Divorce Mediation

A divorce doesn't have to be a knock-down, drag-out affair with both sides hiring lawyers and heading to court. Divorce mediation and collaborative divorce can help you avoid court and resolve questions of property, child support, alimony, and child custody in the way that works best for your family. Divorce mediation brings a neutral third party, the mediator, into the equation; the mediator helps both spouses work together to reach an agreement, which can then be entered as a divorce judgment by a judge. Agreements reached in mediation are very likely to stand the test of time, because the spouses have worked out the agreement themselves, instead of having a judge impose it on them.

Collaborative divorce also brings the spouses together to negotiate with the assistance of lawyers, with everyone involved promising to resolve the divorce without going to court. If the spouses don't reach a settlement with the help of their collaborative attorneys, the attorneys have to withdraw and the spouses must start from scratch with new lawyers--a major incentive to reach an agreement. Collaborative law is a good option for couples who have trouble communicating and want the support of a lawyer who is advocating for them.

Whether you choose mediation or collaboration, staying out of court will benefit you, your spouse, and your children.

Understanding Divorce Mediation

The Stages of Divorce Mediation

Here’s what to expect when you decide to mediate your divorce.
How Much Does Divorce Mediation Cost?

A guide to typical costs for different types of divorce mediation, with information on the factors that affect costs and the risks of some cost-saving measures.
Mediation vs. Collaboration: Factors to Consider in Choosing the Right Approach for You

How to decide whether mediation or collaborative divorce is right for you.
How to Propose Mediation or Collaborative Divorce to Your Spouse

Want to try mediation or collaborative divorce, but not sure your spouse will go for it? Here's how to ask for the best chance of getting the answer you want.
Divorce Mediation Checklist: How to Prepare for Your First Session

When you're fully prepared, mediation can help you reduce costs and reach agreements in a divorce.
Online Divorce Mediation

Online divorce mediation can be a great alternative to battling it out in court. Take a look at the pros and cons of online divorce mediation to find out if it's right for you.
Pros and Cons of Divorce Mediation

If you're contemplating divorce, mediation might be a good way to reduce stress and save money.
Divorce Mediation vs. Litigation: Which Is Right for You?

Heading to court isn't the only way to resolve the issues in your divorce. The question is: Could mediation be right for you?

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Find a Divorce Mediator

How to Find a Good Divorce Mediator

Divorce mediation is a smart move—unless you get the wrong mediator.
Talk to a Local Divorce Mediation Lawyer

DivorceNet can help connect you with local attorneys offering divorce mediation services.