How Do I File for Divorce in Vermont?

Learn about the steps you’ll need to take to start the divorce process in Vermont—and how you can get help.

By , Retired Judge

Along with the emotional and practical issues involved in ending a marriage, the divorce process itself requires navigating the legal system in Vermont. While that might seem overwhelming, it doesn't have to be all that difficult, particularly if you and your soon-to-be ex can cooperate. Here's what you need to know to get started with a Vermont divorce.

What to Know Before Filing for a Vermont Divorce

Before you begin the process filing for divorce in Vermont, you should figure out the answers to a few preliminary questions.

Do You Meet Vermont's Residency Requirements for Divorce?

In order to file for divorce in Vermont, either you or your spouse must have lived in the state for at least six months. Also, you won't be able to get your final divorce until one of you has lived in the state for a year. (Vt. Stat. tit. 15, § 592(a) (2022).)

Do You Have Legal Grounds for Divorce?

As in all states, you need a legally accepted reason (or "ground") for divorce in Vermont. The state allows divorce based on both "fault" grounds and "no-fault" grounds. When you file for a fault-based divorce, you claim that your spouse is to blame for the end of your marriage by engaging in certain kinds misconduct (like adultery, desertion, or cruelty). In no-fault divorces, neither spouse is accusing the other of wrongdoing.

Unlike many states, Vermont doesn't allow you to file for a no-fault divorce by simply claiming that you and your spouse are incompatible or that your marriage has broken down. Instead, the only no-fault ground includes two requirements:

  • you must have lived apart from your spouse for at least six months, without interruption, by the time the judge grants your divorce, and
  • it's not reasonably probable that the two of you will resume marital relations.

You might be able to meet the separation requirement even if you and your spouse continued to live in the same house or apartment, as long as you slept in separate bedrooms and kept completely separate households. But the judge will look closely at the circumstances and could decide that you weren't really living apart. So it's a good idea to speak with a lawyer if you're going to try this arrangement.

If your spouse denies the length of your separation or the likelihood of reconciliation, a judge will have to conduct a hearing to determine where the truth lies. The judge may decide to postpone the hearing for 30-60 days and suggest that you and your spouse get marriage counseling in the meantime. (Vt. Stat. tit. 15, §§ 551, 552 (2022).)

Ordinarily, it doesn't pay to file for divorce on fault grounds, because it tends to make the divorce more contentious and makes it less likely that you and your spouse can work out agreements on other marital issues. The more there is to fight about in a divorce, the longer the process takes and the more expensive it becomes (think legal fees) .

Will Your Divorce Be Uncontested or Contested?

If you can file for an uncontested divorce (known as a "stipulated divorce" in Vermont), the entire process will be much easier, quicker, and less expensive than a traditional contested divorce. But for a divorce to be truly uncontested, you and your spouse must have a marital settlement agreement that covers all of the issues involved in ending your marriage, including:

You'll include the provisions of your settlement agreement in the stipulation forms to be filed with your other divorce papers (more on that below).

If there are any issues that you can't agree on, your case will at least start out as a contested divorce.

Will You Need Professional Help With Your Divorce?

If you have a settlement agreement and a relatively uncomplicated case, you should be able to handle filing for divorce yourself. A do-it-yourself divorce will be the cheapest route to ending your marriage, but it will take some time and attention to detail to make sure you have all the right forms, have filled them out correctly, and have followed all of the steps and requirements for divorce in Vermont.

Short of having an attorney represent you in the divorce, there are other ways of getting help with the process. For example, you could do one or a combination of the following:

  • If you want the advantages of an uncontested divorce but are having trouble agreeing with your spouse about some issues, divorce mediation may help you work through the obstacles and reach an agreement. Note that if you haven't tried mediation before you file for divorce, the judge might order you to do so (more on that below).
  • You can file for divorce online by using a service that will provide you with the completed forms and basically walk you through the process. But online divorce services normally require that you have an uncontested divorce.
  • Even if you pursue the do-it-yourself or online divorce option, you might want to consult with a lawyer when you have questions or want an independent legal review of your settlement agreement.

Without an agreement, you'll follow a traditional contested divorce route. Because that will almost certainly require hiring a lawyer—who will take care of the forms, filing, and all other legal matters during the divorce—the information outlined below is mainly focused on the filing process for folks who are handling their own divorce.

Preparing the Initial Divorce Papers

The Vermont Courts website has downloadable forms you'll need for your divorce, along with instructions. You can also find information and forms on the Vermont's Legal Help website.

The main form for starting the divorce process is the complaint. The spouse who files this form is the "plaintiff," while the other spouse if the "defendant." There are separate versions of the form, depending on whether you have minor children with your spouse. Among other things, the complaint tells the court what you're requesting in your divorce, such as child support or orders related to your property. The complaint form also includes the summons, which is the official notice to your spouse about the divorce. You'll also have to fill out various separate forms providing certain information about you and your spouse.

If you're filing for a stipulated divorce, you'll include the following additional forms along with the basic divorce papers:

  • your spouse's Acceptance of Service (acknowledging having received a copy of all the divorce papers) and Notice of Appearance and Answer (in two versions, depending on whether you have minor children)
  • your Final Stipulation, which will contain your agreements on the issues of property, debts, and spousal maintenance, and
  • if you have children, your Parenting Plan Stipulation (with your agreements about child custody and parenting time), Child Support Order, and financial affidavits (more on those below).

With a stipulated divorce, you may also file a Stipulation and Motion to Waive Final Hearing to ask the judge to finalize your divorce without requiring you to show up in court.

Filing and Serving the Divorce Papers

Once you've completed all of the required forms, the next step will be to file them with the court clerk's office in the Family Division of the Superior Court in the Vermont county where you or your spouse lives. ((Vt. Stat. tit. 15, § 593 (2022).) You may bring the divorce papers in person or mail them to the court clerk's office, or you may file the paperwork online with Vermont's electronic filing system.

Be aware that courts charge fees to file legal papers. Vermont's filing fees (as of 2022) are $90 for a stipulated (uncontested) divorce and $295 when you file for a contested divorce. There's a small additional fee for electronic filing.

If you can't afford to pay court costs, you may request a waiver by filing an "Application to Waive Filing Fees and Service Costs."

Next Steps in Your Vermont Divorce

After you've filed the divorce papers, pay attention to the next steps that might be needed to move your case along, depending on the circumstances.

Serving the Divorce Papers

When you've filed for a stipulated divorce, there's no need to go through the formal "service of process" to deliver the divorce papers to your spouse. Just make sure that you both have complete copies of all the documents.

Otherwise, you'll need to use one of the legally acceptable ways of serving your spouse with the paperwork. The easiest way to do this is to hand over the papers and have your spouse sign and return an Acceptance of Service form (which you'll then file with the court).

If your spouse won't agree to that simple method, and you have minor children, the court clerk will take care of serving your spouse with the divorce papers. If you don't have children, you'll have to serve the documents by one of the following methods:

  • Mail the divorce papers to your spouse (using first-class mail), along with a Notice of Action and Request for Waiver of Service of Summons. If your spouse doesn't return the completed form within 21 days after receiving it, you'll have to use one of other methods below—but your spouse might have to reimburse you for the costs.
  • Arrange to have a sheriff or constable hand deliver to paperwork to your spouse.
  • Send the documents to your spouse by certified mail, return receipt requested, delivery restricted to the addressee. If your spouse refuses to accept the certified mail, the court clerk may send the documents by first-class mail.

If you haven't been able to find your spouse, ask the court clerk about alternate methods of service, such as publishing a notice in a newspaper. (Vt. Rules Fam. Proc., rules 4.0(b)(2), 4.1(a)(2) (2022)

Whichever method you use, you must complete the process of serving the documents within 60 days after you filed the complaint. If you miss that deadline, the judge may dismiss your case. (Vt. Rules Civ. Proc., rule 3(a) (2022).)

Responding to the Divorce Complaint

Here again, there's no need for an additional step to respond to the divorce complaint when you've filed for a stipulated divorce in Vermont—because you already included your spouse's answer along with the other initial documents.

Otherwise, your spouse ordinarily will have 21 days to reply to the complaint after being served with the divorce papers. (Vt. Rules Civ. Proc., rule 12(a)(1)(A) (2022).) Usually, the defendant spouse replies with an "Answer" that agrees or disagrees with statements or requests in the divorce complaint.

If the defendant spouse doesn't file an answer, the judge may sign a divorce judgment that grants what the plaintiff requested.

Financial Disclosures

If you have minor children, you and your spouse must each file financial affidavits with the court and exchange them with each other. (Vt. Rules Fam. Proc., rule 4.1(b)(4) (2022).) Even if you don't have children, the judge might still require you to submit and exchange these affidavits. There are separate forms for income and expenses, and property and assets. You'll also likely have to attach documentation (such as pay stubs) verifying some of the data you provide.

When you're filing for a stipulated divorce, you should include these forms along with the other documents that you file with the complaint. Otherwise, you'll need to submit them before your first case management conference or at least seven days before the first court hearing in your case.

It's a good idea to gather as much of this information in advance as you can, because it's important to be as thorough as possible in completing these forms. You must be totally honest, because a spouse who fails to disclose all the requested information could face penalties, such as fines and possibly jail time.

Parenting Education Course

When you and your spouse have minor children, the judge may order you to participate in the Coping With Separation and Divorce (COPE) program, administered through the University of Vermont.

Mediation During Your Vermont Divorce

Anytime after you've filed for divorce, the judge may decide to require that you and your spouse to participate in mediation of any disputed issues. You or your spouse may also request a mediation order. But the judge won't order mediation in certain circumstances, including when:

  • you and your spouse have already tried mediating the issues that would've been covered by the judge's order, or
  • the judge finds that mediation wouldn't be appropriate because it would cause undue hardship or there have been allegations of domestic violence.

(Vt. Rules Fam. Proc., rule 18 (2022).)

Finalizing Your Vermont Divorce

As you head toward the finish line in your divorce, you should be aware of provisions in Vermont law that could delay getting to that point:

  • If you've moved to Vermont recently, you might have to wait until you've lived in the state for a full year before the judge will grant your divorce.
  • Also, the judge won't sign your Vermont divorce decree until you and your spouse have been separated for at least six months. So you may have to wait if you hadn't met the six-month separation requirements by the time you filed for divorce. if you weren't already living apart when you filed for divorce—or hadn't been separated for a full six months by then—the judge won't sign your divorce judgment (or decree) until you've passed the six-month separation mark.
  • Even after the judge signs the decree, your divorce won't be absolute until 90 days after that, unless the judge designates an earlier date.

(Vt. Stat. tit. 15, §§ 551, 554, 592 (2022).)

Aside from the mandatory waiting periods, other things can affect how quickly you'll be able to finalize your divorce. When you've filed for a stipulated divorce, it shouldn't take long to get your signed divorce decree (unless you have to wait to meet the residency or separation requirements), especially if the judge has granted your request to waive the hearing. The actual amount of time it takes may depend on your local court's caseload and when a judge will be available to review your documents.

Even in contested divorces, most couples manage to settle their disputes at some point during the process, usually with the help of their lawyers. But it can take several months to get to that point, particularly in cases with thorny issues. If you and your spouse can't reach a settlement, you'll have to go to trial to have a judge resolve your disputes for you. This is by far the longest and costliest route to obtaining your divorce judgment, and can take up to a year or more.

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