This is a selective bibliography of books that have been helpful to me and/or have been tested by the responses of my clients. There are many books about divorce and most libraries and bookstores have a good selection. I appreciate any suggestions or references for inclusions in the list.

Gender and Conflict

Gilligan, C. (1982) In a Different Voice: Psychological Theory and Woman's Development. Cambridge, MA: Harvard University Press.

Osherson, S. (1992) Wrestling with Love: How Men Struggle with Intimacy. New York: Fawcett Columbine.

Tannen, D. (1990) You Just Don't Understand. New York: Ballentine.

Negotiation and Conflict Resolution

Edelman, J. and Crain, M.B. (1993) The Tao of Negotiation. New York: HarperBusiness.

Fisher, R., Ury, W., and Patton, B., (1991) Getting to Yes: Negotiating Agreement Without Giving In.. Second Ed., New York: Penguin.

Friedman, G.J. (1993) A Guide to Divorce Mediation. New York: Workman Publishing.

Kritek, P.B. (1994) Negotiating at an Uneven Table. San Francisco: Jossey- Bass.

Ury, W. (1993) Getting Past No. New York: Bantam.

Coping With Divorce

Clapp, G. (1992) Divorce and New Beginnings: An Authoritative Guide to Recovery and Growth, Solo Parenting, and Stepfamilies. New York: John Wiley and Sons.

Children and Divorce

Baris, M.A. and Garrity, C.B. (1988) Children of Divorce: A Developmental Approach to Residence and Visitation. Dekalb, IL: Psytec Corp.

Ricci, I. (1980) Mom's House, Dad's House: Making Shared Custody Work. New York: Collier Books.