who his father is. I am not looking for anything, cause my son is now 8 years old, so I have done pretty good for the both of us. I will just feel good if i could close this gap. Thanks for your help.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You should probably consider hiring a private eye to do some research for you. As to testing, if he has any other known children you could do a sibling study. If BOTH his parents are alive you could do a grand parentage study.


Question: my boyfriend signed the birth certificates of both his ex's children. If she takes him for child support can he ask for a dna test even though he signed the birth certificates?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It will depend upon the state so you need to check your state laws--for example in Virginia, if he signed the birth certificate but NOT paternity papers then he could ask for the tests. In other states, this is NOT true.


Question: Me and my husband have been married for a year and a half now out of the blue this girl is tring to serve him papers for child support. but the thing is my husband is the 3rd guy shes tried to pin it on. So if my husband is the father will we have the right to fight for full custody. shes got a 4 year old son already that she does not take care of. And will we have to pay for the testing to be done?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If he is the biological parent he could fight for custody (confirm this with a qualified attorney). Yes, you will have to pay for the test.


Question: I am 24 years old and finally found my "probable father" he is not willing to do a paternity test. what are my legal rights to know. I dont want anything ei money ( I was hoping for a possible relationship) but could you tell me what my rights are and how to go about this. I live in Oregon aned he lives in California thanks alot
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I cannot advise you on your legal rights but I will say that it is difficult to obtain a court order in this type of situation. You need to think outside the box in a situation like this: does he have any other child. If he does, see if they would be willing to do the test and have a sibling relationship study performed by a competent laboratory.


Question: How can a person establish paternity when she was not married to the father and father is dead and father never signed affidavit of parentage?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Well, there are several ways--you could work with a deceased sample if the father was autopsied but you will need permission form the father's next of kin and MAYBE a court order to release the samples. The second way is to test BOTH paternal grandparents--you will,it should go without saying,need their permission. It is unlikely that you would be able to compell them and the third way is a sibling relationship study if the deceased father has any known children. Hope this helps.


Question: Is there a way to test the alleged father without him knowing? I'm not interested in support or anything else & don't plan on bringing it to his attention for various reasons. I won't need to use it for court. I just think that his brother took the initial test.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: No reputable lab would do your test. It is unethical to use someone's sample without their permission--if you do find an lab to perform this rather dubious test just remember that there could be legal complications if the father finds out that you used his sample without his permission. Consult an attorney before you proceed with your plan.


Question: Several years ago, I had a blood draw done for paternity of my son. It came back as 99.87% conclusive, yet there was no penetration. He lives in Florida & took the case to court & the judge dismissed the order. Does this mean that someone else could possible have a higher DNA match? There is one other person that was tested & it returned 0 probability, yet I'm not sure that he was the one that actually was tested. I never saw the picture. Please help me understand.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: There is one key point here that you are not actually coming out to say: that you slept with her doing the time of conception. BUT--when you say that there was no penetration you are implying that you did have sex with her. Even though you may have performed some sort of "coitus interuptus"(withdrawing at the point of ejaculation) you still could have gotten her pregnant. The fact that the other man was tested and excluded serves to validate and to confirm the conclusiveness of your test. Based on what you told me, I believe that you are likely to be the father of the child. To answer your question "Does this mean that someone else could possible have a higher DNA match?"--well the answer is yes--there is a 0.13 percent chance that someone else could match the child. That means that someone living in Barrow, Alaska for example, could be included if tested against the child(Barrow is the city that is the farthest point north in the United States and that is why I am using it as an example). However, in order for the man from Barrow to test positive and to be seriously considered as the father he would have had to actually have had sex with the mother. YOU imply that you had sex with the mother around the possible time of conception, there was another man who also had sex with the mother around the possible time of conception who was excluded which is why I believe that you are likely to be the father of the child.


Question: Hi, my boyfried recently was swabbed to find out if twin boys > belonged to him from a supposed 1-night fling. The index returned with a > Combined Paternity Index of 1758 and Probability of Paternity 99.9432% > accuracy. The interpretation read: The alledged biological father, > ___________ cannot be excluded as being the biological father of the child > __________. Based on these data, the probability of paternity is 99.9432% as > compared to an untested randomly chosen man of the BLACK population. (Prior > Probability= 50%) > > Are these numbers pretty much considered accurate and confirmed.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: from what you are telling me the results that you are here are a standard format and looks to be in order.


Question: Is hair follicle DNA test acceptable in Georgia? If it is, how must > the test be performed?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The use of the hair follicle as a collected sample must be specified in a court order to be used for a paternity test. The test is a DNA test so it is performed like all other DNA tests which means that in order for a test to be court admissible you will have to have a recognized collector at a collection site (a clinical laboratory for example) take the hair sample. The collector will perform a chain of custody which will include photographs and fingerprints. That means the pulling of between 60-80 follicles from your subject. So if you, for example, have follicles that you have harvested from, let's say, a hair brush, and the person has NO knowledge that you are performing the test, then the court would not accept your test results.


Question: IMPORTANT ANNOUNCEMENT
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Did you order one of those "free" test kits but didn't like the price of the actual test? Collect your samples anyway, and send them to Fairfax Identity Laboratories. Fairfax Identity Laboratories (we are now accepting home kits from other labs) will perform your test on samples collected with another lab's kit. For details and to get started call 800-482-3025


Question: How Do I get a Paternity test taken for a child that I do not think > is mine, but, I signed the paper saying that it was mine before.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I am attaching a free home kit that you can use for the test--it is 210 dollars. You won't be able to get a "court admissible" test because you signed paternity papers. However Fairfax Identity laboratories QuickHit is on of the only test kits that requires the SAME chain of custody as the court version. You could take the results to an attorney if you are not the father and he can work with you from there--no guarantees though since you did sign those papers--but the test is cheap and it certainly is worth a shot--in the courts, some states will work with you whiles others will not---the rules are rapidly changing out there. When talking to lawyers, always get a second opinion.


Question: Could you tell me what the percentage standard for paternity testing > is in Georgia?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: According to the US Department of Health and Human Services the paternity standard for paternity in Georgia is 97 percent.


Question: My husband met a girl in high school that was 15 years old, he had sex with the girl and she got pregnant. She was kicked out of her parents home. We later heard that the parent told her to go get pregnant so they didn't have to support her anymore. Well my husband married her to do the right thing. Well he had a good job when the baby was born. Before the baby was 3 months old she left. There are rumors going around that she was sleeping with several different people around the time of conception. She swears up and down that the baby is his, but won't consent to a DNA test. Is there any way for a DNA test without the mother being tested. If so what is the price. The court won't offer a DNA test because he signed the birth certificate and they were married.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: He can do a home kit. Fairfax has one of the cheapest on the market today. You can download the kit by going to the follwoing link: Get Test Kit here. I hope this helps.. If you have trouble downloading the kit call me at 800-482-3025.


Question: ATTENTION READERS!
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Did you order one of those "free" test kits but didn't like the price of the actual test? Collect your samples anyway, and send them to Fairfax Identity Laboratories. Fairfax Identity Laboratories (we are now accepting home kits from other labs) will perform your test on samples collected with another lab's kit. For details and to get started call 800-482-3025


Question: I cannot afford one of those more expensive paternity tests but I want the sam quality and accuracy. Where do I go to find one.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You can get a high quality test for 210.00 by going to the following location: QUICKHIT


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    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: REUSABLE COUPON: 60 DOLLARS OFF THE WEBSITE PRICES OF OUR LEGAL PATERNITY TEST/25 DOLLARS OFF THE PRICE OF OUR HIT HOME TEST KIT/25 DOLLARS OFF OUR EXCLUSIVE CONVERTIBLE TEST KIT. CALL 800-482-3025 FOR DETAILS.


Question: If identical male twins were having sexual intercourse with the same girl, during the same period of time, and the girl became pregnant, how difficult would determing parentage be since they are "identical" twins? I know DNA..but how? I really would appreciate your help with this question. Thank you!
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Through DNA testing you cannot tell identitcal twins apart. The only way that you could determine parentage would be through "non-scientific" means. If you did a dna test for parentage they twins would both be shown to be the father.


Question: i recently received my test results on my twin daughters paternity case.. i have read some of the letters on this area of the site which say they have a cpi of 400 or less.. it seems low to me considering for my twins they were much higher. They are franternal one was 1 in 54,000 and the other twin was 1 in 111,000.. why is one much higher than the other..i am black and the father is white..the twin with the 111,000 looks almost identical to him.. does that have anything to do with why her number was higher...the other twin favors me and another question the genetic system code for D3S1358 is 14,17 for both children, father and mother.. is this unusual. i figured parents of diff race would not really match the same numbers..thank you for any response..the test results came back 99.99%..thank you..
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Since your twins are not identical they, on average, share 50% of their DNA. That means that each child inherited different genetic components from you and the father. As a result, the cpi for each child will be different. That is to be expected when calculating the Cumulative Paternity Index (CPI) and probability pf paternity for each child, regardless of the race of the parents.


Question: Here's the background.....My son was in a relationship with a girl > (who he later found out was VERY promiscuous). She ended up pregnant and > being the responsible man that I raised him to be (little pat on the back > there, lol), he stayed with her throughout the pregnancy and delivery. While > at the hospital, he signed paperwork that he was the biological father. > However, a paternity test had not been done. He has since broken up with the > girl and she has filed for child support. When we went to court, the woman > there (not sure if she was an attorney or a bailiff or something) said that > since he signed that paperwork, he pretty much signed his rights away for a > test. However, she did say that we could protest it IF we hired an attorney > and paid for the testing ourselves. I don't have a problem paying for the > test, because ever since we found out that there was a possibility that the > baby couldn't be his, I had asked on NUMEROUS occasions to go with me for the > testing, and her words to me wer > e t > > I just want to know if there is a way that when we (my son and I) go to court > on the 12th of June (so if possible, PLEASE respond quickly), that we will not > have to have an attorney and there's something we can do that we as civilians > don't know about the law that will allow us to request (and pay) for a > paternity test from the court? > > PLEASE HELP ME! I don't have money for an attorney and I don't want that to > cost my son 18 years of paying for a mistake that he may/may not have made. > The baby just turned 1 in March 2003.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Deidre, unfortunately, My advice to you will be limited since we are a paternity lab and not a law firm. There is that old saying that "he who represents himself has a fool for a lawyer" so you might try alternate routes such as legal aid, paralegal services etc...Remember though that you would use these services at your own risk and there would be no guarantees that he would get a test. Go to the following website before you contact an attorney: Profiles to check out the rules on paternity and establishment in your state. Lastly, pull out your christmas card list or whatever list of friends and relatives that you keep and see if one of them might be an attorney or might know of an attorney who could represent your case for free or at a reduced rate. You would be suprised who you know. Good luck. If you do get the judge to give you the test then contact me and I will personally arrange to give you a reasonably priced test.


Question: If a man is in the military and signs an affadavid of paternity from > long distance, does this legally make him the father? By signing the > affadavid, it put his name on the birth certificate as the father. Now the > mother is almost certain that the child is not his. Is a paternity test going > to help in this matter, or is it too late because he signed the affadavid of > paternity?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Depends on the state. In Virginia, for example, a birth certificate is not considered conclusive proof of paternity but a birth certificate and a signed acknowledgement is. You can check out your state profile by going to the following url: Profiles


Question: Is there a certain age to have a paternity test or can it be done at > birth? > Does Medicaid pay for a test at birth?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: medicaid will not pay for the test and you can have the test as soon as the child is born.


Question: I am a non-US citizen, married to a US citizen (March 1995). Two > months later, she gave birth to her daughter in the US. The daughter is not > my biological offspring. However, now I want out of the marriage while at the > same time deleting my paternity status, my wife agrees to divorce, but refuses > on the paternity side. Can I (as the husband) sue her for paternity now? Has > too much time passed? We have been separated since day one and I never have > had any contact with the daughter.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I believe that the United States has a reciprocal agreement with your country so you should get this settle quickly since she can come after you through the courts for support. I will assume that you had a paternity test and THAT is how you know that you are not the father not some silliness like blood types or just plain suspicion. In this country there are two types of paternity: Legal and Biological. Even if you are not the biological father of that child you can still be liable for the welfare of that child since the child was born into your marriage. While state vary on this you may want to invest some time and money into an American lawyer. If a court admissible paternity test has not been performed then, through your attorney, get one.


Question: I had a friend that stayed with us for about a year and I sometimes noticed that there were traces of sperm in the shower drain. My wife would wash her feet then possibly her vagina with soap. Is it possibly that my wife could be pregnant with my friends child if she got sperm on her hand from the shower floor. Her hands would be lathered in soap.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It is very unlikely--but if you want to know the answer then YOU and your wife should have a paternity test--you do not need the friend.


Question: I have a friend who cannot afford DNA testing to see if the child he is paying support for is his daughter. He has B- blood, his "daughter" is going to have her blood typing done soon. Is there any blood types that would automatically ensure that she is not his? The mother's blood type is unknown.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Well here you have a problem: EITHER the mother OR the father can contribute the blood type to the child. The fahter does not rule the roost on this one. You're missing a blood type--the mother's.


Question: My question is very hard to ask. My friend was divorced Sept 21, 2002 but he had sex with his exwife once in August, but he had had a vicotomy 2 years ago and she was having an affair with 2 diffrent men at the same time. He has had a sperm count done and there were no live sperm at that time, last month. The baby was born on May 1, 2003. What percentage would you think that he is the father. She is saying that he is only because she knows he will take care of this child if he thinks it is his and the other man has already left her. I need to know because I am in love with this guy now and I am hurting.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I do not mean to be unkind but have you actually seen the results of his sperm test? I cannot and will not give you a percentage of paternity without first conducting a test.. No sperm court, sex with the ex wife, sex with two other guys are all hearsay. He needs to have a paternity test. Letting the cards fall where they may--if he is not the father then the percentage will be zero.


Question: I recently had a paternity test from a so called lab from Canada. > Namely **********. They are not accredited by the AABB. The samples > go to a P.O box or Drop box. Their reason for the drop box is that they dont > wish to be solicited by salesmen. Is this normal? In your opinion is this lab > reliable since it isnt AABB accredited? From what I understand all mail going > into Canada from outside of Canada must be opened and inspected by customs > officials. They sent my results to my email address at my request and the > result look different from other sample reports I have seen on the internet. > They also promised results within 5-7 days. They recieved my samples on > 4/25/03 and I recieved my results on 5/16/03. Their reason for the long wait > was that the sample collection was poor and they were trying to clean it up. > Do you know anything about this lab ( **********.) A.K.A > ********** ? Please respond asap I recently learned of 4 other people who > encountered the same problems I had
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It is NOT our policy to comment on the reliability of other laboratories. However, you should have used an AABB accredited laboratory. This insures that quality control measures have been put into place. Do NOT use labs that conform to AABB standards either--they must be AABB accredited--simply put: It means the lab has been inspected by an outside and impartial source. The box number set up that you mentioned is a common practice among small business people that might be outsourcing to a reference lab. That is a common practice but a salesman will find you no matter what box you hide behind. Again, while I know of this laboratory I will not speak positively or negatively of them--it is not my place. When you purchased a home kit and not a court admissible test, you assumed the responsibility of liability for the test. Caveat Emptor.


Question: A woman I slept with has recently had a baby, and I know there are at > least 2 other possible fathers. The question I wanted to ask is about > conception dates. I had a relationship with her in July of 2002 and after we > split she went straight into another sexual relationship right in the end of > July or beginning of August. The baby's due date was May 7th, does a due date > go exactly 9 months from the date of conception if so this would mean the baby > was concieved on August 7th. The baby was born about one month premature and > paternity results are now pending but I Know I did not sleep with her in the > month of August but near the end of July only. Would this make the odds less > in my favor or would the due date mean nothing when it is that close? Thanks > for your time.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: good questions all--conception dates are estimates--in most cases a conception date could be the midpoint with a week before and a week after could also be the conception periods. In you case, figure this: if the child was born May 7th (expected due date) then the conception date would be July 30th through August 15th. That is probably the conception date that you should figure upon. I would say that, based on what you have told me, that you should consider having yourself tested only because you mentioned that you were with her near "the end of July" since, as I said before, conception dates are always estimates.


Question: if a chid has type o blood, what blood types are his parents?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You posted this question a second ago and I posted the answer below but sent you to our spanish site--here is the correct link to send you to the English site: You have got to be kidding. That's a lot of information to work with--click here: ABO Chart. You can figure it out for yourself.


Question: if a chid has type o blood, what blood types are his parents?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You have got to be kidding. That's a lot of information to work with--click here: ABO Chart. You can figure it out for yourself.


Question: I have looked at the Blood Type Calculator. Here is my situation. I am O+ and my husband at the time is O-. During our breakup I became pregnant. My daughter was born and she was B-. I am pretty sure in conversation one day that the possible father said he was B-. I know that doing a paternity test is accurate, but am I right to say that the B- father is my daughters father since she is B- herself?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: "You are pretty sure" is a heavy assumption--make sure that you have a paternity test before declaring someone to be the father. If the mother is O+ and the father is B- the the child can be either O or B negative. Remember that EITHER father or mother contributes the type to the child so this is an extremely INCONCLUSIVE way to determine paternity.


Question: in [sic] i had a baby sept 1 1987 could i have gotten pregnant on dec 18 1986 or is that not in the range
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If your child was born on September 1, 1987 the child would have been conceived between November 24th and December 8th of 1986. So the answer to your question is "no"--it is not in that range that you thought.


Question: My ex-husband and 15year old child which I have physical custody of had a dna test done without my knowledge and consent, but the father denies having this because it proves he is not the biological father and he is trying to sue for custody of my (3) children. If I know where the test was done, is there any legal way for me to obtain a copy of the results since I was excluded from the test but do have legal custody and am the biological mother of my child Please Help !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If you submit a letter to the lab, notarized, making your request and you can prove you are the custodial parent they are SUPPOSED to release a copy to you--HOWEVER, should that fail, you can always go to court and then have the results released through the service of a court order or supoena to the laboratory. The lab must comply.


Question: My twin brother was sleeping with my ex-wife during and after we were married. My ex had a baby that I don't believe can be mine. While comparing the test results, I noticed that the observed phenotypes were exactly the same, except that I had one extra match on D18S51, which made me have 10 matches and only 9 matches on his results. My combined paternity index is 67117 as opposed to 20135 on his. Both of these tests were based on that the alleged fathers were UNRELATED and 50% prior probablity. I don't believe that this child could be mine, but my results are higher. Is it more probable that I am the father, or should this test be disregarded based on the fact that both alleged fathers are brothers?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: What you're telling me is that you have two reports from two different men and that BOTH are included as the father but one is higher then the other. Retest with more systems--one of you WILL be excluded.


Question: My wife is pregent and refuse to allow me anything to do with the > pregency.? at what time can i request a pregency test.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I have never heard of a court ordering a prenatal paternity test--you would have to wait until the child has been born.


Question: i recently had a test done and i was curious as to what D21S11 is because my results and the alleged father were 28 29 and my sons was 28 30. 2nd, if the man who took the test did have foreign saliva in his mouth would the test have the results from someone else be reported? i know that the ? may be silly. thank you
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: IF YOU KNEW that the man had a foreign substance in his mouth WHY did you allow the testing to be completed? Rest this this man.


Question: I already have two reports of DNA testing for paternity ,one was made > with ouer blood(wife,child and I) and another by taking samples on ouer mouths > with a swap. The first report said:that I'm excluded of the paternity of the > chaild. And the second says that the probability of paternity is = 0 % > Is there any factor that can alter results in my case. Or I just have to > accept that I´m not the father of the child?. Please sendme the answer to my > e-mail.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: you have TWO reports that exclude you--I seriously doubt that you are the father of the child.


Question: I would like to get more then one DNA test done,I live in the state > of Idaho I dont belive they help with the testing,my problem is I dont have > the money to get it done and I belive its only right to get one for my child > for health and medical reasons! Do you know anything about the State Of Idaho > and DNA testing?And do you know who does inexspencive DNA testing, going on > the Maury talk show is not a option!! > Thank You
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I would never recommend that you go on a talk show--barring your heart and soul for the purpose of entertainment is a waste of time--unless you're getting a cut of the advertiser's money. You are right--they probably won't help with the testing. If you need a test "just for medical records"--use one of our home kits--it is not court admissible, it is not expensive, but it technically is the same as our full service testing. We don't cut corners on OUR testing--It would be cavalier of me to speak for others. You can contact us at 800-482-3025 if you are interested in obtaining one of our HIT kits.


Question: I am having a very hard assuming the responsibility of one of my children, I > can't sleep and my every thought is questioning if I'm the biological father! > Both me and my wife have dark brown hair, dark skin, and my son is light > complected, freckles, and fire red hair! I have asked my parents and hers if > there was anyone in the family with red hair and the only one was on my side > and was my grandmother that was born in 1909 two generations ago!!! Well, I > guess where I'm having a problem is my wife around the time of conception had > been running the bars frequently and was always in bed sloppy drunk when I'd > get home from work and had been getting money from an older red headed man, > also seen her riding around in his vehicle several times, I had stopped all > access to any money for her, trying to keep her at home while I was at work, > but for several years (one year pior to conception and a year or two after) > she would still be in bed drunk when I got home! Now, I know that nobody rides > for free tha > t o > Is it possible for two dark complected, dark brown hair, parents to have a > light skinned, freckled, red headed son? Do you think that I should have dna > testing done!
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I think that it is possible in answer to your first question but I would strongly suggest that you have a dna test performed. Use a home kit "just to see." You can get one from us if you like.


Question: I am currently in Philly and my youngest daughter and son's (who is not born yet) father has decided to move to Atlanta Ga. He was not available when my baby girl was born. Will I be able to get paternity acknowledgement and all other legal matters pertaining to paternity (testing...) if necessary, from the court system in Georgia? Or do I have to do everything from Philadelphia?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: There is a federal statute that provides for the assistance in the gathering of child support from state to state. Basically, several things will happen:1. you will file your claim to the philly Comestics Relations Section. 2. They will attempt to get him to voluntarily sign paternity papers 3. If he does not sign, they COULD, if the child was conceived in PA, invoke a long arm statute and try to serve him with a court order from the philly court.4. Finally, if that does not work they can contact the state of Georgia under the federal statute. Essentially, a request is filed from the PA state registry to the Georgia State Registry who then sends the petition down to the Local Georgia office. The State of Georgia can then go after him under their state laws.


Question: What are the chances (maybe percentages) of a paternity testing corporation either accidently or by incompetence switching the swabs on a mother and child? Are there ways to cheat on a swab test? Any at all??
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It would be unfair and perhaps unwise to use percentages to answer your question. EVERY paternity laboratory is is DIFFERENT. In our laboratory, the answer is NO simply because we hve a series of checks and rechecks that go through the laboratory even until the time the director signs out the reports. Assuming that you are asking this question because the faher i s excluded I would have to ask you "have you tested all of the possible fathers". If you have, then you should start looking at things such as chain of custody. In answer to your second question--you will have a better chance of building an atom bomb before you see me post on a public board "ways to cheat on a paternity test."


Question: I was conceived in 1965 and born in VA. My mother was 16 years old. I've been told by my mother that my father was teaching school in VA but was from TN. She also says she thinks he was married. I have tried to contact him several times through the years and I believe I found the right person but he denies ever knowing my mother. Is there anyway I can establish paternity as an adult child. I would like to know if this man is my father due to the fact I feel I have the right to know. I'd like to know for possible health reasons also, such as possible inherited illnesses that could possibly run on his side. I currently reside in WV. I've not tried to contact him in several years.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Contact him and talk to him about a paternity test. Tell him that there is a test that you two can do together called a home identity test (HIT) from Fairfax Identity Laboratories. Because it is home collected, it is not court admissible and that might make him more helpful to your cause. Good luck!


Question: my question is can paternity be tooken a day or two in the hospital after birth? and if so how can i go about it in the state of oklahoma? Then another question is if my due date is around august 8 2003, exactly when did I get preganant, if that is a possible question to ask. I'm going through a situation where the father is wanting to cure his doubtful feeling, and how are the results told? The person paying or the person that is being tested, because i would like to be the one to find out first to take to a lawyer to get my childsupport started.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: paternity can be performed immediately after birth. Paternity tests can be performed without the need for lawyers or courts as long as both parties are amenable. If your due date is August 8th then you would likely have gotten pregnant between November 8th and November 23rd. Results are generally mailed out from the lab conducting the test. A reputable lab should never give results out over the telephhone--they would only send them by mail. Results would be mailed at the same time so a lab cannot guarantee who will get the result first.


Question: I have a 8 year old son that his father never acknowledged in public > but did to myself and other family members on both sides. I tried to go after > him the right way thru C.S. recovery but they never came up with anything. I > just found out that he passed away in Aug oof 2002. I know he was in the > military and has dna samples there but i also heard that paternity can also be > established by the fathers parents dna is that possible and how accurate is > the test?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If you have BOTH paternal grandparents then you can do a grandparentage study--however, you and the grandparents should make inquiries with the military about using his DNA--so you have two options. We can do either test for you. Call 800-482-3025 when you are ready to start the testing process.


Question: Is a swab test as accurate as a blood DNA test? And should a swab test be done by a professioal person and in a labatory. Or can anyone do the swabbing and come up with accurate test. When the results are in, should the labatory send each person involved the results or leave it up to the person having the test done to send them a copy of the results? thank You
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Yes, a swab is just as accurate as a blood dna test. Should it be done by a professional person in a laboratory-not necessarily--home kits are now available but you should only buy a home kit from a reputable AABB certified lab. Each lab will differ on its reporting policy--but generaly, all parties who tested are entitled to a report.


Question: After 12 years my Children's father has been found and we had to do this paternity test. I know and God knows and my daughter's father knows (well maybe not now) that I was faithful to him. We were introduced by a friend on dec 30th 1997. We had sex that day and I was with only him. We got married in march 1998. My daughter was born on October 17th 1988. I don't want to air my laundry here but I am bewildered. I did have a short affair with an old flame but I was already 5 months pregnant at the time. Other than that there was no one else in my life. Our test came back today excluding the father as the father. there were 13 areas and 7 matches and 6 non-matches. MY question in what can go wrong here? I know for a fact he is the father of my daughter unless God himself insiminated me in my sleep. I am considering a more accurate test if there is one I am so sure of this. We did a swabbing test. Is there another more accurate test we can take? This really makes me look bad and after 14 years what will I ever tell my daughter.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: A laboratory can only test and process what it is sent so the the first thing that came to mind when I read your question was "were you two tested together?" You had 13 sytems run which is pretty thorough. The swabbing is fine for the test but I would retest and make sure that you see the collection process with everyone present.


Question: I was raised by a man whom I believed to be my brother. Recently he told me that he is actually my father and not my brother. Is it possible to make conclusive determination of my relationship with this man?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: A simple paternity test should clear this up for you--you can contact us at 800-482-3025 to set up a test.


Question: If the mother is A+ and the father is A+ , is it possible for them to have a A- child?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: yes


Question: Please help to advise my son is married for 5 years and is not getting a divorce his wife had a little girl with another man - We want paterninty established do we have to get a court order or can he get tested then the court send her and the little girl? Please help - Thank You
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If the man's name is on the birth certificate he can get a paternity test done that could be court ready. If his name is NOT on the birth certificate then he could opt to have one of the Fairfax HIT tests performed (home identity test). You can call 800-482-3025 to inquire.


Question: I did view the response on the web site. However, in light of my giving > the results that I received from the DNA Center, I am confused because I > thought that you have a probability of paternity if you have a match on at > least two areas and it looks like there is a match at 3 locations. Why > would it not be considered that there is a probability of paternity with a > match at 3 areas?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The tested man is excluded (does not match the child) at multiple loci (test systems) and therefore can not be the father. Therefore, the paternity index or probability of paternity are zero. You have to match on ALL locations otherwise when you calculate out the final result you can only get a zero percent. The American Association of Blood Blanks only requires two exclusions on a test but even ONE exclusion could signal a zero percent. In order for this tested man to be the father the paternity indices (combined) must multiply out to at least a 99.99 percent or better. In your case this just does not happen. Your probability of paternity is zero. If you doubt your results and it sounds as if you do, then you should seriously consider re-testing. IF there are other possible fathers you should consider having that person or persons tested first so that you can eliminate ALL variables.


Question: I slept with my boyfreind and my ex within a couple of days of each other is there any way that my daughter can have dna from both of them is this unheard of? Somebody please help she looks like both of them
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The answer is no. You will need to do a dna test though since both probably fall in the conception period. You can set one up by calling 800-482-3025.


Question: Could you please give me your interpretation of the following > results >>> of a motherless paternity test. I would like to know the probability of >>> paternity and the paternity index. Allele Child(C)Alleged Father(AF): > D8S1179 >>> C14,15 AF13,15 D21S11 C31,32.2 AF29,33.2 D7S820 C10,12 AF10 CSF1PO C7,10 >>> AF10,12 D3S1358 C15 AF16 THO1 C6 AF7 D13S317 C12 AF11,13 D16S539 C10,12 > AF9,11 >>> D2S1338 C19,25 AF22,24 VWA C16 AF15,17 TPOX C6,8 AF9 D18S51 C12,15 > AF18,20 >>> D5S818 C12,15 AF9,10 FGA C19,27 AF22,23. The test was conducted by the *** ******. The PI's were D8S1179 1.26, > D7S820 was 1.48, CSF1PO 0.92 and the rest were 0.00. The combined > paternity index was 0, probability of paternity was 0%.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The tested man is excluded (does not match the child) at multiple loci (test systems) and therefore can not be the father. Therefore, the paternity index or probability of paternity are zero.


Question: WHEN TAKING A DNA TEST FOR FATHERHOOD, HAS THERE EVER BEEN A PATERNITY TEST TAKEN WITH 10 LOCUSES SHOWING HE IS THE FATHER BUT WHEN YOU GET RETESTED WITH 19 LOCUSES IT PROVES HE IS NOT THE FATHER. THANK YOU
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It is possible but not likely if the 10 loci (locuses) used in the initial test are loci commonly used in the paternity testing industry and collectively give a high paternity index (1000 or more) and high probability of paternity (greater than 99.9%). The exception is if the tested man is not the father but is a close relative of the father. When the tested man is a close relative of the father (such as a brother) it is possible to falsely include the man with a high paternity index and high probability of paternity and then exclude him when additional testing is performed. Also, if a second test was performed using 19 loci you should make sure that any overlap loci (loci common to both tests) have the same results.


Question: I received the results of my tests last year, but I have always wondered what all of it stood for. The numbers: D13S317(13q22-31), D18S51(18q21.3), D21S11(21), D3S1358(3p), D5S818(5q21-31), D7S820(7q11.21-22), D8S1179(8), FGA(4q28), and vWA(12p12-pter). I would just like to know what they stand for...like hair or eye color, ethnicity, and such. There are two places where all three of us have the same two numbers. It would help me alot to know what they do stand for. Because I have been racking my brain to try to figure it all out. Thank you in advanced! Please send me your answer to my email address. Thank you again!
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The numbers associated with these test systems (D13S317(13q22-31), D18S51(18q21.3) etc.) refer to fragments (segments) of DNA of variable size and the fragment size is variable between individuals which is what makes them useful for paternity testing. However, these fragments of DNA are not associated with any known traits or characteristics.


Question: I am currently struggling to get a paternity test, the mother hasn't made any effort in determining paternity. I am possibly missing opportunities with my child, everyday goes by and every child support office in the state of north carolina tells me that the only way is to find legal services but in my certain circumstances the money is an issue. Is there any laws that would help me? Or free legal services?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I know of no free legal services that would help you pay for a paternity test.. You should consider paying for a test with a payment plan but remember that you will not get the report back until you have paid for the test completely.


Question: When you have sex without using protection, what are you chances of becoming pregnant?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: They call contraceptives protection for a reason--you have a 50/50 chance or even better of getting pregnant if you do not practice safe sex.


Question: I had sex (June 26,2002).I got a two or three day period (July 8,2002). I had sex again with a diffrent guy between the dates of (July 26,27,30-Augest,2,5)!!I got a First Trimester Transvaginal Ultrasound (September 17,2002)it messured my baby being 8.5 weeks LMP giving me a due date of 4/23!! I had another ultrasound done at 20 weeks from my last U/S (Decmber 6,2002)it messured baby right along with the other U/S and it gave me a due date of 4/22!!My fundel Height messurments also agree with the dates!! Both the u/s agree I got preg at the end of July! I am going to get a DNA done when the baby comes but, can a U/S be off 4 weeks?I thought like a +/-5 days margin of error?And if this was a guessing game who would you say June 26 or July 30? Thank You For Your Time
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Are you ready for this? Based on the projected delivery date of April 22, conception could have occurred between July 15th and July 30th. No guessing here: it could have been either date. You definitely need a dna test.


Question: Hello got married after a girlfriend became pregnant, within a month > or so of meeting, we got married, had the baby with my last name on the birth > record. was divorced a year later, learned that the child was not mine > confirmed thru the mother, said she was desperate at the time for a father. > State of Texas. Would i be able to file a "denial of paternity" with a lawyer > and have the oweing child support discontinued?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: you will need to prove your non paternity by a dna test but first consult the attorney about the denial of paternity. That just sounds too easy.


Question: I've been informed by a woman I slept with once, that she is pregnant with my child. She has stated that she will not ask me for any money and will sign any document to that effect, if I provide it and agree not to try to be a part of her or the childs life. If, after dna testing, it is proven that I am the father, is such a legal process available or used?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: you should consult an attorney about the document. My understanding is that it wouldn't necessarily hold up in court but I am not an attorney and so you seek counsel. Have the test first, then consult the attorney. Testing is available at 800-482-3025.


Question: The mother of my soon to be child recently broke up with me and moved back with her ex-boyfreind. I have reason to believe the child is not mine, will the hospital,if they can, perform a paternity test with both of our permissions at birth, and if not what is the best way to get results before the ten day period where i would have to sign paternity papers is up. i have spoke with the mother and she agrees to the test.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: First, let me say that you should NOT feel pressured in to signing papers that will declare you a father without a test. Paternity admission is on the rise and you can see this fact clearly illustrated from this link over at the federal child support website: Paternity Aknowledgement Stats Hospitals actively participate in getting the fathers to aknowledge paternity without a test. Will the hospital do the test there while you wait? NO. A paternity lab will have to perform this test for you... The turnaround time will be 9-10 days to get a result back. Make sure the hospital is clear that you won't sign until you have your test. It is prudent to make contact with a lab before the baby is born to help get the process started so that there is no delay in your testing. If you wish us to help with your testing please feel free to call at 800-482-3025.


Question: My son under went a cotton swab testing at a year old. The alleged father was half german(white) and black. The test results came back with a PI index of 69.97%. Since I was expecting a 0.0 percent match, I was wondering why some of the markers matched? I am a black female. I was unable to take the testing at the time. Although he was excluded as the father, he still believes that the results suggest that he is. Would it be wise to take the tests again with all three of us? Or can I leave well enough alone and go with the other results accuracy? I dont know if these items have any relevance, the other possible father is not mixed and black. Also a month before my son took the tests he had been placed in the hospital and had been taking strong medications for a respiratory disease called RSV. However, as far as I know the medications he was taking should have had no way of altering the DNA results.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Well, first let me say that if the lab reported out a 69.97 percent that the father was not excluded as the father. But I wouldn't rely on those result--if the PI was that low then you need to retest. Whether you include yourself in the test is entirely up to you. When we do a motherless test it will ether be a 0.0 percent if he is not the father OR it will be a 99.9 or better. We would be happy to to a retest for you--call 800-482-3025 if you are interested in retesting. By the way, the swabbing was fine--you would have had a dna test and you are right the medicines would not have effected the outcome of the test. You DO need to retest.


Question: I have 2 children by what I believe to be 2 different fathers. I have A+ blood type, and my first child was born with A+ blood type also. My 2nd child was born with A- blood type. I'm not sure as to the blood types of the 2 possible fathers of the 2nd child, but wouldn't the blood type of both children be A+ if they were fathered by the same man?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: no. The father does not necessarily determine the outcome of the child's blood type. Blood type is determined by either the father OR the mother.


Question: I live in VA. My "father" lives in NY. Due to a questionable > comment made by my mother, we find it necessary to committ to a DNA test. In > an effort to locate some information online about testing sites, I found > endless information on home testing kits. There were major differences in > prices and result times. I am uneasy about committing to such a test > considering the importance of the results. I don't want to take a chance on > anything going wrong. i.e, package being mishandled, package being damaged, > not enough dna on the swabs, choosing a unreputable laboratory etc. Would you > be able to recommend a reputable testing site located midway of NY and VA that > my "father" and I could go to? Also, is there a major difference in > submitting to testing via mail vs testing center? i.e, cost, turn around time > in receiving results, type of test to submit to-blood vs swab? > Thank you in advance for your review and a response.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If you are originating the test in Virginia, then a home kit is ok--if you originate the test in NY, then you cannot do the home test. How do you pick a home kit--stick with an AABB certified lab such as ours. Because AABB labs submit to onsite inspections the quality control on the home kits will be about the same as the court ready tests. Our chain of custody on our home kits are exactly the same as our legal test so there is virtually no difference between the two. Make sure that you are actually dealing with a real laboratory and not a middle man service. The advantage of dealing directly with the lab is that the lab NOT THE MIDDLE MAN SERVICE is responsible for all aspects of your test. If you want a testing site then we could set you up in Virginia and him in NY so that there is limited travel for each of you OR you could come to our corporate office in Fairfax, VA. Because we are a major east coast testing center that offers testing by both means (on site or by mail) we can easily help you get started. You can call 800-482-3025 to get started OR you can go to Fairfax Identity Laboratories. Our prices are listed at the link above and you should expect a turnaroud time of 9-10 business day or LESS.


Question: I am 11 weeks pregnant. Since about my fifth week of pregnancy I have been seeing my doctor and from my last period is what the dates have been based on. I usually had regular periods but in November of 2002 it was late and then in December of 2002 it came on the 7th, which is the regular time, but was a little light. Basically I'm told that my conception date was on 12/21/02 which is when I was with someone but I was also with someone on the 12/23/02. According to the dates I was given is it necessary to have paternity testing?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Understand that it is difficult to pinpoint conception. When your doctor gives you a conception date, he is giving you an estimation.. Conception can occur up to at least six days after intercourse. The egg is only viable for about 24 hours, but sperm can stay viable in the cervical mucus for up to six days. If a woman has regular cycles, usually the time of conception can be pinpointed to within a week or two. If they are irregular it is more variable. Ultrasounds performed during the pregnancy, especially if done early, are usually accurate to within one week. To answer your question: you probably should have a paterhity test.


Question: My boyfriend is having a problem with a woman who claims that he fathered her child. He has been denyed a paternity test by the courts because the woman does not want him to take one. Do you have a Canadian contact that I can get in touch with? Are the at home testing kits available in Canada? Anything that you can tell me would be greatly appreciated.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The absolute BEST laboratory for testing in Canada is Medigene in Calgary, British Columbia. You can get a home kit just about anywhere though and we do not reccomend anyone's home kits but our own because of the superior nature of the way we handle our home kits. You can contact us at 800-482-3025. That 800 number is good in both Canada AND the United States.


Question: My fiance and I have tried for the past 5 years to have DNA testing > on the children from his first marriage. Our problem is this, they didnt live > together very long at all and she has been known to be very premisciuos around > town. In fact she brags about how he pays for kids that arent even his! She > has babys merely for the welfare check. I think her count is to 6 now. > Meanwhile my fiance sits in jail in creek county oklahoma because of child > support and abandoment charges. This is ridiciluos. Is there in any way he > could get a court ordered paternity test for these kids? What can we do about > this situation? Desperate in Oklahoma
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I cannot advise you on legal issues--we are a paternity laboratory but I suggest that you start here: State Profiles A map will come up and you can just click on you your state, then click on "paternity". Hope this helps.


Question: I sent buccal swab samples to be tested at London Biosciences in the envelopes they provided. It took about a month to reach Canada! According to London Biosciences the package was opened by Custom Officials causing the delay! Eventually I received result excluding alleged father. Could this be due to the fact that it had been opened? Also I received results by phone first & after much persistance received a copy by e-mail with a note that they could not be hald responsible for wrongful collection! Is this a standard note? Should I have test redone with another company?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The Canadian government has the right and frequently does open packages coming in FROM the states to their country. The United States does this as well with their borders. They are verifying that no contraband is coming in and out of the country and are also making sure that they are being paid the customs and duties that are due them. BY THE WAY--THEY ALSO HAVE THE RIGHT TO DESTROY ITEMS THEY DO NOT LIKE. I seriously doubt that the customs officials tampered with your test in such a way as to exclude the alleged father. Also, London Bioscience is correct--how can you expect them to be responsible for something that YOU collected and shipped to them? AABB labs here in the states DO NOT give results over the telephone but you certainly cannot hold Canada's standards to our own. Giving results by email is also not a common practice here in the United States except under special circumstances. Should you retest? If you doubt the test that you did with London Bioscience then yes, you should retest. then absolutely--you should retest. Retesting WILL NOT guarantee that the results will be different but having a more controlled test might make you feel better. If you want to retest you can reach us at 1-800-482-3035.


Question: Son has been named as alleged father of an unborn child. Pregnancy is in its 10th week. Would like to know if prenatal paternity test can be done to determine paternity at this early stage and what the process and cost would be.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: At the 10th week a paternity test can be performed using a sample called CVS. CVS is performed by removing a small sample of the placenta (nourishment for the baby) from the uterus. It is removed with either a catheter (a thin tube) or a needle. Local anesthesia is used for this test. The sample of placenta may be obtained through the cervix. A catheter is inserted into the vagina and through the cervix and the sample is withdrawn. The sample also can be obtained by inserting a needle into the abdomen and withdrawing some of the placenta. Most women feel fine after the test, although some may have mild bleeding (spotting) afterward. CVS is usually done between the 10th and 12th weeks of pregnancy. The procedure MUST be performed by a physician. You can call 1-482-3025 for the pricing information but there will be an additional cost--remember the collection must be performed by a physician and he will want to be paid as well.


Question: Preparing for surgery I needed to know my parents, > and siblings blood type. > There are four siblings,one boy with O+,two girls > with O+, I have the RH Neg. factor. > When I questioned my mother on hers and my fathers > she seemed more concerned with not giving the informatio then with my > health,this was upsetting. > Now this has raised questions about my father. > What are the parent combinations, and is this > common, or could I possibly have a different > father from my siblings, who by the way are trying > to find out our parents type because of my health.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Over at Fairfax Cryobank there is a "blood type predictor" that you can use to answer your question. Hope this helps.


Question: I am 19 years old, I am married but have been separated from my husband for almost for 2 years. We had no children during our marriage, because he wanted no children until we finished high school a maybe a year or two of college. Well, I began seeing him mid year of 2002. The last time I saw him and slept with him was around August 18 or 19, 2002 we used no protection. Than I started my period around 19-24 and it was a regular period. I began to go out clubbing with a friend of mine we would go out and meet guys and I made the mistake of sleeping with a guy at the end of August and used no protection.. Well, now I am pregnant. And guess what I really don't know if the baby is my husband's or this other guy. Please help me, I made the mistake of telling my husband about the other guy. And now he tell's me the baby can not be his. The baby is due May 27, 2003. Please help me! Do I need a paternity test to determine who the father is with the dates I provided? I will be waiting for a reply, I am very worried.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: wouldn’t even begin to speculate on paternity on so important an issue. Bottom Line: You DO need the paternity test to sort this thing out. Since your husband is aware of the situation, you should probably just go ahead and test him. You could talk to your physician to see if he would collect amniocytes that we could use to do a prenatal paternity test which is relatively expensive OR you could wait until the baby is born and have a less invasive, less expensive and equally accurate test. Regardless, you can contact us at 800-482-3025 if you wish to pursue setting up a test.


Question: am a A+ blood type,and my sister is an O . My dad is an O blood type.I'm I'm not exactly sure what my mom is.Who's blood type should I have,moms or dad?This is confusing to me.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: This an interesting question. Who blood type should you have and the answer is “either”--because the mother contributes half her markers and the father half his markers there is a 50/50 chance of getting the father’s marker--likewise, there is a 50/50 chance of getting the mother’s. The moral of the story: The father doesn’t control the outcome of the blood type.


Question: is it possible to check the dna to determine who is the father before the child is born? if so, what is the process? if this is not possible, how can someone know if they are parents before their name is placed on the birth certificate?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Yes, we routinely perform prenatal paternity testing--it usually begins at the 10th week. you can call 800-482-3025 if you wish to have such a test. You can read about the process at Fairfax Identity Laboratories However, a simpler and less expensive means of testing would be to wait a few days after the baby is born and then perform a simple buccal swab. Regarding the birth certificate, don't put your name on it until you have the test if you are unsure that you are the father. Some states consider the signed birth certificate to be conclusive proof of paternity.


Question: ok what i am asking is if my boyfriend gets off inside me to get me pregnant, will i get pregnant if i dont get off. thank you for your time
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You can still get pregnant.


Question: I have good reason to believe that "my" children are not mine, but due the fact that I found out I was sterile. However, the CA Child Support lawyer told me that it didn't matter any more because of the statue-of-limitations. I still have two "children" under the age of majority and I am wondering if what the Child Support said worker is true.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Go to the following link State Profiles. Just click on your state and a list of related links will pop up. Next click on paternity and you can read about state's paternity profiles. I hope this helps.


Question: Recently an Uncle died without leaving a will. A so called daughter > > of 38 has appeared on the scene staking claim to the estate. She has refused > > to have DNA testing done to verify that she is his daughter. It is possible > > that she is the heir but there were at least two other men that could have > > been the father at the time her mother conceived. > > Her mother put my Uncles name on the birth certificate without his knowledge > > and no one knew of this until he was deceasd. He had never acknowledged her > > during his lifetime and he died at the age of 79. How do we go about getting > > DNA from him now that he is buried if she is ordered to take the test by the > > courts? > >
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If there is going to be a court order, then you may want to consult with an attorney about getting those two men tested against the daughter -eliminating them would essentially eliminate the core of the question. However, based on what you have told me, I would start looking for samples that may have been collected from him as a result of his death or if he was seeing a doctor any samples that may be on file. If no samples and the other two suspected fathers are not available then an exhumation will be in order. A court order will probably be needed for the exhumation and the collection will have to be performed by a pathologist. Samples collected should include the following: Teeth (molars), deep inner thigh tissue (about the size of a baseball) or a cross section of a femur bone.


Question: My boyfriend had a swab test done and the results said he was not excluded from being the father. The test came back 86.4%, isn't that low considering the probability is based on 99.999%?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: That is very low for a dna test. That leaves a margin of error of 13.6 per cent. You should probably retest.


Question: I'm a identical twin. Well my brother slept with same girl I did and she got pregnant. She took me to court for child support,when the test came back I was 98.6% the father of the child. Is there any possibility that the child might be his? If someone could please answer this question for me I would be forever grateful.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If you are truly an identical twin, then your dna will be exactly identical to your brother. If you both have slept with this woman then a paternity test alone will not be able to tell which one of you is the father of the child. You need to see an attorney and have him bring this issue forward to the court


Question: I was just wondering what all the stuff means for the results under locus Thank you
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: By definition, a locus is the position in a chromosome of a particular gene or allele . Based on your question, I probably can't tell you much more.


Question: If Idential Twins have the same DNA and peternity cannot be determined by testing and only by nonscientific testing, could it be that each male twin can only father one sex children. If you have a set of twin males can one male twin have only girls and the other twin have only boys
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It is true that identical twins have the same DNA and therefore, if they are alleged to be the father of a child, the results can only determine that neither twin is the father of the child in question or that one of the twins could be the father but it would not be possible through DNA testing to determine which twin is the father. However, both twins can produce children of either sex.


Question: I sent a separate email to **** ******** asking if they were aabb accredited and they said "In home testing can not be accredited because the AABB requires a chain of custody. There is no chain of custody available with an in home test." Is that statement true? Secondly, could you read the question below I posed to **** ******** and help me with clarification, on how these test are interpreted with a more specific breakdown. Thank you so much for your assistance. Why this is so important is: the boy will be visiting us in March and I want to redo the dna testing and do prefer to go to a local location to conduct a legal stand up in court findings. Thank you again for your time and expertise! *THIS IS THE EMAIL SENT TO ***** ******* I was reviewing your testing FAQs and was wondering how the motherless dna testing can be as accurate as the test with mother, af, and child? example: If a result on D13S539 was child 9, 12 and the AF was 12, 13- what if the mother was 11, 12? THO1 was child 6, 9.3 and AF was 6, 8 - what if the mother was 6, 8? D13S317 was child 9, 12 and AF 12, 13 - what if the mother was 10, 12? D2S1338 was child 17, 18 and AF 17, 23 - what if the mother was 17? D19S433 was child 13, 14 and AF 14 - what if the mother was 11, 14? D18S51 was child 15, 18 and AF 15, 17 - what if the mother was 15, 16? FGA was child 22, 25 and AF 20, 25 - what if the mother was 23, 25? also what is the likelihood of the child result / allele sizes being identical to the AF? example: D8S1179 was child 12, 13 and AF 12, 13? D21S11 was child 29, 30 and AF 29, 30? CSF1PO was child 9, 11 and AF 9, 11? D5S818 was child 11, 12 and AF 11, 12? that would mean the the mother passed exactly what the father didnt - but the father had??? So on this last test above, if the father gave the 12 then the mother gave the 11 - what is the probability that, that can happen on 4 of the 15 tests? Then 7 of the remaining 11 look like they could be questionable without knowing what the mothers dna is? That leaves the remaining 4 test that would have to match being: D3S1358 was child 16, and AF 15, 16 - mother must be 16 D16S539 was child 11, and AF 10, 11 - mother must be 11 VWA was child 16, and AF 16, 18 - mother must be 16 TPOX was child 8, and AF 8, 9 - mother must be 8 I would like one of your experts to look at these results again case no. 94773. I do not want to talk to the customer service people I want to discuss this with scientists, you claim on your website, that do the analyzing. "We have PhDs genetic scientists and technologists with extensive DNA paternity testing experience analyzing your DNA profile". I do understand my samples were not sent in, like your typical testing. Is it possible having the hair folicles of the child instead of the swab may have caused some inaccuracy with the results? would the testing machines give indication that there was not sufficiant DNA collected from the hair samples? If we now sent in the swab from the child could you do a re-test? Would you need aother swab sample from the AF or is that dna a kept record in the file from this test? Please advise via email thank you! ****I NEVER RECEIVED A RESPONSE BACK FROM *** ****** - SO I THOUGHT MAYBE YOU COULD HELP ME WITH MY QUESTION**** THANK YOU.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: That statement ("In home testing can not be accredited because the AABB requires a chain of custody. There is no chain of custody available with an in home test.") is not exactly correct. It is true that the AABB requires that samples be properly collected and include a chain of custody. However, that does not prevent a Home Test from being performed that is compliant with AABB standards. A Home Test that is compliant with AABB standards can be performed if sample collection is performed "by persons with no interest in the test outcome." The current AABB standards go on to state that "The person may be either: 1. An employee or agent of the laboratory 2. A person capable of collecting the particular biologic sample. In this case, a second person with no interest in the test outcome shall serve to verify and witness the collection process." Furthermore, the AABB states that "Collected samples that will be transported to the laboratory shall be sealed in a tamper-proof package by the person verifying the sample collection." In addition the AABB states that "Test participants shall not package or transfer samples." There are other AABB standards pertaining to sample collection but those sited above are what makes a home test that is compliant with AABB standards difficult to provide, but not impossible. Regarding motherless testing, it is always better to include the mother in the testing process if possible. However, if the mother is not available for testing an accurate test can still be provided. But because the genetic type (genetic profile) of the mother is unknown, the statistical analysis must consider all possible outcomes. This results in a lower statistical certainty of paternity in those cases where the tested man is not excluded. However, the laboratory can compensate for this loss of genetic evidence by performing additional testing.


Question: In 1998 my child's father took a paternity test, even though he knew that he was the father of our child, but he didn't want to pay child support. In court he was very upset because he knew that it was his child, but after he took the paternity test, before the test results were back he was acting very excited and he kept telling me that the test was going to come back negative, in terms of being his. Now I don't know what he did, but the results came back negative. But because I was so adimant about it being his the judge ordered another test, which he absolutely refused to take, in fact, he made an offer to me on the side in order to keep from taking another test. The judge said that because he took the paternity test 2 weeks after the baby and I took the test, that anything could have happened to the sample. I just want to know what could he have done to manipulate the test?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I do not mean to be unsympathetic but you are assuming that he actually manipulated the test but you have offered no proof. He could have sent someone in to take his place or the samples could have been switched--it is hard to day what could have happened if anything happened at all.


Question: My bilogicial Father was dating a a lady after he and mom had split up they lived together for a while. He went to prison and she had a little girl. She told him that the child was not his while he was in prison and had a paternity test which he did not particpate in at all. But with the other man that she was also seeing around the same time. Could just one of them be needed to make absoulty certain that he is not the father? Or would they have needed both men to particpate to make absoulty certain whose child she is?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Your question is extremely vague. You fail to mention, for example, the outcome of the test. Do you need the second man: not necessarily.


Question: LAST WEEK I FOUND OUT I WAS EXPECTING. I TOOK 2 PREGNANCY TEST TO BE SURE.I HAVE BEEN HAVING A IRREGULAR CYCLE, SOMETIME I WOULD GO 2-3 MONTHS W/O ONE. MY FIANCE'TOLD ME HE COULD NOT HAVE KIDS HE WAS IN A MOTORCYCLE ACCIDENT ABOUT SIX YEARS AGO. HE IS NOT STERILE JUST A VERY LOW SPERM COUNT.I HAVE NOT BEEN UNFAITHFUL, BUT TO EASE HIS MIND. WHAT IS THE NAME OF THE PARTERNITY TEST THAT IS PERFORMED WHILE YOUR PREGNANT?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: We do this test regularly. It is called a PRENATAL PATERNITY TEST. You can read about it at Fairfax ID Lab


Question: just curious on the average cost of this test
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Go to the follow link for our pricing Pricing


Question: After finding out I was adopted, actually know my 'alleged' father, and we both submitted for a DNA paternity test. Will the results on the form have both his and my name? Are aliases used? I did submit both my name and my alleged father's name. Please let me know. Thanks!
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The results will have your real names--if you used aliases then there would be no proof of parentage between and the test would be a waste of time.


Question: Can i have dna test done at 4 months to find out whether or not I an the father of a child? If I can how does this happen.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Yes, you are 16 week pregnant so the sample collect would be amniotic fluid. The procedure has to be performed by a physician so consult with your OBY/GN before proceeding.


Question: Is permission needed from the mother to perform a DNA test? My fiance and I would like to perform the test when the child comes to visit. We want to do it without her knowledge. My fiance's name is on the birth certificate as the father. Is the birth certificate the only needed document to perform the DNA test, or do we need the mother's permission also?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: THE LINK IN THE PREVIOUS POST IS INCORRECT--TRY THIS LINK--FAIRFAX ID LAB We require a birth certificate with the father's name on the certificate. A court order is acceptable as well as custody papers or a letter of live birth. You could also use a home kit which require none of the above. To see the various types of tests go to the following link Fairfax Tests. It will give you a clearer idea of what is available.


Question: Is permission needed from the mother to perform a DNA test? My fiance and I would like to perform the test when the child comes to visit. We want to do it without her knowledge. My fiance's name is on the birth certificate as the father. Is the birth certificate the only needed document to perform the DNA test, or do we need the mother's permission also?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: We require a birth certificate with the father's name on the certificate. A court order is acceptable as well as custody papers or a letter of live birth. You could also use a home kit which require none of the above. To see the various types of tests go to the following link Fairfax Tests. It will give you a clearer idea of what is available.


Question: If i ejaculated in a hot tub, could my girlfriend get pregnant?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It is possible.


Question: A friend of mine was ordered to appear before a judge for parternity of a child. He was encarcerated at the time of the hearing. Therefore, the courts sent him papers to sign saying he did not want to contest the parternity of the child. Unaware that he could have contested even when encarcerated he is now wanting to pay to have DNA tests done on the child. My question is if the DNA tests come back that he is not the father, is he stuck taking care of a child that is not his or can he take the case back to court and have the judgement overturned or something of that matter?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: we are a paternity lab and can answer questions about the testing--in the case of the incarcerated man, he will need an attorney especially since he signed papers aknowledging paternity. It will be up to a judge to overturn the aknowledgment.


Question: My husband was notified that he might have fathered a child a child > that is now eleven years old. The mother filed a court order for > paternity/childsupport. We received a letter from the court. The letter was > brief and to the point. It said the case was dismissed without prejudice. We > are very puzzled and confused of what this legal term means. Can you please > clarify what this term mean.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: I got this quote from one of the Divorcenet Lawyers: It means that a court or administrative body has dismissed a claim, but unlike a judgment or dismissal with prejudice, such dismissal does not bar the plaintiff from future bringing the identical claim in the future.


Question: My Ex has threatened to take me back to court for more Child Support, and at the same time has said some strange things lately that has led me to get a Paternity test done. It turns out that my daughter is in fact not mine. As I am trying to cope with this information, I am trying to figure out what this means from a child support perspective in MA. Will I still be obligated to pay child support? If so, can she get an increase?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: When you say "led you to get a paternity test" did you have a home test? Was everyone tested voluntarily? It sounds like paternity has been established through the courts. Go to the following link and click on your state, then click on paternity and you can see how the laws work in your state: OCSE State ProfilesYou may find this very informative.


Question: My Ex has threatened to take me back to court for more Child Support, and at the same time has said some strange things lately that has led me to get a Paternity test done. It turns out that my daughter is in fact not mine. As I am trying to cope with this information, I am trying to figure out what this means from a child support perspective in MA. Will I still be obligated to pay child support? If so, can she get an increase?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: When you say "led you to get a paternity test" did you have a home test? Was everyone tested voluntarily? It sounds like paternity has been established through the courts. Go to the following link and click on your state, then click on paternity and you can see how the laws work in your state: OCSE State ProfilesYou may find this very informative.


Question: My Ex has threatened to take me back to court for more Child Support, and at the same time has said some strange things lately that has led me to get a Paternity test done. It turns out that my daughter is in fact not mine. As I am trying to cope with this information, I am trying to figure out what this means from a child support perspective in MA. Will I still be obligated to pay child support? If so, can she get an increase?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: When you say "led you to get a paternity test" did you have a home test? Was everyone tested voluntarily? It sounds like paternity has been established through the courts. Go to the following link and click on your state, then click on paternity and you can see how the laws work in your state: OCSE State ProfilesYou may find this very informative.


Question: Can Identical twins be tested as the possible father? If so does the test prove which twin is the dad?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If the twins are identical then you will not be able to tell them apart using a conventional dna test because their dna is identical. You will need to have hard nonscientific evidence to prove which twin was with the mother at the time of conception.


Question: about a year ago my fiance had a swab test done with his ex girlfriend and her new baby. well the paternity test came back it was his. From the information I have gathered the conception dates don't match up she had the baby on october 17, 2001 and the baby was 32 weeks along that would make the conception date march 7th wouldn't it? The baby does not carry any feature of my fiance at all. and when the baby was conceived they werent even together he was with her in the very beginning of april of 2001. could the test be wrong when they say there 99.99% accurate? the mother say the baby does not have her blood type and the babys blood type is B and the fathers is O what kind of chance could there blood types match up?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: First, the paternity issue is between your fiance' and the mother. It is difficult to pinpoint the exact date of conception. Calculations are usually an estimate with a range of plus or minus two weeks. The exact date of conception may differ from the date of intercourse. Conception can occur up to at least six days after intercourse. The egg is only viable for about 24 hours, but sperm can stay viable in the cervical mucus for up to six days. If a woman has regular cycles, usually the time of conception can be pinpointed within a week or two. If they are irregular it is more variable. Ultrasounds performed during the pregnancy, especially early, are usually accurate to within one week. If the child was born in October, March will not be the conception time so your estimates are off. Bottom line: your fiance has molecular evidence that he is the faher of a child and sitting around speculating that a child does not "look right" is a waste of time. If your fiance' has doubts about the integrity of the first test, then he should (and only he-not you) should speak to the mother about having what is called a confirmation test. Simply put:: have another test to make sure that the first test is correct.


Question: My parents are both dead i have found out they both had A pos. blood type. Mine is O neg. what are the odds?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: not to worry--two positives produce either a NEGATIVE OR A POSITIVE. If the mother is A and the Father is A then the child can be either A or O so the child produced will be either A+ or A- OR O+ or O- Hope that helps


Question: My father has died and My Mother is still alive there is a qeustion > if he was my Dad. My Mother is AB- my father was O+, I am A+ is this possible > that he was my dad? Also I am the baby of 7 I was the only one with RH > negative and almost didn't make it at birth why didn't my siblings before me > have RH negative problems. Can you please help shed some light.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: first, because your parents are negative AND positive your rh could type either Negative OR Positive so it does not suprise me that you typed negative while the others typed positive. The ABO types that you give indicate that it is likely that he is your father. If you are still concerned you could have a sibling relationship study done to determine if you are a half or whole sibling in your family.


Question: I am 40 years old and recently discovered that my biological father > (married to my biological mother), probably isn't my biological father! The > details are lengthly, but I'll make my point as quickly as possible. > > My mother is O negative and my alledged biological father is O positive. My > sister is O positive and I am A positive. This is impossible (for me) > according to "blood calculators." > > The suspected "actual" biological father is now deceased, but his children > (the source of my discovery) are willing to submit their dna to prove our > half-sibliing relationship. Neither of my parents will agree to any type of > testing. > > The probable and deceased father was my mother's high school sweetheart, 3/4 > Native American and was very close to me during a 10 year separation of my > parents. I look Native American and nothing like either of my parents. > > Can I "LEGALLY" prove my relationship to my newly found 1/2 siblings without > having my biological mothers dna or without getting a court order to test my > deceased alledged father? > >
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: it is possible to do a sibling study without the mother. Fairfax Identity Laboratories performs these tests routinely. I tend to disregard blood typing not because it is unimportant but because blood typing used in paternity is highly inconclusive due to the large populations contained in each group. You can contact us at 1-800-482-3025 if you wish to set up a sibling study.


Question: I lived with this girl for 6 years, after two years she got pregnant and I was supose to be the father. My last name is on her birth cirtificate. We now split up and the mother said I have no rights to her. I had a D.N.A. test done after seperation and it came back I wasn't the father. My daughter will be 5 years old and I have been her father. What right do I have to my daughter?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You said your last name was on the birth certificate--but if your name is not on the certificate as the father then you may not be legally the father of the child--you also took a dna test and it excluded you. All this being said--if you believe that you really want to be the father of the child--then get a lawyer and have him look at the appropriate documents such as the birth certificates and let him determine, based on the laws of your state, if you have any rights. Good Luck.


Question: My last period was on 10th december 2002 i had sex with my ex on 25th december and then my boyfriend on 4th january im pregnant and need to know who the father is how can i find this out before i have the baby.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The information on your period is not something that I can use. We do prenatal testing through dna extraction from either CVS or Amniotic fluid samples. In your situation, being in the UK, You will have to have your physician collect and ship the fetal sample to our lab here in Fairfax, Va. We have a prenatal collection kit for such purposes. the swab samples needed from you and the father, however, can be self collected again using one of our test kits. If you are interested in pursuing such a test, feel free to contact me through this board for details.


Question: I have a son that is 20 years old and lives in CA, the man whom I beleive to be his father lives in North Dakota and recently ask if we could see if he is the father of my son. I've always thought he was. What kind of testing needs to be done and can it be done at such great distances between them? Or should they be in the same lab at the same time?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: It depends on what you expect the test to be used for. Home kits are good in these scenarios as are Fairfax Identity Laboratories exclusive Convertible Test Kits. They are inexpensive and very easy to use. You can find information on them at our website address : http://www.fairfaxidlab.com/pricing.html. Now to your question about distance: with dna, it makes no difference about the distance. With older test such as HLA testing it was certainly an issue so, no, they do not have to be in the same lab. You can contact us at 800-482-3025.


Question: What right's does an alleged father have if he wants a paternity test done as soon as possible and the mother claims the child is his but will not have the test done until she wants it done. She has said that she will do it on her own time. Can the alleged father make the appointment and then summons the mother to show up or is it only mothers who can do this.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Well, speaking from the standpoint of someone who works in a lab--I would never make an appointment for someone who wasn't sure that he could deliver the other half of the test. I would hope that most labs would do the same becasue when you start a test and abruptly cancel it (let's say because the mother doesn't want to test) then you can lose some money paying out cancellation fees and the like. I suppose you could try to get a court order to compell her to participate. You should verify this last sentence with an attorney.


Question: I am 26 weeks pregnant. I had sex with two men aprox. 1 week apart bet. the first and second weeks of July. I do not know my lmp nor are my periods regular. I am in a relationship with one of the men and he doesn't know about the other. The second man wants to persue paternity after the baby is born. Can he legaly force me to comply with a test?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: That is really a quesiton that is best taken up with an attorney. It will vary from state to state. You should seek counsel from an attorney specializing in family law.


Question: Can you help me interpret The results of the dna test it shows like this: D8S1179 child 12 13, af 12 13 D21S11 child 29 30 af 29 30 D7S820 child 9 12 af 8 12 CSF1PO child 9 11 af 9 11 D3S1358 child 16 af 15 16 THO1 child 6 9.3 af 6 8 D13S317 child 9 12 af 12 13 D16S539 child 11 af 10 11 D2S1338 child 17 18 af 17 23 D19S433 child 13 14 af 14 VWA child 16 af 16 18 TPOX child 8 af 8 9 D18S51 child 15 18 af 15 17 D5S818 child 11 12 af 11 12 FGA child 22 25 af 20 25 The results did not indicate PI at all does this matter? Also, I as well as my brothers have very prominent distinct features and the child does not carry any resemblance. Now the mother is back with the man I caught her cheating with and the child definably has his eyes, lips, smile and chin. How can this DNA test show 99.9% is it possible they did not have sufficient DNA from the hair follicle? If they didn't would the testing machine come back with an answer of insufficient DNA to conclude?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The data indicate that the tested man is included (shares at least one allele with the child) at every locus (test system or genetic marker) tested. Therefore, the report (as required by the AABB) should give a PI for each test system as well as a cumulative PI (all loci combined) and a probability of paternity including the prior probability used in the calculation. Trying to compare family features is not at all accurate which is why a genetic test is usually required. Children may or may not resemble their parents. If there is doubt about the accuracy of the test then a retest is indicated. If you do obtain a retest I recommend that you use an AABB accredited laboratory.


Question: Is the son supposed to have the same blood type as the father, I am not sure what the mother's type is.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: The blood type of the child can be contributed by EITHER the mother OR the father.


Question: We had a DNA test done on both children last week without the consent of their mother but didn't get the results back yet. We've requested "extended testing" on the boy since my husband's Dad could be the father. Now my question: How accurate is "extended testing" in determining who the little boy's father is? If you could see pictures of my husband's half sister and the little boy you'd question the paternity too, they don't look like aunt and nephew, they look like siblings, no question. What's a real scandal is that my husband is on that little boy's birth certificate, in case he's not the father he'd still have to pay, right? Paternity fraud these days is a very common way for (no good) women (like my husband's ex) to get money, even if paternity tests prove that a man is not the father, he's being punished twice, once by being lied to, being deceived and being a victim of the ultimate betrayal, he also still has to pay for the lies of the woman. That really calls for a MAJOR CHANGE in family laws. What do you think?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: Extended testing refers to requesting that additonal test testing be done beyond the norm. Typically, laboratories will charge extra for this service. If the lab requests the additional testing then there is usually NO charge. The key question is when do you ask for extended testing? In this case, there is a father and a son and they BOTH are alleged fathers in a paternity scenario. If you let the laboratory know of this situation then there is no need to request additional testing. If the lab knows there is a potential problem then they will run the extended testing as needed. We, like other labs, also offer a "power package" of additional probes. I do know know who is doing your testing but you should be OK as long as you are using an AABB accredited laboratory. As for my opinions on the current laws--I will leave that to the lawyers.


Question: tell me more about my family. the last name of my family is **********
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: While I would love to tell you everything I possibly could about your family --I cannot. We answer questions here about dna testing so you might want to readdress your question to Ancestry.com. Good Luck.


Question: Hi there. I met my girlfriend on 2/18/02, and she didn't have a menstral cycle since. She told me the last time she was with her ex was New Years or 12/31/01, and her last cycle was sometime in January 2002. We just had a baby boy on November 11, 2002. Does this mean I am the Father because of the pregnancy time period elapsed? If the baby was born in October would it be her ex's? I haven't gotten a paternity test yet, but I think the baby is mine. Help.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: If the child was born November 11, then conception probably occurred between February 4 and February 18th. Remember that this is an estimate so you should consider having a paternity test.


Question: Im am now 20 years old and I would like to find out if the person denying me is my father. The problem I have run into is I don't have a dime to pay for a paternity test. And the person who is denying me won't pay for it either. How can I go about getting a test if I don't have the money?
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You have asked a very good question and it sounds like you have done some research as well. I don't think you are going to get someone to give you a free test--laboratories have to cover their overhead and they are, of course, businesses and the cold reality of business is that it is conducted for money. Buti if you don't have money on hand immediately it doesn't mean that you cannot do a test.--With Fairfax Identity Laboratories you could simply just do a home identity test kit(HIT). Since you are both adults and you are agreeing to do the test this would be a very sensible option because it is very cheap--you start by putting down 25 dollars and we send you the test kit. You send the remainder of the payment in (285 dollars) with the samples. The major advantage of this system is that it gives you the time to scrape together money to do the test. You can call 800-482-3025 for further inquiries.


Question: I have an nine month old. The father's name is not on the birht certificate. The father has chosen to not be a part of child's life. I have held him harmless of any child support, and there has been no paternity established. I am now in the process of marrying. My boyfriend who has been with the baby since two months of age would like to adopt the baby. Can you advise what steps with bio. dad if any, should be taken. I live in Oregon. Would you have a contact in Oregon I could call or a website I could go to.
    anonymous <withheld>

Answer: You should probably go to the phone book and look up the name of an adoption attorney who can give you specific advice