How Remarriage Affects Alimony

If you're paying or receiving alimony (also called spousal support or maintenance), you might wonder what happens to those payments when either of you remarries or moves in with a new partner.

Alimony is court-ordered financial support that one ex-spouse pays to the other after a divorce. A new marriage or serious relationship can change or end support depending on several factors:

• your state's laws
• the type of alimony you have
• what your divorce judgment or settlement agreement says, and
• whether you're the one paying or receiving support.

Here's an overview of when alimony automatically ends after remarriage, when you have to go back to court, how cohabitation can affect support, what happens if the paying spouse remarries, and when it makes sense to talk with a lawyer about changing or stopping alimony.

State Laws on Ending Alimony When the Supported Spouse Remarries

In most states, alimony automatically ends when the supported spouse gets married again, though state laws vary on the details.

When Spousal Support Automatically Ends on the Recipient's Remarriage

In most states—including California, Georgia, New York, and Texas—the obligation to pay alimony automatically ends when the recipient remarries, unless the couple had an agreement otherwise (more on that below).

In these states, the paying spouse doesn't have to go back to court to request a new order. (Cal. Fam. Code § 4337; Ga. Code § 19-6-5; N.Y. Dom. Rel. Law § 236 (Part B(6), 248; Tex. Fam. Code § 8.056(a) (2026).)

Giving Notice of Remarriage or Plans to Marry

If you've been receiving spousal support, you typically must inform your ex or the court (or both) before or soon after you get married again. Your divorce judgment or most recent alimony order will probably include information about this requirement.

In Wisconsin, for instance, every maintenance order must require the recipient to notify the court and the paying spouse within 10 days after getting remarried. As soon as the court receives this notice, it will vacate the maintenance order. If the recipient doesn't give notice, the paying spouse may apply to have the maintenance order vacated after learning about the remarriage. The judge must grant that application as long as there's proof that the recipient did, in fact, get married. (Wis. Stat. §§ 767.58, 767.59(2)(c), 767.59(3) (2026).)

Some states, like Illinois, specifically give paying spouses the right to reimbursement of any maintenance they paid after their ex remarried. (750 Ill. Comp. Stat. § 5/510(c) (2026).)

How the Type of Alimony Might Affect Whether Payments End After Remarriage

States have different types of alimony (and different names for those types). Generally, most types of post-divorce alimony are intended:

• to support a lower-earning spouse during a transitional period after the divorce
• to help the recipient gain the necessary education, training, and experience to become self-supporting, or
• to provide long-term support after a lengthy marriage for a spouse who's unlikely to become self-supporting

In some states, only certain types of alimony will stop when the supported spouse gets married again.

• In Florida, major alimony reforms eliminated permanent alimony. Under current Florida law, the recipient's remarriage automatically terminates "bridge the gap" (transitional), "durational" alimony (which is awarded for a set period of time), and rehabilitative alimony, unless the divorce decree specifically states otherwise. These reforms apply only to divorces filed on or after July 1, 2023. (Fla. Stat. § 61.08 (2026).)
• In New Jersey, the recipient's remarriage will end permanent or limited-duration alimony but not rehabilitative alimony—unless the paying spouse can prove that there's a good reason to stop the payments. (N.J. Stat. 2A:34-35 (2026).)
• In contrast, Massachusetts law provides that the recipient's remarriage will end rehabilitative alimony, but not transitional alimony. (Mass. Gen. Laws ch. 208, § 50, 52 (2026).)

When the Paying Spouse Must Request an End to Alimony Because of Remarriage

A few states don't automatically terminate spousal support on the recipient's marriage. Typically, that means that the paying spouse must go back to court to get permission to stop making the payments. In Ohio, for instance, the law says that spousal support ends when either spouse dies, but it doesn't mention remarriage. So unless the divorce decree specifically includes a provision on what happens when the recipient remarries or lives with someone, the paying spouse must file a motion to modify spousal support and prove that there's been a change of circumstances—such as reduced living expenses due to the new marriage—that are substantial enough to make the current order unreasonable or inappropriate. (Ohio Rev. Code § 3105.18 (2026).)

Does Alimony Stop When the Recipient Lives With Someone?

In some states—including Illinois, North Carolina, and Texas—a recipient's cohabitation will also end the obligation to pay spousal support. Unlike marriage, which is typically automatic, termination based on cohabitation usually requires the paying spouse to file a motion with the court and provide proof that the recipient is living with someone in the type of relationship that qualifies as cohabitation under that state's laws. (750 Ill. Comp. Stat. 5/510(c), N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50-16.9(b), Tex. Fam. Code § 8.056(b) (2026).)

If your state's laws don't mention cohabitation as a reason to end alimony, you may still file a motion to change or end spousal support. Typically, however, you'll need to prove that your ex's reduced living expenses qualify as a substantial change of circumstances justifying a reduction or termination of the current alimony payments.

What If the Spouse Paying Alimony Remarries?

If you're paying alimony to an ex under a court order, that obligation doesn't end just because you've remarried. And on the other side of the equation, you can't get more alimony just because your ex has a new spouse or partner.

Still, you could try filing a motion to modify spousal support and arguing that your ex's remarriage qualifies as a significant change of circumstances. But you should know that some state laws specifically prohibit judges from considering the income and assets of a payor's new spouse when they're making decisions about alimony. Also, spousal support is generally based on the recipient's needs as well as the other spouse's ability to pay. So judges will look at both the payor's and recipient's financial situation when they're deciding whether the changed circumstances are significant enough to warrant a modification.

Alimony Agreements and Remarriage

Divorcing couples always have the option of agreeing about spousal support as part of a divorce settlement agreement. When they take this route, they can decide not only how much the alimony will be, but also how long the payments will last, whether they'll end or change when certain things happen—like when the recipient gets married or is living with a partner—and even whether they can be changed at all in the future.

When Do You Need a Lawyer to End or Change Alimony After Remarriage?

If you're paying spousal support and live in a state that automatically ends those payments on the recipient's remarriage, you can simply stop making payments as of the date your ex remarried. You shouldn't need to go to court or hire a lawyer unless your ex hid the remarriage from you. Check your divorce judgment for language about remarriage or see our article about the alimony laws in your state.

However, you should strongly consider speaking with an experienced family law attorney in other situations, such as when:

• You've been receiving alimony and want to argue that your payments should continue even after you remarry (some state allows exceptions in certain cases).
• You live in a state like Ohio where alimony doesn't automatically end when the recipient remarries, and you need to ask the court to change the payments (or you're fighting against such a request).
• You want to ask for more alimony because your ex has remarried or is living with a new partner.