If you're not receiving the money you're owed under your North Carolina child support order, you can get help from the state and its courts. And if you're the one who owes child support, you should know the consequences of not keeping up with the payments.
The easiest and most effective way of collecting and paying child support is to have the money taken out of the paychecks of the parent who owes support. The employer will send the money to the North Carolina Child Support Collections, which will then forward it to the other parent. Child support can also be withheld from other types of regular income besides employment, such as:
Under North Carolina law, all child support orders must include income withholding unless:
(Those exceptions don't apply in cases when the custodial parent is receiving public assistance for the child.)
If income withholding hasn't been in place, and the payments are late or erratic, the recipient parent may file a request with the court for a withholding order.
(N.C. Gen. Stat. §§ 110-136.2, 110-136.3, 110-136.5 (2024).)
Even though most child support is paid through income withholding, you might need help collecting payments—for instance, if your co-parent is self-employed or unemployed (and not receiving benefits). If you're in this situation, you can apply online for enforcement assistance from North Carolina's Child Support Services (CSS). You'll need to pay a $25 application fee unless you qualify for a reduced fee.
Like similar agencies in other states, North Carolina's CSS has several ways of enforcing child support orders. Depending on how much a parent owes in back support ("arrearages") or how late the payments are, those enforcement tools may include:
If the CSS hasn't already done so, you may file an affidavit (a sworn statement) or a motion for an order to show cause to ask a judge to find your co-parent in contempt of court for willfully failing to obey the child support order, despite having the ability to do so. Your co-parent will have the right to appear at a hearing and try to convince the judge that there was a good reason they couldn't pay the support.
Parents who are found in contempt of court may be jailed until they "purge" the contempt by paying the child support arrearages. (N.C. Gen. Stat. §§ 5A-21, 50-13.9(d) (2024).)
Under North Carolina law, it's a misdemeanor to "willfully neglect or refuse" to support your minor children. Parents may also be charged with a felony when they have:
Willful refusal to pay child support is also a federal crime if the delinquent parent:
(N.C. Gen. Stat. §§ 14-322, 14-322.1; 18 U.S.C. § 228 (2024).)
Because of the services provided by North Carolina's CSS, most parents won't have to hire a lawyer to get help collecting child support. Along with the application fee, the agency charges a small annual fee after it has collected at least $550 in support.
If you decide to go directly to court to enforce your child support order, you can download the form for a motion and order to show cause from the North Carolina Judicial Branch. Check with your local court clerk to make sure you understand and follow all of the proper court procedures. If possible, it's a good idea to speak with a family lawyer who can help you navigate the legal process. That's especially true if you expect the other parent to claim they can't pay—or if you're the one facing contempt charges.